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Nettybrown:
I could help if u dont mind

please help me anyway you can

SouthNigerian:
To advice right is our birthright.

All of the pressure yo facing won't last long, just endure & you'll be free again. Your family are actually looking out for changes in you, the moment they perceive that, they'll let you have your life again.
Shalom!

thank you

SouthNigerian:
Your story suggests you are still young and need guidelines. You will someday leave your parents home, by then you'll enjoy the freedom to choose whatever you desire.
Christianity is not show off, its a faith of the heart. No matter who you meet to help talk to your parents, they'll remain adamant and that might make you an enemy to your family. My dear young girl, you need your family more than anyone out there, with time no one can stop you from making your own choices & decisions.
So the best thing is to reunite with your family & grow your new faith on a low.

Lemme add this, I once visited a devoted muslim uncle of mine who was a lecturer, it was ramadan period, I was Christian but he must not know. I joined the family eating "saari", when they left for work myself & my cousin would make delicious meal, in the night we break fasting together. Some might say its cowardice, but its not, its wisdom. Now I practice my faith openly cos am now independent.
So my darling girl, be careful of wrong advice.

wow God bless you in Jesus name

Alejobs:
I understand the difficulties but you cannot starve to death. You are in a desperate situation and have to be willing to take risk.....you need instant help on ground and any possible confirmation or corroboration of your story from a neutral. I really want to help but you need to do your best to survive by asking for help in your immediate vicinity first

Ok tnx you

Nettybrown:
I could help if u dont mind

how dear am in a great danger please how can you help me?

SouthNigerian:
If your stated ordeal are true, I guess yo confused in your thoughts already. There is nothing wrong substituting one's faith.
First, I was born in a devoted muslim home that doesn't shy away from traditional rites, I later converted to Christianity, though I faced a hell of pressure even though am a guy. My Aunt was sent out of the house cos she brought a Christian fiance home, so I can relate with your story if true.
Now read carefully, if you decide to desert your family at this point in time you might go astray. If you are in search of someone who will harbor you, you'll be taking a very big risk, why? Cos many people out there hide their true motives even when they are smiling. I will advice you go back to your family seeking their forgiveness even though you know well in your heart that you are a converted Christian.
Steer away from objects that suggest you're still following Christianity, download the Biblical app & read contents on your phone, but make sure you practice the act of taking less...

wow best advice so far thank you brother
Let me try that but I will punished starved and kept home for a very long time even without food and I may not go out for long
See it took God's intervention to know where they kept my phone its been a very long time I logged in nairaland due to that.
I will loose my freedom again n I will still suffer.

Alejobs:
Go to the police station and go to any church or talk to any lady you can see around for immediate help with food. If your story is true, help is on the way

you won't understand my dear most people are afraid to intervene in such matter because a strong Muslim family like mine will attack they say they are the one trying to convert me.
As for police hmmm we live in a place where we have more Muslims than Christian faith

Yenefer:
Lol fake nus. chances of real Muslim to convert is 00000000.000.001% if u really learn and understood Islam u will never convert. Fake nus

I don't understand you

ikh777:
Ok... if you are in Lagos Nigeria, you can come to ikeja, we will help you and also there are NGOs here that can talk to your parents for you.

thank you but am in Kogi state hiding in one village right now. I wish there is a way I could come over. And talking to my family won't work they say I should choose the religion and get disowned and disgraced and that is why I ran away

People here get you more depressed and more sad when you seek advice and help from then
But thanks to others that advised me maturedly.

