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[quote author=Mathewrichard99 post=133642039]So much tribalism on this forum and I have discovered something very important to note here.

It's mostly the hungry, jobless and poverty stricken few here on this forum and partly many of you that don't even know how the next meal will come from and those doing illegal deals like drugs couriers, 419, Yahoo Yahoo, Agberos and Alright Sir boys that rely solely on those stupid politicians to breathe.

Those are the urchins, touts, Agberos, tribal bigots that comes here on Nairaland making derogatory remarks about Igbos and Yorubas here.

Come out to the decent world of collaboration between Igbos and Yorubas and see unbelievable things happening. Come and see successful Yorubas and Igbos in successful collaboration.

It's ain't hate filled bigots here on this platform that we supposed to be listening to. Great things are happening at the front desk of success in between those two great tribes.

In addition to that unique successful collaboration which ofcourse has been in existence for decades.

Those wonderful great tribes also doesn't allow you guys hatred to limit or debar the proposition of marriage within them.

You are here dying of hatred and bigotry speech while the open hearted, liberated souls among the tribes are leaping higher and even marrying one another.

Yorubas and Igbos doesn't even much difference between them.

They have interwoven deeply, coexist too long and differentiating them is like separating oil from soap.

You bigots here just need to step up and get a life. You need to get busy with your miserable life this new year 2025.

Your smarts tribesmen and women have seen the joy, the liberation and the peace of cohabitating with other tribes in love and peace but the miserable ones that live in penury die everyday with tribal hates.

There is so much love in tribal diversity. Try it and live long in joy, wealth and absolute peace...[/quote
] The same thing I complain about on nairaland. The tribalism here is not for the faint hearted. Twitter too is terrible

Yet Nuhu Ribadu kept saying kidnapping has reduced. I said it on this forum that he should take a drive on Abuja kaduna road, or even Abuja lokoja/ kogi road without security and come back and tell us how far. Few weeks back some people were kidnapped again around kogi. I travel a lot and I really hear heartbreaking stories from passengers and drivers who have had to escape kidnappings

Lukuluku69:
Just wait small. It will come.

Some will be bold, some careful while some will drop it cryptally but be sure it will come.

Just watch this space.

😀 I think they are just being more careful. COVID 19 period was a great lesson to them all.
But ordinarily they usually resume prophecies by 2nd week of December. Even Prophet Ayodele has been silent

I just realized today that we have not heard prominent religious leaders dishing out prophecies like other years. It's unusual. Or did I miss anyone at all?

Usually by this time of the year, you would hear all sorts of prophecies from different clerics, but this year ending has unusually been silent.

Anyone of you heard anything yet?

Make your comments without insults. Every thing no be quarrel. Let's enter the new year with a new mindset abeg.

May God bless her and bless her hustles. And may she live long to enjoy the fruits of her labour. I have a thing for plantain sellers because at a point in my life, I did the business but I was loading J5 of plantain from edo state to zuba Abuja. Along the line I had to stop the business for a lot of reasons.

The plantain is cheap for that amount, if you consider how much you can get it elsewhere

Atuero:
While ladies with integrity are Daughters of Zion , this one is a daughter of a crooked political criminal ex- convict


If Nigeria were working, the family of all those confirmed rogue politicians are supposed to be banned from holding any political and leadership positions


She is proudly boasting of APC that has turned hardworking Nigerians into rice beggars, a scenario that has never happened in the history of Nigeria

Idiot wants to bury PDP that changed her family status and history

infact this your last sentence sent goosebumps into my skin. Can you just imagine an ingrate?. She should just have shut her mouth instead of blabbing to that point. She wants to bury the party that her father used it's platform to feed her

TimeManager:
Would you deny that kidnapping has significantly reduced?. As the NSA he owes a duty to dispel any contrary reports.

-Kiss the truth!

it hasn't my brother. I am not being political here. It's actually on the increase. Most times our politicians as you know tell these half truths to make us feel they are performing.

This man should just keep quiet and be doing whatever he is doing silently. Why these chest beating?
Kidnapping on the roads and inside villages are still on the high side.
Why these lies from Ribadu?
Does he travel by road?

