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Investment / Re: Parties That Should Be Held Responsible For The Misfortunes Of MMM Victims by MrOlai: 4:44pm On Dec 16, 2016
DaBullIT:
Omo ma pa mi , Omo ma pa mi , Eventually turns to Omo ma pa ara e

Parents, relatives, neighbors, friends warned them , dragged them , pushed them away from cockroach, but they insisted what they need is that cockroach

One can only do so more

I am here to gloat and make fun of people and i will , I got about 50 mentions insulting me about how their MMM risk is not my problem, how i am a lowlife , how i can't afford to take risks

Its my time to pay them back even though i have not created the thread i planned to just to mention all of them back and rub it in their face


@bolded really got me cracking.

On a more serious note, Chinese Government saved many lives in their country by preventing MMM from operating at all.

A lot of people committed suicide in Russia; Zimbabwe aftermath of crash of MMM. So, I still blame Federal Government for the misfortunes of the victims!

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Forms Of Gambling In Our Society Today by MrOlai: 4:35pm On Dec 16, 2016
Deejay1000:
kindly explain how who wants to be a millionaire is gambling?

"Who Wants to be a Millionaire" is just like "Baba Ijebu".

They will collect money from millions of Nigerians, give part of the money to the supposed " winners " and they will pocket the remaining!
Investment / Re: Parties That Should Be Held Responsible For The Misfortunes Of MMM Victims by MrOlai: 4:31pm On Dec 16, 2016
DaBullIT:
What are you suggesting ? Did MMM come to CAC to register a company ?

MMM siddon hin own jeje , Dormantly and Nigerians went to look for trouble


We need to be sympathetic with the victims even though they might be wrong.

If a child wants to eat a cockroach or any poison whether knowingly or unknowingly, it is the responsibility of the parents to stand firmly to prevent it.

This is because if the problem starts, it wouldn't affect only the child!
Islam for Muslims / Re: Forms Of Gambling In Our Society Today by MrOlai: 12:42pm On Dec 16, 2016
mrintelligent:
Who wants to be a millionaire should not be on that list.
Thanks

"Who Wants to be a Millionaire" is just like "Baba Ijebu".

They will collect money from millions of Nigerians, give part of the money to the supposed " winners " and they will pocket the remaining!

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Forms Of Gambling In Our Society Today by MrOlai: 12:15pm On Dec 16, 2016
Lescott7:
Who wants to be a millionaire shouldn't be there, it's a game intelligence that gives one reward of ones intelligence. If who want to be a millionaire is on the list, school debates and quiz competitions should be listed likewise Quranic quiz and competitions

"Who Wants to be a Millionaire" is a gambling!
Islam for Muslims / Re: Forms Of Gambling In Our Society Today by MrOlai: 12:14pm On Dec 16, 2016
Vastjoy:
Yes, I don't think 'Who want to be a millionaire should be included'

"Who Wants to be a Millionaire" is also a gambling.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Forms Of Gambling In Our Society Today by MrOlai: 6:59pm On Dec 15, 2016
madridguy:
I blame poverty.
For some people, it is not poverty. It is a sheer greed.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Forms Of Gambling In Our Society Today by MrOlai: 4:36pm On Dec 15, 2016
snapscore:
Jazakallahu Khiran OP

Wa iyaakum.
Islam for Muslims / Forms Of Gambling In Our Society Today by MrOlai: 11:26am On Dec 15, 2016
Gambling has taken different forms in our contemporary society today. These include:

1. MMM and other Ponzi Schemes

2. "Baba Ijebu"

3. "Who Wants to be a Millionaire"

4. Lagos Premier Lotto

5. Federal Lotto

6. NaijaBet

7. Bet 365 Naija

8. 1960 Bet

9. Bet9ja

10. Merrybet

11. Surebet247

Etc.

Allah(SWT) has warned us to against gambling. Allah(SWT) says:

"O you who believe, indeed, intoxicants, gambling, [sacrificing on] stone alters [to other than Allah ], and divining arrows are but defilement from the work of Satan, so avoid it that you may be successful." Qur'an (5: 90-91).

