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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mumels(m): 9:12am On Apr 05, 2018
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Romance / Re: How Do Girls Prefer Being Talked To? Face To Face or Chat? Please Answers by mumels(m): 8:32am On Mar 28, 2018
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Am disappointed. Are you sure you are a responsible mature man? A responsible man will never write this trash. By the way whats future husband got to do with this? Obviously someone is doing the same to your future wife too.

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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mumels(m): 2:55pm On Jan 30, 2018
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Romance / Re: How Can I Get Her Laid? by mumels(m): 11:30am On Dec 30, 2017
MrSavage:
Hi Guys,
I need your help.
Been Spending money on this girl for 2 years now and i haven't seen pant. Taken to choice resturants buying her gifts and all that still all i hear is i love you for mouth. now i get my chance after a late night show she slept over at my place and she is still here am thinking hard how can i get her laid because now this girls would be shouting rape on any small thing. And i am a gentle man at least let me collect small dividend.

Abeg advice

Please move on. This is a lost cause. 2 years is too much. Don't waste your money again. Just accept your that you have used your money to do mmm on this girl. Free yourself and move on.
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mumels(m): 8:28am On Dec 25, 2017
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Romance / Need Advice Please by mumels(m): 12:38pm On Nov 01, 2017
Guys please need urgent advice.

There is this girl i met about 9 months ago. I fell for her the instant i saw her. I didn't hesitate to ask her out on a date, on the day of the date, we spoke and laughed and talked about so many things and I made it known to her she is the one have been searching for all the while.

Now at first she told me about her past relationship and how the guy jilted her and how she doesn't think she can get married again and stuffs like that, also she gave me an excuse that she thinks she and I will likely be the same age, which made me ask her what her age was bit she declined telling me. I didn't push her on that. For that reason i decided i was going to do whatever i can to make her happy and realise not all guys are heartless and incapable of love. I take her out, with the litttle change i have I always send her money on different occasions not much but atleast 10k. 15k. Etc.. Take her to the movies,in short i made sure i tried to always keep her happy even though only God makes a person happy.

Fast forward to 3 months after meeting I invited her over to my place, we kissed and normal stuffs but when i wanted to have sex with her she begged me to please,that she wasn't ready, now please guys don't bash me, am not a saint, have definitely had my share of sex, but since what i wanted from her was marriage i decided to play it cool and gave her what she wanted. I did not pressurize her for sex, infact i made her so comfortable that she has been to my place more than 20 times and we didn't have sex, i just freed her with the hopes we can have a healthy relationship. ofcourse i had other babes i was having sex with casually.


Now issue is along the line she started telling me she doesn't think she can marry me because she hasn't gotte over her past, anytime i bring up the issue she says she is not ready. It got to a time i decided enough is enough, its high time i free her, i started distancing myself from her,I stopped all forms of down to heart things i do for her, i just decided its was time i moved on with my life, there is no point forcing oneself on a person who doesn't want you in their lives. But funny enough she Started saying have changed and she never got tired of sending messages in whatsapp. Even when i read and don't reply she keeps sending messages. At times for a week stretch she will keep Sending messages, i was expecting her to give up but she just won't.

Eventually i had to tell her am not comfortable with her sending. Me messages, i made her realise am not a kid and I can't offer a hand of relationship to you and you offer me friendship. Eventually one of us is going to be at the loosing end.

If all i wanted from her was friendship at first we can relate together without friction. But i know what i want and she just isn't ready to give me what i want, and a time will come she will meet another guy and just forget I existed. Its best i respect my self and avoid been friendzoned.

To cut long story short she sent me a message and told me am not mature, that just because she can't give me what I want, i want to distance my self from her.

So I ask myself what exactly does she takes me for? A fool? She wants a guy that will dance to the beat of her drum. She wants a guy she can always fall on when she needs help, she wants a guy that will be her shoulder to cry on.

Right now am really pissed, cos I made a fool of myself for not fxuking her when i had the chance thinking i was in love, am so pissed for so many reasons.

Have been having impulse to reply her chat but i have decided to control my emotions. Please guys i need your advice, whats the best way to respond to this.


