If the man agrees to pay double bride price, na to pack the mother inlaw and the bride go him house be that nah as double wives. What a tradition... hmm!
kestolove95: Is her choice to work or not..you are her husband go out there and provide for her and the kids nd stop lamenting
With this kind of mentality, don't blame guys for reverting to just having baby mamas then adopt co-parenting system, since marriage to a woman has now turned to orphanage. Having a lazy jobless woman as a wife can be so stressful and exhausting. There won't be allowance for the man to grow.
On Christmas Day 2025, a Muslim cleric in Nigeria dropped a bold statement: 'Any Muslim who cooks, goes out, or does anything for the sake of Christmas celebration is going to h£llf!re!' Watch the full clip and see how Nigerians (Muslims and non-Muslims alike) reacted — from hilarious memes to people openly saying they're still eating Christmas rice! In Nigeria, where interfaith holidays are often celebrated together, this controversial take sparked massive debate, laughs, and zero drama. Even Saudi Arabia and UAE get festive period that is exclusively celebrated by Christians.
celeb10: Respect boundaries but na una carry am come online
Abi o! No be una bring una matter come social media, why are you now feeling important as if life won't continue whether ur marriage works or not. President kpai self, life continues...mtcheew
[quote author=celeb10 post=137702848]Respect boundaries but na una carry am come online [/quote ]Abi o! No be una bring una matter come social media, why are you now feeling important as if life won't continue whether ur marriage works or not. President kpai self, life continues...mtcheew
Na now them dey wake up abi cuz it gradually getting to them.Bunch of wicked and selfish leaders. Anyway, they should add "without perdon and with immediate execution within 48hours" to the law.
Amazing, i support our honourable representatives. I hope the same law would be extended to the: 1. Salary and allowances of NASS members to be back to what they were in 2015 and then increased by 10% 2. Naira to dollar exchange rate should be back what it was in 2015 and then reviewed upward by 20% 3. Cost of petrol motor spirit/ gas price should back to what it was in 2015 and reviewed upward by 20% 4. Prices of food items,drugs and all other goods and services should go back to what they were in 2015,then prices reviewed upward by not more than 20% 5. The prices of cement and other building materials should go back to what they were in 2015 and then reviewed upward by not more than 20% 6. All medical fees,school fees and transportation should go back to what they were in 2015 without any increament. 7 Taxes like VAT,PIT,CIT, levies,property Taxes shall be reviewed to what they were in 2015. Lastly, each local government shall embark of massive housing units in each polling unit ward accross the federation to be distributed to the most vulnerable in the society. At this point govt may now claim to be protecting the poor masses.
phosky: From Cleaner to Top Graduate: Nigerian Lady Stuns Many with 4.94 CGPA and Inspiring Success Story
In a heartwarming story that has inspired thousands across Nigeria, a young lady who once worked as a cleaner has achieved an extraordinary academic milestone, graduating among the top three students in her department with a remarkable 4.94 CGPA.
Her journey from humble beginnings to academic excellence serves as a powerful reminder that dedication, hard work, and faith can overcome any social or financial barrier. The young woman, who has chosen to remain humble even in her success, took to social media platform X (formerly Twitter) to share her remarkable transformation — one that has since gone viral and earned her widespread admiration. Eyes Of Lagos reports, From Mockery to Motivation
According to her post, the young woman recounted how she was once mocked by a co-worker for proudly posting pictures of herself in her cleaner’s uniform. At the time, she worked as a cleaner to support herself through school, juggling long hours of labor with late-night study sessions.
Despite the ridicule, she remained determined to prove that no job is too small for someone with a dream. Rather than feel ashamed, she wore her uniform with pride, seeing her job as a stepping stone toward a better life.
Her words radiated gratitude and humility, capturing the attention of Nigerians who celebrated her perseverance and strong sense of self-worth. Academic Excellence Against the Odds
Achieving a 4.94 CGPA is no small feat, especially in a country where many students struggle with financial difficulties and limited access to educational resources. What makes her story even more remarkable is that she was able to balance work and study while maintaining excellence throughout her academic journey.
Friends and coursemates described her as disciplined, humble, and hardworking, noting that she often studied late into the night after completing her cleaning shifts. Her resilience paid off when she emerged as the third-best graduating student in her department, missing the second spot by a mere 0.001 points.
Her success stands as a powerful example of the transformative power of education, reminding many that intelligence and ambition are not defined by one’s job, background, or circumstances. Social Media Reactions and National Inspiration
Shortly after sharing her success story, social media platforms were flooded with messages of congratulations and admiration. Many users on X, Instagram, and Facebook called her “a true definition of grace, grit, and growth.”
