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Good day nl Please I need someone to chat with, normal Paddy friends I'm female Either Male and female is welcome Please email me I'll send my number debbycreamy26@gmail.com |
[color=#006600][/color] Good day nlanders Please I want to know which state is open and sincere in their adoption process, because the state I reside, (don't want to mention name) they are adopt to wealthy people like people that give them millions, because I started the process 4 years ago, after visitation, anything else was done, whenever I go to the office, I see other political women having their demands and transferring money to them, I acted blind to their transactions. I'm not poor, and they have seen my income stream yet, nothing to show for it, not me alone, have seen other people like me that have applied for years yet nothing too. One woman's case is even 10years now. Please which state can I go to for a smooth adoption process they can monitor us for the next 10 to 20 years, I don't mind. |
Helpout12345:1. Yes, with all my heart 2. None, because he beat my pregnancy out, I never rested 3. The slap came because I picked a call with d name Inec, I thought it was a political call, to tell d caller he was bathing, because he doesn't like having missed calls, he told me to do that before with d different contact, buh when I picked it was a female, he rushed to me collected d phone and gbam, and my mom was there, d lady kept calling back, my mom asked him to pick but he refused 4. He makes me work day and night in d store while he monitors the money and collects everything |
As a woman, pls answer this question If u married a man, he has a different kind of love style, like he is a man with principles, doesn't enter kitchen, doesn't value pre-intimacy (making u as a woman hate s*x due to painful penetration), at a point he is no longer sexually attracted to you. Your mom doesn't like him because he slapped u in the presence of your mom because u caught him cheating. Financially abuses u by collecting every money u earn but make u beg for anything u want to buy. As a woman u don't even have one wrapper to your name. At the end of the day u got tired of everything because I were going mentally drained and packed your things and left. When you left, he fought u and almost arrested u because u fought to collect one of the shops u built with him with, he threatened to arrest u That u must go empty handed his family supported him. Along the line a young man loved u , and gave you all the love you were begging for, treats you like a princess. Husband now desperately needs you back, threatening he will commit suicide if u don't come back, he is not ready to collect back d bride price. Using God factor, that God doesn't like divorce and even saying he has changed Pls my fellow women, what will u do in this kinda situation, do u go back or continue to enjoy this love that was denied u all these years. The men of God should answer |
kpankpangolo:Suffering from bumps and itching is an issue, na who wear shoe know where e dey pinch am. I like d idea of trimming buh I haven't done it before, I'll try, thanks |
badaru911:Thank you |
Good day house I'm sure I'm not the only that is getting informed that cotton buds are not good for our ears, my question now is that of cotton bud is not good for our ears then what are we going to use, my ear is itching me now, doctors in the house, pls what do we use? Secondly I'm tired of the shaving stick wahala, the bumps that comes after is crazy, I've tired using after shave creams and it's not working, I've tried following the path the hair grows to shave it's still not working. I used to be confident of my skin down there but now d skin has changed and I'm not happy anymore. Hubby doesn't mind but me, I mind. Please anyone with a good solution should tell me, don't tell me shaving creams those ones has there own side effects. |
Hi everyone It's the last Sunday of the year 2024, pls share your testimonies let's be grateful to God. So many things happened to me this year, I was in the theatre undergoing surgery when my heartbeat stopped, God brought me back God almighty used the doctors to help me greatly. Lost all my business capital to thieves and health challenge, God is helping me bounce back. Hubby had heart failure, today he is the strongest man in my life. With tears in my eyes, I just want to say God I thank You. Being on the list of God's warrior isn't easy but the Holy spirit is helping. Let's hear yours What happened in your 2024
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zemaye:Wow Thank you for this explaination So more tumeric is good? |