Note please i met her February this year, and till this moment she never told me her age, and she always stress it out that we are going to be the same age even when i outrightly asked her. She keeps evading the question.
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mumels(m): 9:49am On Oct 21, 2017
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Family / Re: . by mumels(m): 10:58am On Sep 12, 2017
All455:
I want to end it all & send her packing.



Long and short of it, it was there and then her friend told me my girlfriend was pregnant for me. That was how I knew for the first time. She then took me to their house where they lived and where incidentally my girl was being treated by an auxiliary nurse with drips since she had been discharged from hospital.

Sorry for the long tale, but I just want you to know the genesis of the whole thing. While there, my girl made a statement in our language which means: "Well I have accepted my fate". I later got to know she had wanted to end the relationship but only invited me to know her place after she discovered she was pregnant. Meanwhile on my own part, I also thought of ending it all with her when she angrily embarrassed me at the bus stop because of money & traveled for the burial and because of her other behavior which I was not comfortable with.

Well we made up because of the unborn baby and continued our relationship. Although I still loved her then but I noticed she never loved me but still loved her ex who was rich and they dated for close to five years but she suddenly discovered both of them were AS genotype. But I'm AA. While we were dating there was a day we had a quarrel (our misunderstanding most times centered around money issues since I was not rich like her ex boyfriend) and she now made a statement and said:"If not for genotype...", she didn't complete the statement but I already knew she meant she would not have been with me if not for genotype incompatibility with her ex.

After she got pregnant, she moved in with me and I took care of every expenses till the baby was born and up till this moment I still cater for everything. I later traveled & met with her family, met her dad since her mum is late since she was a little girl. Due to the negative story she fed her dad about me and about my inability to attend the burial and about me not giving her money then, her dad already thought bad about me, but after I met him and subsequently, he discovered it was not my fault and that I was not that type of person who could do such because he knows the type of daughter he has and her stubborn nature.

Since then she's been disturbing me about the marriage plans and it's been my wish to take her to the alter, but as I said, a lot of things have prevented it, most especially finance, and also our frequent squabbles whenever I'm broke which happens temporarily at times. She doesn't give me peace of mind at all whenever I have little or no money and she stresses me so much and nags a lot and in fact when she was pregnant, there was a time she told me in anger that why don't I go and do money ritual. I was so shocked by this statement and told her I can never do rituals and if she's not ready to endure with me, she can go her way.

She keeps saying that after suffering while single, why should she continue suffering in marriage? To her she's already married. And by the way she's not even suffering at all because I do my best to provide everything we need. But just because of the recession issues we feel occasionally and because I don't have a car yet to measure up to her expectations and the type of lifestyle she aspires to, it becomes a problem because she's not patient enough. Because she has lived big life with her ex who even had a driver/many staff under his employment. I've called her bluff several times and told her as long as she's no longer with her ex, she must never talk about him to me.

I used to love her but she completely destroyed all the love I had for her with her behavior of constantly stressing me, constant nagging, no manner of approach at all, stubborn, talking anyhow, no self control whenever she's angry. There were times she uttered curses to me but later denied doing so. She talks anyhow at home and after saying things she's not supposed to say to me, she would sometimes deny saying them after realizing the gravity of her words. For her to apologize is a no no, she would most times never apologize to me for wrongs done. But I usually overlooked them.

If things are not too smooth financially for me, little or no sex for me. There was a time we never did it for SEVEN months.She always claimed she doesn't like sex but someone told me it's because she doesn't love me that's why she doesn't usually like to have sex with me. We are not even sexually compatible at all because she doesn't like it while I like it a lot. I've most times not enjoyed this relationship with her, I've only been enduring because of my baby because I don't want the baby to suffer but I think it's time to quit.

Nothing I do pleases her, no matter how I try, no matter how I hussle to provide for the home, no matter what I do, she will only pretend to appreciate it for a moment, after sometime she will condemn it and say I have done nothing. Last year December I rented another apartment, 2 bedroom nearer to where she works, because of the distance, so we relocated there, just to make her happy.

The main problem now is this. We live in a popular city in the south west. My mum lives in a popular city in the North Central. Just six days ago, the house where my mum lives, which I built for her more than ten years ago when I was more financially buoyant, the house was demolished by the government alongside many other houses in the whole area and as I'm writing this,my aged mother of over 65 years alongside the little nine years old boy living with her are currently outside in the rain in this harsh weather and rain. Many of our properties have been stolen by area boys and miscreants because the demolition took them unawares.

