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Ego2:
wondering when all this tribal issue will come to an end... same happened to me. A relationship of two years and few months gone like that cause his Mum doesn't want an igbo lady for her only son, forgetting that I am from both sides.... SMH.

TAke heaRt DeaR. JuSt Remember someone has Always Got your Back. That's me.
If he's available you can still fiGht for what you want, BeCause that's a GooD CAUSe

Wolgrace:
I know what am talking about.. Those who fake it will be revealed by his/her persistence admiration of the tradition by an event or circumstances. Tradition has a force who speak for it. From the story, we see the guy's family are deeply rooted, dictated and directed by tradition, not God..

Its good you escaped the trap of tradition to follow God's will. Shalom

inSiGhtfUl

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Why you no abuse Chioma and snowwhite for being 4th baby mamas to Yoruba men with children from 3 women already.
You people need help, if you are not condemning your women for having female children, you are against potential daughters in law. A thread was here last month where even an Ebonyi man was rejected. Shame!

I'm telling you. No ShADe. They need to be Called Out

Finnese001:
they don't want to marry from their tribe, always rushing Igbo men like housefly rushing shit. And she even get mouth to yarn

shameless modafukers

why?

Sonfethopia:
You don't need a reason to love some one. If he loves him cos he's Hansome may be something happen like fire , god forbid he looose he fine face shes gone. But wen u love someone for no reason men that is everlasting.

woRDs of WISDOM, UCHe

LexngtonSteele:
She should be happy nah

Why would you want to marry someone who would steal your dress and run at the first sign of trouble ?

never never never never Don't Get it

Lightangel64:
Its better to run those mothers can be witches and ruin that marriage. My mums friend that got married when the guys parents were not in support, na soso fibroids, miscarriage, and ovarian problems, till she was never able to birth again, now she is frustrated

BUll

StubbornGENIUS:
Who's wrong here:mum or rozz?

say no to TRiBAliSts. Then the WeSteRn woRlD would ReSPeCt AfRiCa ,and fix their Shit

donbachi:
What his parents did is wrong.and him allowing his parents make such a decision for him,may bring matrimonial disaster to him in future..but,since it ended like this.pick up ur broken self and move on.maybe GOD just saved u from some kinda near future tears and regrets.

you were doing well initially

StubbornGENIUS:
Sis. Rozz,will you marry a fulani muslim?

yes, love COnQueRs all

Tajbol4splend:
A lady whose name goes by Adeolar shares what the tribal difference has cost her in finally hooking up with her man, I can't imagine in 2020, 21st century that we still have men whose love lives are controlled by their parents and that we still have parents who preside over the love lives of the children, it is so lugubrious.

lADy, Pls fiGht for your man

Pattypatt:
Pele hanty. Try and marry from your tribe and save yourself the trouble.

no

Ourkitchenpalm:
It's just lack of understanding...

I'm Ibo but married to a Yeruba girl...

My colleagues then in UBA PLC we're against it...

My friends we're against it...

My pastor and brethren we're against it...

My own people in the village said I was too young to get married...

I even have to buy 406 Peugeot full option for my daddy to appears them.

I ignored them because:

1.The day my Manager told us that they're bringing a female staff for the branch(As I heard, for years no female staff in that branch). I just heard a voice: "that's your wife"...

2. I have been a virgin(no girl relationship). My younger ones even had girl friends in secondary schools...

NB: I never knew her tribe, age, color, height etc but I do know one thing... my wife will report in the next five working days...

When she resumed, I didn't like her...because she wore Jezebel materials...and I said: how could God gave me this kind of girl to marry ( Lagos girl that has opened eye finish). I thought she would dress like a deeper lifer.

Anytime my supervisor goes on leave, I do take over as the next in command. I always torment her life with my authority. So that, she would in turn hate me too. She was too patient. The more I command her the more she likes and respects me more than other staff members..
It took me about one year and six months before I proposed to her... she immediately resigned and we got married.

Today, she's more holy than me...We have 3 kids.

No man has the right to detect whom the fellow man marries ....Unless they're still feeding him.

God Bless

Rozz:
even my mom is against inter tribal marriages,for me I see no big deal in it

wRonG

amiibaby:
Just unlove him period

you think it's easy? I want her to fiGht on BeCause I'm PRODiveRSity

gbami:
As long as she is not wearing G-strings...You are safe

na patanla she dey wear KiTe

phelonrays:
You are in hot soup brah,

It's ain't gonna be magic, but clear reality, don't fall a victim of promising young girls marriage just to enjoy free pvssy.......