So, as Muslims, we need to fear Allah(SWT) and do away with what He has asked us to do away with.

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Investment / Re: Parties That Should Be Held Responsible For The Misfortunes Of MMM Victims by MrOlai: 7:04am On Dec 14, 2016
DaBullIT:
Anybody that in good conscience and boldness blames the federal government shall not die well





No I'm not joking I'm bursting with anger right now

Some ediots don't even know me and they called me broke nigga bad belle , enemy of progress all because I said MMM has reached its peak and can crumble at any time


Do you muurfuckers even read disclaimers and such?


FG issued a warning, I saved several threads on here with people cursing Buhari accusing buhari of wanting Nigerians to die of hunger and poverty

Some went spiritual to claim MMM is Godsent miracle to ease thier suffering


CBN Issued warning, its another round of curses and insults on CBN FG etc


Mavrodi is a serial scammer, he scammed Russians with fake stock got so rich that he bought houses to stack and count money , something like house 1, house 2 , when he crashed, 66 people died


Unto the next one South Africa he fuckkked them up too. Just like this I've seen fake chats that MMM SA still exists, sure it does but only when your payin is 0.2% of its initial value several people.commited suicide.


But Zimbabwe, just like Nigeria, ~400,000 people did it., 100 committed suicide


FG did its best to warn you, and you all signed Mavrodi's agreement


Na you do. You



If You Want To Prepare Yourself And YOur Mind For The Worst


https://www.nairaland.com/3516597/aftermath-mmm-collapse-what

And Decide What To. Do. Next

Hmmm!

But then, Government has the power to prevent miserable outcomes. Preventive measures are better than corrective measures.
Investment / Parties That Should Be Held Responsible For The Misfortunes Of MMM Victims by MrOlai: 12:39am On Dec 14, 2016
1. Federal Government

Why? Federal Government should be held responsible for not using its power to prevent MMM from operating. Federal Government and its agencies know better what MMM and other Ponzi Schemes are all about. Chinese Government banned MMM in China having known that it is a fraudulent scheme and this saved many lives over there. In fact, when MMM crashed in 1994 in Russia, more than 50 investors committed suicide after losing all their money to the scheme!

2. MMM Management

Why? MMM management know the scheme very well. They know when to lure people into the scheme, they know when the scheme is generating huge money for them and they know the right time to disappear when the danger is looming! They should also be held responsible!

3. The Participants

Why? For putting their money into the scheme after several warnings from different quarters.

Federal Government, State Governments, Local Governments and other NGOs should by now be putting some palliative measures in place to help the victims. They should also put things in order to forestall future reccurence.


https://www.google.com.ng/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.bestnaija.com/origin-truth-about-mmm-nigeria-its-ponzi-t43538&ved=0ahUKEwiAu4DwwPHQAhWpC8AKHVwEBDsQFgiFATAP&usg=AFQjCNH1yryUMzCtKXl33Pn9SeucN_cmtg&sig2=XveuxxXcn3MAW-aqg5yi_A

Crime / Parties That Should Be Held Responsible For The Misfortunes Of MMM Victims by MrOlai: 12:05am On Dec 14, 2016
1. Federal Government

Why? Federal Government should be held responsible for not using its power to prevent MMM from operating. Federal Government and its agencies know better what MMM and other Ponzi Schemes are all about. Chinese Government banned MMM in China having known that it is a fraudulent scheme and this saved many lives over there. In fact, when MMM crashed in 1994 in Russia, more than 50 investors committed suicide after losing all their money to the scheme!

2. MMM Management

Why? MMM management know the scheme very well. They know when to lure people into the scheme, they know when the scheme is generating huge money for them and they know the right time to disappear when the danger is looming! They should also be held responsible!

3. The Participants

Why? For putting their money into the scheme after several warnings from different quarters.

Federal Government, State Governments, Local Governments and other NGOs should by now be putting some palliative measures in place to help the victims. They should also put things in order to forestall future reccurence.