Thundafireseun:Since u generalized it, I'm sure u are aware u are insulting your mom and sisters as well. All Nigerian women according to u So when u go to the market, which people dominates the local markets, men right?? Men sells fish, vegetables, handbags, attachment etc and same men patronize them. When u go to the hair saloon it's men plaiting hair and doing everything. When u go to the mall, it's men everywhere right? In your house it was your father that was bathing u as a kid, taking u to school, cooking and Washing your clothes. Receive sense Most women are secretly the bread winners in their family, they just don't shout it like the men |
Good morning everyone Happy Sunday I want to know please which gospel song uplifts u, which gospel song makes you forgot all your worries For me it's DON'T GIVE UP ON ME YET by GRACE IDOWU I feel different with that song Say yours
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Hi everyone Is it possible that someone that had her fibroids removed around March this year has fibroid again this same year November. I don't know but I thought it's takes like a year to grow again. We all saw the 3 fibroids removed that day, so I'm shocked, like how come? She doesn't take sugar or processed food, pls someone should explain to me because the money for another surgery no dey o. |
Daglo:Be calm my sister Sometimes remove your mind from the condition, you are not the only one going through all that, be calm. I know it's not easy but give yourself a break, submit it all to God and remove your mind from the suitation, believing that God has done it. Allow your hormones to rest, enjoy each day as it comes by pls. After like 3months u see yourself different, happy, and glowing. U can't do anything by worrying |
Hi everyone Is it possible that someone that had her fibroids removed around March this year has fibroid again this same year November. I don't know but I thought it's takes like a year to grow again. We all saw the 3 fibroids removed that day, so I'm shocked, like how come? She doesn't take sugar or processed food, pls someone should explain to me because the money for another surgery no dey o. |
Hamzashaf99:Thanks I'll try it |
correctyourself:BNC dey two for house right now, it's not working |
Good day everyone Please my kitchen is infested with cockroach on a high level. I have used insecticide to spray, it's not working. I bought otapiapia (local strong chemical) still not working. I have wasted money to buy whatever they advertise but no way, I'm scared because I don't want to eat cockroaches someday, they are everywhere in my kitchen, you dare not leave anything open else it's gone... Pls if you have had this experience before, what did you do or use, I need help. They are hiding everywhere... The cupboards, cabinets, any dark area at all, and when no one is at home, they become the landlords. Pls help
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Good day my brothers and sisters Have you met people that everything seems to be going well with them, and you begin to wonder what kind of grace they carry, some doesn't even put effort in prayers or commitment in their service to God yet it seems God just provides everything for them at ease, and you feel God doesn't see you. God sees you, He sees all what you are going through, He is there with you... Free yourself from the troubles of this earth and allow your heart to be in Him. Most of us thinks our sins are too much and we cannot pray allowing depression to set in, get up, dust your Bible and pray, no matter your sins God is able to forgive you and still bless you. Don't give on yourself and don't give up on God. God loves you. Don't compare yourself to your brothers and sisters, don't compare yourself to your friends and neighbors.. destinies are different If you are committed to God and yet you feel God is far from you I'm here to tell you that God isn't far from you. He is with you always, don't give up. Don't give up on God because He won't give up on you, your grace is special. Mighty people goes through mighty challenges. You must pass through fire to be pure. Read the whole of Matthew 6 When you are free God loves you |
Good morning my brothers and sisters When I was little I used to say I am the apple of God's eye, but as I adult I had so many problems I started running from one man of God to another and trust me God allow me to see premium shege before sense hit me hard. One day I got home crying to God and suddenly I remembered that I was proud and boldly declaring that "I am the apple of God's eye" ... So what happened to me? Immediately I went on my knees and and started asking for mercy and pouring all my heart to him. My dear brothers and sisters the problem I was to pay 100k for solution, God answered me right there! That was one solution out of many troubles, the shock of receiving that miracle at home with my knees and tears and a broken heart convinced me that everything will be alright with my own prayers. Why am I telling you this? I am telling you because I know Jesus loves you and whatever you might be passing through it's a phase, it will come and go, God will not give u a problem that is bigger than u. God has equipped u to face all troubles of life. Why are u running up and down looking for solutions, some even