₦airaland Forum

Fenrir:
😊 just got dual citizenship

Seems I do something valuable for your country
And military experience
Your government has always loved that

Well anyone can buy their way to get a Nigerian passport.

A passport doesn't makes you a Nigerian or a igbo, hausa, yoruba or idoma etc

The culture and tradition is what makes you not the passport.

Fenrir:
Do you understand white people at all?
We would contribute to the family we are marrying into
Not joining the fucking tribe

When one of your families actually respects us and values as people in that marriage we go above and beyond for you to be included in the family not take the woman out of it

Her dad has a heart attack or stroke then we would come running because the way we see it he's a second dad to us not an inlaw

But you value your ego and pride over loyalty and added value

You think short term not long term
Compromise now and be adored later

You want me to understand white people but then can not understand our culture.

Does prostrating once, mean you are gonna join the tribe.

What stops you from prostrating is it because they are black?? Or do you feel superior over their culture.

You want to take their women and not respect their culture

Stick to your white women

Fenrir:
If you truly cannot do it and you explain that to my king respectfully he will never ask you to do

That's the difference between Scandinavians men and Nigerian men

We will honour a request you ignore it and demand

You and I know, it is not true, I have to bow before the king or I won't be allowed to see him next time.

You disrespected our culture even though you are a fucking guest here

Fenrir:
BECAUSE ITS FORBIDDEN IN MY CULTURE

SHOULD I BE EXPECT TO VIOLATE MY OWN PEOPLE WHILE THEY FUCKING WATCH MULTIPLE TIMES AND VIOLATE MYSELF FOR YOUR PRIDE BECAUSE YOU WERE RAISE THATS NORMAL AND NOTHING BUT ASKING US TO DO IS BASICALLY AN ACT OF WAR

Forbidden in your culture

I am shocked they gave you their daughter to marry when you didn't do the necessary rites.

How much did you bride them? 50m??

You also want us to obey your laws in your country but can not obey our tradition in our own country

Fenrir:
Can you read mate?

Behind her back that's what said, she went Ballistic when she found out

I'm dyslexic so I have trouble writing but I can read perfectly, what's your excuse?

Got it now.

Well. It is because you believe you can use money to buy your way.

Who sends 15m naira for a pride price

Only a fool does that.

Fenrir:
Not greedy for money

Why is it all about money to you!!

I can't prostrate or Kneel to a family it's cultural greed I'm talking about

But all you think is cash

How is it cultural greed to prostrate to your family of your wife. It is a one time stuff

Just curious, is it cultural greed if the king of your country wants me to bow my head in his presence?

Fenrir:
Mate my Mrs now makes just as much as I do

Well a tiny bit less
She doesn't need me for money

If she doesn't need your money

Then why did she allow you to send 15m naira to her family.

A woman that loves you will prevent that from happening.

You are dumb.

Fenrir:
CULTURE AND TRADITIONS ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS

I DONT ACTUALLY HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH YOUR CULTURE

I LOVE NIGERIA YOU ARE FUN, RICH AND DYNAMIC PEOPLE

THE PROBLEM IS YOU GET CULTURALLY GREEDY WITH YOUR TRADITIONS AT WEDDINGS

IF A MAN TRULY CANNOT ONE OR TWO PARTS AS LONG AS THE BRIDE PRICE IS PAID YOU SHOULD BE RESPECTFUL AND ACCEPT 90% TRADITIONS

NOT EXPECT HIM TO BETRAY HIS PEOPLE OVER KNEELING TO YOU OR PROSTRATION WHEN STANDING AND BOWING IS RESPECTFUL TO BOTH FAMILIES AND BOTH CULTURES

BLEND DONT DOMINATE!!!

If that family gets greedy because they see you as a meal ticket.

Why generalise and point fingers at every Nigerian for the greediness of that family

Fenrir:
3800 cultures in the world AND NONE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THEN ANY OTHER THATS FUCKING POINT

I CANT DO 2 PARTS KNEEL TO THE FAMILIES OR PROSTRATE

THATS NOT GOOD ENOUGH TO 99% OF YOU
SO THOUGHT Bleep IT YOU CANT COMPROMISE ONE PART SO YOU DESERVE NONE OF IT

Shut up.

