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40yroldman:
According to the doctors, in a few months, the illness she has battled with since birth will take her life.
Though she’s trusting God for a miracle, she has come to accept her fate and is getting ready for the inevitable.
She wishes for us to marry before she passes, she has more faith in her demise than in her recovery.....the pain becomes unbearable for her sometimes 💔
She asked if I’d remarry after she’s gone and I told her I wouldn’t.
Should I marry her now or wait until after her death before contemplating marriage?😭😭😭

bestofnollywood:
A United States reporter who works for the Wall Street Journal, Evan Gershkovich, was sentenced to 16 years in a Russian penal colony on Friday for “espionage,” a verdict reached after three weeks of secretive hearings condemned by Washington as a sham.
Russia has a policy of not exchanging prisoners internationally unless they have already been convicted, potentially paving the way for Gershkovich to be swapped in a deal.
The 32-year-old, who pleaded not guilty, became the first journalist in Russia to be charged with spying since the Cold War when he was detained in the Russian city of Yekaterinburg in March 2023.
Gershkovich was sentenced to “punishment in the form of imprisonment for a term of 16 years in a strict regime colony,” Judge Andrei Mineyev said, announcing the verdict as the reporter stood in a glass cage.
The US Government and his employer said the charges against him are false and believe he is being held as a “bargaining chip” to secure the release of Russians convicted abroad...

Stephen2324:
Divorced women are dating married men, but they divorced because of a man cheating .....

tallfish145:
Please i want to know if a man that has one or two children later become impotent and can't impregnant a woman again

Tobichima:
I scammed your father ni? If we begin check you profile now, e no go dey funny

Everyday247:
it's very strange that there people who have time to search people's past posts (No offence intended).
At least my case no bad reach some people.(If you know what i mean)

Tobichima:
Who be this one? You can read there that i'm no longer using those? Btw, what are you even doing? Ass licking sapasenator so he can send you 2k? Gosh!! You are bigger than this mehn

Everyday247:
What about me? Am I one of them?

Everyday247:
I know you have at least N50. Help me with it.

Everyday247:
Boss sub me N50 na.

Everyday247:
Help me with N50, i will pay you back on Saturday.

Everyday247:
Reason me N50 na.

Everyday247:
Ok. Help me with N30 then. 🙏😢

Everyday247:
Someone should sub me airtime make i use watch the video.

Everyday247:
share something with your guy na.

Sapasenator:
Thanks I will be careful. I once sent something to Abba1990.

Tobichima:
Good evening sir

Tobichima:
To everyone who i have wronged, online or offline, i am here to say i am sorry. Especially those i have stolen from, scammed, and even those i promised giveaway then. I am deeply sorry.

Here is a list of my alternate (though some are alter ego).

1. Hathawaystark (fake life)

2. Retribution007 (alter ego)

3. ProjectNEXT

4. EvilRampage (alter ego)

5. Madara01 (deactivated)

6. Mrreverse (deactivated)

I have tried to deactivate them but i use temp mail to open them so i cant get link/code to deactivate them. From henceforth, i have stopped using them.
I need some good karma.
Pls if any of my alt have scammed you before, or you know anyone i have scammed, kindly come with evidence, so that i can begin to plan how to return it.
Thanks!!

Sapasenator:
I honestly agree with you but sometimes I try to give a little bit of a wiggle room to see if he can prove himself.

I know he has begged under different monikers and I believe I interacted with him before but the country is not smiling and these people are trying to survive the best they could.
I just gave out 300k this week to a cousin and supported another with 100k to complete house rents.
Some people don't have relatives like me for a backup so from time to time I try to assist complete third parties not related to me as contribution to my country.

He has always maintained the consistency of being a private teacher and we know the pay quite on the low side bordering on exploitations.

If he is willing to subject himself to my intense scrutiny, I may be able to take a chance on him.

Sapasenator:
Opanka, know I spoke with you before with s different moniker. When you are making a request and depending on the generosity of others, you need to be patient with them and not to be rude if they are not complying with your timeline. It is your emergency not mine so learn patience.

I will verify that you are indeed a teacher.
I will verify your employment letter as a teacher with your last paycheck.
I will need evidence of the price of the marker.
Then if satisfied, I will finance your board markers. This may take couple of days so don't be angry if I do not respond immediately.

Opanka44:
Sometimes, I feel really discouraged with the happenings in our dear country. I try to understand why some people are so so Rich, while others are poorer than the church rat. I watched the money being splashed and sprayed at some occasions, and I wonder why some people can't even meet their essential needs. The disparity in wealth is just so much and intimidating/tormenting.