go to ungodly places for solution... Nooooo please put your trust in God. He listens to u, He will reach out to u. Remove every evil thought from your heart, God loves you so much, you just haven't brought him close enough to see it. When u spend time with God and submit everything to Him, u will see that He loves you and nothing will affect your emotions anymore, He is capable of taking that anger in your heart away, He is capable of providing for you, protecting you etc, put your trust in God. Try it and see Last week we talked about forgiving someone, I hope u have texted that person that u have forgiven them or you yourself apologized for offending someone. Today, I beg you, go on your knees and tell God everything, if u can't kneel get 2 chairs, sit on one and leave the other one free for God and speak to Him like He is right there with you, believe me He will be on that seat. Pour out your heart, stop running from one pastor to another, stop using miracle water, miracle stone and miracle whatever it is only shifting your faith in Jesus to material things. God loves you And I love you Romans 5:8 But God shows His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. |
femi4:Thank you for this understanding u have |
GoldenqueenC:Though we can't forget easily, with time u will know why that incident happened and laugh over it, keep forgiving |
Emma09:In your heart, just say it, I forgive u. Call her name and say "I forgive u" Do it and receive peace and God will take u 1000 steps forward |
saphiere:Pls forgive, do u know u also offends others, knowingly or unknowingly |
Good morning everyone It's another Sunday and I want to tell everyone in this forum to please forgive anyone that has offended you. Some years ago, someone offended you and you vowed never to forgive them, please stop keeping that pain in your heart, let it go... This year, someone has offended and you beat your chest and say "if I forgive you make I die" nooo dear, please let it go. Forgiveness brings peace into your heart, please forgive that person, be it a neighbor, your pastors, your family member, your friend or even your ex ... Please I am here on their behalf. I'm saying I AM SORRY. Let that pain go, let it go If you want to cry, please cry well to your satisfaction, take a cool bath and try to forget about the hurt. Whenever u want to think of it, do something else like reading, playing games, going out etc. But don't hold any grudge, free yourself from the bondage of that pain, and if it's u that offended someone go and apologize please, I'm begging you, if u can't say it, send a text to that person, e no go commot one hair for ur body, reduce ur pride and ego and apologize. God bless you all
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He went to a restaurant to eat, it was better than eating from those women, he ordered for eba and okra soup, the food came but Mr Ebi has lost his appetite, how can he eat with everything going on , he was looking at the food, and the food was looking at him. He tried to eat, the food just couldn't pass his throat even if it was okra. His world is turning upside down, he was thinking of what those two women were doing at home, "man up Ebi" he said to himself, he couldn't eat so he paid and left the food like that, he just wasted the money. He went to meet Preye his friend, he didn't want to talk about his situation, he wanted to distract himself so they were discussing other things like bad government, football, money issues, and other topics, the palpitations in his heart was better. And around 9pm, it was time to go home, each step he took closer to his house raised his palpitations, his heart was beating in his mouth, "man up Ebi" he said to himself again. He got home and everyone was still friendly , no quarrel, no fight, no argument .....they were at peace watching a movie on Jennifer's phone. It was a one bedroom apartment, the kids slept in the living room, while the husband and wife sleeps in the bedroom, Mr Ebi went into the bedroom to sleep and after a while the wife went in, she later realized that Jennifer will be left with the kids in the living room. So she went and called Jennifer into the bedroom room she told Jennifer to sleep by the left side of the bed, Mr Ebi's wife slept by the right side, leaving Mr Ebi in the middle. Mr Ebi couldn't sleep that night, he can't make love to anyone, he can't cuddle anyone, and also he was scared if they will do something to him, he slept with one eye opened, one eye closed. And in the morning, these two women were doing everything together like sisters, even playing ludo and whot, Mr Ebi's wife was even teaching Jennifer some ijaw dancing steps.....while they were having the best time of their lives, Mr Ebi was dying gradually and silently. While they were getting fat, Mr Ebi was getting thin ![]() To be continued Who will save Mr Ebi |
