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Leep:
How do you answer a question you're asking, Oga?
Your teacher sets an exam for you to answer and you're expecting same teacher to answer it?
Nawa to you o guy. Una ITK don dey too much o

We are not in class room. It's a discussion and not an ITK orientation camp.

Once dey correct una errors,it becomes ITK.😂😂

shegs2009:
Married Men know they have to tolerate nonsense, something u can't try with them during the bachelor days are now order of the day...ability to take nonsense has been stretched *compromised* is the word.
I know some men that can control their wife, they got lucky with a gentle and introverted wife...but I haven't seen the extroverted being controlled, I am not talking about abuse but respect even in absence, some people mistake this for fear
Simp are all over the place making this quality rare

Channel the energy to making money, create wealth and live a healthy lifestyle.

Your mindset will change.

Leep:
Do you believe, or think that your parents financial status whether rich or poor has any bearing on your adulthood and how you turn out in life?

To me, it has a lot to do with how your life eventually turns out. When parents are poor, they lack the contacts, they lack the necessary connections and resources to push their children towards achieving their dreams. It is even much worse when such parents die leaving their children at the Mercies of their relatives.
But for rich parents, who have connections, contacts and resources, the opposite of the above becomes the case.
Many young guys are doing well today because they came from a well-to-do background and everything was already made easy for them by their parents. The parents have already laid a solid foundation for their children and even after death, their children will never suffer.

I come from an extremely poor background. Such that no member of my mum's family/lineage has ever had a car. Only one from my dad's family has a car. I lost my parents from childhood and as an adult, I still face several life's challenges since they were poor, had no connection or contact. They left nothing to us. I only inherited my late father's oversized cloths and an old bicycle. Not even a handset, I inherited a landline telephone.
But in all these, I've come to the conclusion that it is not the family we come from that matters, but the family we make afterwards.

Nlfpmod Seun

You didn't react actually to the question you asked.
Because, the question you asked is one that simply require yes or No.

YES!
How you turned out today would have been different if the huge funds and resources where there from the foundation stage. Check am na.
Family is your first and biggest influence throughout your life. It will position your mindset which determines your life setting.

PastorKosi:
Marrying a virgin doesn't automatically mean you married well as a man." - Pst Kosi Ebirim

Virginity is not a measure of character, wisdom, kindness, loyalty, or emotional maturity.
Many men focus on purity and miss the deeper values that sustain a marriage—like peace, respect, emotional intelligence, humility, and the fear of God.

A woman can be a virgin and still be:

Disrespectful

Argumentative

Ungrateful

Immature

Emotionally manipulative

What truly makes a marriage work is not just sexual purity but relational maturity.

Choose character over credentials. Choose peace over pride. Choose purpose over pressure.

N/B: Please note that this subject matter is not to discredit Virgins if you are one.

The unheard Truth.

Hehehehehehehehehehe😂😂😂😂

This is how it should be. Develope your skills, earn and employ.

agentADC:
We at our great party ADC condemns Ronaldo for his unpatriotic act.

Lol.
ADC don get Agent already.

jackals:
Our relationship just ticked the 1yrs 3months mark. I told him at the beginning that I’d love for him to propose to me b4 we start getting intimate as most relationships built on intimacy don’t last. He agreed. But as we get along, we eventually started having sex even tho it’s not how I pictured it. But I had to because I didn’t want him to leave.

At the start of this year, I made a resolution to stop giving in to sex and see how much affections he has for me looking at the fact that he’s not even asked me to be his wife. It’s always promise here and there.

If he initiated it, I always find an excuse..and most times he convinced me and I’ll give in. I won’t lie I know it’s hard because he’s had to initiate a couple of time which I denied and he’ll mostly beg and assure me of his commitment to our relationship.

However, I noticed since the beginning of the month of May, he’s stopped showing concerns. When he asked And I said no to sex, he will just say “ohh okay” and then sleep if it’s night time or pick his phone and off to gym. Nowadays he doesn’t even initiate anything nor ask for it. I asked him if he’s okay and he told me “he’s having some heavy back pain due to his recent workout routines” but I know he’s lying. He’s always like sex even after workout.

