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Romance / Re: Why Is The Shape Of Yoruba Girls Butt Irregular? by MrsChima(f): 2:52am On Jan 31, 2016
naijaboiy:

i'm sure it's bigger than that which pummels you every night. winktongue

Dreams are wonderful abi? tongue
Romance / Re: 2 Nairalanders Airforce1 And Pinkjacket9 Love Up In New Photos by MrsChima(f): 12:43am On Jan 31, 2016
misspicy:

morning smiley
how is baby

Growing dear!
Romance / Re: Why Is The Shape Of Yoruba Girls Butt Irregular? by MrsChima(f): 12:42am On Jan 31, 2016
naijaboiy:

how come I didn't see this? shocked

Denial maybe? undecided
Romance / Re: Why Is The Shape Of Yoruba Girls Butt Irregular? by MrsChima(f): 7:11pm On Jan 30, 2016
nevi12:

Derz only one way to find out grin

How? embarassed lipsrsealed
Romance / Re: I Borrowed Money For His Studies, Now He Says I’m Old, Wife Tells The Court by MrsChima(f): 5:29pm On Jan 30, 2016
Omotayor123:
Sorry Madam but those shiiit happens undecided

Right.
Romance / Re: I Borrowed Money For His Studies, Now He Says I’m Old, Wife Tells The Court by MrsChima(f): 5:26pm On Jan 30, 2016
LORDSAMURAI:
hmmm stop taking weed

Stop being defensive and guilty.
Romance / Re: Why Is The Shape Of Yoruba Girls Butt Irregular? by MrsChima(f): 1:54pm On Jan 30, 2016
I have always wondered if Naijaboiy have an irregular dick. cheesy tongue
Romance / Re: An IG User Exposes A Gay Nigerian Stalking Him On Instagram (see Their Chats) by MrsChima(f): 1:50pm On Jan 30, 2016
Did exposing him removes the homosexual spirits from his body and mind? undecided
Romance / Re: I Borrowed Money For His Studies, Now He Says I’m Old, Wife Tells The Court by MrsChima(f): 1:46pm On Jan 30, 2016
That's African men for you! grin grin


watch the guilty manbishes comes out defensive and guilty. lipsrsealed

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Romance / Re: 2 Nairalanders Airforce1 And Pinkjacket9 Love Up In New Photos by MrsChima(f): 10:39am On Jan 30, 2016
misspicy:

mama smiley

Hey baby! kiss
Romance / Re: Finally Met A Nairalander!! by MrsChima(f): 3:50pm On Jan 29, 2016
Sunkyphil:
grin after d guy from reach promise land u go hear nl guys are bad

(Falls from the palm tree) grin
Romance / Re: 2 Nairalanders Airforce1 And Pinkjacket9 Love Up In New Photos by MrsChima(f): 3:49pm On Jan 29, 2016
Airforce1:
Whenever I'm with this beautiful pinkjacket9 of a girl, I feel so on top of The world.

She's fun to be with and ginger me a lot. cheesy

Pinky you rock cheesy kiss




No woman will never be jealous of that and no man will never claim that. Perfect couple. grin
Romance / Re: 2 Nairalanders Airforce1 And Pinkjacket9 Love Up In New Photos by MrsChima(f): 3:43pm On Jan 29, 2016
DonChippy:
Worwor x worwor. grin

So you are saying they both pretty? cheesy grin tongue
Romance / Re: 2 Nairalanders Airforce1 And Pinkjacket9 Love Up In New Photos by MrsChima(f): 3:42pm On Jan 29, 2016
vizkiz:
so this is the girl who took over your music career? No wonder why you no see better song sing grin grin
I can see your hand feeling the boobs sha wink


Grab that shiit like you own it.... Grab it Morafurcker angry


**modified ****

Somebody said I should ask that what is that in her nose? I hope it's not mucous.... Iyanma lipsrsealed

Isn't this the same girl that created a thread about Airforce1 cheating on her last month

www.nairaland.com/2785872/im-heart-broken-right-now

Going through her threads now, all she ever did was create a thread about Airforce1... Call me crazy but I am 80% sure Airforce1 is behind the female account. The lady might be one of his local girlfriends he is using her picture to run another account.... BUSTED!!!!!!!!!!!!! shocked




Why must you be so cruel? angry grin
Romance / Re: Is Abortion A Sin Or A Crime? by MrsChima(f): 3:34pm On Jan 29, 2016
Abortion is a sin because it is an unnatural act that hurts you and your unborn child. If the country you resides does not deem it illegal then it is not a crime.