Now, here is the matter.
My house was sold in mid-April this year. Before it was sold out, I was paying 80k rent. Now that it has been sold out, the new landlord is asking for 120k. Right from the very first day I was introduced to him, he hasn't stopped pestering me with calls. We are only just three tenants in the entire building.
Nobody knew the house was going to be sold and there was never a prior notification of rent increment by the old landlord. Of the three tenants, I've been the only one showing concern and willingness to pay. There's a tenant who still has four months to the expiration of his rent, but the new landlord is asking him to pay the new rent. The second tenant's rent expired in February and mine expired just last month. But in all these, the new landlord isn't concerned about whether or not our rents have expired, all he wants is his New Rent. Personally, I have offered him half(60k) of the rent, but he refused and said he wants his money in full. All my pleas have fallen on deaf ears. He's threatening to throw me in two days time alongside other co-tenants.
I've become worried and depressed as a result of this. I don't know anybody in this new town, I don't have parents. No relatives who can help. I'm just alone in this world after managing to train myself in sch. I can't even face the embarrassment of been thrown out of a house with my belongings. If God can help nip this issue in the bud, I will forever be grateful and faithful to God and it would be the greatest miracle that has ever happened in my life.
I don't have a girlfriend, I don't drink, smoke, club or gamble. I'm just a private sch teacher. I couldn't save ahead due to the payment of my kid sister's tuition fees two months ago.

Opanka44:
Sometimes, I feel really discouraged with the happenings in our dear country. I try to understand why some people are so so Rich, while others are poorer than the church rat. I watched the money being splashed and sprayed at some occasions, and I wonder why some people can't even meet their essential needs. The disparity in wealth is just so much and intimidating/tormenting.

Now, here is the matter.
My house was sold in mid-April this year. Before it was sold out, I was paying 80k rent. Now that it has been sold out, the new landlord is asking for 120k. Right from the very first day I was introduced to him, he hasn't stopped pestering me with calls. We are only just three tenants in the entire building.
Nobody knew the house was going to be sold and there was never a prior notification of rent increment by the old landlord. Of the three tenants, I've been the only one showing concern and willingness to pay. There's a tenant who still has four months to the expiration of his rent, but the new landlord is asking him to pay the new rent. The second tenant's rent expired in February and mine expired just last month. But in all these, the new landlord isn't concerned about whether or not our rents have expired, all he wants is his New Rent. Personally, I have offered him half(60k) of the rent, but he refused and said he wants his money in full. All my pleas have fallen on deaf ears. He's threatening to throw me in two days time alongside other co-tenants.
I've become worried and depressed as a result of this. I don't know anybody in this new town, I don't have parents. No relatives who can help. I'm just alone in this world after managing to train myself in sch. I can't even face the embarrassment of been thrown out of a house with my belongings. If God can help nip this issue in the bud, I will forever be grateful and faithful to God and it would be the greatest miracle that has ever happened in my life.
I don't have a girlfriend, I don't drink, smoke, club or gamble. I'm just a private sch teacher. I couldn't save ahead due to the payment of my kid sister's tuition fees two months ago.

Opanka44:
Good afternoon brothers and sisters, pls i want to beg anyone here in Allah's name to pls help me with something to use in buying foodstuffs to cook and eat. Haven't eaten for three days now.
813-150-5075 Opay
God bless you

Jimmur:
Pls who will now gift me something to feed on. The hunger has caused me depression, anxiety and total sadness. I'm in despair. Someone pls help me. Nothing is too small. God bless the giver.
813-150-5075 OPAY
🙏🙏🙏

MisterBanny:
81-3-15-0-5-075 OPAY.
It will help in no small measure sir. I'll buy a Mudu of white beans, buy sweet potatoes and refill my gas. Haven't eaten today. God bless and increase you in all you do sir. Amen

Opanka44:
If you continue to give me fish without teaching me how to catch fish, I will continue to beg for fish. I have vowed to be self-dependent and create wealth for myself. People often say that teacher in private schools are not sufficiently renumerated and as such, poor. Well, this is Truth to a large extent, but to a larger extent, anyone can decide not to follow such widespread narrative. A few teachers are making fortunes from what they earn and are living well with their families. Some teachers are even richer than medical doctors and other professionals.
Everyone here knows I am a Teacher and I'm proud to say this wherever I go to. My passion for this job is Undisputed.
This is Long holiday. All I'm asking for is support to enable me purchase two Whiteboards and Markers to start a Summer lesson. Even after the holiday, the lesson can still continue for JAMB, WAEC, NECO, NABTEB etc... If this is done, I will be financially and economically liberated.
Equip me so I don't come here and be seeking for help. I know there are lots of good people on this platform who can help me. If you teach a child, you've invariably taught a Nation. I love to teach.
Thank you and forever be blessed.