My intuition says he’s cheating and my friend confirmed same since her last relationship also ended the same way.

Tbh, I’d just stop getting worried about this and stop asking him since he’s decided to keep mute.

After going through your complain, I can comfortably tell you that you created a big problem for yourself.

1. Why are you counting time and minutes for the relationship. It is giving a desperation vibe. Something you should remove time and enjoy yourself.

2.you started eating already, that's commitment. Now all of sudden you are withholding it in a serious relationship? Who told you that. You just weaponised SEX by doing such. Costly mistake.

3.Sex or no Sex cannot make a man marry you. Whatever a man wants to do is in his heart/mindset. First be yourself from the onset, if you like him, enjoy him. If he enjoys what is going on, the next is coming to see your parents as long as he has something doing. Life goes on.

Some ladies sef. You will start sweet relationship and spoil it in the middle.

The last expo I will give you is, Go and talk to him, cook his favorite meal, ride him to cloud9 and reset him back to factory settings. And walk with him. Otherwise them go soon send you back to square1. NEVER WEAPONISE SEX be you a Man or Woman.

seunmsg:
A very weak attempt at comeback. Wike already finished whatever is left of Dele Momodu’s integrity. Not that he has much before anyway.

As usual, anywhere belle face supporter in it again...🤣🤣🤣

RevenuesBoost:
This picture was taken few years back and I still wonder why my parents still have same young look.

They've been married for 33 Years and still counting.

Growing up, I always ask myself if my parents never had quarrels.
It's now that I come to the understanding that, yes they might have quarrels but always find a way to settle it peacefully without making us(the kids) aware of it.

I learnt from my parents that marriage can be a bed of roses.
My Dad will be 60 Years Old on the 6th of July.
Happy Birthday Dad and More Years to you!🎂🍾🥂.

This is how it should be. Learn about marriage from your parents, uncles, Aunt and close relative. Not online. Most people tell lies online just to get views, likes and share.

Again, many fake a perfect life online, but offline you go shock.

Lastly, best advise and training is the one you will give yourself in tune with your reality.

Denalarian:
No body cares how you bought the god damn ring. Just get married and feed the family well.

Thats all 100%
Every other thing involves copy copy from others which will not matter in the MARRIAGE.

Chai ndaa Tom Njemanze..Chances of surviving cancer of the prostrate is slim.

Ones it is in your family bloodline, every young male approaching 40 should keep an eye on it.

Fuckyoumod:
This is the result of Islamic extremism, terrorism and jihadists movements including terrorists sympathizers. Illiteracy and parasitic life style. Watch them protest in favour of Iran the number state sponsor of terrorism, but will never hit the street for this.

When there is no infidel, according to them blasphemers or when they can't reach infidels to kill, they turn on their own.


It is dog eat dog situation!

Even worse and devilish cultist, kidnapper armed robber in the South knows they can't try this nonsense in the South.

The only idiot that tried this type of nonsense in South was immediately neutralized.

They called him Don Wanni.

Lol Don wanni that year..Idiot go don reincarnate by now.

The boys they armed during election are like dogs then, now they have become wild Tigers..Untamed!

Botragelad:
You do love your propaganda and lies. Gotta give you that!😁
Good thing is you do not make economic decisions for Iran, neither are you in the country to know anything, just propaganda. So your rants begin and ends here.

Maybe Iran should close the Strait of Hormuz alone so it would cripple Iran’s own economy. "Iran exports 1.7–2 million barrels of oil daily, mostly to China, which accounts for a huge percent of its government revenue".
https://www.iranintl.com/en/202407018317

Just in case you aren't aware, blocking the strait would pause these exports, which will most likely trigger hyperinflation and trouble on Iran Ayatollah and their islamism trash, similar to Venezuela’s collapse after oil sanctions. Remember that?
Example:In 2019, Iran’s GDP shrank 9.5% under U.S. sanctions. Are you saying Iran is that reckless to now close the strait? Lol https://www.reuters.com/article/us-iran-economy-imf/iran-economy-to-shrink-95-this-year-amid-tighter-us-sanctions-says-imf-idUSKBN1WU28M/

