1, Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, s*x is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. s*x is the same kind of powerful force. s*x is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.

2, intimate activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive s*x drive and it tends to dominate their life.

3, The majority of women cannot enjoy s*x outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling s*x life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital s*x usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women.

4, Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way.

5, Those who engage in premarital s*x run a high risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, but other common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure.

6, Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married.

7, The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have s*x and maintain fidelity in your marriage.

8, Premarital s*x breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by God to make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happy and prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences.

9, Premarital s*x runs the risk of conceiving illegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.

10, If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you stop dating. But if you have s*x with those you date and then break up, the nature of intimate involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini- divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini- divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you. True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all - the love nest of marriage.

wow tonto

What wil you do if your
fiance u got married to said
she is a virgin and on that
faithful u find out she is
not?
cc: lalasticlala , mynd44

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PearlStreet:
They thought he was just another black man but they didn't know he was an internationally acclaimed footballer.

Big fuckup for Russia and a major embarrassment for them.

probably a nigerian there stole it though

oga i can download from youtube sir

what is the name of the movie ?

mimimile93:

Asalamu alaikum

walaikum sallam good day

QuietHammer:


Lol. My nigga, leave matter for Mathias. We know as e dey go

whatever

QuietHammer:


My guy-my guy. Two in one. How far na? Honestly you are too dull for a scammer Go learn a trade.

may God put a situation before you so that you will know what am passing through if you can't help move on if you like call me an alien it's your beleive

mimimile93:


Your head dey there..
Reading their comments you will know say na two persons in one body.. Smh

you're entitle to your opinion sir beleive whatever you want

IamFreedom:


Hei lil sis, You post on fp ain't means it's deserve it Seems dat kidda achievement for you


Nei to satisquo !!!

it is my dear because i appreciate both little and big things

cc: Lalasticlala Mynd 44

EazyMoh:

Hi now I read this post as well. I now understand better, especially the only child part.
I really feel sorry for you, but know that is life. Allah will surely test each and everyone of us with a calamity in order to reward us if we pass or hold us accountable if we fail. Remember Prophet Ibrahim (AS) he was tested by commanding him to slaughter his favorite son...
Look around you everyone has his/her test already in progress in life. One important thing g is that Allah will never test you with what you lack capacity to do.
Send me a pm and I hope to be able to assist more.

thank you so much i really appreciate

it's a transmission of you stupidity over hynious kidanapping

he can spell fire don't blame him if can't spell robbed

sad or happy ? Were fake de ?

lol ramos is brutal i just love this guy

IamFreedom:



Cause your post are handicapped, they ain't move front


Try writing on more important topics ¿ and you will see the diff

you re the handicap one yourself now because my post is on fp

uniqUN:
EazyMoh , nice one my guy. Couldn't have said it any better- 'cept for the karatun boko part. Education is priceless and has no match to human DEVELOPMENT. Even if you do not use or need that certificate to be eventually successful, it definitely would be its foundation. from realizing your strength or interest to meeting new friends that could just nudge you to the path of success that is entirely far from your course of study. As for the OP, i've not read that your previous post though, although, i believe there's more to it than you indicated here. First of all, these same parents put you in school from basic to this point, probably. So why the sudden change of heart? Yes, by tradition and custom, most northerners see marriage of their daughters especially as the ultimate affair or goal, but when you are lucky enough to come from one who will see that you never compromise your education for marriage or marriage for education, it's a blessing. Miss, there's something you aren't telling us. Sorry no offence intended but i have to ask these questions: are you finding education difficult? Are you experimenting on guys so much so that it got to your parents? You are young and beautiful so asking if you are running out of time is outside the question-or maybe not to your parents. Do they have someone that they want you to get married to? Are they having tough times with money? Most parents mean well for their offsprings so they can be going through a tough time but wouldn't want you to even feel this, hence their actions atimes seem harsh to you but it's a wrong perception from you and wrong execution from them. Good intention, bad approach. So please, i advice you talk to them and convince them more that you will never let them down. Talk to your siblings or relatives to help you talk to them. They will eventually listen of course. Then please be ready to receive critiques in issues like this even in real life not to mention social media. Be open, truthful, calm and in your best behaviour even if you feel like smacking the crap outta some people. Help can come from even your worst critique. I pray you get the attention of your parents back even better than before. Guys, this can be you. If you can assist financially, please do. I must say, without funny conditions.