Opanka44:
Good afternoon brothers and sisters, pls i want to beg anyone here in Allah's name to pls help me with something to use in buying foodstuffs to cook and eat. Haven't eaten for three days now.
813-150-5075 Opay
God bless you

Jimmur:
Pls who will now gift me something to feed on. The hunger has caused me depression, anxiety and total sadness. I'm in despair. Someone pls help me. Nothing is too small. God bless the giver.
813-150-5075 OPAY
🙏🙏🙏

MisterBanny:
81-3-15-0-5-075 OPAY.
It will help in no small measure sir. I'll buy a Mudu of white beans, buy sweet potatoes and refill my gas. Haven't eaten today. God bless and increase you in all you do sir. Amen

Opanka44:
Education is a tool to wipe away Poverty-ARISTOTLE
If you continue to give me fish without teaching me how to catch fish, I will continue to beg for fish. I have vowed to be self-dependent and create wealth for myself. People often say that teacher in private schools are not sufficiently renumerated and as such, poor. Well, this is Truth to a large extent, but to a larger extent, anyone can decide not to follow such widespread narrative. A few teachers are making fortunes from what they earn and are living well with their families. Some teachers are even richer than medical doctors and other professionals.
Everyone here knows I am a Teacher and I'm proud to say this wherever I go to. My passion for this job is Undisputed.
This is Long holiday. All I'm asking for is support to enable me purchase two Whiteboards and Markers to start a Summer lesson. Even after the holiday, the lesson can still continue for JAMB, WAEC, NECO, NABTEB etc... If this is done, I will be financially and economically liberated.
Equip me so I don't come here and be seeking for help. I know there are lots of good people on this platform who can help me. If you teach a child, you've invariably taught a Nation. I love to teach.
Thank you and forever be blessed.

Opanka44:
Good afternoon brothers and sisters, pls i want to beg anyone here in Allah's name to pls help me with something to use in buying foodstuffs to cook and eat. Haven't eaten for three days now.
813-150-5075 Opay
God bless you

Jimmur:
Pls who will now gift me something to feed on. The hunger has caused me depression, anxiety and total sadness. I'm in despair. Someone pls help me. Nothing is too small. God bless the giver.
813-150-5075 OPAY
🙏🙏🙏

MisterBanny:
81-3-15-0-5-075 OPAY.
It will help in no small measure sir. I'll buy a Mudu of white beans, buy sweet potatoes and refill my gas. Haven't eaten today. God bless and increase you in all you do sir. Amen

Opanka44:
Education is a tool to wipe away Poverty-ARISTOTLE
If you continue to give me fish without teaching me how to catch fish, I will continue to beg for fish. I have vowed to be self-dependent and create wealth for myself. People often say that teacher in private schools are not sufficiently renumerated and as such, poor. Well, this is Truth to a large extent, but to a larger extent, anyone can decide not to follow such widespread narrative. A few teachers are making fortunes from what they earn and are living well with their families. Some teachers are even richer than medical doctors and other professionals.
Everyone here knows I am a Teacher and I'm proud to say this wherever I go to. My passion for this job is Undisputed.
This is Long holiday. All I'm asking for is support to enable me purchase two Whiteboards and Markers to start a Summer lesson. Even after the holiday, the lesson can still continue for JAMB, WAEC, NECO, NABTEB etc... If this is done, I will be financially and economically liberated.
Equip me so I don't come here and be seeking for help. I know there are lots of good people on this platform who can help me. If I had the means, I wouldnt come here to bother you. If you teach a child, you've invariably taught a Nation. I love to teach.
Thank you and forever be blessed.

Opanka44:
Good afternoon brothers and sisters, pls i want to beg anyone here in Allah's name to pls help me with something to use in buying foodstuffs to cook and eat. Haven't eaten for three days now.
813-150-5075 Opay
God bless you

Jimmur:
Pls who will now gift me something to feed on. The hunger has caused me depression, anxiety and total sadness. I'm in despair. Someone pls help me. Nothing is too small. God bless the giver.
813-150-5075 OPAY
🙏🙏🙏

MisterBanny:
81-3-15-0-5-075 OPAY.
It will help in no small measure sir. I'll buy a Mudu of white beans, buy sweet potatoes and refill my gas. Haven't eaten today. God bless and increase you in all you do sir. Amen