Cc: Seun, Lalasticlala

https://www.google.com.ng/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.bestnaija.com/origin-truth-about-mmm-nigeria-its-ponzi-t43538&ved=0ahUKEwiAu4DwwPHQAhWpC8AKHVwEBDsQFgiFATAP&usg=AFQjCNH1yryUMzCtKXl33Pn9SeucN_cmtg&sig2=XveuxxXcn3MAW-aqg5yi_A

Investment / Parties That Should Be Held Responsible For The Misfortunes Of MMM Victims by MrOlai: 11:56pm On Dec 13, 2016
1. Federal Government

Why? Federal Government should be held responsible for not using its power to prevent MMM from operating. Federal Government and its agencies know better what MMM and other Ponzi Schemes are all about. Chinese Government banned MMM in China having known that it is a fraudulent scheme and this saved many lives over there. In fact, when MMM crashed in 1994 in Russia, more than 50 investors committed suicide after losing all their money to the scheme!

2. MMM Management

Why? MMM management know the scheme very well. They know when to lure people into the scheme, they know when the scheme is generating huge money for them and they know the right time to disappear when the danger is looming! They should also be held responsible!

3. The Participants

Why? For putting their money into the scheme after several warnings from different quarters.

Federal Government, State Governments, Local Governments and other NGOs should by now be putting some palliative measures in place to help the victims. They should also put things in order to forestall future reccurence.


https://www.google.com.ng/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.bestnaija.com/origin-truth-about-mmm-nigeria-its-ponzi-t43538&ved=0ahUKEwiAu4DwwPHQAhWpC8AKHVwEBDsQFgiFATAP&usg=AFQjCNH1yryUMzCtKXl33Pn9SeucN_cmtg&sig2=XveuxxXcn3MAW-aqg5yi_A

Investment / Parties That Should Be Held Responsible For The Misfortunes Of MMM Victims by MrOlai: 11:28pm On Dec 13, 2016
1. Federal Government

Why? Federal Government should be held responsible for not using its power to prevent MMM from operating. Federal Government and its agencies know better what MMM and other Ponzi Schemes are all about. Chinese Government banned MMM in China having known that it is a fraudulent scheme and this saved many lives over there. In fact, when MMM crashed in 1994 in Russia, more than 50 investors committed suicide after losing all their money to the scheme!

2. MMM Management

Why? MMM management know the scheme very well. They know when to lure people into the scheme, they know when the scheme is generating huge money for them and they know the right time to disappear when the danger is looming! They should also be held responsible!

3. The Participants

Why? For putting their money into the scheme after several warnings from different quarters.

Federal Government, State Governments, Local Governments and other NGOs should by now be putting some palliative measures in place to help the victims. They should also put things in order to forestall future reccurence.

Cc: Seun, Lalasticlala

https://www.google.com.ng/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.bestnaija.com/origin-truth-about-mmm-nigeria-its-ponzi-t43538&ved=0ahUKEwiAu4DwwPHQAhWpC8AKHVwEBDsQFgiFATAP&usg=AFQjCNH1yryUMzCtKXl33Pn9SeucN_cmtg&sig2=XveuxxXcn3MAW-aqg5yi_A

Investment / Re: Account Freezing: MMM Reacts To Nigerians' Outbursts by MrOlai: 4:40pm On Dec 13, 2016
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Investment / Re: MMM Blocks Withdrawal Of Funds For One Month! by MrOlai: 11:00am On Dec 13, 2016
Wonder Bank! MMM!

Investment / Re: MMM Blocks Withdrawal Of Funds For One Month! by MrOlai: 10:35am On Dec 13, 2016
Una don enter one chance!!!

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Politics / Re: "Security Studying Shiites' Audio Message Threatening Revenge Of Zaria Attacks" by MrOlai: 9:19am On Dec 13, 2016
FriendChoice:



Yeah it's true they don't follow strictly Muhammad (SAW). Ask me if you want to know more. Ask shia if you want lies. Why? Lies called Taqiya is permissible in Shia religion.