RealityKings1:
This is Nigeria where people don't honor the law nor respect people work diligently...
Why is the general not following the law and go to court if he feels wronged

court that wike is building houses for? I laugh in kwale. The general knows what's up

dauntless15:
I won't refute your story, you're the only one who know what happened so that's that, just saying it's alot, stay strong, the worst has come and gone, it only get better from then on.

thanks 👍

dauntless15:
Kai you suffered, sometimes I read stuff like this and I just live in denial cuz how come you keep getting the thrashy treatment when you don't have your own faults. And why would someone treat you this way because you're ambitious or you want to earn your own money, cuz ambitious women wey I dey find I no see. Then lastly how do you people meet such guys, cuz your story sounds absurd and unbelievable like you embellished it.

I don't embellish stories for any reason. Truth they say is bitter and always sounds strange. But it happened and there are worst stories that are stranger than what you just read. I wanted to create a thread about it a while ago, but I was like, no need. Nobody would believe me. So I kept it to myself. I am writing a book about it though and my children have been very supportive. Most times the things you read or watch in movies are real life experiences. Because it didn't happen to you, doesn't mean its not happening to someone else

Being in a political party doesn't necessarily mean a political officer will do better or worse.

It's about the heart of the politician and his desire to better the lives of his people. We have seen politicians in opposing parties doing far better and vice versa.

How does that judge sleep at night after delivering that harsh judgement on a 17 year old? I don't condone or support even the smallest theft, but for goodness sake that judgement was harsh. And it may surprise you, that this type of judge is the one that receives bribes to truncate justice. Meanwhile a big man will steal billions and go with his supporters and praise singers to court, knowing fully well that he will get a chicken feed penalty. But poor man will steal Maggi or sugar and get life sentence or death penalty

AmalaAtiEwedu:
after him don slice, dice, dive and swim inside ur toto taya
na who d chop ur kpekus now?
u don marry?

I am not a saint, I am a well brought up woman. So languages like you used above and that type of question doesn't really go well with my system. This type of bluntness you exhibited in this comment gets to me. Thanks anyway.

kentebemoney:
Wow!!!!
I thought these acts were just in movies oooo.
Doh!!! My sister.
From your profile, It shows you are in abj. If you cook sweet Jollof rice this Christmas, abeg invite me oooo cus na big escape you escape so.
God bless you!!!!

🤣🤣 thanks so much. I go invite you. Let me note it down

luminouz:
You fine well well but no proof.. yinmu!!!

Oya send me your picture or you don marry?

Sorry o.. Grandma

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luminouz:
😳😳😳
Nah...I refuse to believe this till I hear the man's side biko.

no wahala. Truth can always be very difficult to believe. I really don't need to convince you. It's my truth and I am saying it for us all to learn our lessons and look out for red flags. Nobody is perfect, but there are things that should make you reconsider Your stands in a relationship. If I had died and maybe someone else was telling the story,guess, you would have still told the person it was a lie that you can only believe it if I came out of the grave to tell it. I am too matured to make up stories or even tell tales that would make me look like the heroine and the man as a foe, but seriously it happened the way I told it.

DAntivirus:
Funny...

But I still think there's a side of this story that you're not telling...

You couldn't have been all perfect, mushy and cuddly while he was all beastly, vile and evil...

Sounds like a fairytale... sorry to say

I have been expecting this. Nobody ever said I was perfect. Nobody is perfect. But at times our own imperfections pales out by a higher imperfection. Hope you understand what I mean?

And any imperfection that comes with physical, verbal abuse and all round domestic violence, it's not really worth it.

tollyboy5:
Be strong,God will see you through. He will later regret it.
I pray it should not be too late for him.
Stay blessed

Amen. I pray it's not too late honestly. And like I would always tell his friends to tell him, he should not forget his old age. Because his children may be beyond his reach when he needs them as he has abandoned them now. I tell them to tell him that because he would definitely need his children later and as I have tried to make his children reach out to him even though he refuses, he may later regret it

Ekstraz:
Are you still available?

