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DaddyCoool:
Don't lie. Below is your very first statement which was what I reacted to!

bro, YES ITS A SAD STATEMENT FOR A +30YR OLD MAN TO SAY THAT HE HAS NEVER LOVED ANYONE IN HIS WHOLE LIFE... which is exactly what was stated as what Falz said in the OP's post!

You keep saying he never loved anyone. He loves his family! He just has been clear-eyed and strong willed enough to not suddenly "fall in love" with some "wonderful" girl!

we are talking romantic love here, right? you guys make very little sense, so whats so bad about falling in love with a wonderful woman? is it the end of the world? blasphemy? whats wrong with loving a woman that you may end up spending the rest of your life with (and possibly have a family with)?!

You love your family because they are YOUR family. Romantic love is not a random emotion. Ask people who became celebrities or rich how many girls suddenly fall in love with them - they who couldn't get a date while unknown or poor.

stop bringing irrelevant issues about goldigging useless greedy women who will say they love someone just because he has money. are you now claiming that EVERY SINGLE CELEBRITY ON EARTH IARE MARRIED TO GOLDIGGING GREEDY USELESS MONEY HUNGRY WOMEN?

Same way lots of men will fall in love with a girl who artificially becomes beautiful than when she was ugly. They willfully become blind to their negatives because they want to close to some positive they possess.

majority of men and women get attracted/interested in someone from their look (1st and foremost) and thats what will make such person decide to approach somebody and want to get to know them better. when was the ast time you heard someone say:" oh look at this fugly person, let me approach and get to know them because they might have great character"... NEVER!!! it doesnt work like that. your physical outlook is what INITIALLY attracts someone towards you, and then as you get closer to such person , you get to know him/her deeper and may or not fall in love with them. some do, other dont. the catch is to always open yur mind rather than being narrow/closed minded, as you are.

Do you think Sampson would have still loved Delilah if he opened his eyes and saw her for what she really was? He wanted to be close to that beauty and he let that override everything else

lets stick to FACTS rather than yeye useless fables in the sky... shall we? whats next, quote Harry Potter and Spiderman?!

malali:
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he even directly mentioned people like you in his statement (below):

this is obviously coming from the same people who would rather continue importing petrol from their (yeye) refinery in Malta.”

bro Malali
come see news that will make you have a slight anal discomfort (no offense), lol!

ALLELUJAH!!!
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/11/haleighluja.gif

same bible that always depicts jesus, Abraham, Moses AND all of his 12 disciples as white men, while they all came from a middle eastern region, practicing a middle eastern religion and speaking a middle eastern language (aka semites). lol!

DaddyCoool:
No one said there is something wrong with saying I love you. Just don't label someone who doesn't say it "sad"

pls do not misunderstand me nor claim what i didnt say... here below is again what i stated:

MrBrownJay1:
again, Falz is in mid 30s... if you havent loved anyone in your life by your mid 30s then you are a very sad person...

aka its one thing to not say it to anyone but its a totally different ballgame f you have never loved anyone at mid 30s.

ROMANTIC love is a fallacy (albeit a delicious one - we all want to be in romantic love) because it is always based on exaggeration of the other person's positive attributes while being blind to their negatives

but ROMANTIC LOVE has absolutely nothing to do with someone being perfect, its just an emotion like any other. your parents aint perfect but you still love them, isnt it? your child aint perfect but you would still love him/her, right? why do you think it should be any different with romantic love? some people out there are LIARS/THIEVES/HANDICAPPED/DISHONEST/DECEITFUL etc and there are people who still love them regardless. thinking that because someone has negative traits they cant be love, shows us all you dont understand what love is.

or better yet...

pryme:
So the Egyptians are black Africans now?
As far as Black (NEGROES) are concern this is a load of nonsense.
Mention the Negroes that built the first ships that has been documented, add citations while you are it.

Educate yourself on the Kemets... so we dont have to do it for you
due to its location, Egypt consisted of a various type of race and people (Black/middle eastern mix), thus why the earliest images of Egyptians often look like the below:

DaddyCoool:
Much of the obligated "I love you"'s are phoney, hence you next hear they shot the person.
As for a man being in love, it is not me saying it, there are lots if sayings that a man in love is a fool.

if you are in love then there is nothing "obligated" here. thats your emotion and no man/woman should be afraid to tell someone they love how they feel. whats the big deal here?

Falz obviously loves his mum, dad etc. What he meant was "in love" with some girl because he convinced himself in his head that she had all sorts of unbelievable wonderful attributes.

