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Hello nairafam
Pls I need your advice.....

This writeup is sections one and two .

👉long read 👈
( SECTION ONE: parental bullying/standing as an obstacle towards child personal growth and development)

I'm a guy of 25yr from and average family of 10 Members which I'm the first born.
My parents are religion leaders (pastor) which made it difficult for us to to effectively socialise, build network and have a healthy self image due to high level of emotional and verbal bullying which they termed as discipline and protection ( must pastor lads can relate to this).

I decided to further my education when I graduated ( national diploma) in 2022 but my parents refused to cooperate which in they words "NOT EVERY CHILD GOT THE OPPORTUNITY I HAD, SO I SHOULD BE THANKING GOD"

Mind you we the children are the major source of income because we are originally farmers.
We, the children are the one who sacrificed our our blood, sweat strength and enjoyment to makes sure that we have enough as a family ( especially me the first born) but Alas the thing has turned against us because our parents always bully ( financially bullying)us whenever we refuse to coperates with they selfish goals. ( Many things to say, but that's for another day)

That's makes me to made a harsh and hard decision in 2023, that's to break free from them even though I had no any tangible things to my name to fall back on incase of.......( because all our harvest are sold and invested in our father name, and he will never coperates or give you cash to invest it personally or build yourself as individual)

I break out with only 50k in 2023 and today 2025 my total investment and asset is 2.5 million Naira and still growing... ( My financial projection and goals this year is to worth 10+ million Naira, and thank God it's working)[/color]

Section Two ::::

Section two is about my love life. I had fallen in love last year with a very beautiful, natural & sincere lady, who her good character is top-notch, wife material. This lady is 23 and I'm 25.

In the course of discussion last Month, she stylishly told me that she wanted ( if God permits) to be married at least by 2027.

And to be sincere, I wanted to wife her but one of the issue is that she didn't attend any forms of traditional education (school) but she is intellectual wise, resourcesfullness and industrious.[color=#990000]

So I need your sincere in put in both section 1&2 because it'll help me to make a good decision.

Summary::
From part one
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-Those of you who hard and experienced these kind of parents, how did you navigate through?
-Is your relationship with them now good or strained?
-Did you regret your action or not?
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From part two:
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-What is your experience/ or take on marrying uneducated but exposed wife?
-Did she later learnt how to read and right?
-If the need arise, what are the ways and forms did I need in other to teach her how to read and write[color=#990000].

gsmphoneseller:
Imagine the useless governor sponsored by the same Atiku.

People can be very foolish. How will that prevent Atiku from succeeding with his business?

That governor is a big failure, the worst in Nigeria.

I can't wrap my head around this news


What! Like who does that?

U go break someone who sponsored you without without finding him guilty of anything

Leetee123:
If you can make use of it effectively then no problem.

Ok thank you

Leetee123:
You can start with your phone camera if the camera has good quality. For video editing you can make use of capcut or invideo. But capcut is highly recommended because it is easy to use

What about youcut app?

Leetee123:
You can start with your phone camera if the camera has good quality. For video editing you can make use of capcut or invideo. But capcut is highly recommended because it is easy to use

Ok
Thanks, I'll get back to you sir

Hi
Pls what are the first apps do I need to start solo recording and editing my videos?


Do I need any alternative camera aside my good phone camera?

Am waiting pls.......

lexyman:
a lot od people have burnt their fingers in the same venture ... he is lucky

An alot of people are still benefitting from.

BlackfireX:
Worst than that , 99.9999 % are worst than sodom and gomorrah... I will create a thread on this later


Reverend sisters are way more worst, ....depraved minds

please mention me in the thread.

Pls list down there nigerian price, i'll like to get one.

How much is this phone in nigeria?

"Damn" prominent scammer? Haha

[quote author=eventainment post=131319117]I will start with what I have: embedded systems skills/ioT I'm a full stack software engineer but like you all know that part is becoming too saturated. I started my IoT journey at the moment I have persons coming far and wide to give me jobs. I've been contracted by two profs to teach them.
Another skill I'm pursuing now is machine learning the core parts. Not the common web developer skills that every dick and harry can do.
Although I cant do everything I am planning on doing cyber security for fun it pays a huge deal to be a professional here as well. My friend was pain 1.5m to tutor someone and certification on cyber security/ethical hacking professionally cost at least 1000usd.
Lol

Legendguy:
Out of my last 4 jobs, I got two directly from nairaland on this job / vacancy session.
Would you call that lucky

I mean the regular 9-5 full time job with good monthly pay

Would you call me lucky?

first of all, am sorry to use the word "LUCKY" because is not entirely revolved around luck. Hard-search/work, diligence, non-relentleness, connection are all involved before luck comes in. But let me tell you something, there are dozens of graduates who've done all these things even harder, better and longer than you/us and yet nothing to show for it. So not all "jobless" graduates are lazy. Personally, till today i hav'nt did my clearance and am not even borderd about it because i have seen/found a way, infact a better one. But suprisenly, there are many graduates who are more brilliant and hard worker than me on the street. Why? Because our luck and time are different. MY OPINION THO!

Legendguy:
There a jobs.

let stop making it look like jobless/unconnected graduate are lazy or not serious just because you/we are luckey to land on jobs. People are going througi alot.

Cinema4d:
Crypto or forex trading. But I prefer crypto

do i need a laptop fo that? Is investment involve?

lymelyte:
you won't learn anything or become free when you put money infront. Follow your passion. Look for all the things you like to do..narrow those passion to top 3...kickoff from there..

hahah dont mind him, okay. FRUSTRATION is real.

lymelyte:
you won't learn anything or become free when you put money infront. Follow your passion. Look for all the things you like to do..narrow those passion to top 3...kickoff from there..

these are 'WORDS" worth reminscing on. Coding is almost top-3 of my goal/vision, but unfortunetly i didnt study computer science, but still i wont relent. But for what use is my passion it can't put food/cater on my table? Thats why i ask this question, and i genieuly need the answer.

Cinema4d:
Only trading and programming can save you

pls, is programming still a hot soup now? just asking because i'm looking forwad to it. And what kind of trading are u talking about?

Powerbandoo:
See Someone I once used to respect talking rubbish,

oga, calm down. Deduce the intention behind the write-up first

Paste the lyric of both of dem here make we read first

Chai! anty mamagee3 is back from her exile. Take fura da nono, drink am first make we gist.

Kai lord! Truly, i always shed tears seeing our younger ones wasting away just like that. Parent are busy filling their mind with religion turning them out to be parasite, complainers and pessimites.

Hahaha! 1m-plus?

I think tecno pop8 plus will go for this.

Sonnobax15:
I swear, this protest must hold

haha my guy e shoke u koh you explain tire

That is good but what about the roads that are been totally blocked on friday sallah