SucrePlum: You have a phone with data and a man to have sex with you and get you pregnant regularly but you don't have money to take care of the consequences of your actions? You must be stupid to think that anyone would copy your account number and send you money. Shameless thing.
Calm Down na At least She didn't Kill the innOcent ChildRen
maasoap: Bad tyres and overspeeding have killed too many travellers in Nigeria. I almost became a victim of bad tyre once and overspeeding once in 2011 on East West road. Safety precautions is almost zero on our roads: no one is checking expired and worn out tyres, overloading, overspeeding, drunk driving, etc
especially the speeding part,I'm peeing myself before I get to 120mph. How do people do that??
Humbleiyke: I saw the accident scene few minutes after it happened
God have mercy . No fire Extinguisher lying around?you know they may breath their last out of exhaustion before their bodies are finally burned to AShes,RiGht?
If you're interested in a clear explanation of the ongoing case between Hushpuppi vs FBI, then you should listen to this if you've at least 10 mins to spare :*
The FBI wants to Lock Hushpuppi up and THROW AWAY THE KEYS
solmus: Her rich booboo... Imagine Ozo trying to kiss someone who isn't his girlfriend on the eviction night?? It's cringe worthy moment
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my only prob with Ozo is he knows She has a RiChBoOboo naw,why want to put her in a difficult position.you know she already entered trouble one time for escorting another Guy to DuBAi and Bobo has forgiven her,now this. Perhaps,Wish she did explain things to ozo.most RiChGuys have ego issues..I don't want
In almost all regards Ozo had everything it takes to win this competition but rather than focus on his inner strength and ability he went around tying himself to Nnegi's waist
Cooking breakfast in bed for your Girlfriend or wife is very romantic, but doing that for a lady who told you point blank she isn't interested in you, and is repulsive of your touches.. that's not being romantic
Breaking the house rules on no letters, for you to write a Love note while you should be busy with task isn't romantic, it is foolishness
If Nnegi was my daughter and after telling a toaster like Ozo she is not interested and he keeps choking my daughter acting clingy and not letting her go... I might be tempted to get a restraining order against him
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t hink it's because she wants to Stay lOyAl to her Booboo who's out the house
franchasng: many guys were once like Ozo until foolish girls like Nengi open their eyes and they turn to Lions that devour every available prey without mercy.
Dear ladies, playboys and bad guys are the monsters that ladies like Nengi made
So as a girl, while you are busy playing one guy, bear in mind that you are indirectly making a monster that will devour your sisters
RomanianNinja: God bless you Uti... I don't know why most men are like that but all I can say is there is nothing shameful in the way Ozo expresses love
I'm telling you.the shit is crazy.my boyfriend just broke up with me because I called him out for this particular shit. I even tied it to a cogent reason why most Guys are insensitive and end up being responsible for strings of abortions. He Blocked me.mind you,I call everyone out , even myself
Nickymichy: Mhmm...Uti...Uti..ok...stop deceiving this guy...Ozo there is nothing wrong when you fall in love but it has to be reciprocated otherwise..... U ARE A SIMP(in a loud voice)
khia: You are the stupid one, too stupid to even research American history before posting . Answer this question, Do your black life matter in the US, in the WORLD? **Black lives Matter** isn't telling black kids they are inferior, they already know of their importance, *Black Lives Matters** isn't even a message to black people, it's a message to the WORLD who believes it doesn't..
Africans are being discriminated (especially Nigerians) in every western country you migrate to , because your Black Life Doesn't Matter to the WORLD, yet all you do is whine with no action and condemn those who fight to make changes.
Black Americans are the ones who fought this country to allow Africans to migrate here and once again we are fighting for the humanity of blacks around the world and your ungrateful ass do nothing but criticize. Let me break this down for the people who lack comprehension.
All lives matters but the world has a problem understanding that **Black Lives Matters TOO!!!**
pay them no mind,.that's the way they are - very ungrateful
If you answer all that... And your desire is to move to the States, note that as a medical doctor, you don't need a woman-link to take you there. You can migrate by yourself.
If you are in a relationship with a lady in Nigeria and both of you are in love, plan with her and you can move out of the country after your graduation.
yes, it's easier for people in SCience & MAths field to integrate
muzeze77: she is 27 and still single then she has no one to marry her in america , and it’s always for a reason. And your cousin said she is a good what did you expect? Were you expecting her to say she is bad
they won't even say Something UniQue that would attract him to her PeRSOnAlity. What is Good?
MT: Look at the BIGGER picture. If you love her, you are about to give your generation unborn eternal opportunities. Forget about what people are saying that if you have to marry her, then she needs to come to Nigeria. Ask yourself, come to Nigeria to do what ? Leaving a world of opportunities for a world of misery.
Your education should prepare you to easily adapt to people of different cultures. It is beautiful to learn cultures of other people. Don't dwell on the NEGATIVES, dwell on the POSITIVES instead. Most people advising you here wont think twice to grab this opportunity. Your cousin and his wife have helped you, it is up to you now. My 2cents.
abi o, before they say he's a USeless ChUkwuDi that don't want to leaRn Handwork Or do Anything useful with his life
MemoriesAndMe: Many try to avoid the drama that comes with marrying Nigerians - like having their relatives move in with you whenever they come overseas, paying their siblings school fees back home, taking care of their aged parents, inlaw demands, exorbitant bride prices some areas in Nigeria are known for etc while u have ur own immediate family to cater for. You dont experience all that when married to folks from other races.
olujastro: I remember seeing a similar topic here sometime ago... so I had this conversation with four Nigerian ladies I hung out with last month who have been in Canada for about ten years. I met them through a friend, another Nigerian lady who was my classmate in Nigeria. I'm less than a year old in Canada.