The media is really feeding people with lairs. in 2015 only Executed at Least 977 Sunni And in month of August only 20 sunni were executed on false claim of terror reported by amnesty international. The total number of Sunni executed by Iran this year will be known when the year elapse.

https://www.nairaland.com/3269015/iran-hanged-up-20-sunni

Hmm! This is serious!

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Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by MrOlai: 9:21am On Dec 06, 2016
tomdon:



Imagine that this might be somebody's future wife.
Lol I pity some guys Sha.
5 rounds with a guy wey no go ever pay your bride price
How lower can ladies get??
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by MrOlai: 9:06am On Dec 06, 2016
adegeye38:

Prayer after fornication, did u take God for a fool or what?, what hypocrisy?, the only prayer you need is genuine repentance and prayer of forgiveness

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Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by MrOlai: 8:54am On Dec 06, 2016
hope4life:
A lady who gives her body to a man who has not married her is not wise. The most precious treasure of a lady is her body but hollywood, nollywood and all the woods say it's okay to do whatever you want with your body, it's your life. Satan preached the same message to Eve in Gen, 3, the whole world is still paying the debt of her foolishness. I Cor. 6:12-20 goes against sexual immorality and states its consequences. That man is just using you, when he is tired of you, he will dumb you. Women are not wise. I wish you knew who men are in regards to sex, you will run for your life. After you have run high mileage, you will be begging men to marry you, run to prophets for prayer and so on. This lady, you need to run to God for mercy, cut off the affairs and wait on God for the right man. Satan is destroying the future joy of many marriages on the basis of premarital sex. The main thrill for a man on the wedding night is seeing the unclothedness of his wife for the first time, any man can pay for it. So what is the thrill during wedding and the night, if he has traveled different distance and directions in your body. You will lay a foundation of guilt, shame and sorrow. Many married women are regretting it till today. On a final note, there is no man who has premarital sex with you that will trust you after your wedding. He sees you as a cheap commodity anybody can have. Both of you have a great tendency to fall into extramarital affairs esp.the man. Door of mercy is till wide opened before it is too late.
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by MrOlai: 8:32am On Dec 06, 2016
UmecheMoses:

ARE YOU SURE WE SERVE THE SAME GOD?
The bible says if anyman thinks he is religious but doesn't bridle his tongue, this ones religion is useless.....
Some one went dark, and instead of turning on the lights you cast her into utter darkness, may heaven forgive u
Hypocrite! Birds of the same feather!

What did Jesus preach about fornication and adultery?


This is the light for her:

MrOlai:


The earlier you repent to God, the better for you!
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Always Wants Sex by MrOlai: 7:49am On Dec 06, 2016
Geraldyne:

Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my boyfriend..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.

He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.

I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.

Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

What a shameless human being you are!

You're committing fornication and instead of seeking repentance from God and try to turn a new leaf, you're here asking foolish questions!

As a spinster, you went to a man's house, slept over and had series of sex romps with him, somebody you're not married to!

All that God has blessed you with sexually which are meant exclusively for your husband when you eventually marry, you keep dashing them out!

Some of the problems happening in matrimonial homes are caused by this your shameful act! And some of the shameless culprits would be attributing the problems to enemies or their In-laws!

It's quite unfortunate that sometimes, innocent men later become the victim husbands by getting married to sluts like you!

The earlier you repent to God, the better for you!

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by MrOlai: 10:09pm On Dec 04, 2016
MKKO:
please am having issues converting to PDF, who can help me please the application is tilting to an end. thanks in advance

Go to a cyber cafe. They will help you to do the conversation easily.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Department Of Petroleum Resources - 2016 Graduate Trainee &experienced Hire Job by MrOlai: 10:06pm On Dec 04, 2016
PMPhoenix:
Hello room, please when is the application portal to be closed? Thank you

On Wednesday, 7th December, 2016.

