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Four weeks is a long time.
We pray that he comes out negative at the end of it all.
Our prayers for him and for his young family. (He's only 31).
We pray he recovers ASAP.
There shall be no more deaths pertaining Covid-19 in our nation..........
Get well soon Mohammed.

My problem is not the prayer issue. We could not have been in this mess the first place if the border was close only. Secondly, the could have quarantine all those they allow in by force by fire. But when u have a weak and corrupt system of government what do you expect. Religious we are not suppose to allow any body in and out of the country because of this pandemic. But due to greed and selfish interest now you see the end result. What about those poor one that can be affected through communal spread who will gather for them. Somebody will say they deed have been done but that is the stupid excuse Nigerians especially the leader always give. We are not proactive so we are a failed state. I wish him quick recovery but we should know that most of these our leaders deserve hanging I swear they do.

Coronavirus is not a joking matter please.
You won't wish this on your enemy.
Show some sympathy for his family biko..


You are 101% right Chairman.
But that is the reason we need to show the world we are better than the enemies of the nation.
The hateful and wicked lots that abound.
The whole world is reading.
Kill them with kindness and love.
Thanks for your very mature comments here always sir.
How we wish we have just a dozen of your kind on the forum.
We pray Mohammed recovers ASAP.

We Rise!

Erediauwa:
Lagos and Abuja returnees now treated like Outcast (What the Igbos call Osú) in their own society....

This will affect them psychologically and also make them lose their sense of belonging.


No good Data Base in this country, that would have help to track any indigene or citizen coming into the state from Lagos or Abuja not this embarrassing method.

ezenna191:
FFK is nothing but a disgrace to this country and indeed his generation. I keep imagining why he was ever appointed a federal minister. Shame unto FFK for his illicit efforts to discourage philanthropists and stop humanitarian assistance to poor African countries.

muhammad4islam:


Well, first go back to your husband, report her to the police first and get evidence that she is the one that pour the hot water. Even by voice record and lastly after leaving the place to your husband place. Call your dad and threaten him that if such act or similar act repeat itself again you are going to burn your step mum alive (Even if he don't care his brain will get it and that fear will make his to cautious your step mom. I hate wickedness. Firstly you can forgive and let go but for the second time and eye for eye is the only way out). If assuming is shariah court that is the only ruling I want nothing else people can be that wicked and be over looked not at all).

JONNYSPUTE:
.Don't pour her hot water. Let her concience judge her.
Go back to your husband's house and manage with him so you don't lose your baby. Bet you can't say what her next action will be.

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

2buffagain:
Gentlemen. The reality of living in the 20th century has changed, and so must every notion formed from previous days that no longer hold weight today.

Women are not the only ones who should be asking what you do.
You should also be asking her what she does....and guaging her wifeability from her response.
Nobody likes to suffer...yourself included. So why sign up for a lifetime of every financial request of your immediate family (and possibly both your extended families ) coming to just you alone?

Gone are the days where families survived on one income alone. Those days, houses in Nigeria used to cost #5M or less. These same houses now cost well over #30M.

I can bet your income did not also inflate 6x over the same time.

The reality is that you need a wife who also brings something home, and honestly it should hopefully be around the same (or more God willing) of what you pull in.

This way one person's income can cover the family stuff and the other person's income goes towardssavings/investments/emergencies/joblessness buffering/ etc. Your family will go farther and you can even both retire earlier if this is done right.

Also Naija guys please, have some respect for yourself.
If you meet a girl and she has the mental configuration of always wanting money from you, just know that she is not the one.

As a sister here once said, "A girl who truly likes you, won't ask you for money...unless it's bad and you are her last resort."
Na woman talk am. Believe that sister. Peep that one game from her, and most of you will be alright.

If a girl really likes you, she'll be too busy trying to think of ways to be an asset to your life or impress you...not a taker.

Get you a girl who makes her money with a good source of income and who understands that her income is to be included in plans.

You have been told.
You should be done with your broke girl phase right about now ^{(much like how women should be done with their bad boy stage).}
It does nothing for your life.

NOTE: I am not saying go and marry an idiot because she makes money.... Obviously.
You are still looking for a good wife, who just ALSO happens to be equipped with income and/or good income prospects and drive.

LMAyedun: Baseless!

chinex276:

austin ejide is a disaster 2 watch, i jus cant believe a club throws out money 2 keep him in post, as 4 mikel.,..(no comment) bt his per4mance was beta dan d world cup. Thank God 4 making keshi come bk 4rm his brief stay at d psyka3.