Crime only occurs if it is illegal under the structure of the (land) law.

You do what you feel you must do. Only you will truly suffer the consequences of your actions/decisions.

Good luck.
Romance / Re: Finally Met A Nairalander!! by MrsChima(f): 3:26pm On Jan 29, 2016
gsalvatore:
Serial killer's are real.

Just saying.

True.
Romance / Re: Finally Met A Nairalander!! by MrsChima(f): 3:25pm On Jan 29, 2016
Sunkyphil:
watch out for part two grin

It would be titled, "Broke Manbish Left Me For Rich Maga He met Online". grin grin
Romance / Re: Finally Met A Nairalander!! by MrsChima(f): 3:23pm On Jan 29, 2016
DeeTus:
Lol. It's not necessary but there's possibility anyway.

You don't even trust your fellow girls on here?

I don't trust liars regardless of gender.
Romance / Re: Finally Met A Nairalander!! by MrsChima(f): 12:24pm On Jan 29, 2016
Emodeee:
Una no fvck?

LMAO. grin. That's essentially what 99% of NLs who meet ends up doing. I am sure they fvcked!
Romance / Re: I Don't Enjoy Intercourse With Hubby. by MrsChima(f): 12:17pm On Jan 29, 2016
dyadeleye:
That's why we have something called courtship before marriage......I guess you would have made the necessary amendment before all these.....by the way, time still dey....its just 5 months ....God bless

Sex before marriage does not improve sex life after marriage and sex compatibility changes as life evolves. You can have a banging sex life before marriage and horrible sex life during marriage.

The bottom line is open communication and mutual exploration of the couple improve healthy sex life. Couples who respects and loves one another have better sex life than those who doesn't . Love and respect will encourage you to please your mate as long as it is safe and healthy.

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Romance / Re: I Don't Enjoy Intercourse With Hubby. by MrsChima(f): 12:08pm On Jan 29, 2016
Sarona:
Hi, please only mature minds reply because I'm such in a pain each and passin day cry I've just been married for 5 months I love, adore and cherish my husband! more than anyone in my life cuz he's just a rare soul and not that im braggin but iam a very very lucky woman and blessed to be able to call him mine.


Now the problem is that since day one of our marriage I've not been able to enjoy se x, I use to fake it at first but then the pain got real and I was done with it because he rushes everytime without pre-intimacy and im never aroused! So i started telling him we can take our time and it's going to be great if we do that! I didn't want to make his ego hurt by telling him ive never once been satisfied!! And he was never able to tell it because I am wet but not turned on?? Why is that? Could something be wrong with me?!

First off, I commends you for being a virgin when you have gotten married, not too many people can truly say that they have waited until marriage to have sec with their sole partner Good job!

There is nothing wrong with you or your husband. There is some huge discrepancies on what he thinks he should be doing and what you think he should have known. I am not sure if you guys had any clear communication about essential subjects.

It is imperative before marriage to have sec talk. During this process you learn how to be good lovers by sharing fanasties, mutual masturbation, and dirty talks. The point of these three mentioned above is to learn sexual compatiblity. We all have fanasties and have performed some of them. There is nothing wrong with fanasties, as long as it is healthy and doesn't interfere with your marriage. It is like a guide to effective pre-intimacy. pre-intimacy isn't just about MouthAction oris about exploring and getting to know the body!

Mutual masturbation is good because it forces you to observe and learn of his or her reactions to things you are doing and allow communication to flow. It is suggested that he starts on you first simply because women takes longer to climax and get aroused. After 5 minutes of manual masturbation then you can starts to please him. If possible, get on top and continue intercourse. It will shift control and he will last longer and communicate how that feels to you and ask for feedback from your husband.

