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Mariojane:
it doesn't affect the students that are already in the dept. They just won't be able to admit new students. I don't know if it will delay your NYSC but apart from that it doesn't concerning you

If it delays service self am so ok.... Dat should give me enough time to attend series of interviews and even get a job b4 den...

Tank God for dis thread ooo cuz mine was unaccredited too plus am abt to write my final exams...

Very true but op forgot to talk abt what happens b4 u get called for the interview. When drop your CV or application one has to be well dressed, look friendly and very conversational with who ever u are dropping it with. That's like winning pre-season b4 the season starts proper

craziebone:
what i am finding unfortunate is the fact that you blame another person for the behaviour of another.

Would you hold the woman responsible for a man's aggression?

In some cases yes I can. All am saying is that a man has to put his lady in her proper place else she will disgrace him in public

craziebone:
i would like to know if you would be a 'gentleman' if the lady that slaped you was your younger sister? If you are not going to take it from a younger sister, why ake it from a wife? Let me make you to get it very well: I WILL NOT HIT A WOMAN. IF I WAS THE ONE IN THAT SHOE, I WOULD RESTRAIN MYSELF LIKE HE DID.

I have seen cases where women shout at and embarrass men in public and when the men hold back and just don't retaliate, which is what we have been wired to do in such a case since the '60s when feminism started, people consider him weak; People think you are deserving of it! You gain a negative reputation and become another supposed example of male failure while she an example of female power and emancipation.

Now, i have no problem with the whole of that if it does not have a disempowering effect on the male gender.

Do you know what psychological attack the male gender is recieving today?

True my younger sista would neva slap me dats even if I had 1 self. Cuz she's my family and she would have known me all her life to knw dat she wouldn't try dat in here dream self. My prb here is with men and the kind and ladies they call babes, galfriends and wives. Do u want to tell me that this was the 1st time dis lady displayed dis ugly attitude? I still hold men responsible for the excesses of women. You don't really nid to hit a woman to caution her. A stern look at her, even raising your voice a little could d trick and wen all dis don't work then its time to let go of that kinda woman, cuz if that is her attitude b4 u marry her den expect more after marriage. The truth is that marriage doesn't change anybody. All the work is done well b4 marriage more reason there is a word called courtship and dating. Too bad dis days its all about sex and seeing if the lady is capable of bearing a man kids. So my guy no matter what I still blame any man who allows a lady he calls his wife and girlfriend slap him. He practically gave her the reason and permission to slap him.

Critical times hard to deal with are here....dis is living in bondage: the movie

craziebone:
i disagree with you in an even mightier way! There is a way stubborness works: when there are no consequencies, what happens is that there is a negative reinforcement. This is basic psychology! You will be taken for granted. Yes, when the person first steps out of his/her boundary, they may be taken aback knowing fully well that they've steped into a taboo area. But when after some time and they realize that there were no consequencies, they become relaxed in that zone and even try to take charge of it. This is when they will begin to take you for granted.

I have worked in schools and i have seen it in relationships. Didn't you see how the twitter op put the whole issue? That the man in question probably deserved it. The twitter op's concern was not about the man really because she feels the man must have deserved it anyway. Her concern was wether it was right for him to have recieved his punishment right there and then.

Happily u are a teacher like me too, meaning we both have adopted different ways of handling issues. I still go with the easiest and most effective one which is the silent treatment. Honestly if I was d man that got those slaps from my wife all I just need do is move out and go cool my head somewhere else until the lady finally realizes what she has done. If doesn't fine then it will practically brings an end to the marriage. So long I can't hit a woman she too has no right to hit me. I also believe men shouldn't give ladies the chance of putting us in bad light even when they are the ones at fault. Trust me if the man had responded in the way and manner you are want him to response, the story would have been something else by now. Nobody would have gone back to remember the lady give him slaps first, all they will begin to talk about is why didn't he exercise a little self control. Bro ladies have lots of issues so no need joining more issues with them. So when they mess up big time you don't join them by messing up yourself even bigger, rather you allow them to continue to frolic in there own mess until they get tired of it. That's my humble submission

craziebone:
the best way is to ignore, you said? Na the lie wey dem dey tell una today be that. The best way to deal with aggression is to show superior aggression. If you just keep quiet, it will be seen as weakness on your part. But when a person knows that he or she will be seriously dealt with, they make different dicision on wether to start aggression.

Bro I still totally disagree... Show of force only makes one submissive for some time. But keeping quiet while ignoring a ladies action make her scared more as she is not sure of what your next actions are. As for me I have tried it more than once and it worked like a charm.

nigerialog:
If you applied as instructed you will certainly receive a reply with directions. You can also send another PM to Dayan to be sure.
Thanks.