thank you if you read my previous post you will understand better dear

EazyMoh:
Hnmm Hajiya be careful fa, no one here can claim to love you more than your parents.
As I understand your parents may be conservative northern Muslims who sincerely believe a good marriage is the best thing that could ever happen to a daughter. From your narrative they aren't trying to marry you off to one old man nor a guy you never know or liked like that...
With the way you look (beautiful) and sound (educated, wise and smart) I am sure you have many suitors already. Choose one and make him (and your parents) give you the grace of at least reaching final year in your study or closest negotiation. Your mum shall be on your side mediating between you and your dad. This rebellious path you are trying to follow isn't gonna lead you anywhere good.
Also marriage never mean end of your studies, in fact it could be an excellent catalyst to make you more focused, comfortable and blessed.
Don't you have sisters? Grandparents? Your parents friends and siblings whom they respect and listen to, so they can at least persuade them to give you some grace to graduate?
By bringing this your case to nl don't you know the type of people who make up majority of the commentators here? If you don't know they are about 80% southerners (who do not know/understand your cultural background) more than 70% non-Muslims who consider marriage as a future event they may choose to do or not. With or without it they can sleep with as many men/women they like and have as many kids as they like.
I am not saying you shall agree and marry whomever your parents decide, No even prophet Muhammad (pbuh) was clearly against that.
So my advice go and beg your parents for forgiveness. Tell them you never to disobey or make them unhappy, that with the way they raised you it's your dream to someday get married, but they shall give you two or three years grace to go a bit further in your study. Mention stuff like you are worried you wouldn't be able to take care of your babies as you would like if you are still a student. If they are still adamant include other family members I mentioned earlier. If still they wouldn't bulge chose the best among your suitors and settle down. Pray it's for the best. Trust me Allah will see you through in the most spectacular way.
Karatun Boko is grossly overrated nowadays. You may even graduate and find out the degree isn't even worth it!
I have two sisters both are graduates the eldest has always wanted to get married while she was in school, now she has a degree she is not using and still not married.
I pray you find happiness in your life and get to reconcile with your parents as soon as possible.
Ramadan Mubarak
Cc FriendNG Nafeesat QuotaSystem Fulanimafia empiree itsmeAboki idisuleourown Mynd1 and everyone else come advise your sister.

thank you so much may Allah reward you

Timekeeper:



Will you marry me? Will sponsor ur education and we get married.. One most important thing is that u will leave ur kogi or where u r leaving and stay in Lagos or abeokuta with me and u serve the God I serve and His son Jesus Christ..can you miss pinky? Egbobe

no money can never make me to run after man and it can never make me to betray my religion thanks sir

horlarwereleh:


Nt seen!! Just send it here nd modify it later!!

my dear pls check your e mail i get too many pm from here everyday i don't wanna drop it here hope you understand me dear

horlarwereleh:

Hmmm, tnx!! Pm me ur FB handle then!!

done

horlarwereleh:


U seem like a nice lady!! If u dnt mind, we cn talk privately!! That is if u dnt mind!! But if u do, i will pass!!

you're free my dear maybe someday i will like to meet someone with such heart am still suprise i don't know people still care anymore

horlarwereleh:


U ar wlcm!! Am happy dat i atleast brought a smile to ur face!! Just be strong nd i knw God will surely pave way for u!!

thank you so much you even brought a smile on my face thank you for your care and your time
i beleive God will use somebody to help me before it gets out of hand once again thank you

horlarwereleh:


Saw ur comment on a thread nd i took notice of ur signature!! Curiosity leads me in opening it nd wen i read ur post, i was really moved!! I cn only imagine wat u ar goin tru but nevertheless, dnt let ur sadness weigh u down cux u may never know where help is coming frm!! I saw the way u replied dat guy, though u may nt mean any harm but viewing it in anoda way, its like an insult!! He only asked dat bcux a lot of people are on NL doing same nd using it to dupe people!! He only wanted to knw if its nt a scam!! If i had seen ur thread before u replied him, i would av voted for you even without knowing you!! But nevrtheless, dnt let ur sadness weigh u down, i wish u the best!!! Sincerely i wish i cn help, sincerely i wish!!!!

oh my God your comment touched my heart i swear to God i value it more than money thank you so much may God be with you when ever you need him you're wonderful i appreciate

Lakeside79:


You should.get.married.as your parents suggested ,.you seem.to already have enough experience in pointless arguments, never agreeing when.you are wrong and being stubborn

You are ready for marriage , please send me an IV
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i know your type what you say is always the best i know

Lakeside79:


Do tell

How did I misunderstand you ?

if i call you a family on nl that does not mean a family in reality world we met here and all we do ends here so don't take otherwise learn to understand things positively before jumping into conclusion