One user commented, “From cleaner to top of the class — this is the kind of story that restores faith in hard work.” Another wrote, “She turned mockery into motivation. We need more of this spirit in today’s youth.”
Several online communities have since used her story as a motivational example, encouraging students facing challenges to stay consistent and focused. A Message of Hope and Resilience
Beyond academic achievement, her journey symbolizes hope for countless young Nigerians facing similar struggles. In a country where unemployment and financial hardship often force young people into menial jobs, her story redefines the narrative — showing that dignity lies not in the kind of job one holds, but in the determination to rise above challenges.
She has also become a voice for educational perseverance, urging others never to give up on their dreams regardless of the obstacles ahead. Her transformation from being mocked for wearing a cleaner’s uniform to being celebrated as a top scholar has become a beacon of inspiration across Nigeria and beyond. Conclusion
The story of this young lady’s triumph is not just about academic brilliance — it’s about faith, humility, and endurance. Her 4.94 CGPA is more than a number; it represents years of sacrifice, resilience, and unshakable belief in a brighter future.
As she continues her journey, many Nigerians hope that her inspiring story will serve as a blueprint for others who dream of rising beyond their present circumstances. Indeed, she has proven that no background is too humble, and no dream is too big.
The governor should come take lessons from Governors Sheyi,Adeleke and Sanwoolu. He lacks the competence to handle the affairs and challenges of insecurity in that state.
CONGRATULATIONS TO HIS IMPERIAL MAJESTY KABIESI OBA ADEWOLU RASHEED LADOJA ON HIS CORONATION AS THE 44TH OLUBADAN OF IBADAN, KI ADE O' PE LORI, KI BATA PE LESE, KI IRUKERE DI OKINI. KAA'BIESI OO!
Without prejudice, i strongly believe he should be prosecuted to serve as deterrent to other supposedly influential persons. If he's found guilty, the judge may hand him a jail term with option of heavy fine or possibly get presidential perdon. No sane person of high status in the society would want to go through such humiliation again.
1.Devaluation of Naira from #200/dollar to #750/dollar 2.Emiefele currency change policy with economic turbulence 3. High level of Insecurity with souring terrorism and enabling lucrative kidnapping 4. Japa syndrome established in full force
Liazz: Am I being unreasonable being mad at my wife? We relocated abroad 3 years ago but she isn't helping to settle any of the bills.
We both are gainfully employed though I earn much than she does. Our monthly expenditure is about £2000 and she doesn't care to help in any way. I foot all bills making me struggle to save while she keeps all she earns to herself. We also had a loan of over 10 thousand pounds to settle when we relocated, she didn't help with a dime till I paid all bits by bits which took me almost 2 years.
Despite this, I still help with house chores like taking care of our kids, home cleaning and even washing dishes though she does all the cooking. I've expressed my displeasure several times but she keeps insisting I can't force her to financially assist, it's my job as I'm the husband. She seems convinced she isn't doing any wrong and no sign of remorse whatsoever.
I financed our relocation 100% without her contributing a dime.
This is causing a strain in the marriage and I am thinking if I am unreasonable in my demand, am I? Your comments are highly welcome.
She's not a good and supportive partner. She's very selfish and must have started planning her exit after investing her own savings and milking you dry.
This Tinubu period requires thinking out of the box. If at all i needed to keep pets, I'd rather go for goats,chicken or even cats because they have second hand protein values if you understand what i mean. Incase i become financially handicap to feed them, i wouldn't have to subject my pets to trauma of giving them up, ko' da nah....
Very good news. As a musiim, I've been expecting this kind of treatment against extremists. This shows Saudi, an Islamic country doesn't support terrorism and extremism. Good riddance to bad rubbish....
Very good development. Meanwhile, policy to immediately vacate a defaulting tenant within 7days without long court procedures should also be vigorously enforced as it's obtainable in western world where we have monthly rent payment system,shikenah....
Samantha125: It seems like the only thing the jollof bros are capable of doing in a marriage is making money because I've also heard those SA ladies who've been married to them also complaining about the same issue... Allegedly they hardly touched them, even when they did, they were not experimental in the other room and lacked affection as well.
I'm not trying to gaslight anyone here, but money alone won't build a marriage... She'll enjoy your money and get a side dude.
Hmm! Man dey try o! You go hustle get money to give woman financial orgasm yet you must not relent to give her steady sexual orgasm without compromising fatherly role to the children.Tell me why man no go die quick?