₦airaland Forum

Chatters: Men like you end up with bullets in their heads. slowpoke!!!

Triciana gal: I don't know where you have been but in most marriages these days the women contribute at least 50 percent financially and in lot of cases even more. So if the husband only earns enough to rent a face me I face you but the wife's salary can get a nice apartment in a good area, they should stay in the face me in face in because she doesn't want him to become a wife . A man's responsibility is not only financial, as long as he gives his all no matter how little he is fulfilling his responsibility. It us only lazy ones that will relax and leave the wife alone to do it that women have a problem with.

Afam4eva: I won't blame you if you call it entrapment. That's the word the proponents of the warped equality in marriage have been using. Our mothers never complained about their roles and were doing it willingly, so who are you to tell them that they were entrapped? Did they tell you they want to be financially independent. Are you aware that when you marry a man, both of you become ONE and everything he owns becomes yours and vice-versa. So, why would anyone say a woman is entrapped in marriage because she does not make her own money. You people should fear God oo.

Chatters: Chinelo, which culture? Pls speak for yourself. I assume you are igbo. No igbo culture dictates that. Wake up from your slumber and stop being myopic. So you are telling me you are a slave to your hubby just because he married you? I pity such mentality. Its women like you that makes men treat them like trash!!

De Beauvoir: Is that what the Iman preached in the mosque yesterday?

Anyway I don't agree with your biased and sexist opinion. Women are equally as intelligent as men so there is no reason why they should throw away their decision making abilities and start "submitting" to another person and letting that person decide how they live their lives.

Marriage should be about understanding and agreement and couples should discuss anything they want to implement in their marriage instead of following ridiculous laws about how the women must always submit to what the man says.

De Beauvoir: Abi ooo!

Allahuwakbar!!!

Masha Allaaahhh!!!!!

Afam4eva: Why must she marry a poor decision maker, sadist or sociopath. I can't phantom how a woman will see all these negative qualities in a man and still go ahead to marry him and go about complaining later in marriage and complaining why a man should be the head. It's incumbent for a man to be the head because popular culture dictates so. That does not mean it's cast in stone. Anybody can be the head and anybody can submit imo but both parties have to agree. Marriage is about agreement. You don't go marrying in a church where you took an oath to submit to your husband and not later have a problem with doing what you swore to do. if you can't submit then don't swear by that oath or don't marry at all. Marriage is not by force.

enigmatique: My dear bros, I totally support ur line of thinking, but d problem I just av wit u is d usage of d word "roles". My broda make we talk true, roles change. But let us look deeper into "purpose" e.g why does the female av a womb while d male doesn't? Of course d answer will be "Because she is meant to bear/carry the children". Roles change e.g don't women av careers today? Think about it.

chineloSA: In some marriages there is equality, hence I said men should not be deprived of that last right left of them. Men are not our wives, They are our husbands and should be given that opportunity to be husbands.

De Beauvoir: Of course you won't see anything wrong with the idea that women are supposed to be subservient to men because you are male and the misogynistic laws of your bible favour you. Why is it always incumbent on women to submit to men?
What if she's married to a poor decision maker? Or a sadist? Or sociopath?
She should always submit to him because the ancient jews that invented your religion said so abi?

De Beauvoir: Wonders shall never end. In the minds of Nigerian men, wife=slave.

After suffering through pregnancy, giving birth and then spending her entire life taking care of the child, the man still decides every single decision they take concerning the child because one fabricated book said that women should be submissive and men must always be the head regardless of whether they have leadership skills or not.

Women have really suffered.

chineloSA: Continue luv. Stop resisting as well. You cant divorce because of this

beryl04: No need wasting mb on u .u don't even know what bigot means and ur here taking on a topic that is way beyond your intellect.I wudnt wanna talk to u cos I mean, with that user name of yours one begins to wonder what can really come out of u. no offense bro ,peace and am out.
but pardon me to ask,are u a closetted homo?

masonkz: You should be the one to get educated, and if you really are educated, go ask for a refund.

chineloSA: Abeg, leave God out of this. He doesnt like abuse sef. See your religion

nora544: a husband should love his wife not beat her.

I know some man when they have problems with there work and they go home they put all what they want to say to there boss, so when a man want to beat his boss he will beat his wife when she say something what he didnot like and if it is only that he has to wait for the dinner 5 minutes more.

chineloSA: I don't want a perfect man neither. If your religion say that woman should be beaten and endure, I choose Satan. Aaaaaaah aaaah. Maybe Satan is better.

So a woman should appreciate that she is being abused, demeaned for the community to see??
I asked you should a man stay if he is being abused

chineloSA: I want to beat you because you deserve that. How can you say that, Did God send anyone to beat the wife and hence, the wife should stay. Leave God out of this, abeg.

What if its a man who is being physicallly abused. Should he stay??

nora544: I know what your name mean

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mujahideen

you write that a woman has no right for a divorse but you have it and you can divorse her very fast only with 3 words

Mujah1deen: What of olushola and Abike

chineloSA: Aaaaaah, when a man physical abuses me, I should stay.

If I could, I was gonna beat you with a whole tray off eggs.

nora544: so when he kill me it is also okay, sorry but this could come only from you your name tell me all about you.

I know what woman have for a life in Afganistan, where woman have no rights, where an animal has a better life than a woman.

stoned: "All truth passes through three stages.
First, it is ridiculed.
Second, it is violently opposed.
Third, it is accepted as being self-evident"
Arthur Schopenhauer ...

GSKing: I WILL GO WHEREVER I FREAKING PLEASE!!!

prove your post right by quoting a verse from your quaran where homosexuality is forbidden and where it is written that jungle justice be meted out on them... if not, STOP BLUFFING

GSKing: Give me a quaran quote to back up this quoted post above!