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bukatyne: Your post I quoted was referring to training of kids.

Parents (not mothers or fathers) have major roles to play in the life of kids. If God thought either of them could do it alone, He wouldn't have given a child both of them. If the role of a father is just to 'provide' financially for the kids, then he's not important because the mother can do that also.

Fine bukatyne the truth is that a man alone can,t take care of the child neither the woman that is why divorce is not a good thing (broken home)it is the children that suffer MOSTTTTT well don,t let me go into that for now

Back on point, each one of us has his/her role to play. You can't compare a man to a woman neither compare woman to a man
You primary role in your husband house is take care of your children while your man is outside looking for how to make both end meet for you and your children and look after your husband properties
beside there are some job that does not befit women you women are not created for stress
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sexymoma: Why will i become i f00l house wife, not even Niger economy that is not smiling.

We all know that niger economy is not smiling,
Sexymoma does your hubby tell you that he is not up to his responsibility, are you the one responsible for your bills?

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bukatyne: Are you insinuating that training of the children is solely the role of the mother?

No, bukatyne the mother play a major when it comes to children upbringing and domestic activities.

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kreami diva: What happened to the part where i said THE MAN WOULD GO OFF DRINKING while the woman was "doing her primary responsibility".isn't this "primary responsibility" meant to be shared?

it shows the man has failed in his primary responsibility if the woman decided to take a step she must not be stopped
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@ kreami diva you Av said it all that that the lady make out time for her primary responsibility
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@byvan if you read between lines am not saying she must work But not to affect her primary responsibility at home because the money she earns is For herrrrrrrrrr only not to share with the man's duties paying up the house bills e.t.c
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@ byvan every one has his/her duties the financial aspect as In The house rent, Phcn water bill food stuff clothing the wife And children just To mention few among many others, is the MAN responsibility.
It will not befit if the revise were to be the case, Besides if the woMan is Working is not Compulsory On her to drop a peso.
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@ yellowpawpaw this is not hypothesis we are saying the reality
This is all what we know
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@kreami diva i knew you are well trained (proper upbring) if not for the help of God then then effort of your parent. What do you think many of us will be today. The society has now become where abnormalties has now become normal
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How many women of nowadays have time for their children to check their homework their schoolbags to see if they are in posession of what that does not belong to them they also busy on the island/street in the in name of making both end meet. Are they One paying the house bill is it not the responsibility Of their husand everyone has his/her own role . I am not saying a woman should not work but it must be an agreement between duo so has not to affect her ultimate responsibilty at home. Regards

My little contribution is being a full house wife is among the best job for a woman to the extent that even her husband has to be paying her on a mothly/weekly basis, is not an easy job because woman determine the future of their children moral wise, education,
Look our society of today the menace is on increase, what is responsible for that lack of moral/proper upbringing of the children
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The bottom line is that don't let us set a limit, because of poverty. Other factors can be allowed which we don't have control on
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..... let give example of a woman that went to an elderly man that the children she had is enough but her husband insisted that he need more children,

The woman beg this elderly man to help talk to her husband that the one they had is enough, this was the response this elderly man told the woman

"Madam you are number in your family ?
She said i am the 8th child of my mother?
Who is taking care of mother between you and your other siblings ?she replied I am the one paying 90% of their mother's bill take her abroad for holiday, buy her things and also doing such for their father

She said though, her elder brothers and sisters are also trying but not as she is doing due to their financial status

The elderly man then said had it been that your mother insisted that she is not giving birth to you after the 7th child you (she) won't have come to this world and now you are the major/stakeholder taking care of your parent.
So if she too insisted that she does want a child again she does not know the one that will be useful maybe it will the one she want to deny coming to this world

Immediately she changed her taught. Our creator knows us more than ourselves we are not the one taking care of ourselves.
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Well, as for me no limit, are you setting a limit for your creator! or do we think we the one taking care of ourselves, even collecting a million as remuneration monthly that does not translate that you are capable .
We see people that their wages is N30,000k monthly, with wives and children doing well and they are not living from hand to mouth, and one receiving million still living in penury no rest of mind

So why should we deny.........

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Good

Is anyone applying for M.Sc in Construction Management ?

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dominique: Pls what is the website. The one I entered was spgs.unilag.edu.ng. I tried going through the unilag official site, same story.

Just google unilag post graduate school, ok let let me search for the link is not going for now i av tried as well but as at 1.00am it was ok then

What are the prices of T.M.T reinforcement 10mm 12mm 16mm ?

dominique: i've been trying to login to unilag spgs site since morning but its not going through. anyone encountering similar problems?

The site is going through, maybe you are logged in to the wrong website.

A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: "I am blind, please help." There were only a few coins in the hat. A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see the new words. Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to the blind boy.

That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, "Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you write?" The man said, "I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a different way. "I wrote:

'Today is a beautiful day; but I cannot see it.'"Both signs told people that the boy was blind. But the first sign simply said the boy was blind.

The second [/b]sign reminded people how fortunate they were to have their sight. Should we be surprised that the second sign was more effective? Moral of the Story:

Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. Be innovative. Be grateful to your creator Allah(SWT). Think differently and positively. When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, show life that you have [b]1000 reasons to smile.

Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear.

Keep the faith and drop the fear. It's a beautiful thing to see a person smiling. But even more beautiful is knowing that you are the reason for the smile!

Faith is not about everything turning out OK. Faith is about being OK no matter how things turn out.

May Allah guide us right(آمين)

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Am writing tPc, google to get the webaddress

medical line or an Architect

^^^^^^^^Not necessary obtain your form online, print fill and go to NIQS office for submission i.e registration first

miz4oxley: I am a Quantity Surveyor, not practising at the moment, but still working in the construction field as a Project Manager and Supervising Engineer. Since graduation and after NYSC, I couldn't get a QS firm appointment which has taken my career out of the profession, but I still do most of the QS jobs for my coy. Prepare Bills, Variation claims, Project Management to the pitch, Project Supervision with other stakeholders involved etc. I'm also going into Construction Safety, where I can be employed as a Construction Project Safety Consultant. My line of career has since inception digress to other jurisdiction of duties, but still in line with my qualification as a QS. Any QS in the house who's not in a QS firm and still enjoying your career? Let's get talking, what softwares or courses you think can help have your way in our profession.

Why can't you try and register for your professional exam so as to be qualified. (charted QS) most likely writing my exams next year by God grace

you can get good vitrified floor tiles for 2000-2500 wall tiles 1200- 1500

It all depends on what you want there are porcelain tiles etc

Cipriani: Please, can anyone give me a quotation for the price of vitrified tiles per square metres; white glazed wall tiles; bathroom/wc floor tiles and ceramic kitchen wall tiles.

And how can I calculate amount of wall tiles for kitchen, bathroom and toilets. Do i calculate in square metres? Are the tiles sold in square metres?

yes in square meter

2) The least alphabet an arabic word can be is 3Letters word(ثلاث الحروف) and the max. 7Letters word(سبعت الحروف)

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^^^ is that your reply busar?

^^^^^^That is serious, How come You forgot ?

why