incandescentena: Amir Sanisi, What have you done to speak the truth about the Muslim- muslim tickets before now? Did you enlighten your people for the need of Unity in diversity?
These crop of political leaders today are selfish and too desperate.
Ironically, you've just demonstrated what Sanusi presented and preached against in his speech. It shouldn't be about religion, tribalism or ethnicity but integrity, competence,capacity,good leadership and ability to deliver the goods.
IyaebeTheGreat: They should detain him and charge him to court.
Let him be jail when he gets the news that BAT has been constitutionally sworn in as the next president of the federal republic of Nigeria, stupid man.
ozalogbo: I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.
However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.
Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.
Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.
What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?
If you accept, then you wouldn't only have been a fool, you would have also dishonoured your late mother and I doubt if she'd ever forgive you in her grave. What kind of a weak man are you? I will never throw my mother out when she needed me most for any woman. Now that table has turned,let your wife also find someone to take care of her own mother too at her place and not your house. Simple, no sentiments.
jaybenugo: A Nigerian lady, Mercedes Ekwutosim Okwukogu took to Facebook on Tuesday March 21, 2023, to share her excitement after her court wedding in Abuja, IGBERETV reports.
She shared photos from her court wedding with the caption;
Karlman: And what really have you shown them? I don't understand you lots at all...is there any Igbo man or woman on the govs ballot! You people are really brainless!
Pls Let me state categorically here, that all these Yoruba touts crying all over Nairaland here just because Igbos are not as senseless as you are to give you the much craved opportunity to break into Igbo owned superstores, which will even lead to your miserable deaths anyway, the Igbo man will continue to be your source of envy and pain for the rest of your miserable existence. We worked hard to be who we are and you all can choke on that fact.
NB: All of you Yoruba touts all over Nairaland crying over my mention...I said and I repeat...the Igbo will forever be your source of envy and pain! We have seen war, been to war, fought war, died in war, survived war and came out of war to stay on top of all life indices against all odds without any government input...that is the spirit of the Igbo man which you will forever admire from the distance of your miserable existence! Go ahead and choke on this fact.
Newsmic: Nigerian activist, Deji Adeyanju has criticized the Yorubas for being tribalistic in the gubernatorial and house of assembly elections held today, IGBERETV reports.
Ndlistic: This Video Shows The Moment LASTMA Officials Were Captured Begging Lagosians For Forgiveness Ahead Of the Governorship and House Of Assembly Election.
Very wicked,cruel and corrupt set of useless people, forgiving LASTMA is a sin because they don't forgive too. Your car brakes down on the road, they quickly take advantage and the minimum they will extort from you is 40k if you don't want your car impounded and pay fine of 120k to Lagos state govt
NwekeUG: Mum Had 2 Kids Before Marrying My Dad, Then Married Another Man With Her 7 Kids - Toyin Lawani Slams Critic
Celebrity fashion designer, Toyin Lawani has slammed a man for saying that 95% of men will never marry a woman who has a child, IGBERETV reports.
Toyin said that many single mothers have men begging to marry them and adopt their kids.
To prove her point, She added that her mother already had two kids before her father married her. Her parents proceeded to have 5 kids together in addition to the 2 her mother came into the marriage with. After her parents' relationship ended, she said her mother still found a man who married her with all 7 of her kids.
She added that a man who loves you genuinely will never think about your baggage. She said the man who made the statement is a "hungry lazy crocodile."
Some women go just dey advocate nonsense, marriage didn't work with the first man after 2kids, it didn't work with the second man after additional 5kids. I guess it would work after a dozen kids with the third man. Yeye dey smell.....
LilMissFavvy: Must he tempt her? Why not give your wife the car and stop tempting her with a Keke. He knows his wife deserves better, he just wanted to tempt her and disgrace her in public. The unfaithful*faggottt* can't try that with his side chick, he knows his side chick would give him a sound slapp. Nonsense'
Bloody entitled lazy specie.... Is man the only owner of that child? Come to think about it, women reap benefits of children more. Man pays bills right from the day he says hello to the lady until his death. Haba!
Before nko? The impact of what you guys did to Nigeria over 20years ago is still biting and huge while you and your families are still enjoying the massive benefit from the spoils of destruction of this country.
Dapagun: Connecting Grassroot Initiative (CGI), a volunteer group comprising of notable Nollywood actors on a Door to Door Campaign drive for PVC Collection, for @officialABAT for President and Mr @jidesanwoolu for 2nd Term.
segtech68: I'm in a very serious relationship which will likely lead to marriage before the middle of this year. she's a good lady, very decent, God fearing and has a good Job. We both love each other so there's no point waiting than to marry her. We've talked about it and she loves the idea. Also , i've met her family and her parent treated me kindly.
The issue is, we are both planning to relocate after marriage to any of the western countries, we are both credible financially and i'm very sure we won't get denied but the stories i've heard about women changing after getting abroad makes me want to think twice about the court marriage. I would love to do every other marital right except court marriage.
How do i tell her politely without losing her? please i'll appreciate your advise.
Thank you.
You may consider to go ahead with the court marriage to facilitate ur relocation as a couple in addition to having a registered prenuptial agreement clearly stating how you and your spouse want things to run in your marriage as well as things both wish to protect in event of changes that could warrant divorce. Let her know ur fears and ensure she signs the prenuptial agreement, get it registered in the court of law as an assurance to mitigate against such fears. Simple.