Akano5: I have been eyeing America since 2020, I nearly move to Libya, when i lost direction, people say success is a process - that's why i just leave everything to God..
@17years of age my soul have left Nigeria, it remains my boby to leave which I don't know when it would be
jwillng: Na wa o! Terrorist and burglar combined bros. Terrorist want to kill themselves. Burglars want to get rich. How can one do the two combined! Anyone can come to America sir-apply the right way with God's blessing.
Ok now-make me and you bet. I will snap picture with oyinbo man holding Nairaland paper today in America. If I do it-you agree to pay me! Are you ready?
laivwire: Any another thing, do you mean another business different from agriculture or different from crop cultivation?
For the former, just take your money and do something else with it.
For the latter, there are many areas of agriculture you can delve into apart from crop cultivation. You can choose to grow different crops (greenhouses), raise fish or animals, breed seedlings or fingerlings, plant trees, sell Agri input, sell food items, process food products etc. the possibilities are endless.
my primary plan is to opt into transportation and real estate sector after. But taking that long inthe agriculture sector will deprive me of getting to learn a know about this "two sector" techniques because i'll be stayed in the village in other to execute the task "farming". I don't know how to go about it in other to have a balance.
I hate to be a bearer of bad news. But it will surely end in premium tears if you ask him out, because hundreds of women are all over all these celebrites/influencial people, so it's common. My advice is that, go gradually, try had and earn his antention and then give him enough and enough greenlight. Then get a seat and wacht how it'll turn out
Before we decide, what source of income do you have? What are your reason "goals" of moving out ( to feel like adult or i'm old enough to start living alone is not a concrete reason for a 23yr to move out) ? Are displine enough to miniminize giving into women? "self control"
laivwire: Congratulations. I made my first million through savings as well and it was a milestone when I clocked that number. I however sunk it all into a passion business that went aground and I had to start all over again.
Experience has taught me that wealth is gained quicker through business than salary savings because the quick millions I made were all achieved within a span of months of doing business. The first million k 4 years.
For context, my second was from a farming season (May to December) that netted #5m when I sold all my grains.
im also a farmer (from day one), but i officially go into it last year with @least 50k, and end-up with 340k after the harvest. I want to focus on this farming for atleast 4yrs (2024-2027) but my fear is that i don't want to be stuck in it after the stated "period". I want to opt from it there-after. So how do you navigate your way from the farming to another thing? (note: i'm in my early 20s) @OP congratulation
Yesterday I didn't go out and for sometime I've been thinking.....2014 is almost over and I'm not where I've always imagined I will be but after I saw your post, I decided to go out for a cup of ice cream. Tomorrow will surly be better.
well! It's about 9yrs now, how is the journey so far?
Dminister: One of my guy na him house dem come give am customs employment letter. He paid 2million naira for it. The day the top custom officer was coming to his house to give him the employment letter my guy killed a very big ram and he invited us for the celebration. Not that he wanted the work, he just wanted to have the power and the name as custom officer. I mean someone that is already rich having a paint company.
If you are a graduate drop your all certs one side and forget about federal government jobs first. Go and hustle like the illiterates on the streets, get rich then you can easily walk to any office to demand for an employment. If you don’t have money have people that know people that are very powerful and influencial if not you will kill yourself with stress and yo u will hope in vain over federal government jobs.
hustle like ilitrate! This 4s the key in nigeria at the current moment, not school
2shure: I'm 34 years and I only have a car,rented apartment and 2 pos business which has suffered a blow.im planning on selling all my propert for 10m before thisbyear ends and travel out.
what property/asset do you have, and how did you build your portfolio? "your response will highly makes a difference"
Ketamine9000mg: Good morning friends. Please, I need help. I want to buy a "fairly used" Keke Napep(Tricycle) in Lagos(Nigeria), but have no slightest clue. I want information such as: - The cost -Where to get one -Necessary things to check for or steps to take to get the best one -Necessary documents the seller must have/present -etc.
TimiRume: Me I just need 100k now to Kickstart my business. I was into buying and selling before I got a white collar job. Used all my savings for Tfare and the periods I wasn't paid, only for me to realize the company isn't financially strong to continue paying staff. I just regretted. I should have just faced the small business I was doing. But in all things I give God thanks. Even in the dungeon, I praise him still.
hello! Have u started your business, what busines are u into?
AbelAbdul: One elderly man advised me to drive it by myself.
I collected the bus then thought of the route to ply. I registered the bus and start driving town service. The way most town service drivers behaved (hurrying to carry passengers) they either crash u or u crash them or they make u hit another car. The way they match break at speed lane and turning without indicating makes me find town service driving hard.
so I decided to try highway drive. I picked a route "PH to BY".
@op nice one sir, it had been a while now. Update us about your transportation business
What I mean is that church doesn't help as you know those days ( a places I know precisely)
I think is fire on the mountain now. Everybody seems to focus only on himself and his children, even ophans and widows hardly get helped by church/ believer's this days, talk less of someone who is not incapacitated.
