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dominique:
You don't know them but you just happen to to post in identical patterns using the exact account number. You are a nothing but a fraud, either you're a male disguising as female to gain sympathy or you're a female member of a scam gang led by Chukwuemeka Ibe.

Don't bother trying to explain

Where is your evidence for this false accusations? I'm open for a one on one meeting for confirmation. Thanks

dominique:
You don't know them but you just happen to to post in identical patterns using the exact account number. You are a nothing but a fraud, either you're a male disguising as female to gain sympathy or you're a female member of a scam gang led by Chukwuemeka Ibe.

Don't bother trying to explain

Where is your evidence for this false accusations?

Bea1234:
Mugu fall, guy man chop am. That moniker is a male.. I've know since 2021 when he registered. Don't worry, I know.

For your information, true female monikers hardly beg or solicit for funds outrightly [it's rare]. I've been on this forum long enough to know] instead they offer to do something like writing and co in exchange for payment.

But try dey help your fellow man also. This world is not black and white, you're more likely to be remembered by a male when you're at your lowest than a female [no hating]

Cheers

I have been in contact with the quoted monicker offline since early this year. Please stop with the blackmail. Don't chase away my helpers with false accusations pls

Fujiyama:
OP,

You have a few questions to answer.

Respond to the allegations of the poster above and do it quickly.

Already did

Bea1234:
@moshybear I am in Owerri. Can we see face to face for verification purpose?

Sure

Hit me up. Will send my number but it has to be in a public place. Thanks!

dominique:
@Moshybear

You've previously used an access account number which bears the name Chukwuemeka Ibe to beg. The account details had been used by several male monikers to beg for years and has been marked by the spam bots; Thugnificent, Dude397, Gameova to name a few. You are a male serial beggar posing as a female to solicit for funds. I'd like you to prove to me otherwise

I have no idea who the above name is or the quoted monickers. I have been accused of such before maybe because we share the same last name and it was later proved to be false.

https://www.nairaland.com/8087026/please-come-aid-family-before/2#129952361

mankan2k7:
Who go help you no go stress u

Yes indeed

ObaOfYorubaLand:
If you're willing to work, I'll give you job in a company not far from owerri .

Give me your regular number.

Wow thanks a lot for the offer, I'm more than willing to work. I just sent you an email. Will forward my number to you.

OgaTheTop2:
Be very careful of kidnappers o

Lol thanks for the heads up

galantjoe:
You have good skill. Congratulations for that. However you need to have some funds to establish a kind of restaurant or mànà put joint where you can be getting daily income while waiting for catering job. Also having one source of income in this harsh economy is suicidal. You need to diversify your income base in order to remain afloat at all time. I will teach you online business, advert, etc. You can promote your catering business online.

I just feel to help., am also adventurer, accountant and consultant.. feel free to relate with me.

Okay no problem, will send you a message then. I really appreciate.

Nnamdipapa:
Thanks, I will get back to you.

You are welcome, will be expecting Sir.

eniolorunfe:
Second class upper?! This caught my attention…. I pray God makes a way for you. It’s well

Thanks alot, i appreciate. Amen to your prayers🙏

galantjoe:
Yes you will benefit a lot. Like you will be empowered to be independent, self employed and self reliant. As you know giving you fish every day won't solve your problem, you need to know how to fish so what you need is empowerment to become self reliant and independent.

I already have very good culinary skills and I also plan events just that since my last job in January this year, I have not seen any other job. I have just been surviving by God's Grace. I understand all you have said and it is very well noted 🙂

malaria:
My dear with the penalty on them if found in this country ' it still has no remedy because those that are supposed to be fighting it are part of the problem. While for the ladies, it either demonic or prostitution. Yes most lesbians are prostitute they re quick to twosome and three some and get paid. The gays are one society or the other and that society is on top of their game in our country. They are in corridors of power Do you know there are many of them among top politicians. You think gist lover was playing ? Come to think of it is bobrisky actually a homo ? I see him as a cross dresser and nothing more . They jump and jump outside the country do their thing , get paid heavily and come back . They even have the connection as well. If you no belong, nothing for you .

It's no surprising that the powers that be are into this mess, using the Bobrisky case as an example, you could evidently see the powers of the high and mighty when he was imprisoned to let you know they are all involved.

Girls this days are not helping matters with the Hook up culture going on presently at an alarming rate made worse by the present economic realities

About Gistlover, I really don't believe all the names they mentioned are gay. I just see their ramblings as a weak comeback after VDM exposed their asses, nothing more than that.

It is well oo

galantjoe:
Ukwu nwanyị Owerri
I would like to help if we can be friend with benefits. I am in Anambra State. If you accept my offer call or WhatsApp me on 07067294966

friends with benefits you say

REGINALD001:
WHAT HAPPENED TO THE PROFILE PIC, THERE'S NOTHING TO FEAR ANYWAY........ IT'S UP TO YOU.

No bad feelings but i can't deal.

Nnamdipapa:
Thanks for your thoughtful response, on a scale of 1 to 10, how often do you have a power supply at home in a 24-hour timeframe? What kind of internet services do you have? Is it reliable? Your present accommodation, do you live alone with your child and what level of privacy would you have at home? Do others have access to your home in your absence?

Power supply 8/10 as it's a federal line

Internet 4G but it's super fast so I give it 7/10

I live with my kids but they go to school everyday except weekends so i have sufficient level of privacy during week days.

Nobody has access to my home in my absence

Nnamdipapa:
Certainly, it is good to have a level of trust but be very careful as the country is not smiling, you just have to take precautions like meeting in a public place and letting others like a relative know when you meet with someone. He does not have to meet you if he has a job for you.