The problem is Nigerian ladies want to have it all even in a country where they have limited options.
They want a guy who has to be Nigerian (who can put up with their entitlement mentality), a guy from their tribe alone, a guy with a great job (not a struggling guy), etc. They just want it all even when toasters are not easily present unlike in Nigeria, until they cross 30 and start feeling a bit more desperate.
Plus their shakara ehn, no be here. They feel they have over achieved by being abroad, the usual vainness that comes with being Nigerian.
the guy from their tribe part got me,pmsl. What if babe na itSekiRi?
Tatashi: I can never move to Canada or US and look for a Nigerian/African Man to marry. I dey crase? What happened to finding a God fearing Handsome Caucasian? How can you move to a developed well advanced country and search for a Nigerian man to marry... Men that are backward and misogynistic in nature. Go to America and see how Nigerian Men are slaughtering their hardworking wives esp Nurses. Pls if you want to live long as a woman you better run away from black men oh. There's this special type of jealousy they carry. God forbid
GreaterFuture1: Few teachers would handle it like that When I was in Secondary school, some teachers knew what I was going through yet still added to my problems and treated me badly, they gossiped me, made fun of my situation etc. (Nigerian Schools are Rubbish! especially private secondary schools). To put it mildly, That seriously affected me academically, emotionally and Psychologically
what Of PhySiCal ABUse by teachers,that Shit was embarrasingyo
The very day I was touched and felt so emotionally humbled was the time I was teaching in a private school before going to answer the Clarion call.
Then I was teaching JSS2 (3 classes, A, B and C) Computer Science and SSS classes Geography. To make things easier for me, I did tell these JSS 2 students to come by 7am every Tuesday, so that I would revise with them and have all the 3 classes on the same level.
One very Tuesday morning, I went as usual and revised the lessons with the children. I noticed that they were few in class that day and concluded in my mind that I was going to punish the students who were absent from the morning class. After the school morning devotion at 8:30am, one of the students who was absent from the class just walked up to me and said he was so sorry for missing my class today. I asked why? He said his Dad and Mum was having a serious fight at home early this morning and it affected his preparation for school. I felt so humbled and wanted to cry for the boy. Then I had to forgive all the children on punishing them for missing the early class. Only God and these children know why they’ve been acting the way they do and fail to perform up to the expectations.
The fights between parents affect these children emotionally and mentally. I wish parents can stop the physical combat at home or just wait till their children are not at home if need be.
Deborah98: What other people are craving for,but who gave you the mentality of just having sex with her,you see my problem with some people, let me just hit and run forgetting that karam knows everyone,e be things ooooh,if you don't want her go ahead and tell her,let her cut off her feelings for you cos it's obvious all you want in the relationship is sex.
flyca: Babe, if you have been on NL for sometime now, you would have noticed all the negetivity towards ladies here by the guys, they come under the umbrella of “Red Pills”. “Nigerian girls are bad” “Nigerian girls are bad” buhahaha. Bro!, there are good Nigerian ladies, but you they will not see them because the good ladies are with good Nigerian men! So babe, don't be sad when they bash you here.
Wanting to be married is noble, so whatever trashtalk you read here, do not feel bad for expressing that idea (albeit in a wrong space).
If you are born and raised in Nigeria, if you have the Nigerian thing in you - in my opinion - marrying a well-raised Nigerian man is the better option for you.
Same advice I will give a Nigerian man! But sometimes, “white woman” too dey shaak them! But in the long run, it is better to marry someone from your own culture and background. Someone that you will not feel inferior to, someone that will not feel that marrying them is a privilege, someone that deeply understands you, someone that you share a cultural connection with, someone that you will not constantly be under pressure to impress, someone that understands the meaning of marriage the way you understand it etc
See eh, it's not even only Nigeria to Nigeria, every country to every country, every culture to every culture or at least similar. Not someone that has different customs, different food and lifestyle, different values, different parentage. If you watch TLC's 90 Day Fiance, you will notice that most clashes are cultural not financial.
I met my Nigerian husband abroad. I had options from other countries and I am sure he had other “white girl” options too. But we decided to be with each other and it has turned to be a very good decision for me. We get to experience new things from the same perspective of life (travel, food, language you name it). If our passports are getting rejected at the airport, they are rejecting both of us TOGETHER!
The first time I met my in-laws eh ...... PEACE. Whenever my mom-in-law speaks Igbo to me, I feel a deep connection. Well, this is my own cent!
I feel u. RootinG for BeSt Of both worlds person which would most likely fall into category of educated AfRican. Colonialism is a blessing in Disguise. We finally get to experience both cultures
Nephilim: overaged with no husband. Most of them their husband is here in Nigeria, hustling to make it lolz! And if we connect them now they will say they are interested in an abroad person, and they keep waxing older. The ladies from those places they went to are still struggling to have a family put together talkless of a stranger from another continent to hijack their man! Lolz and I trust my Nigerian guys in those countries, their eyes are way up!
Anyway I'm open to serious relationship from any serious person among them, don't forget I'm a Nigerian in Nigeria.
englishmart: The insanity people showcase just for a regrettable 5minutes pleasure (though some of us can last as long as 6-hours) but Sex is hugely overrated
Edited: Tell your twin sister to stop wasting her dilemma on something she can't solve.