3 more days left!
Islam for Muslims / Re: Fisebililah Brothers And Sisters In Islam by MrOlai: 10:21pm On Dec 03, 2016
ayinba1:
As Salam alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu. These are issues that are indeed crucial to the ummah.
I was told a story of a non Muslim. He was 44 before getting married, Before the age of 44, he had periods of great affluence and periods that were not so great. Today, he still seeks from others to fulfill his responsibilities.
As Muslims, do we confuse marriage with wedding ceremonies? Once we can separate our understanding of these 2, our lives will be so much easier.
I pray Allah grants OP ease in his affairs. Ameen. For our young brothers and sisters who may be approaching thoughts of being with someone in the near future, the time is now to build a firm foundation for what you want from Allah by doing this which he has commanded. May Allah make it easy for us all, ameen

@bolded. Masha Allah!

Quite a large number of Muslims are still confused about that.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Fisebililah Brothers And Sisters In Islam by MrOlai: 10:18pm On Dec 03, 2016
ayinba1:
As Salam alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu. These are issues that are indeed crucial to the ummah.
I was told a story of a non Muslim. He was 44 before getting married, Before the age of 44, he had periods of great affluence and periods that were not so great. Today, he still seeks from others to fulfill his responsibilities.
As Muslims, do we confuse marriage with wedding ceremonies? Once we can separate our understanding of these 2, our lives will be so much easier.
I pray Allah grants OP ease in his affairs. Ameen. For our young brothers and sisters who may be approaching thoughts of being with someone in the near future, the time is now to build a firm foundation for what you want from Allah by doing this which he has commanded. May Allah make it easy for us all, ameen
Romance / Re: Woman Sleeps With Ex-Boyfriend Hours Before His Wedding To Another Woman by MrOlai: 7:29pm On Dec 03, 2016
lewispius:
A woman, who claims to be repented wrote on how she slept with her boyfriend in Lekki, few hours to his wedding.

As reposted by Joys Oyedepo, She wrote,


LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT GRACE….When i say i can’t do life without Christ i mean i’m too thankful to take His unending love for granted.Ah! It just occurred to me that God has a purpose for keeping me.This picture was taken in some hotel room in Lekki! Hmm ! I came to Lagos from school to see my boyfriend that was getting married!Scratch that* this was the wedding morning! Meaning i spent the night with him before he said “i do”,…i saw him before he left for church! Ahhh!! I still got back to school safe! Meaning God’s Mercy kept me!I travelled ibadan express road almost every weekend coming to Lagos to do every thing heaven didn’t approve but God’s mercy kept me!Jesus overlooked my flaws! My terrible lifestyle & i can’t believe He still saw something beautiful in me! It’s not being an easy journey!! but Grace found me! Grace kept me! Grace saved me! There’s heaven & there’s hell but there’s also God’s unending love. His mercy…the reason a lot of us are still standing strong.Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!Jesus saves! In His arm i have found rest & i’m never letting goTell me! What can be more amazing than God’s Grace?I’m still a work in progress but i trust that the finished product will be more beautiful!I know some of y’all think somethings are better left unsaid but this is to encourage someone, anyone…Only God can turn mess into a message, a test into a testimony, a trial into a triumph, a victim into a victor. My name is Oyewunmi Ajakaiye & my life is a testimony! Stop fighting it! Allow Jesus make something beautiful out of your life!Friends will mock you! some will doubt you but what matters is that heaven approves you! GIVE YOUR ALL TO CHRIST!#Testimony #DivineDiva #Unashamed #Unfiltered #MyTruth #GetSaved #TryJesus


http://gistreel.com/2016/12/02/woman-reveals-slept-man-hours-wedding-another-woman/

Oloriburuku!

Shameless human being!
Islam for Muslims / Re: Fisebililah Brothers And Sisters In Islam by MrOlai: 9:10am On Dec 03, 2016
dejt4u:

I still maintain my point that a man must get a source of income no matter how low to at least maintain the family..


Jazakallahu Khaira!

Wa iyaakum.
@bolded. You're very correct. It's very important. As a young graduate, the brother will surely get something to do for a living, although it may be small. This is what I considered myself before saying he should not be discouraged. I understand you quite well.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Fisebililah Brothers And Sisters In Islam by MrOlai: 10:23pm On Dec 02, 2016
dominique:

Why not wait till you're financially comfortable?

