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The guy's pay was mentioned naaa (1M monthly)

For a while now, my friend who I consider a nice- and good-looking guy has been searching for a serious lady. The thing is, he had some ladies in the past but then things just didn't work out. The last relationship he was in, the lady wanted a heavenly wedding, but her attitude is nothing to write home about. She feels entitled to everything. (My friend isn't doing badly - One million naira monthly is something). My friend is a reserved guy who doesn't love showing wealth in anyway, he spends when needed, he is not a stingy guy.

Fast forward to last year December, He met a lady in a place he wouldn't have thought. He got the lady's contact and they have kept communicating daily, they meet at least once every week since then till date. My guy spends at least 25 - 38k on every hangout (money wasn't the problem for him). Not to take anything away for the lady, she has paid once for their hangouts.

Now the issue is, my guy doesn't think chasing a lady (been in talking stage) for more than 3 months is fine especial when both have agreed to all moral principle such as: no sex before marriage, putting God's first etc. He thinks the lady doesn't know what she wants or the lady thinks she bigger than him because she speaks so well (she earns 200K monthly). Today, the lady would express how much she loves him, tomorrow she will say let's take it slow. What pisses my friend off is that she told him to wait for 6 months before she can consider whether to date him or not.

I TOLD HIM TO LET HER GO... A 33-YEAR-OLD LADY SAYING THESE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. Move on my guy...
My guy is 33yrs as well.

There's more about this lady I can't say... but I really feel bad for my guy because this is the first time I will see him this crazy about a lady.

Any advice for my friend?

I don't know how to advice my friend. So he started dating this lady less than 4 weeks ago, but then the lady started putting up some negative vibe all because my friend didn't introduce her to his dad when he came around. Yea, she also wasn't happy because my friend didn't save her name with a romantic name like sweetheart, my love etc.
Note this relationship isn't up to 1 month oooo. And because of these two reasons, she called my friend a liar, deceitful person.

I just feel this lady should calm down naaa, right now my guy dey vex. Doesn't even want to talk to her.

Na Chop and Clean Mouth.
Things I dislike about guys who are confused.
So you didn't know she wasn't your spec after meeting her for the first time. I am so sure you slept with her.

I am a guy and I dont like guys taking advantage of ladies in pretense tha she's not their type.

Nonsense.

Yeah, why the complain by Nigerians. We did exactly the same to our Ghanaian brothers some years ago. Please leave their country and come deal with the thieves in yours.

#KAMA@AWORK

Enoch. He walked with God and he was not. For God took him.

Please guys, has anyone been invited for accrete petroleum skill assessment test?