That's true have been contacted. Am currently working on the response I was sent. Will reply soonest

daylife7:
I go so blast her sha...she go tell me if me n her dey use one phone

Bros relax, dem no dey beat women like dat. D best way to handle dem na just to ignore dem like plague...I swear she go confess wetin she no do join self

Na dis guy do Alomo bitters advert oooo

Women hand can dey fast no be say dem get any beta breeze for yanch ooo

All doz japanese pple way dey vex d way we take win dem for football don finally revenge

please take your time to read this piece
Jesus’s crucifixion is probably one of the most familiar images to emerge from Christianity. Good Friday, one of the holiest days in the Christian calendar, marks the event. But what was crucifixion? And why was Jesus killed that way? Crucifixion was a Roman method of punishment. Suspended from a large cross, a victim would eventually die from asphyxiation or exhaustion – it was long, drawn-out, and painful. It was used to publicly humiliate slaves and criminals ( not always to kill them ), and as an execution method was usually reserved for individuals of very low status or those whose crime was against the state. This is the reason given in the Gospels for Jesus’s crucifixion: as King of the Jews, Jesus challenged Roman imperial supremacy ( Matt 27:37 ; Mark 15:26 ; Luke 23:38 ; John 19:19–22 ).
Crucifixion could be carried out in a number of ways. In Christian tradition, nailing the limbs to the wood of the cross is assumed, with debate centring on whether nails would pierce hands or the more structurally sound wrists. But Romans did not always nail crucifixion victims to their crosses, and instead sometimes tied them in place with rope. In fact, the only archaeological evidence for the practice of nailing crucifixion victims is an ankle bone from the tomb of Jehohanan , a man executed in the first century CE. So was Jesus nailed to the cross? Gospel accounts Some early Gospels, such as the Gospel of Thomas , don’t include the narrative of Jesus’s crucifixion, choosing instead to focus on his teaching. But Jesus’s death by crucifixion is one of the things that all four canonical Gospels agree on. Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John, all include the crucifixion event in their own slightly different ways. None of the Gospels in the New Testament mentions whether Jesus was nailed or tied to the cross. However, the Gospel of John reports wounds in the risen Jesus’s hands . It is this passage, perhaps, that has led to the overwhelming tradition that Jesus’s hands and feet were nailed to the cross, rather than tied to it
The Gospel of Peter , a non-canonical gospel from the first or second century CE, specifically describes in verse 21 how after Jesus had died, the nails were removed from his hands. The Gospel of Peter also famously includes the cross itself as an active character in the Passion narrative. In verses 41-42 the cross speaks, responding with its own voice to God: “And they were hearing a voice from the heavens saying, ‘Have you made proclamation to the fallen- asleep?’ And an obeisance was heard from the cross, ‘Yes.’” Tradition is clearly of paramount importance to this text. Over the past few years, several people have claimed to have found the actual nails with which Jesus was crucified. Each time, biblical scholars and archaeologists have rightly pointed out the assumptions and misinterpretations of evidence behind these claims. Curiously, this fixation on the nails persists, despite the fact that the earliest gospels make no mention of Jesus being nailed to the cross. Depictions of the crucifixion It isn’t surprising that Christians took a while to embrace the image of Christ on the cross, given that crucifixion was a humiliating way to die. What is surprising is what the earliest image of the crucifixion turns out to be. Rather than the devotional icons with which we are familiar – pictures that glorify Jesus’s death – this earliest image appears to be some late second-century graffiti mocking Christians.
Called the Alexamenos Graffito , the image shows a figure with the head of a donkey on a cross with the words: “Alexamenos worships his God.” This was apparently a common accusation in antiquity, as Minucius Felix ( Octavius 9.3; 28.7) and Tertullian ( Apology 16.12) both attest. Since the graffito was clearly not made by a Christian, this image suggests that non-Christians were familiar with some core elements of Christian belief as early as the second century. Gemstones, some used for magical purposes, also provide some of our earliest depictions of the crucified Jesus. This second or third century piece of carved jasper depicts a man on a cross surrounded by magic words.
Scholars think that the Constanza gemstone, as it is known, dates from the fourth century CE. In this depiction , Jesus’s hands do not appear to be nailed to the cross, since they fall naturally, as if he is tied at the wrists. Since the evidence from antiquity doesn’t provide a clear answer as to whether Jesus was nailed or tied to his cross, it’s tradition that dictates this common depiction. Those who have seen the film The Passion of the Christ will recall how much time the director, Mel Gibson, devoted just to the act of nailing Jesus onto the cross —- almost five whole minutes.
Given the relative silence on the act of crucifixion in the Gospels, this stands out as a graphic expansion. One of the only films that does not assume that crucifixion involved nails is Monty Python’s Life of Brian , which shows multiple crucifixion victims, though not Jesus, tied to their crosses. Eventually, Emperor Constantine put an end to crucifixion as a method of execution, not for ethical reasons, but out of respect for Jesus. But in the end, it is the enduring image of the cross, and not the matter of whether nails or ropes were used, that most firmly evokes the death of Jesus in art and tradition.
Meredith J C Warren , Lecturer in Biblical and Religious Studies, University of Sheffield

Hmmm tank God say by football age I be still 17 years ooo...I still get enough time to chop football money...

