₦airaland Forum

mccloud224:
You need @ least N5,000 to prepare a fairly decent pot of soup today....most employed personnel are on N50,000 and below wages (I can't call that a salary). Transportation costs to work,rent,electricity bills,security bills,sewage bills,school fees for the kids,feeding/clothing/medical for the kids and an avalanche of miscellaneous expenses are all in that meagre wage and these are the EMPLOYED!!!! How about the unemployed who are in that state for now fault of their own?

Have you become this unreasonable or are you trying to be someone else's persona?

if the above is your justification for crimes in Nigeria then i am sorry, i dont buy it, and certainly will say:" people who think like you do and believe that stealing others is the solution, should indeed get jungle justice when caught!!!!"

here is a simple clue: the person these bastard thieves steal from are NOT the reason for poor people's misery. there are some people out there who struggle to make ends meet and manage to do so WHILE DOING WHAT IS RIGHT.... expecting now to have some lazy/greedy/ungrateful people to now go steal the little their neighbors have, just because they dont want to do what everyone else is doing (hawk pure water; go ask family for help OR simply go without for a few days), is not only CRAZY, but also wrong on any level whatsoever. whats next? blame successful/lucky/gainfully employed people for hunger in Nigeria?!

here is the possible future dilemma: if they eventually divorce, should she get her kidney back?!?!?

IMHO, just like you share everything after divorce (house etc), the kidney will be part of the settlement for the husband. lol

mccloud224:
Back in the 80's and early 90's, death by firing squad was the end for arm robbers....did that work? Today in some states the penalty for kidnapping is death, has it worked?

You see, we Africans have always had a problem long before the slave trade era...rather than surgically uproot the cause of the cancer, we go for band aid parliatives. A hungry man is an angry man....a hungry man will do anything to survive even if it means resorting to cannibalism (you watched "Oasis" back in the old days didn't you?). A hungry man is easy to manipulate/control that's why the forces that be do everything possible to keep black Africans (emphasis on BLACK) in penury by installing puppet leaders to do their bidding (I derailed...I know...lol).

You never evolved Bro....You devolved.

Sad!!!!

bro, you can blame whats happening in Nigeria to a lot of things, but HUNGER, i dont think so... there are many poor countries on earth, but only in Nigeria/Africa do you see this rampant ritual killing; kidnapping, yahoo-yahoo etc.... so abeg, you better look in the mirror for answers and stop blaming hunger for whats happening.

now, do i believe that jungle justice and/or death penalty is a solution....ABSOLUTELY FUKCING YES!!!! (if it doesnt solve the problem, it will at least get rid of these parasites in Nigerian/African society).

i wont be a hypocrite and stick my head in the sand believing that doing nothing is gonna help matters, because as much as hunger is rampant in Nigeria, i also fully understand that stealing from someone who already is struggling, is a sure death sentence.

Mufakirnaqdiun:
Now you just spoke like someone with a working brain,I mean the highlighted statement,the rest is like a kid repeating the same thing over and over again.

You could have easily said that earlier on instead of being pointless.

sadly, the problem here is that you thought i was focussing on women while i focussed on the issue at hand....same as i would if the subject of this thread was a man fucking around and being sneaky.... but helas, you automatically made this a men vs women point.

question #1: if thats what they do back home, then thats what they will believe women all over the world need from them.

question #2: thats how they are back home, highlyproficient in the act.... but the act heightens when they reach a faraway country where they see plenty plenty succulent babes to sample, and they wanna sample them all.

as they say: Naija no dey carry last whether in SA, Canada, whether with women and/or yahoo-yahoo!

