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Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

mariahAngel:
Of course.



Peace wu ultimate o!




I believe animals make old people live longer.
They’re good company.



Ha si a wu’m nne nna nna’m.
My late grandfather treated me special...a bit than the others.



Gi e chere aka nara okwaya?



They actually love them.
I learnt from my grandfather not to treat animals badly.
One time, my grandfather’s goats went grazing by themselves, but when they came back in the evening, he counted them and found out they were incomplete.
He said the missing one must have lost his way home, and it was already getting dark.
My grandfather took his flashlight to go look for the missing goat, and he did not return till he found it.
Every time I remember it, it reminds me of that parable of the lost sheep.



True.

mariahAngel:
Yes. You don’t want to get it wrong.
It takes courage to make decisions that might break your heart, but bring peace to your soul.



Ok.


Definitely not.



Yes.

Most would rather remain in the village with their goats and chickens, than live with their children. And owu otu okwesiri I di...except when they need medical attention.
Being in a rural/natural environment keep them alive for longer.

When my grandmother came to the city for my uncle’s wedding, immediately after the wedding, she couldn’t wait to go back to the village.
She said her goats might die if nobody feeds them (I found it funny before, but now I understand better)





Almost the same thing my mum said my grandmother told her.
My mum says the way you treat your mother-in-law would be the way you would be treated when you become a mother-in-law.

nazablossom:
I'm not buying what she's selling

safarigirl:
WhiteMoney:

"I'm a composer, you can't work the way I work"

Oshey, Van Gogh, Mozart dey learn work for WhiteMoney hand.

Wahala for who no get creativity, no be WhiteMoney cause am.

nazablossom:
If I hear fall
That's her strategy. I hate watching them, no single chemistry

mariahAngel:
It is good you stood your ground.
You’ll be fine.

Owu nwaanyi mba ka owu onye ebe ulo unu?




It is most likely they’ll all share a flat.

Brownsun:
I dnt think its a strategy he probably loves doing it but he shld stop or reduce before d HMs start treating him like their cook abi house boy.

Brownsun:
Emmanuel and LR shld kiss already jorr

Broobembem:
No guy dey come close to am.

People are avoiding her.

Croweegarba:
Al Qaeda give them

toseen7:
That's no fun joor

Bitchiamjay:
Nah After this Show, LickiRoss should just drive straight to Dr Anu’s hospital.

garfield1:
Engr,apumaka oh.nchori nsogbu ohh

nazablossom:
With ease. Khaffi 2.0

garfield1:
I hope you have beatrice-like figure

mariahAngel:
Well, some are just too attached to their children.



What!?!?
...and she gave everything up just like that without at least making her mother see reasons?
Very painful.




They most times think they know best.



Do you honestly think op and his wife will be staying in one of the flats, while his mother occupies another alone by herself?
I believe, they’ll all share one flat laslas!

nazablossom:
Maria can talk for days

mariahAngel:
No, it is beyond that.

You know mothers have the tendency to interfere in their children’s affairs, and they can’t help it.

What would you do in op’s situation?

malikombi:
My wife do call me "Dear" and I reply with same. One day, my 2 year old boy was playing outside and misses home. Some men begin to interrogate him by asking his father and mother's name. The boy keeps saying "the name of my daddy is Dear and the name of my mum is Dear. Thank God for someone who knows him and came to his rescue.
Since then, I temporarily ask the mother to call me by my name.