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IslamRe: Prof. Ilyas Usman Appointed National Mosque Imam, Holds Inaugural Sermons. by mystry(m): 3:34pm On Oct 18, 2024
Firstly no ibo man bears the name ilyasu Usman

Secondly the day he changed his name was the day he gave up his identity
PoliticsRe: FCT Minister, Wike Inspects Ongoing Construction Of Kugbo, Mabushi Bus Terminals by mystry(m): 5:48pm On Oct 08, 2024
After fighting war you go Dey inspect work. Iranu
PoliticsRe: Throwback: Wike Complaining Of Kidney & Liver Problems & Fubara's Recent Comment by mystry(m): 9:24pm On Sep 30, 2024
Wike should enjoy the fruits of his labor. The same way went rogue. What goes around comes around
Foreign AffairsRe: Lebanon: Terrorist Leader, Nidal Abdel-aal Assassinated In Israel Missile Strike by mystry(m): 7:42pm On Sep 30, 2024
Kill em all
PoliticsRe: No $49bn Missing Under My Watch, Ex-president Jonathan Speaks by mystry(m): 3:16pm On Sep 26, 2024
Baba them time don go let's move on
PoliticsRe: South East Governors Have Sacrificed Nnamdi Kanu For 2027 – Ohanaeze Ndigbo by mystry(m): 12:13pm On Sep 26, 2024
And who is giving them 2027?
FashionRe: Fashion Or Madness by mystry(m): 6:19pm On Sep 25, 2024
Fashion madness
TravelRe: Ogun State Government Starts Work On Sagamu-Sapade Road by mystry(m): 5:42pm On Sep 24, 2024
Lol 🤣 govt wey dey build road inside bush. When election reach before im go link am.
PoliticsRe: We Reject The Election Results - Edo PDP Chieftain, Natasha Osawaru by mystry(m): 9:32am On Sep 22, 2024
What was Obaseki doing in Eye 👁️ neck collation center that he had to be removed.

When rigging no favour you then you start making noise. Upon all the Edo in not Lagos. How market?
PoliticsRe: Benin Market Women Dance, Sing To Meet Peter Obi With Their Plantain (Photos) by mystry(m): 5:32pm On Sep 10, 2024
Sometimes I wonder how BAT became the president.
PoliticsRe: Real Reasons Ajuri Ngelale ‘Resigned’ As Tinubu’s Spokesman - Daily Nigeria by mystry(m): 7:58am On Sep 08, 2024
This guy doesn't even look Nigerian and probably has dual citizenship. He will be fine.
CrimeRe: Gov Radda: Community Leader Collected ₦‎700,000 From Bandits, Allowed Them Kill by mystry(m): 7:45am On Sep 08, 2024
Truth is that the north has a large expanse of land with little inhabitants.


If they can adopt a modular structure of operations not only for security related matters but also in administration and also interrelate with other modular communities it will foster collaboration and quicker problem solving.
PoliticsRe: Rumblings In Plateau, Cross River Over Vacant Ministerial Slots by mystry(m): 7:39am On Sep 08, 2024
Must it be about political godfatherism. If they didn't contribute to the presidents ambition shouldn't the ministerial position be filled?
PoliticsRe: NNPC Retail MD, Huub Stokman, Denies Authorizing Price Hike Message by mystry(m): 6:17am On Sep 04, 2024
I wonder who we offended in this country.

Since he made that statement on his inauguration Nigeria has never been there same. We are in a state of tinubulization
CelebritiesRe: The Moment The Sea Disrupted Bobrisky's Mermaid Shoot by mystry(m): 3:35pm On Aug 21, 2024
Something wey suppose carry the weere
CrimeRe: Nigerian & Cameroonians Arrested For Trying To Illegally Obtain Uganda Passport by mystry(m): 5:33pm On Aug 14, 2024
Uganda wey their women no fine self dey show themselves.


I don't blame them na bad government I blame.
SportsRe: Jay-Jay Okocha Celebrates His 51st Birthday by mystry(m): 5:29pm On Aug 14, 2024
All I see here is bet King
PoliticsRe: Tinubu, A Tyrant In The Making - Farooq Kperogi by mystry(m): 7:27am On Aug 05, 2024
Please he's not a tyrant we are enjoying his leadership let's continue the happiness and good governance. Thank you
CrimeRe: Investigators Expose "Yahoo Boys" By Turning On Their Webcam (Video) by mystry(m): 6:51am On Jun 24, 2024
Boys wan Microsoft grin
CelebritiesRe: Davido's Lawyer Writes Dammy Krane Over Defamation & False Accusation Of Murder by mystry(m): 9:52pm On Jun 21, 2024
These niggaz keep chasing trend make una sleep jare Wizkid fc
PoliticsRe: Gov Fubara Orders Newly Sworn In Chairmen To Pay All Outstanding Salaries by mystry(m): 7:46pm On Jun 19, 2024
This is how you can buy the heart of the masses. Nice move
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Navy's 68th Anniversary Celebrations In Pictures (Videos) by mystry(m): 8:30am On May 31, 2024
God spare our gallant soldiers
PoliticsRe: Police Arrest Killers Of Six Corps Members In 2011 Bauchi Post-Election Crisis by mystry(m): 8:15am On May 31, 2024
I am very curious and disturbed that it took over a decade to get the criminals that masterminded this crime.


