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With regards to what Aisha said, that shouldn't have been the complete statement of what happened in that hadith, definitely there would be something that happened before she uttered such, with due respect you are mischievous in posting all the hadith, they are not narrated completely and I have gone to check it out, you are quoting some specific part of it without acknowledging all other parts left out, this is just to suit your self and your argument, not until we have read it completely as narrated, that will be mischievous

It is also agreed that before marriage, couples would have known each other and habits, but it is also possible that after a long way in marriage, the couples will start what they don't do before perhaps because of longevity in the marriage or otherwise, SO PLEASE WHAT WILL BE THE SOLUTION APART FROM WHAT THE HOLY BOOK HAVE Said. And you cannot support your argument with what jesus have to say, because he is not ELIGIBLE to INTERFERE on marriage affairs as it an established fact that he was not MARRIED

I am glad you admit that we have someone called a disobedient wife, but what I will now ask you is to bring any other suitable way to treat a disobedient wife apart from these stages prescribed by the Holy book, at least if you are condemning something, then you bring up the better ones so that we can now discuss it and wage it. Again you should stand corrected where you said there is no way of dealing with men too if they misbehaved, indeed we have several ways in dealing with them, some of it is to seek REDRESS in court when she is MALTREATED or NOT MAINTAINED, OR EVEN TIRED OF THE HUSBAND ON SOME OTHER GROUNDS OTHER than THE ONES MENTIONED. Infact Islam came purposely to save them from evil and unjust men and of course you wouldn't expect the Holy book to be silent on that,just pick a topic and let us discuss. Lastly with regards to the hadith, they were misunderstood as I have said, I will like to treat each hadith on its merit, starting with the woman that comes to the prophet complaining that she was beaten by her husband, yes agreed she was beaten and it is only an unreasonable man that will beat without reason, as such the prophet gave her medication, and that is to be SUBMISSIVE to her husband when it comes to SEX. That means she has been denying him SEX all along before he went berserk. And I did not see any reason why you will persistently deny your legal husband of SEX. With regards that of Aisha, the prophet has tried to caution Aisha by leaving a husbands house WITHOUT PERMISSION WILL be unacceptable, as he is the bread winner and leader of the family, or maybe I should ask if it's good to leave husband house without permission. To be continued.....

I accepted some of the views that Koran thinks for us and we follow, and this is because we are not invisible or in control, had it been you are in control, you should have found a WAY OR THOUGHT to LIVE TILL ETERNITY AND NOT TO DIE, so I am expecting those that can think on their own to bring a plan on how to be immortal. Secondly on domestic violence, I think the viewers were just too myopic, they have identified one way but what of other ways that you have succeeded in circumventing and singling out wife beating WHY. And again it should be part of the characteristics of a good religion to have prescribed and proscribed REALITY and not to prescribe and proscribed WHAT IS IN LINE WITH YOUR SELFISH AGGRANDISEMENT AND BLIND THOUGHT. Islam says if you fear dissertion between you and your wives, then you ADMONISH them when they misbehave, IF IT'S NOT WORKING then you DISSERT THEM ON BED and if it's not working then You BEAT THEM. these are the beautiful stages before beating, and it goes further to say if they are corrected, then you HANG YOUR MALICE AND APOLOGIZE. All these was just to prevent divorce or grudges, and if really she is a GOOD WIFE she won't fall a victim of the third stage and that is the REALITY, and even if she is to be beaten, scholars have put down a very fair procedure in doing that. Lastly on the hadith you have brought in, they are all misunderstood, and I will indulge you to read the reasons behind the prophets judgment on them, and stop interpreting on surface of it

I found this unbelievable too especially knowing what kind of character he used to play in films, but if that is TRUE then I now firmly reaffirm and bliv that nothing is hard for God to do

What I failed to understand regarding this jamb of a thing was that is it not possible to access and Mark automatically as you are answering the questions since it is computer based test? At least it will be more realistic than to go back and change or alter the score of people