Fattprince23: No I can't do that. I had a girl like that doesn't ask all this questions but whenever a dude is disturbing (a whole lot where then) and it comes up, I laugh and tease her (like telling her she's the hottest for street oo or she should make like 3 or 4 her side dude na since some were asking to be side dude anytime she tells them she's already with me) but one day she ask what if life happens she meet someone else she loves, I just told her"Que Sera Sera" whatever will be, will be. So anytime she wants to ask me some of these girl's foolish questions I just smile and she replies herself with "I know, Que Sera Sera, whatever will be will be". That even made her love me more. Because I told her real love isn't feeling, it's actions
Yeah, I understand this.
But notes that these type of girls are just 3% of 10% They are understandable and adaptable to any change. So that response can only work in a situation where by you meet such ladies
But majority of ladies ( men included) will feel inferior and replaceable after getting such response from there fiance
jeromestarks: You're smart. That would have been the best reply but, a woman who tried to make me jealous is a turn off. Once I get jealous, the game is over.
Yeah These ones are call manipulator. Big turn off for sure
But they are these ladies ( including men) who genuinely want to know they stand and how much you esteem them, and that lead to such question.
I have noticed that at some point in every new relationship or friendship I started, the person must test my love for him/her by making me jealous to see my reaction. Check out the following cases.
Case1: When I got admission into the uni, I met this great guy that i shared hostel with. We became close friends; sharing food together, doing assignment together, washing together etc. We even went to classes and church programs together. These went on for about 4 months or so. Suddenly, this guy wokeup one beautiful Saturday and called a guy in the next room to escort him to the launder! I was like "what!" We use to go washing together. Why call this guy and not me? I didn't say it out. I just wondered and pretended not to care. Before I knew it, he had started cooking and sharing food with the other guy. Soon, he became best friends with this other guy. I kept my cool and moved on with my life. We graduated and everyone went his way. Note, we didn't fight. We do talk once awhile but it wasn't as it were.
Case2: I went for an interview and I met this guy there. He had a car. We got the job and became close friends. This guy always drove me home after work. We would talk about politics, women, alcohol, life goals etc. This went on for about 2 months then suddenly, one evening after work, this guy called another colleague of ours and offered to ride home with him. I wanted to still follow them since I didn't plan on going home alone (I didn't hold transport fare). To my surprise, this my guy said he was not going home directly. That he wanted to see someone first. The other guy hopped in his car and they drove away. They got in his fvcking car and drove away. Demnn! I thought in my head "today ehhh, you go trek. Who say make you no get your own car?" I was heading towards the exist when one woman in her 50s offered to drive me home. Lucky for me, she was going to see her son who happened to be my neighbor. Guess what? I got home and met my friend's car parked at his gate. We met with my friend the next day at work and he seemed to be very observant of me. Trying to see my reaction. I greeted him normal. Smiled and walked into my office. Since that day, our friendship cracked. I didn't follow him home anymore. I later learnt, through office gossipers, that he wanted to see my reaction that was why he ditched me that day.
Case3: My girlfriends. I have dated a handful of women and I can confidently tell you that at some point in our relationship (3-4months later), ALL of them tried to make me jealous. One girl I dated on campus hugged a guy in my presence and looked at me as she did it. I didn't flinch. Days later, this girl called off the relationship.
Another girl I dated in my neighborhood told me the names of guys crushing on her. She showed me text and chats they sent to her. I didn't flinch. I pretended not to feel threatened. Smiled and said " these guys really like you ooo". The following week, this girl called of the relationship.
The third girl woke up one morning, called me and said "if another man asked me out and he is very cute and has a lot of money, what would you do?" I replied " nothing! If he's better than me and you chose him, I will be happy for you. I can't compete or fight my fellow man because of a woman" She literally hissed on the phone. The following month, we broke up.
There was this girl that I dated too. After some months into the relationship, she started to form busy. I would call and call, she wouldn't pick up. She would wait until I called like 5 times before she would pick and say "I'm kinda busy now please" I stopped calling. Days turned to weeks. Weeks turned to months. And that was it. After two months, she called me and I replied " who is on the line?" She hug up and that was the end.
Another girl who was my ex. Started showing me green light (Calling to ask how I am doing, asking if I have eaten, texting me , blah bla blah balablue). So I asked her if we can chill at my house. She quickly told me that she has a boyfriend. I said ok no problem. I requested for the guy's number, called him and we talked like friends. I then called her back and told her that the guy is a great guy. He will be perfect for her. I sent the screen grab of my chats with her boyfriend in which I told him to keep her and take good care of her because she's like a sister to me. The moment she saw the message, she blocked my line.
The latest one was a girl whom after we had been together for over 6 months, started to tell me about a certain guy that was very caring to her and how she had grown to like him a lot. She told me he makes her laugh and calls her all the time. In my mind I was like " this one want me to struggle to impress her. You dey whine?" One day, she brought up the guy's name as we were talking and I said "Omo, this guy will be perfect for you ooo." Boom! That was the beginning of the end of our relationship.
Who do you think is the problem. Is it me or them?
nlfpmod
You are almost 90% the problem of yourself.
Why?
Every human being want to feel loved and irreplaceable, not just respect.
In your case, you respect and adore people. But you usually make them feel replaceable
Whenever a lady ask you, if so so happen, what will you do? Your response should be, I'll never let that happen, you mine and you are unshareable ( that's if you are interested in her)
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