The value of the land and house alone which we lost due to the demolition is over FIVE MILLION NAIRA not to talk of other properties lost in the ensuing confusion. That house demolished is my only hope before it was demolished and my mum's only hope too. My mum has been sick for the past nine years or more and has been in and out of hospital constantly. I'm her only son, she just had two of us, myself and my elder sister and my elder sister is not in any position to assist since she's not working/still squatting with someone. So everything falls on me now. No help from anywhere, no family can help, and they've never helped before.

I can't allow my mum out in the cold & rain while I live in a two bedroom apartment and having a room all to myself, no way. So I told my woman everything that happened & I decided that I would bring my aged mother to the south west to live with us temporarily till I'm able to raise money to rent another place for her or probably get a bigger apartment where we can all live (if possible). Pls note that the house was demolished six days ago and as I write this, my aged mother and that our little nine years old boy are still outside in the rain & sun.

But I got the shock of my life when my woman whom I call my wife even though we're not officially married said she would never allow me bring my mum to live with us. She said it's over her dead body would she live with my mum because mother-in-laws can destroy marriages. I don't know what marriage she's trying to protect even when she never makes me happy but I still keep enduring her behavior. She said that she can't live with my mum because my mum is wicked. I was shocked. Mind you she has never met my mum before up till this moment as I write this! She only spoke to my mum on phone once. So how can you conclude someone
you've never met is wicked?

I want all Nigerians to judge this matter before I do something terrible because I can never allow my mum to be outside in the rain with that little boy while a lady I've not even married lives comfortably in a two bedroom flat. I've told her I don't have any money yet to rent a place for my mum because just last month I spent over 150k to buy things in the house including baby clothes, her own clothes and household items just to make life comfortable for her. But she would never appreciate it.

I told her it's urgent and I need to first rehabilitate my mum before thinking of renting a place for her later but she told me to go rent a place for her and that she doesn't want my mum to live with us. So I now know she hates my mum, so how can I marry someone who doesn't love me and hates my mum? She hates my mother and says she's wicked even without having met her before just because of the story she heard about my mum that she didn't take care of me and my elder sister and I struggled for many years on my own, saw myself through school even when my juniors were already graduated & working. But does that concern my woman? Is she not still my mother no matter what? I just met her (my woman/wife) three years ago, so what concerns her about what happened in my family many years ago?

I never wanted to bring my mum to live with us in the first place but this is an emergency situation and I can't help it and I'm now left with no other alternative and I want all Nigerians to tell me if I've done the wrong thing by wanting to bring my mum here to save her life because right now her life is in danger. In fact she even sustained injuries on her leg on that day as they were demolishing the house and in the midst of the confusion while trying to save some properties.

She has hated my mum right from when we were dating, even without having met my mum and I remember there was a time I called my mum and as we discussed about my girl then, my mum now asked me which part of the town (my girl's town) she was from, so I told her I would ask my girl and get back to her. So I later asked my girl but instead of her to answer, she hissed and said: "foolish question". I was really seriously mad with her then for such remark.

Yes I know she's stubborn and I've seriously tried to tackle her behavior many times which is why she has even calmed down a bit since she knows I won't tolerate it. Now she's not even concerned about my mum's condition and up till now she has not even called my mum to commiserate with her over the loss. She never even bothered about the fact that it's my own money, my own millions of naira investment that just went down the drain with that demolition. She still insists she can't allow my mum stay with us, despite I told her that I would give my own room to my mum,so she can't inconvenience her in any way. The shocking thing is that instead of my woman to feel for me and also for my mum for this trying times for us, she rather told me point blank that it serves me right!

She said I abandoned her when her granny died, so it serves me right! I couldn't believe it, it was as if I was dreaming. Nigerians I'm so downcast right now, I can't believe my woman can be so heartless to this extent. Right now we're hardly on talking terms. She just minds her baby and leaves me to wallow in my pain and loss, what a cruel world! Nobody to console me in this pain and loss?

I've told her instead of my mum to be outside suffering in the rain, let her (my woman) sleep outside in the rain since I now know she doesn't love me. If she doesn't accept my mum, I would rather send her packing back to her father and rehabilitate my mum first. This is a woman I've not even married yet giving orders and trying to separate me from my family, so what will happen if after I don marry am finish? Wetin she nogo do?