SAMBARRY:
ok so giving the first abuser the taste of her own medicine will make her stop the abuse abi? And it's a strategy that you'll teach your son's in cases where they encounter or date an abusive woman?

i have always taught my kids (boys and girls) to respect everyone, until that person crosses the line. the reason so many kids today are bullied is due to that failed notion that a man shouldnt hit a woman.... while my motto has always been:"only respect people who show you respect, but if someone attacks you, you MUST defend yourself so that they dont use that negative action to belittle/degrade/offend and/or disrespect you"

whats next:" tomorrow some girl will slap and bully my son at school and he should do nothing because she is a girl? what type of madness is this? thats how bullying starts (aka when you get physically assaulted by someone "supposedly" weaker than you and do/say nothing about it)

Mufakirnaqdiun:
Same goes for men,now abeg shut up and stop yapping nonsense because it's not necessary.
Bit**, slur words,they don't make you tough.

No one is telling you not to date or fek a lady,but you coming online to ridicule and expose your hypocrisy is funny,as a matter of fact very funny that weak men like yourself try to justify feking around but condemn women that do the same.

You can't stand their attitude then bullsh*t them not coming here to trash talk.

again, i have no problem whith olosho and biatches standing proudly for what/who they are (same with men), my issue is with these undercover wh0res who pretend to be good women... same goes with men who fukc around anything in a skirt while pretending to be decent faithful men.
sadly, you are too confused to understand that because you are hellbent on making these low life wh0res look like decent women.

XshegzzyeeiX:
KEYWORD: PROTECT YOURSELF.
Kapish

bro, there is a way bigger disease that people can catch from having unprotected sex (whether with women fukcing dogs and/or even virgins),its called PREGNANCY!!!!

Mufakirnaqdiun:
And that makes you an olosho too,now what's the difference between you and the said lady?

Same way she chopped you and pass to the next person na,you guys should learn to shut up and stop acting like you are different from the ladies you are condemning.

so long as a man knows what type of woman he is dealing with, and treat her like the wh0re that she is, then i have no beef with the issue. its when these wh0res pretend to be who they are not that is not right... majority of men in Nigeria will tell these biatches straight to their face that cheating is in their genes and they cant settle with one woman...thats HONESTY compare to the nonsense game some of these biatches play so again, if these biatches act like biatches (and behonest with their hustle and just chop and clean mouth) then there would be no issue here.

advanceDNA:
because these same girls will and sleep with guys

How do you think STDs like gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV became man's problem??

Moral of the story...lets be careful who we jump into bed with it

A) yeye women who have sex with dogs dont go around telling everyone that they have sex with dogs
B) there was STDs way before women started having sex with dogs... as for HIV, lets not even go there.
C) it doesnt matter who you jump into bed with, so long as you protect yourself by wearing a goddamn condom!

some women sha!!!

here is your education of the day: no dude leaves a woman for being ugly, as you were already ugly when he started dating you. so whatever is the reason they left you, it wont be any different whether you look like Beyonce or Ninjaman (aka your old photo)

electricity that the gov cant provide to common people, na that one you want to put on train... god forbid!

fineboynl:
When same girls OLOSHO leave there house they already arrnage 2 or more guys place they will go. They go from one place to the other. It's dangerous because if anything happens to the girl police will trace all the calls she made that day and places she visit. You might find yourself in some situation where yly cannot answer questions.

There is this girl that will visit places before mine. As a sharp man her timing is not good. So I have been avoiding her but she doesn't now. I love timing anything short of that will make me not comfortable and the this set of girls lies alot.

FIXED
thou shall not try to date/marry oloshoes,... just chop your own and pass her along to the next broda to chop his own. there is care in sharing the toto!

why would anyone care what happens when insane people have sex with dog?! only highly mentally deranged people do that, and they dont care what kind of prehistoric diseases they will catch... so why should we?!

see this grandma feasting on our future young generation... BWAAAAAAH!!!!!

abeg broda, be proud of your grandpa's agemate, like Regina, and good luck in your future misery.

SAMBARRY:
broda brownjay I get where you are coming from but VIOLENCE DOESN'T QUELL VIOLENCE.yoruba said someone has to be a goat and someone has to be a sheep.if any woman gets violent instead of touching her and then become the next osinachi husband whose picture is splattered all over the pages of newspapers and Social media,it's more sensible to either get her arrested or chase her out.

lets not try to confuse the issue here, the problem here is not the abused, its the abuser.... trying to accommodate that abusive person is NEVER the way to solve any problem. that person needs to realize that what they are doing is NOT RIGHT.... and what better way to teach them this great lesson but to serve them a piece of their own medicine?

