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donbachi:
U do see them..but,their fabrics no be the type u dey like..outwardly,dem be like akwaoche.while,u want a fabric wey dey shine like china white.

I know a reasonable and responsible men when I see one but they are scarce.

SmellySperm:
same way am craving for a sweet wife material..


na daughters of Eve full my dm

Na idiots full my dm too

Jeon:
we have many husband material around the world excluding Nigeria

No we don't. Nigeria has the most useless men in the world

OlayemiAshraf:
Can you go to sambisa forest ?? .... Lots of men that'll die for you are there

I want men who will live with me and not die for me. I'm not a sinner.

lilvicky68:
You only attract your kind.. try to be reasonable first..

I am reasonable but many Nigerian men are not. I see uselessness in them.

KidDarkness:
Husband material scarce oooo. Create your own naaa. How many yards make i supply to you?

Are you married? Did you create your own wife material? You can share some tips with us so that men on this forum can learn.

Married ladies please help.

Where can I find a husband material? No reasonable and responsible men anywhere. Where una de see these husbands sef?

NoSentiment:
These are also muslims, right? If u cant obey clear cut Bible verses by covering ur head all the time, or veiling then do it but u cant impose your crooked understanding on other xtians.

What part of my explanations don't you understand? Did the bible say we should wear veils all the time?

Those nuns you posted there have their special school where they attend before becoming a nun. They don't go to muslim schools to disturb. The bible urges women to cover their heads during prayers and in the places of worship. Since these catholic sisters are always working in the church, they adopted a special uniform for themselves alone. Isn't this explanation simple enough?

Op, it's important that you read and understand the scriptures before making a claim. You don't just pick up a verse, come to Nairaland, and start making noise. You have to understand events, incidences, customs and traditions, religion and laws of the olden days jews before you begin to quote.

NoSentiment:
With due respect, you are talking nonsense, Sir.

Where does the bible say it is when women are getting married that they should cover themselves? Gimme the verse!

Where does the Bible say women should be dressing the way most xtians do today by wearing the apparel of men and vice versa?

On issues of tithe you are quick to quote the old testament to justify ur fraud, why do u shy away from basing evidence on it when it concerns morals and the other laws which Jesus said he is not come to abrogate but to fulfil?

Does the dress code of the mother of Jesus, Mary, resemble that of the xtians of today?

First of all, I am not a sir.

Secondly, I never said that veils should only be worn in weddings. You cited a scripture relating to weeding or marriage and i explained that it is in the Jewish custom ( and many other customs and traditions of the world) to wear veils during the weeding ceremonies even up to the wedding night. They don't wear veils all the time. Comparing Rachael weeding veil to the ordinary veils muslims wear is foolishness. You can wear a viel to the wedding but not the school.

It's obvious you didn't read my write up. We are talking about the busy-body of muslims who leave their muslim schools to disturb schools built and maintained by christains for so many years. Those mission schools never told them to wear the apparel of men. This has got nothing to do with christains paying tithe. You have to obey the rules in our schools.

FYI: We won't dress like Mary. We are not Jews. Even the present day jews don't dress like that. We cover our hair when it's required to.

NoSentiment:
For several years, the controversy between Muslims and Christians over the issue of the rights of Muslim students to wear hijab or veil has refused to go away.

The Christians have often maintained a position: that Muslim students who attend former missionary schools cannot wear veils or hijab in these schools supposedly because Hijab/veil is a symbol of Islam.

On another hand, Muslims have argued that because these former missionary schools have been nationalized by the federal government and are in receipt of monetary grants from it, they have a right to wear Hijab since the federal constitution permits the freedom to practice one religion as one deems fit as enshrined in section 38(1) of the Nigerian constitution.
Now the question is, what harm does Muslim students’ wearing of Hijab cause to Christian? The answer is none. Does the Muslim students have a constitutional right to wear Hijab/veils? Yes, they do!

But, what makes the Christians tick? Does Hijab wearing go against the Christian faith? No, quite the contrary, several Biblical verses, like Quranic verses, talks about Hijab or the veil although the majority of Christian women violate these Biblical injunctions just to follow the self-serving teaching of Paul that the law is gone with the prophets. In point of fact, Christ taught that:

“Do not think that I came to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I did not come to abolish, but to fulfill. (Matthew 5:17).