Applied waiting for them to contact me. Please contact me ooo cuz like u mentioned dis are tins we are already doing now for free. So am ready to take up dis challenge headlong

Dis fall is legendary oooo

Do you know your s*x position has a lot to say about you and who you really are? Here is what your favourite s*x position reveals about you. Some men love missionary, and some dudes dig doggystyle. Others like their ladies on top, while certain guys stick with spooning. Sure, your favorite s*x position is probably the one that gives you the best orgasm—but on a subconscious level, your go-to move also says something about your personality in the sack.

MISSIONARY
The Move: Missionary is like S*x 101: It’s the
way we’re “taught” to have s*x, and the way
that we see it most often in rom-coms and TV shows. But although this position is a classic, a missionary man might be a little insecure or “need reassurance by seeing his lover be responsive,” says s*x therapist Ava Cadell, Ph.D., author of Neurolovology.
You may also be keen on having control during s*x, as missionary gives you all the driving power.
Since the position finds both people face-to-
face, there’s some intimacy to it—but its
basicness suggests the guy might not be
confident about the other moves in his
arsenal. “It’s romantic, but not very
adventurous,”Cadell says. Switch Things Up: There’s nothing wrong with loving the classics, but make sure you take a
walk on the wild side every now and then.
“If you can only climax during missionary,
that’s a problem,” Cadell says, and you’ll need to do some “reprogramming” to your s*x life.
Try switching to woman on top, which has all of the same intimate qualities, but will let you relinquish some of that control—and spice things up.

DOGGYSTYLE
The Move: We’ve never met a guy who didn’t
like doggy. This, some believe, is how man was meant to have s*x.

A doggy-lover “taps into his territorial
animalistic instinct as king of the jungle,” says Cadell, “but he also has fears of intimacy and is generally unromantic.”
After all, you probably don’t go for rear entry because you want to whisper sweet nothings in her ear from behind.

Switch Things Up: You can get the deepest
penetration from this position, but what you
earn in depth, you lose in intimacy. To make up for it, spring for spoons every now and then. You’ll still get to enter from behind, but the snuggly qualities of spooning s*x will make your partner feel like a dime, rather than a piece of meat.

WOMAN ON TOP
The Move: The beauty of this position is that
there are a million ways to do it—and it’s all up to her.
Men who love their women on the saddle are likely concerned with pleasing their partners, and Cadell says this move shows that “he’s confident in being submissive, but he can also be dominant when he enables her to reach her orgasm with deeper penetration.”
Basically, you get off helping her get off.
Switch Things Up: We get that you like the view from down there—who wouldn’t?—but take control every now and again by flipping her over. She’ll appreciate the occasional shift in power, and the view isn’t bad from back there, either.

SPOONING
The Move: Given that spooning is most often associated with cuddling and sleep, it’s no surprise that this super intimate position is often the go-to for guys who have a soft spot. But men who love the move aren’t wimps—instead, they’re “passionate and eager to please their lover,”Cadell says.
Switch Things Up: Everyone likes to experience the sweeter side of s*x, and props for being a romantic. But you can still be intimate while igniting a little more fire into your s*x life. While in the spooning position, reach around to stimulate her clitoris, or try a position like missionary where you can gaze lovingly into each other’s eyes—while penetrating her even
deeper.

STANDING
The Move: Pressed against the front door,
hoisted onto the kitchen counter, or in the
shower, you can have standing s*x anywhere
but the bed.
That’s why guys who like this position best are adventurous, and often turned on by the idea of being naughty. The standing man is a “mischievous lover who gets a thrill out of getting caught, and wants to have as much fun as possible with little regard
of the consequences,” says Cadell.

Switch Things Up: Novelty is part of what keeps your s*x life hot, so don’t let yours simmer down by going to the same standing position time after time. Vary up the locations you choose, or switch to doggy from time to time—you can have your partner standing and bending over a table—to keep things interesting.

Source: Men’sHealth

may01:
She should be able to pray for more than an hour.

According to One pastor

Ahhhhh dis na wayo ooo small tin remain I 4 say dis na racism....

Marriage is life-changing and can be destructive
if it is embarked on with the wrong person.
You have to be absolutely sure that the woman
in your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with every day of your life,
forever.