If na Calabar girl, I'll advice you got in touch with Queen of the Coast for outright cleansing

tell me about the CAlABARs

SaintHilary:
OP and oda guys, take the bolded seriously..If na Calabar/Akwa ibom girl, Hmmmm

I dey come first

Tell me more

donbachi:
U took advantage of her,using marriage.and she fell for it.u come dey knack front and back,without condoms,that was accompanied with aborted pregnancies...paddyman,make i tell u the truth.e go work.and for u to ask dis kind question wen u never brush ur mouth.e be like e don dey see the signs.

esp the abortion so painful

shawnfamous:
I wouldn't have to believe social media all times... there are black people also participating in this challenge too

the thing is CRAZy son. What makes is woRSe is that this caused someone's Death

Kemimarch16:
Do they think this thing is funny, racist must stop.Blacks need to corporate

hmmm

AngelicDamsel:
.

2 days. Cheap girl, not a trophy!

Who made you juDGe? Whether your own na 2 months or 2yeaRs. As far as you Ain't a ViRGin. PlOt TwiSt: Guys go after wealthy or RiCh GiRls in finances FIRST . NO One wants a liability.

IMO01:
I sell lands in imo state Nigeria. Please check my profile

note me down in case of futuRe. You never know

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU HAVE THE GUTS TO BRING MY MATTER TO THIS PUBLIC PLACE.
ONCE SCHOOL RESUMES YOU BETTER NOT COME NEAR CAMPUS CUS I'M SELLING OFF YOUR PROPERTIES, AND MAKING ARRANGEMENTS FOR YOU TO BE DEALT WITH.

hehehehehehehehe

WordsWriter:
Lol.

I've done lots of things oh.

Weirdest food I've eaten to survive: Garri 3x for 1 week. I've also used palm oil, salt and fresh pepper as soup to eat eba.

Weird job I've done for money: Conductor, Laybuke(Serving a brick layer). Funny enough did all this when I was below 16.

Stupid 'est' decision I've made to survive: Beg online for money, happened in 2017 when I was in 200L. I still regret it whenever I think of it.

Worse thing I've done to survive: Skip one semester of school to go learn Yahoo. LOL. Stupid young Me , abandoning a 4.51cgpa to go learn fraud.


That's all I think!

Did yahoo pay? No

Do I have regrets? Yes!

Did I survive? Yes!

Did life get better? 1000×

Will I do them again? Yes!







Survival is a must!

Oh. THAnK God for you. I was touched when you said you Did all that BelOw 16

scoundrel:
You can remove the contact details now before these hungry Nairaland boys pounce on them trying to scam you.

nAh I'm above them

scoundrel:
It is this comment which has truly revealed OP for the troll he (likely a he) is. I'm sure this is a bored Lekan catching fun with one of his alternate accounts. As usual Nairalanders can't help but react emotionally to his bait.

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scoundrel:
My GOd, wHaT tHe Bleep DId I juST rEAd?

heHhehehehehehehehehehehehe*DRUnk BeeR PARlor man lAff***************

scoundrel:
It is this comment which has truly revealed OP for the troll he (likely a he) is. I'm sure this is a bored Lekan catching fun with one of his alternate accounts. As usual Nairalanders can't help but react emotionally to his bait.

this is lekan, abi? Could have put you on live viDeO UPload so you Get t know it's me. Ain't fROntinG

Smartypant:
Glad you got what I'm saying. Good thing that you also know that you made a mistake with that comment.
We all make mistakes, but it takes a real person to admit to it and for that - MUCH RESPECT and LOVE FOR YOU.
Enjoy your stay in the US, I lived most of my life in the US also before relocating back home.

Sorry for my harsh tone...have a wonderful rest of the day and a wonderful weekend ahead. Stay safe and Cheers!

Jeez. Thanks for the love. I wiSh you same. See eveRyone as fRienDs. Don't have time for Beefs. YeAh, was having SeConD thoughts about what I posted in the fiRSt PlACe. Don't know what made me make the BOlD move

tellwisdom:
So these people lying on the floor died?? Take them to the hospital foolish igbira people ...

yeah. I was DiSCussinG this with mOm. When Does One Actually Die and can they RiSe uP in they GRaVeS?

Smartypant:
Wow! Do you really have to sound like a real MOnkeybabe?

So because the family is able to hire an independent Medical examiner means that they are rich or that the guy did anything wrong in the first place?
Do you even know if the examiner was paid or who paid for it?
Wow, this are the kinds of warped irrational logic that is prevalent in Nigeria.
What has the ability to hire a medical examiner got to do with why he was killed in the first place.
And you want God to forgive you? I don't know if God can forgive stupidity. Better pray harder.

you RiGht. I'm DumB. So I do my thing without caring what family or AnyOne thinks. BesiDes, I'm not in niGeRia. The incident happened right by me in the U.S. this foRum is inteRnational in case you forGot and we're PROBABly caRRied away by AnGeR.
Wasn't sure if I had to say that though. Kind of Get what you saying