This really got me laughing!
In Nigeria of today? Some have been waiting to be financially stable before getting married for the past 15 years now! Even with that, no hope of financial stability for them! They lost on both sides!

Some of them have even joined MMM to have financial stability! Financial stability is all by Allah's mercy! For as soon as a person is free to lay his/her hands on something halal for livelihood, then, the person can start his/her family life. Allah(SWT) will do the rest Insha Allah.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Fisebililah Brothers And Sisters In Islam by MrOlai: 10:08pm On Dec 02, 2016
PENMIGHT:

May Allaah bless your Nikkah for you.
1) If it is easy to postpone the date, you should please consider that. This takes a lot of pressure off you and put you in good stead for a marital bliss devoid of burden of debts and possible reminder of favors by those who would have been instrumental to your getting married.
2) If postponing the date fixed will cause more havoc than good, either by having to bring disrepute to you or making you lose a pious wife-to-be, then I will advice you do not postpone the date but cut your cloth according to your cloth.
Nothing stipulates that you must have the marriage feast instantly. This can me postponed till Allaah enriches yout better ,while you just focus on the Marriage Solemnization alone for now.
This should be conservative of your scares resources, yet fulfilling of the ultimate goal.
3) If the option directly above is still a huge mountain to climb, you can please send a PM. This is , though, hoping you have a verifiable claim.
May Allah grant you ease.
Surah An-Noor, Verse 32:
وَأَنكِحُوا الْأَيَامَىٰ مِنكُمْ وَالصَّالِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَائِكُمْ إِن يَكُونُوا فُقَرَاءَ يُغْنِهِمُ اللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِ وَاللَّهُ وَاسِعٌ عَلِيمٌ
And marry those among you who are single and those who are fit among your male slaves and your female slaves; if they are poor, Allah will enrich them out of His grace; and Allah is Ample-giving, Knowing.

Jazakumullah khaeran! What a wonderful contribution!
Islam for Muslims / Re: Fisebililah Brothers And Sisters In Islam by MrOlai: 6:34pm On Dec 02, 2016
dominique:
You want to do the right thing at the wrong time. Must you get married now? Why not wait till you're financially comfortable? After the wedding, what next? You start making babies and you rush back to nairaland for assistance? Yes, Nikkah is a sunnah of the prophet (SAW) but not when you're not financially stable.

dejt4u:
what were you thinking before fixing a date..?
I wish you the very best but to say the truth, you are supposed to get a steady source of income before venturing into marriage.. How do you intend to take care of your wife and children?

I think we should not discourage the Brother. This is a person who has graduated from university. He has finished his NYSC. He is not somebody in JSS 1 or JSS 2. Being chained down by academics is no longer there for him. With his status, he can surely lay his hands on something for livelihood now, no matter how small. We should not discourage him. Rather, we should encourage him. He has tried.

There are millions of people like him outside who commit fornication and adultery all in the name of boyfriend-girlfriend relationships! Some of them fornicate and commit adultery all in the name of mut'ah, like the shias! Some of them see no reason for them to marry at that stage since they have ladies they are committing zina with. In fact, some of them see marriage as a hindrance because that would checkmate their fornication/adulterous lives!

So, don't let us discourage the Brother. He has really tried at that stage. If she has a very understanding wife, they will plan together on how to live their lives without constituting or being a burden to the society. They may delay child bearing by Allah's mercy, if they feel they want to become more stable before doing that. At least, they would be halal to each other sexwise.

I got married to my wife immediately after NYSC. In fact, three months after the completion of NYSC.We met after the NYSC and we served together. I had no job and she had no job. One of us was a virgin at that time. May Allah(SWT) in His mercy forgive all our shortcomings. (Amin). Yet, we understood our conditions, we planned together and we did our Nikah, though low key Nikah. Alhamdulillah today, we have a good family with so many dependants, from within and outside the family. It's all by Allah's mercy.

So, please, Brothers and Sisters, don't let us discourage him. May Allah(SWT) ease all our affairs. (Amin).

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