For now absolutely not. Just trying to bring up my Children for now.

tollyboy5:
Six years is not much. He's just a crazy person.
Pele dear

🤣🤣 thanks so much. I appreciate 🙏

tollyboy5:
You're now off age o! 🤣
And I was saying "Pele dear", it should be "Epele Ma".
Please whatever might have been the misunderstanding between you and your husband, please don't separate your children from their father. And don't let them bear your pain against their father.
God bless you..
I've voted

Never!! Never . Infact he is the one that refuses to have any thing to do with the children. They call him to wish him happy father's day, merry Christmas and infact good wishes. But he refuses and rejects them. He doesn't want to be a part of their lives. God bless you really good for your kind thoughts and good wishes. And you voted? I am humbled and feel honoured too.
May God bless you and your family

Hellisreal70:
Ma, you can try Christ.
With Christ there is no crisis

of course I have tried Christ and still in Christ. It's my lord Jesus who has been my rock and my refuge. He stood by me and sent human helpers to me

mrkenny05:
We, nice man still dey,
But your 'kind' hardly see ...

NOTE : KIND ...

without being self delusional but with pure clarity of purpose,
You meet us,
But we are far a rare gem,
Hard to come by,
Often misjudged by outward..
But we know who we are,
Silently living life,
Contented with little we have,
Praying for more to come ...
Living a crime free life, cos we never force things to our way....

We are serious commiter to any relationship,
Business, partnership and love life....

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you are absolutely correct with the above analysis. But like they say, life no balance. Opposite usually always attracts. Don't know why🤦

tollyboy5:
I'm so sorry for you to have such terrible experience.
I think he was far too older than you, your parent should have guided you properly.
All is well tho.
It's safer to be single with peace of mind than to be with a beast.
I hope you're doing well now?

Please guys help me vote my daughter to win this spoken word/ poem competition
God bless you all

https://sageatwords.com/vote/spoken-word-contest/1449

tollyboy5:
I'm so sorry for you to have such terrible experience.
I think he was far too older than you, your parent should have guided you properly.
All is well tho.
It's safer to be single with peace of mind than to be with a beast.
I hope you're doing well now?

he was 6 years older, but like I said I was naive and I hid a lot of things from my parents because I knew that if I told them, they would seperate us. So I suffered in silence

Dogalmighty17:
This really torches my heart. Where are you now? How are you holding up? How is life treating you?

it was the worst time of my life. No jobs, no business, no money, but my friends stood by me. I contemplated suicide severally, but the live if my children held me back. At a point I tried going to beg the same person that threw me out for the sake of being with my children, but my son and older daughter told me that if I did that,they would never forgive me because they preferred me staying apart from them than they seeing his violence on me. Eventually I went for my children when he began to deny me access to them. Even stopped them from going to school, so I would not be visiting them in school.

The day I went for my children with welfare people, he said that for the fact that I was taking the children away, he would never assist with their welfare or anything. And he stood by his word for years. My children were minors. I was tired of fighting. I was a wreck. We began to sleep in my brother's sitting room floor. Until some how God showed up through the people I had helped and we moved to a 2 bedroom.
I suffered ooo.
I really did.
The things I went through.
But God has been faithful.
I have the most wonderful children ever.
Good children who stood by me.
Tightly knit in love for one another. God fearing, devoted to the things of the lord and extremely smart.

That reminds me.please guys help me vote my daughter to win this competition. Open the link and see how she wrote and recited this spoken word/ poem.
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mrkenny05:
We, nice man still dey,
But your 'kind' hardly see ...

NOTE : KIND ...

without being self delusional but with pure clarity of purpose,
You meet us,
But we are far a rare gem,
Hard to come by,
Often misjudged by outward..
But we know who we are,
Silently living life,
Contented with little we have,
Praying for more to come ...
Living a crime free life, cos we never force things to our way....

We are serious commiter to any relationship,
Business, partnership and love life....

Ohh,

Where would you meet us....
With this our yearly comment...

E-mail for an enquiry.....

🤣🤣 how nice

tollyboy5:
How do you fall in love with someone this m@d. You're also a problem to have make such heavy mistake and give birth to four

. Me sef I no understand myself ooo. I was young and naive.it took a toll on me

Sp1ritHusband:
It was not your duty to build his confidence.

of course it should not be me, but I tried doing it for peace sake.

Dogalmighty17:
Are you still with him?

He threw me out of the house at midnight so many years ago. He and his siblings said that a prophet told them I was a witch and wanted to kill him. I knew it was simply because I was trying to do a little marketing of products to be earning small small money by the side o. Because any time we had issues, he would deny me access to funds. So his ego was damaged 😀😀

So they threw me out o.

id4sho:
Ahhhhh, am a male. Assault is no no for me 😕

God bless you