Now, as a Christian man or woman, whenever you want to oppose the use of Hijab by Muslim ladies, just get a chilled coke, grab your Bible, sit down and relax a bit before looking and reading up the following verses:

Evidence 1:

Genesis 24 64-66. (New International Version (NIV)

64 Rebekah also looked up and saw Isaac. She got down from her camel

65 and asked the servant, “Who is that man in the field coming to meet us?”

“He is my master,” the servant answered. So she took her veil and covered herself.

66 Then the servant told Isaac all he had done.

67 Isaac brought her into the tent of his mother Sarah, and he married Rebekah. So she became his wife, and he loved her; and Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.

Evidence 2:

1 Corinthians 11. (King James Version)

5-6 But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven . 6[b] For if the woman be not covered[/b] , let her also be shorn : but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven , let her be covered .

10 For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels.

13 Judge in yourselves : is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered?

1 Corinthians 11 (New Revised Standard)

Evidence 3:

5 but any woman who prays or prophesies with her head unveiled disgraces her head—it is one and the same thing as having her head shaved. 6[b] For if a woman will not veil herself, then she should cut off her hai[/b]r; but if it is disgraceful for a woman to have her hair cut off or to be shaved, she should wear a veil.

10 For this reason a woman ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels

13 Judge for yourselves: is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head unveiled?

Evidence 4:

Deuteronomy 22:5 (ASV)
A woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment; for whosoever doeth these things is an abomination unto Jehovah thy God.

So, why do Christians oppose something even their holy book recommend or Marry herself wore? I am sincerely curious!

Your arguments are baseless. I don't know why you guys like quoting a Bible you don't understand. Let me break it down for you.

Evidence 1: This is trash. It's a good thing you quoted from where Rebecca looked up and saw isaac. Which means, she wasn't wearing veil before saw isaac. It is on record that in the Jewish traditions, a bride must be vieled even to the wedding night. That is how they do it and we christains do this on weddings. Now the question I would like to ask is Are these muslim girls getting married in the school? Are their husbands there? Are they spending the wedding night there? If no,then why compare Rebecca to your muslim girls?

Evidence 2: Rubbish. Don't christains ( some) wear coverings on their hair when praying? It's good you mentioned prayers and prohesying too.[b] Are your muslim ladies going to school to pray and prophesy? [/b]Sometimes I wonder how you guys think.

Evidence 3: The same as no 2

Evidence 4: Are the girls from the mission schools wearing anything partaining to men? Where your muslim girls forced to wear clothes partaining to men?

The Jewish men also put on viels on their heads sometimes. Since you have decided to compare yourself to the jews, your boys should also wear veils. Mtchew!

It will be nice to see her without makeup.

FrLukas:
So the ESN wear their uniforms 24/7? They never wear casual wears again because they are ESN?

You guys are unbelievably naive.

It's just like saying soldiers never wear any other clothes apart from their uniforms.

Your argument is baseless. Let us say they wore casual wears. So? You have not been able to prove their identity as ESN members. The whole story looks like they saw some men in casual wear, killed them and assumed them to be ESN members in casual wears and expect fools to believe that story. If this was a court case and the army gives this picture as evidence,it will look like a joke.

It's foolish arguing with nndigbo on who is ESN in our own land.

FrLukas:
So the ESN wear their uniforms 24/7? They never wear casual wears again because they are ESN?

You guys are unbelievably naive.

It's just like saying soldiers never wear any other clothes apart from their uniforms.

Your argument is baseless. Let us say they wore casual wears. So? You have not been able to prove their identity as ESN members. The whole story looks like they saw some men in casual wear, killed them and assumed them to be ESN members in casual wears and expect fools to believe that story. If this was a court case and the army gives this picture as evidence,it will look like a joke.

It's foolish arguing with nndigbo on who is ESN in our own land.

DARKVOICES:
@the emboldened, so because the soldiers didn't provide you with detailed information and pictures automatically makes the report false?

What stops the soldiers from displaying their own (the soldiers') weapons and claim they (the weapons) belong to the slain ESN operatives?

"Dressed in civilian wears" doesn't make any sense. There's no rule compelling criminals to dress in a certain way before attacking people.