I've decided to go bring my mum next week or upper week because I can't continue to let her suffer in the rain and with no roof over her head. It's either she accepts her or I'll send her back to her father.

Pls Nigerians let me know your advice and what you think. I wrote this with tears in my eyes. Sorry for taking so much of your time. Thanks in advance.



Please and please brother. Don't marry that woman. If you do, you are dead.

She is still In love with her ex and to be honest with you, if opportunity occurs for her to meet her ex in a location thats hidden they will keep fuxking dem self till Eternity.

You don't manage marriage o. You either enjoy it or you regret it.

Never marry out of pity.

Take care of your son and free her. Don't live to regret your decisions and indecision. Man up.

As for loving her, so many girls out there who are waiting to show their genuine love.
Romance / Re: How Do I Know If She Likes Or Love Me? by mumels(m): 12:53am On Sep 11, 2017
TheGenius001:
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Yeah we are Course mates am a year older than her.I don't know if she is in a relationship with someone or not because each time I ask her,she says the question is
insensitive. She is the SU(scripture uniun type) or the church type and yeah the genuine one.So i don't think she is any relationship.Also she went to GIRLS school (Boarding ).


I love her and she knows I do.But she has this self defence mechanism that will detect any slight mistake I make towards her.The other day she told me by a chat on whatsapp that I should give up on her stating that other people may not like you(me) the way you(I) do for them.But when I called her to give me reason why she told me to let off her,She said its because she doesn't understand me so far.That she doesn't know what I'm up to and that she doesn't even know the reason
why she said so.
This response made me confused the more.
Does she love me or not.

I on a normal day I don't bounce into a relationship just like that.And am not in a hurry to tell her my intentions but its like that it is just what she wants me to do(I.e to tell her my intentions of being her boyfriend ).Cos am afraid if I should tell her, so quickly,she might turn me down.I want us to start as friends first.And it will be very painful for me if she turns me down.
She doesn't even talk much with me on whatsapp like the other girls I know.She doesn't even instigate conversation at all ether on Facebook or whatsapp.

Or maybe she is naive about relationship stuffs?,I don't know.

I love her so very much.
Dear Nairalanders do you think she loves me?
Or
do I let go?


Mind you, the love I mean is not lustful or infatuation.

My guy you are on a suicidal path. Please and please. Free the girl, she has nothing to offer you. I have been there too, infact if you may know, she only sees you as one of them.
One thing is certain she knows you love her, the simplest language anyone understands in this world, is the language of love. So she knows, but she is not ready to love you back.

In other to avoid emotional drama and disaster please free the girl.

My guy just try and work on yourself, go to parties, ceremonies, occassions there are so many girls out there waiting to reciprocate your love.

Thats my one cent for you.
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mumels(m): 9:28am On Aug 09, 2017
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Religion / Re: We Will Christianize Nigeria If Muslims Islamise the Country- Cardinal Onaiyekan by mumels(m): 5:01am On Jul 03, 2017
Bari22:
When it comes to this matter the real illeteracy of nigerian xtians is exposed
1. All courses from primary to university are being taught in english the languange which nigerian xtians are reading their bible, yet nigerian muslims never cry of chrisanization.
2. Muslims must go to work on fridays but saturdays and sundays are declared weekends for xristians to go churches. Yet no muslim cry of christanization.
3. 70% of federal workers are xtians yet muslims never cry of christanization.
4. Of 16 years of pdp rule: 14 years are for southern xtians and only 2 years are for muslims, yet no single muslim cry christanization of nigeria.

The most annoying thing is, the people shouting for this islamization are not even true true xtians they are just politicians. Eg when did ffk become CAN spokeperson?

Another annoying thing is the so called men of god (men of money) who are misguiding their gullible and illeterate xtian followers. I wonder what is the meaning of literacy if the so-calle xtians are literac

I wish i was close.by, i ought to spank you to the heavens. Are you this stupid. When last was Christianity forced on anyone in Nigeria. When last where did any Muslim student got forced to take CRK. Guy you are very dumb and stupiid

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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mumels(m): 10:51am On Jun 29, 2017
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