Here are some signs that your girlfriend will
make a good wife…

1. She’s Nurturing
A woman who will make a good wife has to be caring and nurturing. She’s going to be majorly responsible for the well-being of you and your children. She should be kind and compassionate, willing to take care of others without grumbling. You cannot nurture a grouch,so the man himself must deserve nurturing

2. She’s Dependable
A great wife should be someone you can trust and rely on. She should be someone who will support her man no matter what, someone you know you can count on, come rain, come shine. You must in return be loving ,caring ,appreciative and show it,you don’t expect what you don’t give

3. She’s Respectful
Disrespect is one of the major causes of
marital dysfunction. The woman you decide to marry should respect you no matter what. She should respect your family and your friends, even if she doesn’t like them. She should be a respectful person all round.

4. She’s Humble
A proud woman will encourage grudges and
nothing destroys relationships faster than
malice. The ideal wife should be able to apologize even when she isn’t in the wrong.
If you lack the same qualities may baba God
pair you with a wife just like you

5. She Must Be Emotionally Stable
The woman you decide to marry should be
stable emotionally and otherwise. An emotionally unstable woman can’t handle the pressures of marriage. She should be mature and know how to handle situations without constantly losing her cool. You don’t want to marry a woman who will break down in tears over every little challenge.
If you expect a non emotional spouse ,then you picked the wrong gender for a wife,find a man like yourself

6. She Must Love Children
The ideal wife should love children. She should like to have them around her and willing to play with them always. This is a sign that she’ll be capable of taking care of the family you build together.

7. She Must Be A Good Cook
She doesn’t have to be a chef but a great wife should be able to feed her family. She must be able to cook good food and not just Noodles.. You know some babes can’t even boil water.

8. You Both Should Have A Lot In Common
It can be the same kind of music or the same hobbies or even just a love of books. If there are things you both like to do, that’s a good sign you are entering a marriage of happiness and Longevity.

9. She Must Be Comfortable To Communicate With There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication, and if you are considering making it official by marrying her, you have to feel comfortable talking with her about any and everything. The more you communicate with your woman, the less likely the two of you will get into arguments because you both will be able to talk about your problems instead of holding them in.

10. You Can Laugh Together
Mutual laughter is an essential component of a strong and healthy marriage. Romance is much better if you can see humour in the little things and can have a laugh together.
Above all, you must remember that there’s no such thing as a perfect person so there can’t be a perfect wife. Love is about accepting that person you’ve chosen even with all their flaws and deciding to love them no matter what.

What other qualities do you consider necessary for an ideal wife?

Share your opinions by dropping your Comments.

Sauce abi na source: www.ngempire.com/2016/08/if-youre-planning-on-marrying-your.html?m=1

EFCC posted the photo below on its
Facebook Timeline and captioned:


We need to change our orientation as
a people! Why celebrate treasury
looters with chieftaincy titles and
honorary degrees and condemn pick-
pockets to death? Let us have a
rethink, for a better Nigeria. #EFCC.
#treasurylooters

I so so concur to all dis points.....in my case I had issues with some of them in Dept. The true is that this happened both knowingly and unknowingly and I sure got what I was looking for... Which is enough carry over which was enough to take me into extension. Mehn na once my spirit wake come to meet one of dem way be my padi oooo na so I explain ooo d guy come help me intercede ooo. Na so my 1st semester 400l result take clear but the damage had already been done in my second semester 300l.... My advice is dat be a ghost in ur dept.... Neva ever step on their toes wheda by mistake or watever..... Am a leaving testimony to the many different ways dey can deal with u

In Jesus voice '' Go and sin no more''

naptu2:
[size=14pt]Nigeria Vs USA (basketball) on Monday August 1st, 2016.[/size]

The match will be shown live on the NTA.



http://www.houstontoyotacenter.com/events/detail/usabasketball2016

Monday, August 1, 2016

7:00 PM (Houston time), 2AM (Nigerian time).

Doors Open

5:30PM

Ticket Prices

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Venue: Toyota Centre, Houston.

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2AM....woaaahhhh dats my name....feel free to ask hw come I have 2AM as my real name

Sometimes we are just too slow to hear and so quick to respond using Toyin Aimakhu and so many other Nigerians as a case study

Not bad I just hope backyard runs no go overshadow am last last

D gal force am collect d money from am?

How does dat make the naira stable against d dollar na?

At 28 am currently in my 1st relationship. And even if I want it to lead to marriage I can't take away the fact that anything can happen. True I have dodge so many incident that could have lead to me cheating on me babe. But dis is because I have always prepared my mind that anytin can happen. Like I also tell my babe, my greatest fear is that she might one day leave me for another guy. And even though it pained her and made her feel like she is gonna cheat on me one day, its the bitter truth. My point is guys do not let love or whatever blind u to the fact dat anytin can happen in a relationship. Knowing all this prepares you for the outcome wheda good or bad