- are you now saying that NO woman on earth has "unbelievable wonderful attributes"?
- are you now claiming that anyone who is in love is fake or delusional?
- i mean, if you can love your parents/siblings etc, why do you think it would be so difficult to love someone that is only romantically related to you?

she should sit right at the front of class, since she is a dwarf and probably cant see the lecturer (nor anything the lecturer writes on the board) either.

ElSudani:
And way smarter. I suspect Trump will not debate her.

so far he says he will, as soon as she becomes the dems nominee (which she is isnt yet)... which is fully understandable from Trump. at the end of the day, he cant avoid having a debate with Harris, if she is nominated.

Trump should only debate with the democrate's candidate and nobody else...

DaddyCoool:
They didn't use internet or cell phones because they didn't have them. Nothing prevented from saying anything they chose to say - they had mouths. But they were not comfortable with being phoney.

exactly.... same as it was not customary to say i love you back then to a woman. hell, some African men cant even say it today, even if their life depended on it. are you now claiming that a man in love is phoney and/or a man saying he is in love with a woman is phoney?!

He didn't say he'd never loved anyone, he's just smart enough to see through romantic love, to know that it is a fallacy!

again, he said the following:
- "I have never said ‘I love you’ to anybody. I have never been in love or gotten to that level of emotional commitment before,"

pretty straight forward dont you think (or do you still doubt that he has never loved anyone)?

fineboynl:
The black people never built a ship to explore the world. at the peak of civilization in Europe and asea the black people where completely cut off.

Until henry the navigator built the first ship sea worthy to sail and explore the African continent. Black people never think of building a ship for exploration neither school, education or written text.

The lag is among the major reason black people still lagging behind other race.

what a sad statement, when it is well known that the earliest ship on earth were made by EGYPTIANS (which means Africans)... and just because they didnt try to use their ship to conquer the world, doesnt make them any inferior to others.

as for education, abeg educate yourself on the subject so we dont have to do it for you... if you go to any mathematic/geometry class in the world, you will be told that math and geometry was discovered by Archimedes and Euclid, when in fact Sumerians (aka Africans from the Nile region) were using mathematic/geometry from as far as 3500 BCE... we are are talking about mathematics (from African scholars) that is 3000years older than when your so called European scholars (Archimedes/Euclid) were even born.

Ballzproblemm:
no be black people they represent France ?

if you had some geography education, you would know about Guadeloupe/Martinique/French Guyana etc which are all part of France territories (like Hawaii is to the US) populated by majority of back people. so nobody would bat an eyelid in France with a black miss France, which we've already had 4 times (1993, 2000, 2009 and 2013).

Blue3k:
Last year's winner was white or colored. Nobody is guaranteed Victory this a competition afterall. The sentiment being expressed here is about her ethnicity and culture. I would be speculating to say they don't want other races to compete.

obviously the problem with South Africans is that her father is Nigerian and only her mother is SA, and since she has a Nigerian name she is more Nigerian than South Africans, which is totally false... but i understand why they would think like that (with their xenophobic history etc)

DaddyCoool:
Sad statement my ass, insecurity my foot. This is a MAN. Our great forefathers didn't go about saying "I love you". Besides, most, if not all, romantic "I love you" are either false or based on some figment of imagination in the sayers head, that is not the person they're saying it to!

your great grandfather didnt use the internet nor had cellphones as well, should you now say that someone who has never been on the internet nor has a mobile phone(in this day and age) is a great person?

again, Falz is in mid 30s... if you havent loved anyone in your life by your mid 30s then you are a very sad person...

what a sad statement...

i can fully understand them... thats the same as a if a black person was representing China, the Chinese would be complaining/rioting about it too.

imagine a Ghanaian or a white person representing Nigeria?

henndukwe18:
a womans physical appearance stl matters in love

of course it does, but after 6yrs together, they should have a bit more than just physical appearance that keeps them together. so as much as her appearance may be off, he should have the patience to communicate and try to work through their issues. if appearance is the only thing that keeps them together, then their relationship is empty.

malali:
I see that you have been handed a narrative as well to push ignoramusly
Malta is an alleged storing / blending station prior to transportation, It is not a refinery. But i doubt you have the capacity to know the difference.
Nigeria is fixing its refineries. We are not going from frying pan to fire out of desperation.
There is no agreement anywhere between the government and Dangote to sell crude oil to him on completion of his refinery.
650k bpd is the output of the hardware, that doesn't necessarily mean it will run at full capacity anytime soon, there are so many other factos involved.
Why doesn't he run the refinery first for the world to see, independent of government. Even if its a 1 million bpd capacity.
He has not made allocation for adequate midstream, now he is trying to get the FGN to fund his midstream.
You are an enemy of your own sense. Thats why you never use it.