If she hits you and you attack her back under the name self defence if she go die for ya hand, nobody go remember or care say na she hit you first.them go say otipayan.you don kill person

if not because of self defense, the above Nigerian (who died at the hand of this female abuser) would still be alive today... can you truly face his family, children and say the above with a straight face?

When they say don't hit a woman because she's misbehaving or she attacked you first,it's not really because of anything but the CONSEQUENCES of hitting her as we all know that the men are physically stronger and so if you hit her out of anger in response to an assault, anything can happen and the consequences isn't always Nice.youre teaching the kids wrong values that if a woman hits a man it's ok for him to hit her back instead of teaching them other conflict resolution skills

shouldnt you instead tell women:" dont physically attack men because of the consequence of such failed action"?! the reason why so many women today have the audacity to even raise their hands on men is because of that failed notion that a man shouldnt hit back....but these days are over... we live in a world where everyone is getting whats coming for them, TIT FOR TAT!!!

plus one of the characteristics of being a real man is SELF CONTROL

go tell that to the man who presently lies 6 feet under, thanks to "self control"... haba!

who is that man? her brother, her ex, her family member, her secret admirer, her colleague etc?! who exactly is he?

Ogechi98:
sorry am bringing this post to this forum cause I really need advice no insults please. Am currently in a long distance relationship with this girl who hails from edo state and we have dated for like a year and some months now and I really do love this girl and have made it know to her parents while am still trying to fix myself that I want to settle down with her. But about a months ago we both had a conversation and she told me she will be travelling to Italy to further her education, at some point I was in shock cause of the things have heard about edo girls who travel to Italy. I asked her who was going to sponsor her trip to Italy and she told me she has been saving money for it even before we met and this got me even more confused than I was and when I asked her who she was going to stay with when she gets to Italy, she told me she has a cousin who works in Italy as a midwife that she was gonna stay with her for just a month before getting her own apartment. The truth is am really confused cause I feel like there's more to this trip that she's not telling me about and lastly when I asked her when she will be returning she told me she doesn't know and that I shouldn't pause my life for her.. am really confused cause this is a girl have made up my mind to be with for life but all of a sudden it feels like everything is falling apart and I just don't know what to do..

some many RED FLAGS in your story:
1) ask her to open her phone and show you the convo she has with her cousin
2) ask her to show you how much she has to travel abroad
3) ask her to show you what exact further education (Uni/school) she is gonna go to
4) ask her to explain to you how she is going to study and get her own apt in Italy (or she thinks its that easy abi?)
5) sometimes in life, if you guys dont have the same aim, then you should part ways, rather than waste time/energy with the wrong person.
6) if that person had such a well laid plan to go study abroad, you would have known sooner....sounds more like a last minute yeye opportunity to go abroad for yeye slave type employment and/or some fancy dude enticed your woman.

all these people driving with learner's permit, still trying to argue when its obvious she is at fault....yeye lying xtian who will afterwards go to church and pretend they are saints!

many countries has had that feature for years....its just a foolish way to make people consume/spend more. in many South American countries, even when you go to a supermarket or buy anything with your card, they will ask you how many payment split you desire, before charging you.


these interest free splits, just make it easier for people to foolishly buy buy buy, when they may not have the money to do so. same as credit.... just another way to enslave people.... and keep people living from paycheck to paycheck.