I was surprised that you pasted your phone number on NL, please never do that.

Now, what skills do you have for a job? I have interviewed and hired lots of Nigerian graduates and often discover they do not possess the skill for the job. Since graduation, what have you done for jobs? Are you good with a computer? Are you trustworthy? Are you a good writer able to meet deadlines? Do you have enough discipline to work from home?

I really appreciate your advice. Desperate times call for desperate measures but i will be utterly careful going forward.

Now to your questions.

I have done alot of catering and event planning jobs in the past years and the most recent is January of this year.

I have very good culinary skills and i can cook for the whole country (just joking)

Not that good with computers but I'm open to learning and i know the basics to an extent.

I'm a good writer too and i have written articles touching many subjects but i haven't published any yet for financial gains

I can't say for myself to be trustworthy. I can say it here but experience teaches better and not just making claims. Nobody will deny to be untrustworthy if asked after all

Yes i have enough discipline to work from home

malaria:
My dear the truth is in Nigeria ,there is always a way to survive . The thing is either survival or fame or fortune . I am of the opinion that homosexuals in Nigeria are not real ..most of them are forming bisexuals either for monetary gains or affluence . I will say it's society for now . What we do not know is always bigger than us . Some are compelled to join to get what they want . They will come on social media and tell you how they have been working hard and hawking on the street bla bls bla. How can they be homosexuals and yet married to someone else .very dark set of human beings .

Hmmm you have really made some salient points indeed. Bobrisky comes to mind. It's all about clout chasing and money now. Make it in whatever way you wish not minding the consequences. Really a high way indeed. But there are many real homosexuals presently in Nigeria, i won't hide that fact.

So what can you suggest as the way forward considering the present circumstances?

Nnamdipapa:
Yes, I agree that is why you negotiate in advance to set mutually agreed expectations. Now, just out of curiosity, what were you expecting during a meet-up with a guy in Nigeria? I am kinda curious as to your expectations and what you think the guy might be wanting from you. Bear in mind, that the guy might have the DP of Jesus Christ and still be a serial molester.

Hmmm now I'm having a second thought on meeting someone here in an anonymous forum.

Things i would expect is likely a job as I'm a graduate of psychology and also into catering business with 5 years experience.

He could have a job offer for me ( now you have made everything look creepy)

I don't think it's a good idea because you never can tell

I have removed my phone number to start with. I trust too much and i think that could be my own undoing or what do you think?

malaria:
They are tired of paying Bills my dear.

I swear it's deeper than that

There has to be a hidden agenda because right now it is off the roof with no hope in sight. No where to run to as our leaders have become puppets of the west and i Believe LGBTQ will be legalized in Nigeria soon with the way things are going.

Natbrowny:
Reality

There are good men and good ladies out there

Ladies will not look at a good guy twice, they are interested in what he has and not what he is - they dont really care about PABLO, THEY CARE ABOUT PABLO'S CONTROL OF FUNDS

Men wants a good girl but wont pay attention when they find one, they want Kim Kadarshian, Sweeney and likes with ashana vibes private n public

In abundance, there is scarcity
In scarcity, there is abundance

Whenever u see the sun, the moon is around the corner.
Wherever u see the presence of God, The devil is around the corner sharpening his poking sticks.

Na d code

So what is the way forward now

Sapasenator:
YES! I am a simp and have never for once denied that fact. I studied Simping Engineering and wear my simp badge with honour.

Are you happy now?

On a serious note, I tried to vet her in the past and was not able to give at the time reason I am giving now. You need to work on your attitude.

God will continue to bless you for me 🙏

Please ignore the nay Sayers....

Natbrowny:
We are having a surge in feminine men everywhere

Feminine looking men - appearance
Feminine mentally built men - no offense to females here
Feminine behaved men - behavioural

Men are gone. Na very few dey normal these days
U see mofos with lips of different colour than their skin
U see mofos crying coz of lil things
U see mofos seeing responsibility as a problem /difficulty
U see mofos who cant make decisions as a man
U see mofos who acts as simps ( i mean all round simps) simps to multiple women

The male gender is been repressed.

This is a really scary reality in all honesty

No wonder there is a scarcity of husbands presently.

God help us oo because we have no were else to run to.

More reason I'm laughing at the present day feminist like are you not scared of being all alone in your old age with no offspring of yours

Soo Sad

Shameless man

Nnamdipapa:
It depends and life is all about risk and reward. Ask the guy why he wants to meet with you and you may decide to meet them in a public place. So If I ask you to meet with me, will you refuse?

lol like you said, it depends ...

First impression matters in all things dear

Nnamdipapa:
It's not to be honest. The picture is a natural and organic body part.

To me it is and not what i expect from someone I'm to meet for the first time when I'm not into hook up. I hope you understand.

Nnamdipapa:
Whats wrong with his profile pics?

It's lewd

What is happening to our men

REGINALD001:
I AM ON MY ANNUAL LEAVE AND TRAVELLED DOWN TO MY HOME TOWN EZINIHITTE MBAISE TO REST AND COOL OFF FROM THE CHAOS OF THE CITY LIFE , IT'S JUST ABOUT 40MINS DRIVE FROM OWERRI, YOU CAN COME DOWN MAKE I REASON YOUR MATTER WELL........ DM FOR DIRECTION IF YOU DO WISH TO COME.

I wanted to send a DM but your profile pic scared me away

SamuraiXXX:
It's so sad that a lot of people in Nigeria are having to really struggle to feed because of the bad state of the Nigerian economy

It's really terrible to say the least.

Nicepoker:
Couldn't be anything but preek