Mr Ebi's wife got to the junction and saw a very beautiful lady on black jumpsuit, she was indeed a beauty to behold, she moved backward a bit, and started thinking, so many thoughts were running through her mind because of Jennifer's beauty. She can't destroy that beautiful lady standing there with the hot water, she just couldn't do it. Jennifer's fair skin was glowing so much, her skin was flawless , she is a beauty goddess. Mr Ebi's wife thought and thought after all it was her husband's fault not Jennifer. After a while she walked up to Jennifer and introduced herself, Jennifer was so happy, Mr Ebi's wife made her feel comfortable around her and they both walked home, when they got home , Ebi's wife dropped the flasked in the kitchen Jennifer wasn't even aware of any evil that was planned against her. Jennifer began suspecting something but she wasn't sure, "that that you are home , let me tell you something important" said Ebi's wife, they but sat down comfortably and Mr Ebi's wife narrated everything to her (except the hot water part) she told her how she met her husband, how they have been married for 10years, how they have 2 kids, she showed her pictures and even the ones on the wall the exact one Jennifer saw that was making her to suspect something, after telling Jennifer everything, she she her to feel free and stay in the same house with them that she feels okay being with her, Jennifer was speechless at first but later told her she will stay because she didn't even have enough cash to go back, and it's evening already. " Shebi Ebi won marry two wives , make him con meet us" said mr Ebi's wife, " Jennifer put off your phone for now pls" she said again, Jennifer obeyed. Jennifer helped Ebi's wife in the kitchen while making dinner, she played with the kids and everyone was friendly with her, the kids thought she was their mom's friend. Mr Ebi finally charged his phone after realizing that Jennifer must have landed in Bayelsa, he put on the phone while still charging it, just to call her quickly, he dialled the number but it was switched off and dialled again and again but to no avail . He was scared and started praying in his heart that nothing should happen to her, he was restless at the barbing saloon where he was charging his phone. "Abi did accident happen ? Nooooo nooo noon" "abi did her phone battery die, maybe" those were the thoughts running through his head (Debbie's stories) . He has to man up and wait for her call and also for his battery to full. Around 5pm he decided to go home, after all he was hungry and he can be at home while waiting for her call, so mr Ebi went home, though the happiness in him has reduced, because his mind wasn't at rest, he needed to hear from her, or did she run away with the money he sent for her transportation fare, but she updated me, he said inside his mind. Mr Ebi got home and from the door he could hear his wife laughing loudly with another lovely voice, he opened the door and his heart beat stopped for a second. "It's her" "no it's not her" "it's she" "but how?" His head was pounding. "Good evening sir" she greeted "Good evening dear" the wife greeted In his head he was like "what's happening, why is my wife not angry, why were they laughing" "Good evening all" he managed to answer Jennifer said "I tried your line, it was switched off so I called hers, and we came home" that was the only explanation she gave. He started making sense out of it, but how can he be in that same house with them, he managed to sit down , then his wife said "food is ready, Jennifer helped a lot, with her beautiful hands I thought she doesn't do anything with them, but she surprised me oh, should I serve your dinner" . "Nooooo" he shouted even before he realized that he shouted, he was reading so many thoughts in his mind "maybe this people have decided to poison me" "I think they want to kill me" that is why they were laughing.....his head was telling him all this things, he recollected himself and said calmly "I ate with my friend, sorry, I forgot my key at his place so I'm going out" And he left |
Please nobody should copy this story o This is what happened in my compound Mr Ebi decided to fall into peer pressure by his friends to taste another woman aside his wife, being a good man to his wife all these years he didn't want to do it, but all his friends had a side chick some had 2 and even more. They were drinking at my bar, "Ebi u dey dull o, why you go dey eat only one soup" said his friend Mr Preye ...Ebi was quiet for a while and asked " how do I go about it even if I want to and I don't want to hurt my wife" . They started suggesting so many ways he can get a girl, Mr Ebi decided to pick the option of finding a girl from Facebook, and that was how his search for a different soup (side chick) started. After a few weeks Mr Ebi found an akwa - ibom girl that was interested in him, he was so happy and after about a month of chatting and calling each other Mr Ebi decided to invite her over . Mind you Mr Ebi didn't tell his new girlfriend that he is married. His plan was to lodge her into a hotel for about 