what else do you see in your crystal ball?!?
- whatever Malta is, thats where the gov got their converted/refined crude for the past +5yrs.... while they can now get a cheaper/better quality product from Dangote's refinery. ONLY A VERY FOOLISH GOV WOULD GO AGAINST THAT!
- we have heard that yeye "Nigeria is fixing its local refineries" for the past 20yrs and so far $40Billion has been wasted doing so, with that same yeye tale by moonlight... and you are the one talking about protecting your sovereignty?! you must be a comedian.
- its obvious you are just blindly against Dangote's refinery, regardless of how it will better the lives of Nigerians. you are so hellbent on being against the man, you forget the good FOR THE NIGERIAN NATION that could come out of his refinery. what a shame!

ENEMY OF PROGRESS INDEED!

lol the coming protest is having these people put their propaganda machine in full steam...
CUNT-E-NEW!

SAMBARRY:
practicing pedophilia under the pretext of religion and culture is wrong. An underage girl has no business with sex much less the burden of marriage.let kids be kids.

sadly, the world is falling apart and now kids can decide to have sex and/or change their gender and there is not much an adult can do. kids are not considered kids any longer, they are adults in the minds of many.

who are we kidding? so many communities are marrying children... mormons do it everyday, muslims do it everyday, hindus do it everyday, some Eastern Europe communities do it everyday.... can you imagine that soon some grown adults could say that they IDENTIFY AS A 12YR OLD, and they probably will be taken seriously?!

malali:
Thats the catch, there will never be cheaper petrol from Dangote refinery.......NEVER !!
Thats the "bait". After you sell him crude then the "switch" will come. The trick is called Bait and Switch.
If he can produce cheaper petrol, he doesn't need the government. Let him buy his crude oil from the open market and produce the cheaper petrol.

Nobody is stopping him from
1-Buying crude anywhere he likes.
2- Selling petrol at any price to whomever he desires.

If he brings Petrol and sells for 400 naira a liter, you think the government will stop him......NO
He is struggling to get monopoly on Day 1. Without even a proven business model, trying to cash in on the gullibility of Nigerians.
This refinery has not produced 100 litres of Petrol, instead they are struggling to corner the crude market dominant share and the petrol purchase dominant share on Day 1 of business.

If thats not the craziest business model in the world, Tell me what is !!!!

A) why should he go and get crude anywhere else in the world or from anyone else when Nigeria has crude in Nigeria AND Nigeria needs a functioning refinery? why waste money using some yeye Malta refinery at a higher cost while you could get it cheaper in Nigeria FROM A NIGERIAN REFINERY!
B) again, the minute Dangote "supposedly" starts selling petrol at a higher price (as you assume), it will be VERY easy to put him out of business.... by simply going back to using the Malta yeye connection.
C) from the get go, this whole refinery business was in conjunction with the gov, thus why they have a share in Dangote's refinery... to even think that there was never a deal for that refinery to take care of ALL Nigeria's needs is a joke. why waste time and money to build the biggest refinery in Nigeria then?
D) that Dangote refinery can take care of ALL Nigeria's needs AND MORE (with a capacity of 650K bpd)... therefore since Nigeria and its 4 old and broken yeye refineries CANT solve Nigeria's issues (and using foreign refineries is a waste of money), why would anyone be against a BRAND NEW NIGERIAN REFINERY SOLVING NIGERIA'S FUEL NEEDS?!

what you are saying is the definition of being an ENEMY OF PROGRESS (by using unproven/failed assumptions to deprive Nigerians of a better life)

let them call this march for what it is... aka LEARN HOW TO FUCKING SWIM BEFORE ENTERING ANY BODY OF WATER DAY

greenermodels:
raping of minor are legally of two types, forcefully raping her and raping her with her consent which is termed as statutory rape. He committed statutory rape which is the same with underaged marriage. That the girls parents gave their consent is meaningless in law, they can even be charged as accomplices

you are saying only half the truth, remember that yeye Nigerian senator who married that child a few years ago... because her parents gave their consent to such marriage, was the reason he was able to marry such child, and make their union LEGAL... same with adult mormons all over the world marrying children (with the consent of their own mormon parents).

there has been no less than 500K marriage of underage girls to adult men in the US alone (mostly in the mormon community), in the last 10years.

i knew my Nigerian people will not deceive us...P0RN and BETTING have 7 of the top 10 spots (with p0rn leading the charge)...UNA WELL DONE!!!!

if Maradona is not in your top 5 then i am sorry but i cannot take you seriously...