Dirty talks keeps your man amped and you can use that time to be emotionally free. Do not worry about what he would think...moan and enjoy loudly!!! Relax and smile. Compliment him when he does what you like and coach him to please you if he gets off track. You have to talk and let him know if he doesn't please you then you will have to introduce sex toys. I suggest getting a vibrator that has a center of gravity massager. You can use it while he is pentrating you and he will eventually replase ace the vibrator with his efforts to please you.

Good luck!
Family / Re: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by MrsChima(f): 11:50pm On Jan 27, 2016
vicraven:
did you get married at the age of 4?

Scram you punk! tongue angry
Family / Re: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by MrsChima(f): 11:48am On Jan 27, 2016
MrsChima:
There are many different reasons why many marriages do not exceed 10 years.

Some people gets married for the wrong reasons; green cards, to escape poverty, family pressure, desperation, deception, and many more.

However, couples that are married or have been married in good faith will still have struggles in their marriages. Cheating, addiction of some sorts, death, abuse, disconnection from the Higher Power, and many more can break a marriage. Marriage is not easy and it is not for the faint hearts it requires work and dedication. It is about teamwork and supporting each other.

Some couples needs to be honest about marriage and encourage professional counseling or seek advice of a TRUSTED NEUTRAL person that won't takes sides. Sometimes a fresh pair of eyes may be what your marriage needs and not everyone wants to see
Couples unhappy and miserable.

Respect and effective communication is imperative to a longer and happy marriages . Some couples are so caught up with trying to outdo other family members that are married many decades and NOT FOCUSED on the health of their marriage. It is not about how long you have been married, but it is about how to have a happy and healthy marriage until it is time to part ways (hopefully it is death).

To control your house (men) doesn't mean you have to treat your wife like one of the children. Even if you have a submissive wife to no fault, she will eventually rebel. You will get more out of her if she feels loved and cherished and you are making good decisions that ensures her stability. Women likes to feel secured and safe. Two heads are better than one when it comes to decisions and planning. Asking your wife for her opinions and thoughts doesn't make you less of a man but more importantly, well-informed decision maker.

If there is no love and intimacy in the marriage, it won't last beyond a few years regardless.

Women choose men based on sustenance attributes and not superficial matters. A man that truly loves his mother will truly love you. Look at how he treats his mother and the female relatives. It is a true indication of how he will treat you! I understand that you do not want a man that has nothing, but instead of looking at what he has material wisely, pay attention how he manage his upkeep and business. If he is not effective, the car and nice house won't be accessible for long! Pay attention to how he is with money and what he does when he is not around his business. You will then see his priority and if he is money obsessive.

Choose compatible spouses and focus on the 80% of the person. A woman of 80% guarantee is better than a woman of 20% guarantee. Get married because you are ready and understand what work is required to maintain it. If you are married and truly gave it your all to make your marriage stronger and you are still not happy. Walk away. Maybe separation is necessary to see the bigger picture and discover other possible solutions. Do not stay in a toxic marriage for the sake of your children. You are reaching your children it is okay to settle and accept this type of treatment from your relationship. They will choose based on their experience they have learned from their parents and continue the vicious cycle that will pass down generations. I am sure that is not THE LEGACY you want to leave behind!

Damn. I wrote this? My eyes were partly closed when I composed this.

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Family / Re: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by MrsChima(f): 11:40am On Jan 27, 2016
naijaboiy:

oh LOL!

I forgot that. grin

I don't see you around these days again...what's up?

My babies and my belle. This man trying to keep me barefooted and pregnant!! cry cry
Family / Re: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by MrsChima(f): 11:38am On Jan 27, 2016
There are many different reasons why many marriages do not exceed 10 years.

Some people gets married for the wrong reasons; green cards, to escape poverty, family pressure, desperation, deception, and many more.

However, couples that are married or have been married in good faith will still have struggles in their marriages. Cheating, addiction of some sorts, death, abuse, disconnection from the Higher Power, and many more can break a marriage. Marriage is not easy and it is not for the faint hearts it requires work and dedication. It is about teamwork and supporting each other.

