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Saintmary:
Your virtuous woman nonsense killed Osinachi.


Women have been kind enough in this country, if men are not ready to meet in the middle, women should stay put and stay beautiful.


Make posts for men and raise your sons better.

Hello sweetheart❤

Where in my post did u see that a woman should endure domestic violence

For Christ sake, divorce has been made very easy for us, even with benefits

Read well before you rush to type

Smartriya:
BS.:
You see this man upstairs i neva see him kind o!
I want to say a big thank you to all wonderful mommas on here.
In the past couple of weeks i was on meds to manage early contractions.
On Saturday 9th April I and my family moved into a project we we working on( i didnt do anything stressful) my hubby did the moving.
By night i had the most painful back to back contractions. Told hubby i felt baby wasn't ready to wait any longer.
On Sunday had guest come in to visit by past midnight i had a membrane rupture. Small of my fluids started to pass. I checked into the hospital 10mins later and was giving steroids.

My doctor came in 7am to assess thgs and since i was booked to have a scheduled c-section for May 1st cos of plenty issues. He decided to go for an emergency csection cos the fluid would stop and then start to leak.

During the surgery the team lead had to ask his partner to leave me and help the nurse resuscitate my son...for a while tot we lost him but God Almighty showed up in his usual way. My son had asphyxia. All i heard was another nurse rush in to say the paediatrician just arrived. He was actually away on a trip and for some reason felt he needed to be around.

I'm gradually recovering, my son is off oxygen and phototherapy. We are homeeee!

Wow
Congratulations❤
Speedy healing upon you and LO
Amen

Dijah07:
New member, team August... Hope I'm wellcome

You are welcome sweetheart❤

FlowerGirl040:
As for the lady that come to my mailbox this morning to insult me,to even think you just registered today,you must be a guess reading or a mama here who don't want to reveal herself. I will let it slide but your next message will determine if I will deal with you or not. I am not a fool.

Even when your hurtful words and insults made me shed tears,it made me stronger and determined not weak and helpless. Thank you

Like seriously someone did that, why didn't that person say that rubbish here, or is it a man.

What didn't kill us only makes us stronger
Let go
Pay no attention to that person without courage to speak here

waistbead:
When people call you barren and finally God bless you with pregnancy,my teamies ,waistbea need to come out with 26 inches bone straight to go for ANC looking peng to tell them that God is not their age mate .



Faithful God...

Cute good looking mama
Cannidian loud joy dey learn for your side

But wait ooo u did that heavy makeup u raise hand up for u, I can't fit cope with make up

MrHighSea:
A man's view.

I attended a wedding last weekend. The Pastor said he won't preach Love and Respect. Every failed and failing marriage began with those. He rather hit hard on Wisdom and Understanding.

It's absolutely wrong for a man to say "If you leave my house no man will marry you".

Healthy communication and killing the malice before it starts helped me. @Mummy mentioned this.

Little things can annoy sm1. I think I can bear seeing you kiss another guy than uncleanliness. Give her millions of dollar and deprive her cuddles, and hell will be let lose and I'll start spending more time in beer parlours.

I came to understand that, cuddles is the "I'm Sorry" and proffering solutions moments.

Let's not stop seeking for Wisdom and Understanding.

The same God that gives us bouncing LOs will keep our families united so the LOs don't bounce out of complete parental care.

Thanks for the input sir

voucher:
This your list is for good men that deserve it, the wicked ones don’t deserve it.. it’s this virtuous women talk that makes some women stay in bad marriages and end up frustrated or even dying..

If we are rating good men, what about the women. We accepted them the way they are before we married them, so let's give love a chance
With my old attitude before, even me I no go marry myself, but he married me and changed me
No perfect man, no perfect woman, let's try to make it work

Lemme just chip-in this
I love all the women here but please as virtuous women pls

1. Lets respect our husband, men love respect, they feel like kings when respected, respect in the areas of, cooking what he wants, keeping his clothes in the manner he loves and other little things that makes him happy

2. Communication: sometimes we women assume that he man knows (oh he sees it so he knows), no its not like that. Open your mouth and talk, talk politely, as for me I can shout and talk for one hour for him to get the message, but in all know when to talk and don't say things that will hurt both of you

3. Be quick to forgive: when beef happens be quick to resolve the issue, don't go on for days keeping malice, always look for solution quick and allow joy and peace in the home

4. Appreciate and compliment him: when last did u kiss your husband? When last did you tell him you love him? Please I beg us, appreciate him no matter what, tell him you see all his effort and you appreciate him, when he dresses up, tell him he looks cute make him happy

5. Free your heart: make sure you are happy, take yourself out, or take him out, even if its just an evening walk, or any karaoke place.