Opanka44:
I don't know if I'm normal or it's due to my upbringing, I'm not emotionally attached to any member of my family, not even a lady or friend.
While I was 9years old, I started living with an Aunt. The aunt took me in when I lost my dad and my mum couldn't help us her children. As a matter of fact, my mum remarried two years after the death of my dad. While I lived with my Anty, I was severely maltreated and mistreated. I was just like a houseboy. I wouldn't even be allowed to travel to the village to greet and bond with my mum. I would do all the house chores including, washing the dishes, washing the toilets, Going to the market to buy food items and cooking, mopping the entire house, and most tedious was fetching water from the wells which were very far from the house. In a day, I would fill up to 600litres of water for domestic use. After that, I would go fetch the one for drinking. I Did all these even without a wheelbarrow to carry these heavy 20litre kegs at that age. My anty has 6children. And I was doing all these while the children did nothing.
My mum wanted me to leave, but I refused since there were no good schls in the village. I so much loved education and I wanted the best form of education. I would need to do all these chores before leaving for sch everyday else I'm in trouble. I didn't get anything good in return for my hardwork. My sch fees was never paid by my Anty throughout my secondary education.
I was alienated from the rest of her children. I was insulted severally. I was emotionally, psychologically, mentally and physically abused and tortured. I was treated like a slave. I began to ask God why he created me to suffer this way. I wouldn't even be allowed to stay in the parlor and watch movies with my Antys children when she is around and in the parlor. I wouldn't dare sit on the long bench she sat no matter the space on the bench. I dare not talk. I couldn't defend myself.
All these affected my upbringing and hindered me from having cordial relationships with people. My social life was non-existent. Till date, I feel like people hate me and there's no point associating with people. I get angry easily and I read meanings to even the simplest stuffs. I can't even maintain a relationship.
After graduation from the university, I left the house. My Anty never sent me a dime while I was at sch. I remember she only gave me 3k when I was writing my project.
Till now, I feel like I was used throughout my childhood. I have cut all ties with her and her children. My siblings are all younger than me since I'm the first born. I can stay for a whole year without calling my siblings. They feel I hate them and I don't see them as part of me. Though this isn't true at all. I love them. But my upbringing is affecting me. I don't call my mum and I also hardly pick her calls. Sometimes I even block her from calling me. Sometimes I refuse to pick her calls for Months, she gets worried. She keeps asking me why I'm doing all these to her and wants to know where she has offended me so she can seek for forgiveness. But I've always told her that she has never offended me in any way. I know I'm wrong, and I pray for divine help to change. Glad I'm changing already.
I'm trying to let go of this, but it's not easy. The only positive is that I can now maintain my house and always be clean. I don't stay out late wherever I go to, I return on time.
I can't tell a friend all of this story because people can change later and use such revelations against you. They may even start looking down on your person.
Life is really hard. Very hard and I need all the help I can from you all.

How do I heal completely?

I'm praying that I become successful so I can visit them one day, not to display and show that I have made it but to help her and tell her that God is the only one that rules In the affairs of Men. He alone knows the end from the beginning.
I'm just a private sch teacher with 32k salary. I pay my rent, feed, transport and help my siblings from some salary here on the outskirts of Abuja. I need to double up on my finances. I need two whiteboards for my extramural summer tutorials. I don't have the means to acquire them,pls help me. Eve after the holidays,the classes continue, thereby bringing additional income. Pls help me

Opanka44:
Good afternoon brothers and sisters, pls i want to beg anyone here in Allah's name to pls help me with something to use in buying foodstuffs to cook and eat. Haven't eaten for three days now.
813-150-5075 Opay
God bless you

Jimmur:
Pls who will now gift me something to feed on. The hunger has caused me depression, anxiety and total sadness. I'm in despair. Someone pls help me. Nothing is too small. God bless the giver.
813-150-5075 OPAY
🙏🙏🙏

MisterBanny:
81-3-15-0-5-075 OPAY.
It will help in no small measure sir. I'll buy a Mudu of white beans, buy sweet potatoes and refill my gas. Haven't eaten today. God bless and increase you in all you do sir. Amen

Lookmun:
The first two years rent was 800k then 1m in the third year and now they are saying 1.4m. I think the landlady has a right to value her property as she deems proper but I’m saying why inform me one week to renewal of the rent? She is claiming that it is one year rent with option to renew if I meet the conditions.

When I said the constitution requires her to give me 6 months to effect a quit notice, she argues that quit notice wouldn’t apply since it is a fixed term (one year) contract as stated in the agreement. I am here to clarify from nairalanders especially those with law background, the position of the law on this matter.