ContractKiller:
I blame one fake Arab "prophet" who loved sleeping with other men's wives, while at the same time trying to control the way women dress.

i still blame your mother for bringing trash to this peacefull world

ngwababe:
I should not do what? Piakwa onwe gi respect. I'm trying to correct you and you're blabbing, common gerrout. Una no wan insult but una sabi insult, ana akogheri.

i see no reason to dignify you by chatting with you

wiseone28:

lol i mean her mother

ngwababe:
Read to understand babe.

on no condition you should

We promise to chain that thief

Hmmm noted

Op get a life first. So you curse God ? On what condition seriously you are mad

TooMuchStuff:
Is Muhammad around?

i blame your mother

Money is good

I still like window phones though especially most of their pocket PC

Main reason why he was disgraced and stoned in ankpa few days ago. No matter what he will never win. His dog ahmed ahmed is still currently in ankpa with his thugs arresting innocents and closing their shop and also intimidating people with guns

May be..

Devil still de learn work

MANNABQGRILLS:
You won't understand what I'm saying until some people start blaming Buhari and Fulani herdsmen

anyway, what's my concern if a group of cultists start killing themselves.

In fact, it's a welcome development

they are hurting innocents i live closer na

MANNABQGRILLS:
All to tarnish the image of Buhari

my dear president pass them

why are you always useless 13 students killed and more and you're typing rubbish.

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, Nnamdi Kanu is a disgrace to every Christian worldwide from the religious perspective for aligning with Israel and Judaism. A well known terrorist like Kanu who almost made we Christians clash with our peaceful Muslim brothers because of his incessant hate speeches towards the north and the west doesn't deserve to see the light of the day. I suggest the federal government seize his mother's corpse for following the useless man to court in Abuja in solidarity and cremate it to serve as a deterrence to parents Who supports their children's criminality or feed her carcass to the Crocs in Nile river. Nnamdi kanu deserves to be locked up at ADX Florence in Colorado with the likes of his fellow terrorists like Elchapo and Muttalab for endangering the unity of our beloved country Nigeria.

must you in every post

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We had not seen each other for about 30 years. The Lord has been kind to me. When I saw him again - this time at a hotel lobby - he was looking simple. He wore simple Ankara attire. I felt touched. He walked up to me and was glad to see me again. But deep within me I was not impressed with his status compared to mine and poor me, I couldn't hide it. We exchanged contact details and I could see the joy in him as he collected mine.

I told him I will drop him home in my brand new Range Rover and I pointed it to him. He declined and said he had already called for his car. It looked old, a 2001 Honda Accord.

I invited him the next day for lunch at my house. A part of me wanted to impress him - To show off my success and affluence to him, while another was to discuss opportunities and possibly help him.

He drove to Parkview where I lived. He looked impressed with my home. I had taken a heavy mortgage. In fact I was heavily in debt. We had lunch. He told me he was into small business and particularly real estate. I brought up more business discussions, but he didn't sound too interested. I asked him how I could help him. He said he was fine. I even told him if he was interested, I could help him secure some loans... He looked at me and smiled.

He told me he would invite me over soon to his place. His old car came for him. I was grateful to God for what I had. “Fingers are not all equal”, I thought to myself...I was lucky. I worked in a good place.

Two weeks later, we went to see him in Ikeja. My wife and I. She was reluctant to go because she was not impressed with the man's status as to warrant our visiting him in his house. I was able to convince her that we were close friends in college. We saw the Estate. *Wuraola Estate.* We asked for directions to his home. Those leading us spoke his name with deference.

It was a simple but lovely home. A 4 bedroom bungalow. I saw 4 cars parked in front. We entered his home. It was simply elegant with a touch of class inside. He welcomed us warmly.

Lunch was well served. His wife called him Baba Wuraola

During lunch, he asked about my MD. He said they were friends. I saw a company gift on one of his tables nearby. That company owned about 38% shares where I worked. I enquired from him about it. He smiled. He told me he owned the company. He also owned the estate.

I did not know when I called him sir... I was in awe of him too.

I had learnt a lesson in humility - A big one. Appearances are deceptive. He noticed my discomfort.

Driving back home, I was very quiet. My wife was humbled and extremely calm. I could perceive the thoughts in her mind. I looked at myself. Living on loans, heavy loans and showing off while someone who pays my salary is quite modest and living a simple life!
Indeed Deeper Rivers Flow In Majestic Silence!

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They where given wrong info in the first place