You are not getting married to 3800 culture but 1 single culture from Nigeria

I feel like you just prey on desperate and poor Nigerian women whose parents will sell them for a pot of soup

Fenrir:
You don't respect your traditions stop listening to your elders

Go to a fucking library in your country and read a book written by your ancestors

If a woman isn't a fucking virgin on her wedding day then her father doesn't deserve full fucking traditions in all tribe definitions from your ancestors that started it so it's not a fucking traditions anymore

You can't stop your daughter having sex so you can't demand full traditions

You accept what are comfy with and be grateful or you deserve none

When I married yoruba wife I respectfully explained that I cannot prostrate because it's forbidden in my culture and if offered to do everything else but that's not good enough for yoruba men and even offered to stand and bow as a compromised

The greedy and selfish man still wasn't respectful so Bleep yoruba culture

You obviously don't respect your woman with what you wrote down.

It is not your culture to potrate but you are going to get a wife from another culture but you can not obey their culture.

It is obvious that the family of your ex wife are not serious people.

If you are marrying into a well respected home, you will have to potrate whether you like it or not, whether it is your tradition or not.

GanagiBitrus:
Insightful. 🤔

Though "Spiritual Practices" is still very important.

The man died and you are still saying spiritual practices is important

Fenrir:
Bleep you, that's biggest insult ever, my race is superior to all Nigerian men, not all men and not all African men but definitely all Nigerian

And Bleep yoruba culture it's not a culture anymore it's a fucking lie

Any one that believes love and marriage come with the condition of a man getting on his stomach and begging deserves to die alone

If your man's opinion on the wedding he's paying for means less then your fathers ego then marry your fucking father you inbred cock sucker

when you marry from a poor home, you become the meal.

Your culture isn't superior to mine and your culture is underneath me.

You don't respect our culture how then will you respect your woman, I pity for her

This is a message to those who don't respect people's culture.

Another truth is this, you have no access to high quality Nigerian women. They won't give you their daughter for you to disrespect them.

The only women you will ever get are those from hungry families m

Fenrir:
Not scammed
My first wife didn't want me to pay at all because her father was an abusive asshole

So for issues later I researched it behind her back
There is no law on which side it goes to because there is no law saying you have pay one

And I actually respect women not Nigerian men and sent a letter to her grandmother explaining the issue and just told her I'm sending this so please distribute it how you see fit

It is tradition to pay a bride price to the family.

Fyi, dowry practices are largely governed by cultural norms rather than legal requirements. However, it's important to note that the legal system recognizes marriage based on civil, customary, or religious laws.

If the father wasn't alive or a dead beat, the bride price will be paid to a respected family member from the father side. Since they are giving their daughter to you.

You don't respect African culture, I feel like you are an hypocrite, you want us to respect your culture but you are not respecting ours.

For instance, if you really respect our culture, you would have gone to see the family member and obey their marriage rites, rather than sending 15m naira to the family.

The reality is this, no respected family will accept that money if you are not going to do the rites.

The rites is everything not the money.

Personally, I don't trust people like you who think money can buy their way, I will be so wary to give a family member out to you for marriage

Fenrir:
Oh darling do think a secure man will take that bait? You circumcise dicks In Nigeria

We tattoo them 😊 doesn't that give you on the size difference? What Nigerian man is confident enough to whip it out in a tattoo parlour

The truth is she had 1 man before me and that man beat the shit out of her in my country so beat the crap out of him in return, from that day we were just a couple

I asked her to do something for me to experiment and she was delighted

She had accepted that she had to be faithful like a good African woman and we were both honest that's

I have no fear or worries about this, that woman is mine through and through

And this is only for 3 three years until my daughter has learned the yoruba crap and bullshit because it's not my right to steal 50% of her heritage from her no matter how much yoruba men disgust me and then we go back to Norway or maybe Sweden

Imagine calling our culture crap..that is not cool at all

But I do have my thoughts about you.

I believe you are a Nigerian

Fenrir:
Lady it was a Nigerian man that was abusing her in my country

Can tell us a short story of how she got to your country?

Fenrir:
I'm Scandinavian but my income is pounds and naira is monopoly money

15 million is a lot to you nothing to us

Just an estimate

£5,000 is like 70,000 nok and around 9,500,000 naira

You are actually dumb.

Imagine being scammed for a bride price and you are proud of it

Fenrir:
From my first yoruba wife
And I have no problem with the bride price I think that should be legally mandatory worldwide it's wonderful idea but should be drastically changed

More expensive, a man should have to prove he can provide for marriage not do bullshit traditions that mean nothing

Igbo have it right fucking monetise traditions if a man truly doesn't want to do them

It's respectful to both sides
He doesn't have to suffer humiliation and you get compensated over something you're willing to lie about

And no I didn't prostrate to marry her
I sent 15 million naira to her mothers family as a bride price because Bleep her dad and just took her
She died of cancer shortly after our girl was born
This wonderful woman now is igbo and a much more reasonable people however the igbo in imo have the same lying attitude as yoruba so no people are 100% perfect

15 million for bride price.🤣🤣

You are being exploited

budaatum:
You are ignorantly generalising that all white people think the same as the ignorant judge who generalised that "every one in the Nigerian police is corrupt".