Don't be foolish. Ndi igbo know how ESN look and dress. You can't tell us what you don't know in our land and expect us to believe it. With the pictures I have seen of the ESN, I can even recognize them at night. Even you that is not an igbo man can tell that these are ordinary people. It's just that you have chosen to decieve yourself.

Stop this evil propaganda. If the army want to attack ESN, they should go to the bush and do the combat. Killing 16 bike men in Ariaria and labelling them as ESN is cowardice. They should be ashamed.

Nobody has ever thought of this. Those cultists might be the unknown gunmen we have been hearing about.

Ogbuu101:
Did Napoleon kill in the name of Jesus?
Was he quoting the bible when he killed?

That's how they decieve themselves. They would mention the name of one christian who committed a crime but will blind their eyes to the fact that all terrorists organizations in the world are muslim. I don't know why they haven't found any solutions to it up till now. Apart from the terrorists organizations, the jihad that the fulanis fight is islamic. To make things worse, their leaders see nothing wrong in it. Look at Nigeria for example. They would pamper terrorists,pay them ransom and invite them for discussions. They don't know that these things contribute to destroying the image of islam and give it a criminal look.

Jamesbally:
The East has Zero resources. They are the only Region that contribute nothing to the Economy.

But surprisingly, the whole nation shivers at the mention of Biafra. Isn't that wonderful?

QuotasSystem:
Indeed.

Your main error was assuming the gunmen were unknown.

They are known and they are Nnamdi Kanu's ESN terrorists. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck....it is a duck.

If they want checkpoints removed, there are more civil ways to go about it. However since IPOB's are happy and in full support of their bloody, savage, murderous, provocative approach to getting justice; then they should welcome with open arms the consequences of their indiscretion.

You really wish the unknown gunmen where ipob but it's only a wish because in reality,they are not. You can hit your head on the wall over and over again, the truth remains the same. No one can prove it.

Anyways, I don't see anything wrong with the government sends their military down here if and only if they are looking for their unknown gunmen.

QuotasSystem:
Saying you should support your "Unknown" ESN terrorists and enforcers of jungle justice with your chest.

Did you read my write up at all?

QuotasSystem:
Shouldn't the "Unknown" gunmen be encouraged?

Afterall ipob terrorists are happy and excited with the murders...

The impending military crackdown and state of emergency is a small price to pay for this your preferred jungle justice isn't it? Afterall this is not how boko haram started.

Go UGM!

What is this one saying?

I've seen alot of threads here in on Nairaland and so many unfortunate Nigerians blaming ipob for the killing of policeman in the south east. Now the killers are unidentified and unknown but some people keep blaming ipob for the killings. Some even claim that the ipob are happy about the news and so therefore, are behind the killings.

Now I'm not justifying the killings in any way but why wont they be happy? They have suffered in the hand of the security agents in Nigeria. What if one of those police men where involved in the killing of an Ipob member and his family members See's that same police man dead on the floor, what do you think he would do? He would jubilate and thank God for revenging the death of his relations. Or do you think that those killed Ipob members do not have relations praying for justice for the death of their loved ones?

I remember my dad told me what happened after general sani Abacha's death. He said that immediately his death was announced on the radio, he and his friends rejoiced to the extent that they went out to drink. My grandfather brought out his gun and shot thrice in the air. Many nigerians celebrated in their own way because an evil leader was dead. That did not mean that nigerians killed him. Blaming the ipob for the killings because they are jubilating on social media is foolish. If I begin to post pictures of the atrocities of these security agents,it would fill 200 pages.

Now I'm not blaming Ipob for the killings but I would advise that they should be cautious. We don't know the real motive of these unknown gunmen. They might be sent just to destabilize the south east and give reasons for another python to dance. Nnamdi kanu should clear the air on the suspected involvement of Ipob in this crimes.

EMEKUSBOY9:
Zzor :

Vanida6 :

Muna4real :

Bukky1994 :

It has been 6 months u girls /ladies commented on this topic...

I just want to know if you girls/ ladies views has changed , because 6 months is a very long time things to change

We guys are here to read, comment, and learn more

My views have not changed.

I choose hot body. We will work for our money together. I can't have a husband that I'm ashamed of or can't flaunt before my friends.

thebosstrevor1:
No northern have ever killed a southern.

But here in the south, Northerners are killed daily and their businesses destroyed.