2 days and then she goes back. Let's call the new side chick Jennifer (this is a true life story with different names), Ebi and Jennifer were so happy they were finally going to meet because Jennifer has gradually fallen in love with Mr Ebi even when she hasn't met him, and Ebi hasn't experienced love from a younger lady except his wife whom he has being married to for 10 years. Ebi has quickly sent transportation fare to Jennifer 3days before the 5th of June which is her day of arrival, on the 4th of June Mr Ebi was seeing dancing and singing, being joyful and smiling all day in expectation of seeing his new girlfriend, he played ijaw music and danced and danced. I didn't know if he even slept well, because he was like a baby that was promised heaven and earth. 5th of June came, Jennifer has called Ebi that she is leaving her home to the park where she can board a vehicle to bayelsa, that's where Mr Ebi is. He was happy and waited for her arrival. Two hours later Ebi checked his phone to call Jennifer to know where she must have reached, he wanted an update, he checked his phone and saw that his battery was 2% the called will be aborted halfway, quickly he searched for his wife's phone and dialled the number, she picked and after hearing his voice she updated him of her location . Ebi deleted the call record on his wife's phone and went out to charge his phone. On his way he met an old acquittance and they started gisting about old stuffs and life generally. He lost track of time. Jennifer got to Bayelsa, ekeki park, where she highlighted from the bus and started dialling Mr Ebi's phone number, it was switched off, she tried again, again and again, same switched off. Jennifer decided to call the last number Mr Ebi called her with, it rang , she took a deep breath feeling somehow relieved because she was in a strange land, someone picked the call and the following conversation took placeJennifer: baby, I've been calling your other line ah, it's switched off I was worried, I'm at ekeki park now Wife: madam, I think you dialled the wrong number Jennifer: oh sorry ma, Mr Ebi called me with this line, he invited me over and now his line is switched off Wife: I know Mr Ebi, but who are you please Jennifer: thank God you know him, I'm his girlfriend ma, I'm stranded at ekeki Wife: (in disbelief, processed everything in her head quickly) ok, enter Keke and come to INEC junction, I will pick you up to see mr Ebi, don't worry I'm his sister Jennifer: thank you so much ma. Mr Ebi's wife ,heart broken but was determined to put an end to the rubbish, she rushed to the kitchen, added water to the kettle and set it on fire , (Debbie's stories) the plan was to pour the side chick the hot water by the road side and make it look like a mistake. The water boiled and just as she was turning it into a flask, her phone rang, Jennifer has called her and told her she was at the junction putting on a black jumpsuit, "black jumpsuit is very good for the horror that is coming to you" Mr Ebi's wife said inside her head. She put the flask inside a sack bag and matched to the junction with all seriousness, when she was few steps away from the junction she surveyed the area and removed the top two covers of the flask and matched on... |
Hi mummies Na tiredness make this room quiet? I pray God gives each and every one of you strength, and financial blessings. More love and understanding in your homes in Jesus name, amen |
Good day nairalanders I had my surgery 3weeks ago, my mom was with before and after surgery, but she is diabetic and sick as well ...so my hubby asked her to go and rest, it's been 7 days she left, my hubby is trying his best to take care of me. Today he complained bitterly about how he feels that he feeling single and not married, he is tired and he feels he will break down, I understand it is overwhelming for him because I have been d one doing everything before I fell sick, he is not used to chores. Yesterday I forced myself to wash some clothes d outcome was crazy, I was shaking and dizzy and d pains just came back. After his complain today I just feel worthless since I'm not doing anything, d doctors said I shouldn't do anything for 2months. Having a house help is not even easy in our location, pls what can I do to help my husband, I don't like d way he complained and he is having body pains already. Has anyone been in dis kinda situation, if I help do chores and take pain killer , what will be d consiquences of my action? Pls help |
Doctors in d house, pls help |
Hello nairalanders D last time I was at d hospital 15k vanish without any solution to see doctor alone don dey cut throat for my area, abeg i know I have fibroid, but these days I can't hold my wee, don't know if its d fibroid causing it. Children school fee dey come soon, money no too dey hand so I need una help. Whatever that can help till I operate it out
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IconicR:Are all sins not against God, pls help me differentiate |