May God bless our homes and may we enjoy our marriages, there shall not be any separation or bad news.
We all will grow old in peace, joy, love and happiness with our kids and DH, may GOD help us. Amen

Starss:
Good evening mama’s. Just came here to celebrate.

Just found out today I’m pregnant after years of trying.

Congratulations❤

nahzyla:
Good day everyone
Please who knows a good way to relieve waist pain in pregnancy?

The pregnancy is only 4 months now but I can't sit or stand for long if not it becomes severe.
There was a day I nearly fell down in kitchen because I was cooking a lot of food and had to stand for hours, the pain was very bad.

I only get mild relief after lying down for some time and I can't afford to lie down because there is too much work to do, both house and office work.


Thank you for your help.

The experienced sabi mamas will answer u,

As for me na DH dey help me massage am

grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

Sorry I'm just seeing that its an old problem

grossintel:
While growing up I felt so different and did things differently. Naturally I am an introvert, my class mates in sec school would say I have a unique way of doing things. I felt so cool about myself expecially the ability to control how I feel generally. I am very handsome and the kind of guy girls easily throw themselves at, again I felt my ability to resist certain temptations was because I had self control. Growing up in a Christian home their are things we don't ask mom and dad, I would look at Lil bro and notice I had a smaller scrotum but I didn't feel something was wrong with me. All these years I never understood I had a real problem. Am all grown now but I can't keep a relationship!! My siblings will always crack a joke about how unlucky I was with finding a good date. First time I got a girlfriend, very loving and caring young girl. We started off for 2yrs without sex. It wasn't a problem for me I don't know what sex feels like but it was to her and she wanted it badly I knew I would loose her if I don't and she began to wonder if I was a man. First time we tried sex I couldn't get erected, I felt it was anxiety and she was supportive. Second and third was worse but we kept trying. She had to tell me to see a doctor fast because I am not okay. Sex ended up being an issue and we broke up. I dated two other girls and the last girl said it to my face "YOU ARE IMPOTENT" And that was when it occurred to me this is serious. I went to see a urologist and after the blood test it was confirmed I had low T. Low testosterone below normal. I couldn't believe I had a problem like this until I did a sperm analysis. I had oligospermia!! 95% abnormality. Further test showed I had Hypogondasim, it's yet unknown if it's secondary or primary Hypogondasim. I knew I had gone down that road where u look back and ask life
What did I do to deserve this?
How do I convince a girl to even accept to marry me?
Is their really a God?
Why am I a man if God won't give me what I need to become a man.
Every solution I have heard so for is impractical, expensive or ridiculous. Imagine injecting testosterone for 6 months before ur fit to make love to your wife? Or injecting my penis to stay up before sex? Alpha blockers like viagra has no effect on me at all. Apart from sexual performance secience is yet to understand male fertility and alot of things will be tried on me, this could take years!!! If it's so simple as doctor's will easily say why are their cases of 25yrs without a child some never have a child and just adopt. Why are their so many drugs and injections if one thing works. Am at the bridge of taking my life, I see no point making all these money and sit down in an empty house sad and lonely.

How is life now?

FlowerGirl040:
I lost him same year I lost my beloved mother,and same day my eldest child added a year +. After his death,I will carry all the baby things,both the one he used and not yet used,sniff them and cry silently,when my other kids aren't around. After 4 months I took in again,and I was happy,at least it will help alot to ease my heart. But what happened? I fell sick,hubby refused me to go to hospital,he said he will call his nurse instead,he bought drugs,my sickness still persisted and he wasn't happy I was down,he came home one night with another set of drugs saying this one is strong and will make me better,my instinct was rejecting it,I told him these ones are too strong for me,I will call my doctor,this man started nagging that so I am calling him senseless and don't know what is good for his own wife? Last last he forced me to take it in his presence,big big drugs o. The next morning I carry phone to check Google and what I saw shocked me. I started panicking. I can't go out to see a doctor,where is the money? He made me a full house wife,wetin I go carry use?

I told him what I found out,he started nagging again and forced me to take it,what Happened next? I started bleeding when he was not at home,before I knew it,the little festus there was out,it has already form sef,tiny hands,legs but no hair or sex yet. I was so traumatized,oya let me go to the hospital to do scan,he said ok. He keeps delaying till blood flow stopped.
After a week blood started flowing again,mind you I was still spitting and vomiting all this while. I started getting weak,see heavy clots of blood,my sister you go fear,I fainted more than twice, that was when I was rushed to the hospital and it was confirm there is a little product left and placenta,my dear I went through another horrible evacuation. That was how I lost my twins baby again. I shared this here, because I know other Mamas will learn one or two things.

