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Romance / Re: Lady In Shock After She Got Dumped By Boyfriend For Not Flushing The Toilet by myrates: 2:31pm On Mar 30, 2023

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Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by myrates: 7:34am On Mar 30, 2023
ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?
If you accept, then you wouldn't only have been a fool, you would have also dishonoured your late mother and I doubt if she'd ever forgive you in her grave. What kind of a weak man are you? I will never throw my mother out when she needed me most for any woman. Now that table has turned,let your wife also find someone to take care of her own mother too at her place and not your house. Simple, no sentiments.
Politics / Re: Nigerians Will Yearn For Buhari When He Leaves Office, Says Garba Shehu by myrates: 11:29am On Mar 28, 2023
treesun:

https://www.channelstv.com/2023/03/27/nigerians-will-yearn-for-buhari-when-he-leaves-office-says-garba-shehu/
Your household and community deserve Buhari not me and my family. Useless man
Family / Re: I Have Access To Half Of His Property - Nigerian Woman Brags After Court Wedding by myrates: 3:56am On Mar 23, 2023
jaybenugo:
A Nigerian lady, Mercedes Ekwutosim Okwukogu took to Facebook on Tuesday March 21, 2023, to share her excitement after her court wedding in Abuja, IGBERETV reports.

She shared photos from her court wedding with the caption;



https://www.facebook.com/1361988501/posts/pfbid08LGyWpSX7MYvfjc4ZgLFAiGakSx5JP82MWojp9JeExPKXHFQ93msJjYY6do9anM1l/?app=fbl
Bondage
Politics / Re: Sen Ifeanyi Ubah Restores Peace Between Igbos And Yorubas In Lagos State by myrates: 8:43pm On Mar 20, 2023
Karlman:

And what really have you shown them? I don't understand you lots at all...is there any Igbo man or woman on the govs ballot! You people are really brainless!

Pls Let me state categorically here, that all these Yoruba touts crying all over Nairaland here just because Igbos are not as senseless as you are to give you the much craved opportunity to break into Igbo owned superstores, which will even lead to your miserable deaths anyway, the Igbo man will continue to be your source of envy and pain for the rest of your miserable existence. We worked hard to be who we are and you all can choke on that fact.

NB:
All of you Yoruba touts all over Nairaland crying over my mention...I said and I repeat...the Igbo will forever be your source of envy and pain!
We have seen war, been to war, fought war, died in war, survived war and came out of war to stay on top of all life indices against all odds without any government input...that is the spirit of the Igbo man which you will forever admire from the distance of your miserable existence!
Go ahead and choke on this fact.
You're stupid
Politics / Re: INEC Declares Makinde Winner Of Oyo Governorship Election by myrates: 7:48pm On Mar 19, 2023
Congratulations GSM
Politics / Re: Deji Adeyanju Blasts Yorubas For Their Tribalism In Guber And HOA Election by myrates: 8:54am On Mar 19, 2023
Newsmic:
Nigerian activist, Deji Adeyanju has criticized the Yorubas for being tribalistic in the gubernatorial and house of assembly elections held today, IGBERETV reports.

He wrote on his Twitter handle;



https://twitter.com/adeyanjudeji/status/1637042400685170691?t=hPk9_RlcwDmmwOzAmjvVeQ&s=19
Shame on you too Deji. Keep using left hand to describe your father's house if at all your father has any, idiot.
Politics / Re: What Really Played Out In Lagos Today by myrates: 6:11am On Mar 19, 2023
Gbadebo Road Bygone
Autos / Re: 2014 Honda Civic,extremely Clean,for Sale Or Swap by myrates: 6:31am On Mar 13, 2023
price?
Politics / Re: LASTMA Officials Beg Lagosians For Forgiveness Ahead Of Governorship by myrates: 6:27pm On Mar 12, 2023
Ndlistic:
This Video Shows The Moment LASTMA Officials Were Captured Begging Lagosians For Forgiveness Ahead Of the Governorship and House Of Assembly Election.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lY0l1zXEzXU