The U.S. fifth fleet (Bahrain) and allied navies also patrol the strait. Of course, Iran’s nonsense tactics (mines or drones) might disrupt traffic, of course, but remember the U.S. has "bunker buster" bombs and plans to quickly neutralize these threats, again, remember in the 1988 Operation Praying Mantis(sinking about half Iran’s navy in one day, hours). Why would Iran invite the US wrath on them that way? Lol
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Praying_Mantis

Are you also aware that Saudi Arabia and the UAE operate pipelines that bypasses Hormuz(Saudi’s East-West Pipeline, UAE’s Fujairah terminal). Are you aware? And for your info. These can reroute millions of barrels/day, so cover shortages.

Now, China on the other hand buys lot of Iran’s oil,yes. It also imports from Saudi Arabia and Russia. Beijing won’t risk global trade chaos for Tehran. Lol even In 2025, China sanctioned Iranian oil middlemen to avoid U.S. secondary sanctions. Why would China sacrifice its own economy to save Iran?

The ceasefire you cry about happened after U.S. strikes on those Iran’s nuclear sites (Fordow) and Iran’s face-saving missile launch (intercepted). How's that begging?
If Hormuz closure is so bad for the US and allies, just like you try to paint, why did Iran’s own Supreme Council hesitate to approve it despite parliamentary votes?

Tells you what ya need to know. Haha.

You are schooling a psycho..😂😂😂😁That guy is daft with his copy and paste post.

OJlekeTrucking:
What I can see here is that many men are very naive .

Many men really think women are some jelly creatures that should be soft on

Women are very tough on their standards that’s why as a man you should hold your standards too!

I’m disappointed in many comments I’ve read by many men here . You have no shame, no standard, no self worth ! You ridicule yourself and down play yourself a lot !

You worked hard on yourself to get to where you’re today desired by many !

And you ask the barest minimum from your spouse and you think it’s too much ! Nawa ooo

Many of you men will suffer ! Infact from today if I see any married men wey Go marry woman wey no Dey support or contribute to his home Infact I will personally add to more of his life punishment !

Awon radarada oni so lenu

Some even suggested he train her🤣🤣🤣. The kind men of nowadays baffles me.

That's cool.

Be intentional about your choice of a life partner. She will give you same treatment if it was the other way round..Brotherhood is proud of you👍

It was nice until I saw Honda..Honda wey no dey come out in rainy season 🤣

Toyota is a brand created for NIGERIA. Super reliable anytime, anyway.

Toyota owns Lexus.

Kobojunkie:
How many of the men are able to fully provide for their household without fail? Isn't it better to share responsibilities rather than pretend you can have what you are not qualified/entitled to have. -- a traditional wife?

Most times you just argue for your name to be in comment section,baseless points.

Even in the olden days our great grand mothers were up and doing. There was nothing like stay at home wife, farming is the general job for every household. 6 to 6 these women are in the farm, checking their cassava, cocoyam and vegetables. The men of the house, proudly lead the household to farm. It was totally a collective effort of both husband, wife and kids.

My grandma told us stories of how, during harvest, my grandpa will harvest his Yam, my grandma will harvest cocoyam. Together they process palm oil from there palm fruit harvest. They carry these things to Portharcourt all the way from East. Sell, make money, buy things needed at home and return.

A look into the above clearly showed our ancestors had great and supportive wives for them to achieve greatness we enjoy today.

Such can't be said of some women today, because people like you are deceiving younger girls online.

Well na for Men that are blinded, we still have some girls traditionally raised just like our grand mothers and ancestors who supported there Husbands.

I thank God I have one, and I am on journey to greatness.

Even bill gate has gotten a new partner...wawu😄😄If rope cut, we tie am

This is why in war, make sure you stick to the original plan. All targets must be eliminated to avoid chochocho.

I am not shocked to see Imo as number1. Same as fuel. 2seconds price go rise. Greedy busìness men littered here and there..

Foolish girl don go set up the guy for dragging with her chochocho on social media.

omenka:
Him don go stand inside rubble take photo post. This was why Benue rejected his him visiting, he's well known to use people's tragedy as political props.

Look at him. What a disgusting thing. I'm surprised he didn't lie down to take the picture so people can fully grasp how deep his sorrow runs over the demolition.

