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Hollyharjii:
Life no balance

Oga life balance, na the person no stand well

CTee1:
Time to settle down but nothing full outside…
Single at 37yrs, I’m tired.

For a man, life start at 30. Maybe you just getting the memoir at 37. See you see 40 in 3mins.

Thier is no way you've not seen your wife, maybe you never considered her as the one. The earlier you move now, the better. Otherwise in 3mins, abii years, your wife must have cross 32.

And you know how risky that will be if you don't have serious resources to pull through.

Trump sef...🤣🤣🤣🤣

Talk is cheap.how many of una tell Buhari this same thing.

Englishisamust:
Your wife fit dirty too. May be.. it is just a suggestion...

Allegedly birds of same feather..🤣🤣🤣🤣

Peter532:
She didn't say it outrightly but for the few days she's been here always asking me if have bath...I mean your a guest in my house, and still you have the efontery to ask me that kind question because I let you into my space.

she did same thing this morning, telling my wife to put water for me to bath...shoi...me that if I want to bath no body will know, just to enter the bathroom..I don't even use hot water....and I normally bath twice before the day ends... except when I'm not going out....na this lady is asking me this kind question as if my body is smelling...or I have body odour in my own house...or na must for me to baff early in the morning when I'm not going out.

if you see the way I shouted for her with all the anger in me this morning not minding she's an older relation .I just can't hold it no more.

have you ever experienced an odd guest like this?

Oga work on your personal hygiene. It is simple as that..

I used to think it is cool, but after observing my parents and how they don't touch eachother's cell Phone, plus the peace and Joy they share, I realised it is worth it.

Another thing is having a woman who is matured, intelligent and smart and most especially cherish peace of mind.

Cheating will never cross to your mindset.

Aura for Aura😁😁

Sissy man don go cheat, he is now afraid of his husband eehm! Sorry wife...🤣🤣🤣

Cristlaw:
Good day Nairaland.

I will be brief.
I love this lady and I believe she loves me too because she is my dream woman.
we plan to get married by early next year, but the problem here is that my mom want me to hold on with the wedding because she feels I'm not buoyant enough for marriage.
My finance promise to support though.

By this year December, I should have saved 1.5M from my pocket and I believe family and friends will support as my total budget for the wedding is 2M.

Although I didn't tell her about my savings yet.
I don't want to enter a marriage without my parents support. Just few months left to new year and I'm so confused right now.

What should I do guys?

Oga be calming down small small..which one is just few months left before we enter New year? INUKWA! 7months na em you call few?

Your parents feel like you are not ready. Maybe or maybe not.

Marriage no be baby snap me unawares o, you must be aware.

So 750k cannot sponsor your trad? If you are that desperate If only you will understand that ceremony ends that day and the real marriage start after.

Zonefree:
Like, she granted interview?


Igwe should wake up and bring award abeg.

The circumstances surrounding her upbringing have hardened her.

A case of you can't shame the shameless..

Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this account).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they supported me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't support me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

Be like you married a GenZ baddie with huge entitlement and sprinkle of laziness. Marriage is like a bed, as you make yours, you must sleep on it.

😂😂😂😂
Perfect description of " E pain am"

TheChameleon:
Both of them have played more away matches than the Champions League

Seriously a case of self deceit on both sides.

shortgun:
What's his business.
Chochocho

No mind the Ette...

Them don knack his crush so he just dey rant as a typical ette wey him be.

Calabar men and women affairs

saintbillion:
Humble ooo. Make them no collect ur husband

Not only collecting, them go still dey born for am..😂😂😂.

That guy was rushed into marriage by his parents. This is the actual time he should be for him. It's more of he found his soul mate now.

Women.

Any man who has mastered his ways with them, will live long.

Anger control is another thing.

Zonefree:
That dude is gone

Lol

😂😂😂😂

Is that me in future? Yes. He has beautiful daughters though.

Samantha125:
So him teaching his girlfriend how to practice better hygiene means he's not a serious person?

This is proof that many of you guys on this thread lack personal hygiene.

In another twist, he likes them unhygienic.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Zonefree:
A further proof that a man in love is a useless man.

Tueh

🤣🤣🤣😃🤣😃🤣🤣 BRO is off the hook.

Inukwam shaving a mere gf local government.

Babangidapikin:
Better learn to bake bread and set up your bakery....let it be your side hustle.... Country hard Country hard people go still chop bread.

You dey give better advise to a social media babe..It's just giving gold to a toddler who doesnt know the value.

Gone are days when what one studied in Nigerian school, will fetch him/her good money.

obembet:
To renew car documents in port Harcourt rivers state now is not child's play. Imagine paying over 35k to renew car documents without comprehensive insurance.

When third party insurance with no benefit takes #15000, vehicle license is between 2300 to 3350, Road worthiness and MOT is arround #7500, prove of ownership while CMIR cost #8000.
Ro
Now that Nigeria police introduce Tinted
permit which cost arround 25k without medical report.

So to renew car documents is now approximately #70000.

How much does it cost in your state?

Source: obembet

Salon car = 19k

SUV = 24k

Imo state

dederocs:
Sadly most men are just tolerating tired women, who just want to eat, watch content and sleep

Damn!🤣🤣🤣🤣

This is the life of some girls.

ARISHEM:
It’s normal. Mostly if they rush into it because of pressure to get married
And most times they did not factor that they marry the responsibilities attached to it which include in laws and their wahala.
Another reason is if the marriage is driven by lust and not love.
This mostly happen to men who marry due to premarital sex.

Any married man be it a pastor, your neighbor or motivational speaker that always look roughened, shabby or like a zombie after he got married and is in the habit of putting pressure on you to get married is your enemy.

And any chronic debtor that is in the habit of borrowing money up and down after he got married but yet disturb you to get married like him is your enemy

Both words and Meme on point!...😂😂😂😂

When a greedy person entered poultry business, the result will be obvious.

I mean do you know what it takes to feed just 10k birds alone? Not to talk of 300k plus.

Lol. Anyway the have learnt there lesson, though it is foolish to euthanize birds that can be free ranged and some shared to local farmers in the communities.

Funny country.
When We paid 30k for 5years licence as at 2020.

21k new price ko, old price ni.

Virtual sex and kids loading....😂😂😂

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Men are biologically wired to get tired of their wives some years after marriage.
It takes an intentional man to keep the sexual and affection fire burning even after marriage.

When you stress a man so much before agreeing to marry him, one day he'll look at you naked and be like, Is this what I was chasing all over the place? Omo I mumu that year no be small.
Once that realization hits him its all over.

If you are the type that rations sex based on good behavior, one day he'll find alternatives and call your bluff.

Most men will not react to your bad behaviors.
They simply withdraw affection and intimacy.

If you are cheating physically or emotionally or living a smart deceitful life, one day he'll find out for himself and just reorganize his life and may never even tell you he has seen your deceitful life.

If you subscribe to online feminists, be ready to attain their marital status of Single and bitter or divorced and confused, soon.

Words on Marble 👍

Tinubu's second term is a must..
The North should know this and know peace.