Very wicked,cruel and corrupt set of useless people, forgiving LASTMA is a sin because they don't forgive too. Your car brakes down on the road, they quickly take advantage and the minimum they will extort from you is 40k if you don't want your car impounded and pay fine of 120k to Lagos state govt
Autos / Re: Distress Sales 2010 Toyota Matrix Tokumbo by myrates: 2:35am On Mar 11, 2023
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Autos / Re: 2006 Toyota Sienna LE In Lagos. Toks by myrates: 6:36am On Mar 09, 2023
Price
Politics / Re: Lagos Is Yoruba State And Yoruba Land- Yul Edochie by myrates: 7:51pm On Mar 04, 2023
windofchange:
The talks that Lagos is a no mans Land by igbos has been flying around so he decided to respond.




https://www.instagram.com/p/CpXSlaBsFPU/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Kudos Yul

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Politics / Re: New Notes: Please Exercise Further Patience - Buhari To Nigerians by myrates: 5:08am On Feb 20, 2023
Nikodes:
No Nigerian deserve to go to hell after all the things politicians have put us through. It will be a double Taxation
Except our leaders and politicians.
Politics / Re: Ogun Govt to Revoke CofO Of Any Commercial Outlet Rejecting Old Naira Notes by myrates: 3:54pm On Feb 17, 2023
Business / Re: CBN Vows To Prosecute POS Operators Who Demand Exorbitant Charges by myrates: 3:08pm On Feb 14, 2023
onthehill:


https://igberetvnews.com/1438917/cbn-vows-prosecute-pos-operators-demand-exorbitant-charges/
What about vendors taking 10% charges for goods and services bought from them?
Crime / Re: I Killed Ogun Couple, Son Over Salary Increment – Suspect by myrates: 6:24am On Feb 11, 2023
Celebrities / Re: Mum Had 2 Kids Before Marrying My Dad, Then Married Another Man With Her 7 Kids by myrates: 9:07am On Feb 05, 2023
NwekeUG:
Mum Had 2 Kids Before Marrying My Dad, Then Married Another Man With Her 7 Kids - Toyin Lawani Slams Critic

Celebrity fashion designer, Toyin Lawani has slammed a man for saying that 95% of men will never marry a woman who has a child, IGBERETV reports.

Toyin said that many single mothers have men begging to marry them and adopt their kids.

To prove her point, She added that her mother already had two kids before her father married her. Her parents proceeded to have 5 kids together in addition to the 2 her mother came into the marriage with. After her parents' relationship ended, she said her mother still found a man who married her with all 7 of her kids.

She added that a man who loves you genuinely will never think about your baggage. She said the man who made the statement is a "hungry lazy crocodile."

Her Instagram post read;



https://www.instagram.com/p/CoNCoP0s0aS/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
Some women go just dey advocate nonsense, marriage didn't work with the first man after 2kids, it didn't work with the second man after additional 5kids. I guess it would work after a dozen kids with the third man. Yeye dey smell..... undecided

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Travel / Re: Nigerian Man Buys A Horse Because Of Lingering Fuel Scarcity (pics/video) by myrates: 10:42pm On Jan 30, 2023
officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2OABXu78rY

Nigerian man parks his car and bought a horse because of lingering fuel scarcity in Nigeria presently.
Horse no go chop food abi? Maintenance and medications nko?
Family / Re: Woman Rejects Keke As Push Gift Not Knowing That A Car Gift Was Coming by myrates: 1:03pm On Jan 27, 2023
LilMissFavvy:
Must he tempt her? Why not give your wife the car and stop tempting her with a Keke. He knows his wife deserves better, he just wanted to tempt her and disgrace her in public. The unfaithful*faggottt* can't try that with his side chick, he knows his side chick would give him a sound slapp. Nonsense' undecided
Bloody entitled lazy specie.... Is man the only owner of that child? Come to think about it, women reap benefits of children more. Man pays bills right from the day he says hello to the lady until his death. Haba!

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Politics / Re: Festus Keyamo Reacts To Melaye's "Emi Lokan" Mockery Dance by myrates: 11:23am On Jan 25, 2023
chokekachy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DQpFS2jLPSI



https://twitter.com/fkeyamo/status/1618141736370581505?s=19
Is festus by this statement confirming the health and deformity status of APC presidential candidate?
Family / Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by myrates: 8:00am On Jan 24, 2023
ednut1:
adekunle gold is SS no one knew till he said it
Wao! Never knew
Politics / Re: Ownership Structure Of The Lekki Deep Sea Port by myrates: 10:39am On Jan 23, 2023
tollyboy5:

See your mouth 👄 like "our".

