So we pay for your movies, gift you expensive gifts as celebrities and still pay for your health care, aba! What are the social contributions of these celebrities to the society at large? Have they been socially responsible?
Awon oloriburuku omo, damaging other people's lives and livelihoods with their reckless lifestyles. The laws should be fully implemented, any reckless driving by a drunk driver that results to death and serious injuries of other innocent victim(s) should be treated as murder and attempted murder respectively. Simple.
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Mandate1: even among your close friends you sure do have a preference. It's natural for parents to have a preferred child of choice from the rest, even Jesus had a special inclination for Peter. This by no means suppose he doesn't love others. They are all loved equally. The only challenge is making it obvious or spilling it out to the rest of the kids. A class teacher will have a preferred student among the rest. I was once a class teacher at both primary and secondary level, this is a fact no one can deny from.
lecoeur: While growing up, sometimes my father takes me out with him and during those times he teaches me certain things that a man should know. Thing is, something happened I can't recall but that thing made him tell me he preferred my younger brother to me (We are 3 boys tho), I even noticed it because he took him out more and bought things for him. I was this kid that's so quite, reserved and always on my own and he never liked that. On the other note, my brother is very agressive have this agbero type of behaviour lol. My dad fell ill and I took care of him both at home and in the hospital to the point of his death I was with him, I didn't take what he said to heart and he never apologized but I did all that because I loved him very much, I saw him as a hero, even the person that he preferred wasn't interested in taking care of him as much as I was. I totally forgot about this whole thing until this my younger Bro accused my Mom of been bias towards him which is true but as the first and oldest son I always stand for him whenever that happens because I know how it feels. Please I urge present and future parents to do better with hiding or avoiding this favourite child thing, it's not really ohk.
Persephone1: [i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"
When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.
Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.
Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.
We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.
Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands
Women like the writer make terrible knives. Na mumu una want as husbands nah wey una fit dey remote as una like. Rubbish!
Reno is right on point with this. To be honest, the present situation is extremely ridiculous to exonorate the most recent past administration from gross mismanagement of the economy. Those APC guys really came to sweep and they swept the treasury clean.
PoliteActivist: I already have my plane tickets o, and been planning my life in Canada oo! Didn't think I'd actually land the job at all! 500K a month plus housing, car, health and life insurance benefits. Why is life always like this??!! In serious dilemma what to do
Jennyclay: Honestly, Nigerian men are so childish.
Men should learn to help a lady without expecting anything in return .
If you like spend millions and billions on me, if I don’t love you anymore I will kindly end the relationship.
And you try to forcefully take my property from me just because you bought it for me then I would have to report you to the police or sue you for stealing.
Good for nothing men everywhere!!! Bunch of morons!!