Flamemignon1:
Well I can assure you that gay men don't see women as an enemy rather most see them as a friend (gay hag),they are just not attracted to them. You still don't want to use the right term to describe these men

thats the perfect term i am using.... women are the enemy to gay men because these homos believe women are taking food off their plates (probably why they sometimes wanna act as women to entice other men)... so technically, these are men thinking like women. this is similar to we (men) seeing other men as our competition, simply because we hunt for the same gender.

elasticlala:
She’s not suffering from the use of any hard drug nor mental illness. I have just explained the whole circumstances that surrounded her actions and intentions. I think that is enough premise for anyone to make recommendation.

only someone on hard drugs or with mental illness will think in such a failed way as the above...

here is a clue: if drugs are bad, then NEVER TAKE THEM! but if you are now so sick and decide to take them, then i see no reason why this person cant keep the baby until they find out FOR CERTAIN if the baby has been affected by the drug (as if Malaria drugs is the cause for foetus malformation)... dont be a hypocrite.
but most importantly: people thinking in such a fouled way shouldnt bring children to this world, as you wouldnt be FIT ENOUGH mentally to care for a child. drugs are good and helping people all over the world. if you believe that you need to be on your death bed before using meds then you wont be a good parent. HEALTH IS WEALTH!!!

Flamemignon1:
Dude, please....gay men have nothing to do with your redpill movement and you know it,hell,you even wrote it in your comment,these men are straight but sexist pigs who've literally been hurt by women whilst changing the substance of the original "redpill" philosophy to save face so why on earth would you brand them gay when gay men don't hate women or want anything to do with your heteronormative way of life? Is it to shame them because I still don't get it? I still don't know why y'all keep bringing gay men to heteronormative conversations? No matter how mean or heartless a woman is to a straight man,he will still be straight and nothing else, instead please call them what they are "misogynist rebranding the redpill to fit their own narrative". These men are far from gay and are even more homophobic,queer men already have enough on their plate and to be branded misogynist is just fowl. Just as you don't want this "assholes" to be associated with the movement, it's the same way we also don't want to be associated with them

anyone who sees women as the "enemy" is thinking like a gay man!

kennosklint:
there is no means of reaching her now she begged me not to call the number that she sneaked the phone to call

there are many ways to find out where the phone is currently and from there to locate the girl....but as i said earlier, you will need some powerful men to sort this out.
here is what you can do: check if that number is on whatsapp/FB... get some info on the owner of the phone. you can have someone from that country make some BS call to the phone number to pretend they won a prize bla bla and get some more info on the owner of the phone.

OR just get 1.5m and pay these human traffickers to get her freedom (hopefully this isnt a fake story to extort you)!

doncurrent:
Why go back to the job you hate?

Have you ever asked yourself the question?
You hate the job you do but everyday you wake up. You head toward the route to the same job.

life is not about immediate satisfaction...it takes time to be able to BE FREE to do what you desire in life. many wont be that lucky and would instead do something they hate for the rest of their natural lives... their only statisfaction would be that they will be able to pay rent and put foot on their table.

BTW your above question (and that state of mind) is the reason why so many go into prostitution/yahoo-yahoo/crime etc... aka they wanna cut corners in life to attain what they dont deserve.

kennosklint:
Hello everyone! . Please how can a girl of 16 be rescued from indulging into prostitution in Burkina faso. she was deceived by the so called sponsor that a job has already been kept for to work in a restaurant. although she was advised not to go by many that care but she didn’t listen. She sneaked a phone to call me that her phone has been seized and she has been kept in one room to do prostitution that if she must go back she have to pay 1.5m. please in a situation like this what can one do? Please help nairaland … she is little girl with bright future, the reasons why she didn’t listen to advice not to go still confused me.

ask for her location FIRST then get some powerful men involved to go rescue her... when she is safely back, go after the person who deceived her with all your might!

sadly, if the child was foolish enough to fall into this BS, who knows what next she will delve into, when you rescue her.

imagine this BASTARD SON.... as if your sidechic does NOT belong to the street. this son should be flogged mercilessly for this BS. a hoe is a hoe, and should be treated like such. how dare he wanna selfishly keep that olosho all for himself?!!

foolish are men who meet hoes and wanna treat them like GFs.

Asceleb16:
Final!
You've nailed it
I see nothing here than a strong bitterness towards the other gender

some dude get dumped and/or played by a woman, and they will just turn to redpill, thinking that this movement is about getting revenge on women. that aint it.

the redpill movement is about teaching men to be stronger EMOTIONALLY to deal with women.. and certainly not to hate/demonize all women