Thunder fire your left yansh for typing the bolded

peteregwu:
Muslims like wahala too much. But as for me I don't really care if they wear hijab to a Christian school or not. Let everyone just dress properly well, that's my take. The problem is Islam is like a curse. Anywhere they go they create pronlem here and there. That is why they will run away from there countries and states and go to countries and states that belongs to Christians, and instead of them to stay quiet and be peaceful, they will still go there and try to overshadow them and go against their laws.

I think the problem with Islam is a divine curse. Because they are the only religion that lied against Jesus and killed his people. No be small curse. See what is happening in the North and the Middle East and it would continue till the world end.

Lol

The most amusing thing about this whole drama is that these muslims had the guts to go to court and sew a school founded,built and managed by christains for so many years over the choice of uniforms the school have adopted. On top of that,they call them intolerant for not allowing their religious wears in a school which christains managed for years.

Is this how you guys practice the " peace"

I personally view the crisis in kwara as a means of looking for trouble. Some muslims have claimed that the schools are government owned and therefore,is owned by all. I have some questions to ask.

1) the national mosque and Ecumenical center both in Abuja where built by the government for the two main religions in Nigeria. Christianity and islam. They are both government properties. If you claim that the mission schools have no say in the dress code because they are now government owned, can christains hold services or even a Sunday mass in the national mosque Abuja since it is for all?

2) there are so many schools in kwara state which allows the use of hijab and they are far far more in number than the missionary schools. Why have you chosen to kill yourselves and die in missionary schools when there are hundreds of options available to you?

3) most of you guys say that we are intolerant in this case but why have you chosen a school filled with intolerant people?

4) you claim that we shouldn't bring religion into education but you are all guilty of that. Hijab is a religious wear. Why then do you insist on wearing it to schools?

terabyte002:
Nigerian Christians are really sets of brainwashed individuals who continue to drown in Naked, mad, selfish and unreasonable western culture.
I am sure that about 50% of Nigeria Christians believe Jesus was a British or American native and that's one of the reason for all this sort of hatred and mad compliments of islam.
Even when it's obvious that America turned peaceful country like iraq, pallestine, libya and other to war zone for economic and political reasons, Nigeria Christians will always justify the real terrorists" Americans".
I laugh when I see Nigerian Christians wailing and making sentimental judgement on Islam. if Muslims are real terrorists what would you say about your missionary demi gods and their governments for slave trade, colonialism, hard labour and abuse of our race.
What's the place of racial discrimination, slave trade and hard labour in Bible and that's what best describe the white folks that brought the so call Christianity you all designing to be peaceful in your cockroach mind.
I am sure majority of Christian who alwsys run their mouth against anything islam are Igbo people who doesn't even know anything about the situation or the nature of the state, the people involves.
It is senseless for anyone to attach violence to islam.If you want to criticize Hausa people or Fulanis, criticize base on ethnic interest and their political superiority which is too late for any other region to withdraw.
It's not only the Hausa or Fulanis that are Muslims in Nigeria, before your church weeds makes you generalized on sensitive religion issues, you guys needs to always remember there are Yoruba Muslims, Igala Muslims and other tribes aside from Hausas and Fulanis. And also try to be reasonable because for an igbo man from Enugu or Anambra to be putting mouth on issues that's happening in Kwara state with over 85% Muslim population is madness.

I don't have the time to comment on your full write up but the bolded caught my attention.

It's not entirely our fault if we tend to associate islam with terrorism because looking at the situation of the world, any normal person would react that way. The difference between terrorists from the islam religion and terrorists from the christian religion or any other religion is that ISLAMIC TERRORISTS ASSOCIATE THEIR RELIGION TO THEIR CRIMES. I don't know why you all are blind to this fact instead of correcting it. You keep blaming us for calling you terrorists while islamic terrorists terrorize the world.

What in the world would make someone call the name of their God while beheading a fellow human being? Some even carry the Koran while doing such evil. Have you seen a christian do that? Have you seen any criminal from the south do that? Have you ever seen a christian terrorists organization fighting for God? Take a look at the top terrorists organizations in the world and even in Nigeria. THEY ARE ALL FROM ONE RELIGION_ ISLAM! . Do you think that this is a coincidence? If you were in our shoes, you would think the same way. It's not our fault. It's the way you present yourself.

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