Some couples needs to be honest about marriage and encourage professional counseling or seek advice of a TRUSTED NEUTRAL person that won't takes sides. Sometimes a fresh pair of eyes may be what your marriage needs and not everyone wants to see
Couples unhappy and miserable.

Respect and effective communication is imperative to a longer and happy marriages . Some couples are so caught up with trying to outdo other family members that are married many decades and NOT FOCUSED on the health of their marriage. It is not about how long you have been married, but it is about how to have a happy and healthy marriage until it is time to part ways (hopefully it is death).

To control your house (men) doesn't mean you have to treat your wife like one of the children. Even if you have a submissive wife to no fault, she will eventually rebel. You will get more out of her if she feels loved and cherished and you are making good decisions that ensures her stability. Women likes to feel secured and safe. Two heads are better than one when it comes to decisions and planning. Asking your wife for her opinions and thoughts doesn't make you less of a man but more importantly, well-informed decision maker.

If there is no love and intimacy in the marriage, it won't last beyond a few years regardless.

Women choose men based on sustenance attributes and not superficial matters. A man that truly loves his mother will truly love you. Look at how he treats his mother and the female relatives. It is a true indication of how he will treat you! I understand that you do not want a man that has nothing, but instead of looking at what he has material wisely, pay attention how he manage his upkeep and business. If he is not effective, the car and nice house won't be accessible for long! Pay attention to how he is with money and what he does when he is not around his business. You will then see his priority and if he is money obsessive.

Choose compatible spouses and focus on the 80% of the person. A woman of 80% guarantee is better than a woman of 20% guarantee. Get married because you are ready and understand what work is required to maintain it. If you are married and truly gave it your all to make your marriage stronger and you are still not happy. Walk away. Maybe separation is necessary to see the bigger picture and discover other possible solutions. Do not stay in a toxic marriage for the sake of your children. You are reaching your children it is okay to settle and accept this type of treatment from your relationship. They will choose based on their experience they have learned from their parents and continue the vicious cycle that will pass down generations. I am sure that is not THE LEGACY you want to leave behind!

Ronald4lif and Francizy

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Family / Re: Why Most Marriages Never Exceed 10years by MrsChima(f): 10:55am On Jan 27, 2016
naijaboiy:

You married when you were 10?

Didn't a Nigerian Senator married a 9 years old girl? It is possible boo. kiss

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Romance / Re: South African Woman + Nigerian Man = ? by MrsChima(f): 11:47am On Jan 22, 2016
johnjimiflex:

well what if i say "you're my mammy"? hopeless dejected single mom....

Failed Abortion specimen!
Family / Re: Why This Oyinbo Married A Nigerian Lady by MrsChima(f): 9:45pm On Jan 16, 2016
Interracial marriages are as old as Moses. It is not a big deal why people married, but the only people affected in the marriage is the spouses and the children.

She may have married him because he is can bring prosperity and he may have married her because she is a good mail ordered bride. However, it is their marriage and we are outsiders looking in that has nothing to do with us!
Romance / Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 9:28pm On Jan 16, 2016
ronald4lif:


Is that in dispute


Obviously!!!!
Romance / Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 9:17pm On Jan 16, 2016
ronald4lif:


kiss

Men are stronger than women? undecided
Romance / Re: Is It Normal For Nigerian Men To Beat Women by MrsChima(f): 9:10pm On Jan 16, 2016
ronald4lif:
Men are naturally violent and naturally imperious and feel they are stronger than women, which is true. And when someone feel they are more powerful than the other they are inclined to apply brute force when ever they feel their superiority is being challenged.

Just like Nigeria domestic violence strives in any climate where there are no strict legislation that protects women. This is not to say it's common for men to beat their wives but it happens more in Nigeria than other countries where there are strict laws against DV.

If there were no strict legislation punishing DV instigators in South Africa the case would have been same. So it's not about Nigerian men character but about not having laws and abusers going unpunished.

undecided
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Are The Best! by MrsChima(f): 9:03pm On Jan 16, 2016
A man sent from God is the best! kiss

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