40yroldman:
Guys, The girl I want to get married to is the last born in her family and she's fond of her dad. They are close to the point she tells him about all of our activities. I don't have any problem with their closeness.

Where i have issues is her father is insisting that we will live in one of his houses which he will gift us as a wedding gift.
I like this girl and I want to wife her but this wish of her dad doesn't just seat right with me, how will I not take my wife to my own house after getting married.
I've told her about my concerns on this issue but she prefer to do her dad's bidding than give me any consideration.
Guys , do you think it's proper for us to live in her dad's house after marriage?

so you dont have your own house, someone gives you a free house to live in (as wedding gift), so that you guys can save for your own house etc, but you will refuse because thats her father's house (and will rather waste money on renting a house)?

let me ask: do you have money to buy your own house right now?

its going to be a fight to the finish line, even though Trump is still leading, Kamala Harris is going full steam right now (and she still aint nominated as presidential candidate for the dems yet)

malali:
You make good points. I also agree with you that Nigerian government and NNPC has failed us. I however strongly think Dangote is in it for his profits. We have clear antecedents in the cement manufacturing. Nigerians do not benefit in anyway from having the largest cement manufacturer despite all the free raw materials and concessions, where he would have had to pay for if he was located in another country.
I do not know if you are ready to be objective or you are emotionally blinded due to the sufferings in Nigeria. Cement prices should be cheapest in Nigeria in the whole world.
But guess who pockets all the profit to the detriment of Nigerians. People like you are now advocating we should hand over the oil/gas sector to him.

come on bro, OFF COURSE DANGOTE IS IN IT FOR MONEY, why would you think he will invest his hard earned $20B, if not for profit? the catch is that, in doing so, he will most definitely also help NIGERIA (who are failing miserably with its 4 yeye refinery) and help NIGERIANS get lower prices for fuel....
now sadly, you are using your misplaced emotions to believe that its cheap to manufacture cement and/or to transport it etc. just because someone goes into an industry today, doesnt mean that prices are gonna stay the same forever.... prices of EVERYTHING is more expensive today, but there is a limit to it. the reason why all food in Nigeria are expensive is because of outrageous price of fuel, so when Nigeria get cheaper fuel (which they should get with baba Dangote) then automatically price of transporting that same food will crash, thus bringing food back to its normal price.

explain to me how price of cement should be cheapest in the world in Nigeria...especially when
A) mining for the raw material needed to create cement (limestone/gypsum) has gone sky-high in the last 10years.
B) price of diesel goes up so the price to run all the machinery to create cement goes up too
C) where do you think all the machinery to manufacture cement come from (if not abroad)? so with imported machinery and imported spare arts to repair these machineries (that you pay in Dollars), you need to understand that the price of that same dollar will impact cement production too
D) inflation plays a big part in this equation too... so just as anything else out there, price of cement has to follow the market trend. dont blame Dangote for that, blame the Nigerian gov.
E) since you claim Dangote has a monopoly on cement in Nigeria, abeg, do tell us how much are the prices of Lafarge cement, BUA Cement or UNICEM Cement? are they any cheaper than Dangote own? if it was only a Dangote issue (and not a market issue), then all other cement manufacturers in Nigeria would be half price cheaper than Dangote cement na (and people would by the other cement brands and not Dangote own)... better yet, why should the profit of DANGOTE CEMENT (aka something he manufactures himself) go to Nigerians?!?!?!

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, please, explain to me, as if i was a 5yr old child, how on earth will Dangote pocket all the profit "at the detriment of Nigerians"? the gov still makes the exact same profit from Dangote that they would make if/when they use foreign refineries anyway (the catch is that Dangote's refinery is in Nigeria and no international transaction nor middle men will be needed, thus making the process cheaper)? or do you believe Dangote gets the crude oil FOR FREE to "convert" and sell for his own pocket/profit, abi ( so now gov just give free crude oil to refineries)?!

the fact that you believe that the gov will "give crude oil to Dangote refinery scott free" instead of understanding that Dangote will have to pay for it (how can he get crude oil for free to sell for his own benefit?!?!?!?!), makes me understand you guys dont understand what a refinery does.