Yes all whites think the same, they think about their own interest over other group or race

bemeruca:
You are all over the place. People fought and died against their own people and community to free the slaves.

Again, not everyone would accept blood money. It benefits them, it makes their house and street clean but they don't accept it because if their moral values.

1. sorry, you need to go read history, blacks were running away from slavery without the help of whites. there are lot of books out there, go read them and stop watching slavery movies.

2.if those whites dont accept it, they wont be living there. they would have gone to the other side of town

as long as they stay there and benefit from the work of the slaves, they will end up accepting it.

3) do you realise that it took more than 400 years for blacks to be able to vote and also to be accepted as US citizens

in 1952, they passed the Immigration and Nationality Act and in 1964, they passed the Civil Rights Act after more than 400 years of blacks living in the US

budaatum:
Do you see how you are failing to form a groupthink with bemeruca who agrees with nothing buda says, and how you are failing to form a groupthink of you and I?

Some have brains in their heads and can think for themselves instead of just following a groupthink.

lol, the group think is all that matters

because the group think supercede the individual thought

group think are what creates agendas, protest, laws and also change

10 non racist white people can not change the opinion of 200 racist people because they dont have the influence.

even when we look deeper into things, those group of racists people are influnctial in today's world, they control the media, the movie industries, policies and even academia.

They are the ones who create narratives and agendas.

to be realistic with you, you have no clue about how the world works. i think you are a person with no depth in these type of conversations.

bemeruca:
Your analogy does not factor in morality.
There are lots of people that will reject blood money even if it will benefit them.

City being clean is not enough for the two non racists to abandon their morality.

Your analogy falls short

Lol, morality my ass

The individual morality means nothing when the group are involved.

Wasn't the bible used to justify slavery.

budaatum:
You are the sort of person who would believe all Igbos hate Yorubas, and all Yorubas hate Igbos, and they all hate Fulanis and Hausas and vice versa, and if I show you tribal intermarriage, you will ignore the evidence and claim I am naive.

Some people work for the improvement of their environment, and love their neighbours regardless of tribe race and colour, because not everyone is ignorant, and not Every White Man Thinks Like Elon Musk, however it is Musk thinks. If they all did, no white person would be opposing what he does.

Just listen to yourself ignorantly generalising. Or would you like to convince me that being Nigerian makes you a scammer, and your parents are corrupt and criminals because they are Nigerian like some ignorant fuqs think?

Let me know when your generalised perception supersedes reality and changes the temperature of water please.

as i said you are naive.

let me explain something for you. , there is something called groupthink

the group supercede the individual

if 10 people of the same race are in a group, 8 racists and 2 non racists and they all live in a community

if an election is done, the 8 racists will support an individual that thinks like them to be the community leader

if the leader decides that he wants blacks to become their slaves to help make their community clean and help the farm productivity

the leader can create laws to support this idealogy and it will be approved.

now, they allow blacks to become slaves, the community is clean and productivity in the farm increased.

the community is rich but the 2 non racists benefits from the cleaniness and productivity even if they are against slavery.

soon they start seeing the positive influence of the slaves in their community and start accepting slavery

if someone from outside criticize their community, the 2 non racist will defend the law because they are benefitting from slavery, they do not want to lose the benefits they are enjoying from slavery.

The individual white might be friendly with you, says hi to you, come to your birthday party and dances with you but believe me, they will fight for their interest in the group of other whites and will never give up their economic power to be like blacks, it is just common sense.

2. you said i was ignorantly generalising, i guess you were on nairaland where a judge in canada denied a nigerian police officer assylm because the judge believed that every one in the Nigerian police is corrupt.

budaatum:
motymop posted it for that reason but thinks its all whites who don't like you.

Is it so hard for you to notice those whites are your magas?

Your comment shows that you are naive

The mistake you make is that you think only Magas hate blacks.

FYI, White liberals also hate blacks, they treat blacks like kids and feel like they can save blacks.

Both Magas and white liberals are all working for the common good of the white race.

Do you think white liberals and Magas will allow blacks to take economic power away from them..hell No.