Also, I am worried about the correctness of this information. What prove beyond every reasonable doubt that it was these individual's that committed this crime?
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Reacts To Poor UTME Scores by mystry(m): 6:41am On May 10, 2024
These days Peter just dey react to everything. Nawai
CelebritiesRe: Rema Visits Benin City For The First Time In 6 Years With Shallipopi by mystry(m): 8:20am On Mar 30, 2024
Am not a fan of shalli
Foreign AffairsRe: Russia Is Ready For Nuclear War, Putin Warns The West, video by mystry(m): 3:53pm On Mar 14, 2024
This is huge 😲
PoliticsRe: FG Calls For De-Escalation Of Hostilities Between Israel And Palestine by mystry(m): 8:15am On Oct 08, 2023
Weyre who send your papa besides this is a war between Israel and Palestine. Hamas here is a militia group.

Most importantly your opinion or concern isn't worth shit as you cannot influence or pull any weight in terms of military or economy.
SportsRe: Monday Odigie: Bendel Insurance Coach In Fiery Post-Match Interview After Draw by mystry(m): 10:02pm On Sep 16, 2023
Osi Gini?
RomanceRe: Ugandan Businessman Marries Seven Wives Same Day (photos) by mystry(m): 7:23am On Sep 12, 2023
Is this how ugly their women look?
PoliticsRe: Presidential Election Tribunal Judgment Won't Favour Peter Obi – Primate Ayodele by mystry(m): 6:45am On Sep 06, 2023
So am not even worried as this man has never given a true prophesy. Even though am not expecting the pept to give a judgment in favor of the opposition party
HealthRe: Midlife Crisis: Am I Slowly Becoming Addicted To Alcohol? by mystry(m): 9:54am On Mar 04, 2023
gard9ner:
I never realised that alcohol can be this enjoyable, all my life I’ve always detested ppl that drink, whenever the topic comes up I always remember a certain wealthy man when I was younger, even with all his wealth he would drink himself to stupor every night and vomit, his driver would have to carry him, it was a very bad experience as neighbours to witness those nights especially as a young boy. So I concluded that drinking is unacceptable and I grew up with that ideology, not until recently I’ve started having a rethink.

For sometime now, especially couple of weeks ago leading to last Saturday’s election, I’ve been having a difficult time, I feel like I’m drowning sometimes, maybe it’s midlife’s crisis I don’t know, I don’t know how that feels but what I know is that I was gifted a bottle of expensive vodka last week and I accepted knowing fully well what I was getting into, I knew I was going to step into another phase in my life, I could have sold the drink but no, I kept it.

Like I said already, it’s been rough with me lately, the current cash crunch in the country isn’t helping, the last strew came when last Saturday’s election was announced by 4am, I was awake watching, it struck me like a bolt of lighting, I felt speechless physically but this deep hurt like my soul was groaning. Fast forward to date, I’ve consumed a couple of bottles like bloody mary, VSOP and other spirits which I mix in chilled soft drinks. I so much enjoy this new habit, I can never drink to stupor, I just lock up myself in my lounge, play some music and sip away or lock myself in my car at night and sip with music, I stop when I start feeling a bit sleepy, I just sleep quietly and peacefully. My wife just smells the stuff on me but hasn’t said anything, as I still talk reasonably and even engage her with more humor in those hours, I’ve also noticed that the house is stress-free, no arguments or hard conversations when I consume too.

Here’s my problem guys, deep inside me I know I’m doing something wrong, which is why I’m posting this anyway, even though I feel peaceful when I consume. I wasn’t raised this way, my father was never an alcohol person. I feel something is wrong and somehow I feel like I’m drowning and need help (laughs). I don’t know if this will get worse overtime or if I might be tempted to do more than this in future. I know I can never do drugs, smoke etc but this highness things is eating me, I just finished the last bottle of Strumbras spirit now which I shared with a visitor, I now think it’s even more pleasurable sharing a drink with someone. I’ve ran out of bottles now and I’m considering restocking but I’m led by the spirit to post this, I don’t want preaching, I just want to read other ppl’s comment and experience and how they navigated this phase of life (midlife crisis), preferably elders in the house if any, if you’re 40 and below and have no useful contribution pls don’t comment. I need this to get to FP. Thanks.
I think you are more of a writer than an alcoholic. So I doubt your story

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