Na you build am na. undecided
how does ur own dirty stinking mouth look? Why don't you migrate to china
Politics / Re: Ownership Structure Of The Lekki Deep Sea Port by myrates: 9:07am On Jan 23, 2023
Politics / Re: Abdulsalami Abubakar: Some Of Us Will Leave Nigeria If Sowore Becomes President by myrates: 4:16am On Jan 22, 2023
Talawaka:


Source
Before nko? The impact of what you guys did to Nigeria over 20years ago is still biting and huge while you and your families are still enjoying the massive benefit from the spoils of destruction of this country.
Religion / Re: "When A Man Impregnates His Wife, He Has Committed Sin" - Evangelist by myrates: 4:07am On Jan 22, 2023
NwekeUG:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zoFWYvMax2I&si=EnSIkaIECMiOmarE

"When A Man Impregnates His Wife, He Has Committed Sin" - Evangelist



https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnrMYzeh7qr/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Honestly many are just roaming the street, crazy people abound.
Politics / Re: Nollywood Actors, Actresses Go On Campaign Drive For Tinubu, Sanwo-Olu (Video) by myrates: 10:41am On Jan 18, 2023
Dapagun:
Connecting Grassroot Initiative (CGI), a volunteer group comprising of notable Nollywood actors on a Door to Door Campaign drive for PVC Collection, for @officialABAT for President and Mr @jidesanwoolu for 2nd Term.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkw8vKkf8CA
Ola-gwe porn actor
Autos / Re: SOLD SOLD Tokunbo Toyota 4runner V8 Engine@ Ibadan by myrates: 10:49am On Jan 13, 2023
Good morning, still available
Romance / Re: How Do I Tell My Fiancee That I Don't Want Court Marriage by myrates: 12:08pm On Jan 11, 2023
segtech68:
I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly.

The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage.

How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise.

Thank you.
You may consider to go ahead with the court marriage to facilitate ur relocation as a couple in addition to having a registered prenuptial agreement clearly stating how you and your spouse want things to run in your marriage as well as things both wish to protect in event of changes that could warrant divorce. Let her know ur fears and ensure she signs the prenuptial agreement, get it registered in the court of law as an assurance to mitigate against such fears. Simple.
Business / Re: Traders Reject New Naira Notes In Niger by myrates: 1:12am On Jan 11, 2023
Father4all:
There is too much confusion in this Buhari's Government
Honestly
Politics / Re: Pastor Adeboye Speaks On Crowds Seen At Political Campaign Rallies (Video) by myrates: 9:51am On Jan 09, 2023
BennyDGreat:


I don't think you get the point yet.
Within your statement lies your answer.

Is it the church's responsibility to provide the citizens with jobs?
The reason the unemployed go to churches enmasse is still tied to government failure.

They have no other place to draw hope and strength from but the churches.

And by the way, there's nothing hypocritical about pointing out the obvious. Neither is it kettle calling pot black because when you look at the structure of any successful church in Nigeria, you would understand the type of deep work that goes into building such....and they employ people too but you can never blame them for government failure
Well, even though we have different views on this matter, I'm glad your statement is suggestive of the fact that solution to unemployment in our country is not at the church or any religion center. Although electorates in Nigeria have not gotten it right with their leaders but don't you think hope of job security is more guaranteed and it is even morally right for people to be crowded at political gatherings to correct errors of bad governance/leadership than gathering in churches Monday to Sunday praying for jobs, food, prosperity and security when it's obvious they can't miraculously get these things in churches as claimed by hypocrite men of God. Note, it took America more than 100years to get it right through active political engagements and participation not through prayers in churches. Meanwhile, I agree absolutely that our rights to freedom of association and religion are not negotiable,however these rights can only be guaranteed through political processes.
Politics / Re: Pastor Adeboye Speaks On Crowds Seen At Political Campaign Rallies (Video) by myrates: 9:48am On Jan 09, 2023
ote author=BennyDGreat post=119832954]

I don't think you get the point yet.
Within your statement lies your answer.

Is it the church's responsibility to provide the citizens with jobs?
The reason the unemployed go to churches enmasse is still tied to government failure.

They have no other place to draw hope and strength from but the churches.

And by the way, there's nothing hypocritical about pointing out the obvious. Neither is it kettle calling pot black because when you look at the structure of any successful church in Nigeria, you would understand the type of deep work that goes into building such....and they employ people too but you can never blame them for government failure [/quote]

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