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Children should be given choices what should be done to THEIR BODIES. They will eventually become adults and have to deal with that. It is atrocious.

It is important that we learn to read the signs and pay attention to the clues.   We often time get so caught up with having a man that we sell ourselves short.  It is okay to be single until you find that special someone that will love you and RESPECT you.  

We as women get caught up with the society idea of what women should be that we forget that WE ARE OUR own worst enemy.  Let me explain further, we determine what we like based on what someone else THINK we should like or be.   The inner spirit of thyself will keep you from destroying who you REALLY are.  

When you start pleasing other people and not thyself then you become bitter and resentful.  No woman should live her life in such manner and it take a toll not in personal matters but professional matters.  

Listen to that inner spirit that telling something is not right and something is need to change.

You welcome.

I wouldn't feel anything because you are not for me. IF YOU ARE for me nothing will keep us apart. Common sense.


Let me add this: A smart man and woman will know that if it meant to be it will happen naturally and nothing will be difficult.

There are American women who will not marry someone unless they have a Social Security card or a Green Card. Not all American women marry illegals.

You know the same men that marrying or married American women regretted bring their "wives" or "girlfriends" over.

Freewilly ignore him. He speaking from his pickers. Please just be gentle and tell him the truth. IF he is a nice man as you said he will respect your wishes and move on.

We have to learn we can't always get what we want.

Hmm.

Ruffrider,

Pretty women get cheated on too. Cheating does not discriminate. If the man is trifling it doesn't matter what the woman look like he will cheat because he is trifling. They do not possess the virtue qualities that make them a decent man.

Exhibit A: Halle Berry. Enough said.

You are welcome Freewilly. There is no need to sell yourself short. When we log off the computer we goes our separate way and you will still have to deal with the tribal marks that you are not comfortable with. Just do you and pray that you find the one that you are comfortable with. Wish you bliss and success sis!

Ok ddunce.

Well, it is sad that you got hooked with a loser. Let the other chick deal with him. IF he can do it to you, he will do it to her.

know you are a little daft, please grow up enough to correct my name which is Mrs. Chima. Thank you in advance. Be such a lad.

ruffrider:
My intuition told me this guy whom I was dating was a liar.  I blocked the feeling out, cause I didn't have any concrete fact.  Anyway, found out he is engage to a women back in his country through facebook.  I pray to God her Visa gets denied

Is he in USA or UK?

Just simply tell him that you do not mean any disrespect and you do not feel comfortable dating him because of his tribal marks but if you do not want to mention his tribal marks. Just tell him you want to take it easy and keep your options open.

If he is looking for a date over coffee only with no romance intention then that different. If he is looking for something long term then you will have to tell him as soon as you can as nice as you can.

A typical African man. Why am I not surprised. I feel sorry for women in such regions.

Thanks for the compliment. How enlightening. I see the men are improving.

aminalib:
lacrissa, get over this man, ahah,

I am saying. Didn't she make like ten threads with different title of the same shit? Seriously.

roymary:
^^^^

Men are better looking. Do away with the Wigs and facial paintings; Would be Halloween in January.

Okay. If you say so. There are more MEN WEARING WIGS AND FACIAL PAINTINGS than women. It not surprising anyways. Men becoming sissified as we speak.

Freewilly,

If you are not comfortable then you do not have to date him. It is your right.

Let be real. We all have been with people and break up with them for the simplest things or not even given them a chance because their eye was crooked to the left or their lips were too big. Tribal marks are no different.

If SHE DOES not feel comfortable dating someone with tribal marks then why do we CARE? We are not dating her.

Not interested. I believe in monogamy.

The injections is not good for a woman at any given time.  The best thing you can do is practice Billing Cycle which is a more natural and safe way.  If you are monogamous then this is the perfect method for you and your partner.  

Just count ten to 14 days of her last period which is consider the safe mode and after that is a danger zone.  You can simple interject your fingers inside her hole and check for the thickness or the lightness of her juice flows.  If the juice flows appear to be thick then you are safe.  If it is light then you are not safe.  Some women ovulate three to five days and that time is a rest period.  You are safe if you keep track of her ovulation cycle.  

If you are interested in any children then injection wouldn't be so bad but she will have some long term medical issues.  It is her body and let her decide.

You have too many wives. How atrocious.

You need to seek professional help.

If she is not comfortable with the tribal marks why should she settle? We all have something that we wouldn't settle for so why should she?

My husband and I before we got married.  We practice no sex until we got married.  No sex before marriage is the best safe sex ever.  If you truly love each other why in a rush to have sex?

Are you getting all those cars to impress someone?

Men complain more than women. They are becoming sissify too much for me.

If you feel that strongly about his tribal marks. Just tell them the truth and move on. How can you hurt someone feelings that you are not interested in? If you playing him knowing your true intentions that will hurt his feelings more and often time if you got the wrong dude can end up shorten your life.

Just be truthful and let him know in a respectful way. "I am not interested in dating you because of yoru tribal marks". "I am uncomfortable and I would like to be friends if that possible". If he is a gentleman he would respect that and move on.

Goodness why are men so obsessed with sizes? These men looking like Chewbacca done swallowed a whale and they want to be particular about sizes? Ladies, let start complaining about these fat blubbers and make them self conscious about their "sizes".

You need deliverance.