The pain in this write up will continue to hunt you..🤣🤣🤣🤣.


If you support a politically motivated demolition, May you not have any structure standing in your name from now till your end.

Urchins on keyboard.

Elimination Akaria..

2special:
No be Action Bitters be that, what some guys they take 3 or more at once

There time go soon reach.

Naturally a man has naturally strength to satisfy himself and the woman involved, but Follow follow has made some rely on these slow poison as enhancements. Na liver and kidney no dey talk Wetin there eye don see for men hand.

Na Adaora dey incharge..Igbo anyi Amaka!

Zenith ahead ahead.

Inukwam! Ewu and CS.


Soon we go here say Ewu dey do Abortion.

LordBiden:
So after looking for Iran trouble they have started issuing travel advisory.

Anyway I am still waiting for Iranians retaliation for trump nuclear strikes.

Body go tell those ajebutter burger eating Americans.

When NIGERIA has someone like you as it's citizen, it is important for USA citizens to stay off Military bases here and there.

Ana ezuzu.

11doubledee:
Oh you are not aware that iran ballistic missiles were raining on isreal from all fronts from October 7,2023.
From gaza,Lebanon,syria,Iraq,yemen and Iran.
Well over 50,000 rockets,ballistic missiles and drones at isreal alone.
Una want annihilate them but they pretend like peace lovers
Our Memory is not that short.
I'm happy the new Syria ,Lebanon don dey get sense.
If Iran has issues with isreal, they should not hide under islam to fulfill their personal and self goals.
Go and wipe out isreal yourself and let us know if and when you do.
Stop using people head to bring chaos and destruction to people lives and land hiding under ISLAM while you have been protecting yours all these while.

You see these people supporting Iran, Sometimes I wonder if they have short memories.
One even argued that Israel attacked Iran first.

I was marvelled when I saw how Lebanon distanced itself from Hezbollah when Israel step in. It is a sense of being in tune with reality. For years Iran was using other countries as battle ground. Causing pain in the name of religion.

dominique:
So there was no other way to bring peace other than dropping nuclear bombs on 2 cities killing thousands of unarmed civilians? If an Arab country had done this would you have called this a peace keeping mission or a terrorist attack? Let's call a spade a spade united states of America and their masters Isreal are the no.1 terrorist countries in the world. They've played huge roles in almost every unrest in most parts of the world but religious bigotry won't let you see this.

The question I expected from you regarding the atomic bomb on Hiroshima is, what happened after?.
The answer is, It brought peace ever since then. Japan became a technological hub that channelled its energy into good use. Today Japan makes the best Electronics and cars in the whole world.

Imagine if Iran channel its resources into developing similar things with it's multitude of scientists, Even America will not see their back in development. But they prefer using it in financing armed militia groups for a single goal of chaos.

I recall Obama's speech, To those who seek peace, we will support you, to those who choose to terrify the world, we will fight you. Iran has chosen the part of terror. Only Iran, financing Hamas in Palestine, Hezbollah in Lebanon, Houthis is Yemen. No na, enough is enough. The world need peace. And Violence comes before peace. If we no fight, you no go know who big pass. And once you know who big pass, respect go dey. And then peace becomes priceless.


Lastly, regarding your bigotry statement, isn't it obvious you are being emotional for a state who pride in sponsoring armed militias who are terrifying whole of Middle East?
I won't blame you, as a human being, your Mindset determines your life setting. This is why we are pampering them here in NIGERIA. Now they are in your Backyards. You can't even make a short trip by road without being tensed.

Enough is Enough with Terrorists.

Frankiss44:
They know this.. But the self consolation of an imagined 72 virgins waiting for them is too tempting for them

I give up on Ayatollah yesterday when he said being assassinated is Martyrdom. And he went ahead to nominate a successor. Like he has accepted the dead man walking Tag..😂

Frankiss44:
They are not actually lying.. They did actually evacuate but it was just personnel and nothing else.. They are just trying to fool their zombies as usual

Of course personnel will run for their llives .

It is plain stupidity for any country to challenge America or it's son(Israel). America makes the best war tools, and most of their products are in Israel.