Also I just want to ask, why do white liberals keep pushing mulattos on blacks?

They make them the leaders of all the protest groups and all the black associations.

Don't you understand that the whites are scared of losing powers to the blacks, so they will subtly take away power from blacks while stroking their egos.

budaatum:
motymop posted it for that reason but thinks its all whites who don't like you.

Is it so hard for you to notice those whites are your magas?

Your comment shows that you are naive

The mistake you make is that only Magas hate blacks.

FYI, White liberals also hate blacks, they treat blacks like kids and feel like they can save blacks.

Both Magas and white liberals are all working for the common good of the white race.

Do you think white liberals and Magas will allow blacks to take economic power away from them..hell No.

Also I just want to ask, why do white liberals keep pushing mulattos on blacks?

They make them the leaders of all the protest groups and all the black associations.

Don't you understand that the whites are scared of losing powers to the blacks, so they will subtly take away power from blacks while stroking their egos.

budaatum:
Actually, my argument is that you have no knowledge or experience of the places you talk about.


And here is you showing how little you reason, thinking a comment about one single Nigerian is "your fellow white men are saying about Nigerians", as if if you insult me you are insulting every Nigerian, or your opinion is shared by all Nigerians.

1.You think I don't have experience stop assuming.

2. You do not see big picture

How then do you think we got the scammer image? wasn't it from write ups like that. The more they write things like that, the more they create a dangerous image about Nigerians.

Isn't it the same issue in SA, the press constantly blamed Nigerians for all their crimes and then South Africans started hating on Nigerian to the extent of attacking Nigerians.

I believe you do not understand how the media works.

Considering that most whites as a group sees blacks as their enemies, it is a fact,

you know that white people are only comfortable with you to the limit they accept, once they pass that limit, they become very uncomfortable.

you also know how dicey for a black to live in an all white neighborhood.

Or do you also want to deny the fact that their are no discrimination just because you have a African sounding name.

I also hope you know that there are many white families that will disown their children for marrying a black.

Why do you think in countries where blacks and white live, there are always racial tensions?? Is it because of love??

Or why are their neighbourhoods where blacks and white only lives.

You can gaslight me as you like, only the truth will set you free

budaatum:
You have not provided any evidence to support your claims, which sound made up by someone sitting somewhere in Nigeria that has never stepped foot in a country of the white. And I have given you answers that will make you think outside the small box you limit yourself in if only you try.

Just as there are tribal Nigerians are there also racist white people, but to claim all white people are plotting and planning racism behind your back, is like claiming all Nigerians are tribal and thieves, which is obviously not true.

men! your arguement is that i have never stepped my feet outside Nigeria.

is that even an arguement?

you have never answer any of my question, you spent majority of the tim gaslighting and writing inconsequential opinions

i will like you to go through these tweet and see what your fellow white men are saying about Nigerians

https://x.com/amuse/status/1885715410898559262

budaatum:
No. Before the English came to enslave you they were enslaving themselves, and those slaves did not benefit.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slavery_in_Britain

This is like saying the general Nigerian population benefit from the looting by politicians. Do you?


Stupid people claim all Nigerians are thieves.

Are you a thief? Is your father a thief?

Should you and your father be jailed because some other Nigerian stole something?

I was talking about black slaves and not about British people.

Bro, you spent your time not answering my question rather saying things that does not relate with the subject matter.

I will be happy if you can give a reply without giving reference to situations that does not relate with the topic of discussion.

ValarDoharis:
You're talking from hear say and ignorance

Haha, you are one of the people thay call raskus

ValarDoharis:
Don't twist it. My point is you're not talking from experience but from hear say.

If you've live with both, you can make informed comparisons

haha, i am talking from heresay

yeah, they are so loving , nice and caring when you live with them

yeah, they are so nice, that a black guy was in an all white neigbourhood and they put a gun in his head.

they are so nice and lovely, that a black real estate agents was going to his home, a white woman called the police on him.

they are peaceful and nice that when you work with them, they are looking for ways to sack you by excluding you from many important activities

they are so nice that they hate immigrants

They are nice and lovely that they tell you to go back home

They are so awesome that they gaslight you anytime you call them out.

sunboy:
Again, continue.

Simple answer you can not type.

sunboy:
A simple google search will save you all these stress of typing an epistle.

Simple Google search..lol

Mentioned the whites that died in the civil right movement.

Protested with MLK

ValarDoharis:
You've not lived among the whites. I have lived with both and I can tell you for a fact.

Live among the whites..like is it an award they give