I don't know if I should share what also lead to my one month old babys death. Hmmm.

We learn everyday
But y are some men like this na
Yours is better, u don't work
I work, but the money is his not mine

I felt angry and cold while reading

Longer throat just dey do me

mumplenty:
Happy birthday to my girl
It's exactly 4 years since I announced the birth of my daughter.it seems just like yesterday.
Please join me and celebrate.

Happy birthday� ❤
To her

ChizziCindy:
BA/BS
Just gave birth to a bouncing baby girl via VG
EDD 21st April
DOB 18th April
My BS story is a very interesting one from beginning of conception right till Birth.
The conception came as a surprise because my last pregnancy was CS, since baby was breeched, so we wanted to wait for her to clock 3 before trying again, but God knows best. Was praying for both of them to be birthday mate because my first is April 16.
As the pregnancy progressed baby was in breeched position, but thank God she later turned head down.. Because the doctors were already giving option of CS, since I wanted to try VBAC...Went to the hospital on Sat and doctor checked and said my OS is still closed, funny enough my water broke that very night and labor started, I had already been briefed that I won't be induced because of the previous,that labor would have to be natural since I wanted to try VBAC ..Omo the pain was something else,for almost 24hours i was in labor... But thank God it finally ended in praise... Wishing rest mamas safe delivery....

Congratulations❤ ❤ ❤
The Lord has done it again

Highman23:
Appreciate the response bro but the bleeding on the 24th continued for long.

She told me it was coming and going. Doing like that until it completely stopped on the 9th of this month and by calculation, her menses was supposed to come by 10th.

She is completely fine by the way. She told me she feels nothing.

Don't you think you should see a doctor?
Or start counting from the day she last bleed for a new cycle, if its not in order abeg go hospital

ladyrachy:
I only drink enough water whenever am eating dat causes overfeeding for me.by evening I must av drank 5 or 6 sachet of water oo

Thats moderate

Tomblessings:
I wish I can drink enough water like you

Just as our faces are different that's how our symptoms and cravings and wahala are different, in our we will all dance and be joyful

UmmuFarrah:
Mama, na my rant you come rant here lolzz. But mine is cold water Sha, still can't really stand ordinary water. I think drinking of plenty water is the way to avoid having headache too

Lemme rant small

Is anyone drinking water like me

I finish 10 sachet water for the day, is it not too much

If I wake up at night, my throat will be dry, very dry, so I drink water day and night

Just one day that I didn't take more than 4sachet of water, headache hammer me eh

As I drink much, I wee much
I literally finish 2bags of sachet water in 3to 4 days, I'm scared o

End of rant

Amakapritty:
Hi mamas pls I will be seven weeks tomorrow,is it normal for my body to get hot from time to time.....like fever ......this minute my body is hot and the next minutes it's normal......is this ok pls?

Normal, normal

Its part of the pregnancy packaging
Stay hydrated and bath if its too hot

Ayemco:
Good morning Mamas, August Cappo, it is with great pain in my heart I write to tell you that this is where my pregnant journey ends. Lost my angel this morning around 20weeks plus after a cerclage was placed at 14 weeks, I am down I feel everything just goes against me anytime I am pregnant. FYI, this will be my fourth miscarriage...I don't know what to do, I feel for my husband because he has been of great help all through

All will be a thing of the past when ur children comes, be hopeful pls, I sent u an email

Was she that bad?

Or he is an introvert

ladyrachy:
Na cryptic pregnancy be dat and she still tested negative again sums it all,if the story is true oo. Am not surprised sha where I used to work back den a lady always came to see my colleague no one cud detect she was pregnant no baby bump, only for me to hear she has put to bed I was like was she pregnant? My boss said sum1 maybe pregnant BT not know until dey deliver why odas aren't pregnant BT test positive when tested, science sha I can't understand it all

E go sweet o
No vomiting, no acne, no cravings, pikin go just come out, I'm still imagining it

Did anyone read that news of a lady that had a baby in the toilet, like she didn't know she was pregnant.

How can a woman be pregnant and will not know, what about the increase in tummy, the kicking, cravings, etc

Did she sleep on her back or tummy

How possible is it?

Make una no spoil my pikin o
LO sef dey follow me read

Halcyon123:
Who the house,shey them the thread cuties on Thursday before? Oya make I bless una with my sleeping beauty for 5mins . The beother join too

That Ankara gown is ffffiiiiinnnnneeeeeee
Too much fine
Cute kids