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gard9ner:
I never realised that alcohol can be this enjoyable, all my life I’ve always detested ppl that drink, whenever the topic comes up I always remember a certain wealthy man when I was younger, even with all his wealth he would drink himself to stupor every night and vomit, his driver would have to carry him, it was a very bad experience as neighbours to witness those nights especially as a young boy. So I concluded that drinking is unacceptable and I grew up with that ideology, not until recently I’ve started having a rethink.

For sometime now, especially couple of weeks ago leading to last Saturday’s election, I’ve been having a difficult time, I feel like I’m drowning sometimes, maybe it’s midlife’s crisis I don’t know, I don’t know how that feels but what I know is that I was gifted a bottle of expensive vodka last week and I accepted knowing fully well what I was getting into, I knew I was going to step into another phase in my life, I could have sold the drink but no, I kept it.

Like I said already, it’s been rough with me lately, the current cash crunch in the country isn’t helping, the last strew came when last Saturday’s election was announced by 4am, I was awake watching, it struck me like a bolt of lighting, I felt speechless physically but this deep hurt like my soul was groaning. Fast forward to date, I’ve consumed a couple of bottles like bloody mary, VSOP and other spirits which I mix in chilled soft drinks. I so much enjoy this new habit, I can never drink to stupor, I just lock up myself in my lounge, play some music and sip away or lock myself in my car at night and sip with music, I stop when I start feeling a bit sleepy, I just sleep quietly and peacefully. My wife just smells the stuff on me but hasn’t said anything, as I still talk reasonably and even engage her with more humor in those hours, I’ve also noticed that the house is stress-free, no arguments or hard conversations when I consume too.

Here’s my problem guys, deep inside me I know I’m doing something wrong, which is why I’m posting this anyway, even though I feel peaceful when I consume. I wasn’t raised this way, my father was never an alcohol person. I feel something is wrong and somehow I feel like I’m drowning and need help (laughs). I don’t know if this will get worse overtime or if I might be tempted to do more than this in future. I know I can never do drugs, smoke etc but this highness things is eating me, I just finished the last bottle of Strumbras spirit now which I shared with a visitor, I now think it’s even more pleasurable sharing a drink with someone. I’ve ran out of bottles now and I’m considering restocking but I’m led by the spirit to post this, I don’t want preaching, I just want to read other ppl’s comment and experience and how they navigated this phase of life (midlife crisis), preferably elders in the house if any, if you’re 40 and below and have no useful contribution pls don’t comment. I need this to get to FP. Thanks.

I think you are more of a writer than an alcoholic. So I doubt your story

ruggedtimi:
In other words the patriotic citizens are who?? N*therners??

RuudVanNisteroy:
Hussaini Coomassie, a United Nations Ambassador for Peace and Social Justice has said that the president, Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.) ought to use force against #EndSARS protesters.

Quoting Russian president, Vladimir Putin, the ambassador said that Buhari should do what was necessary and not necessarily follow due process to ensure peace in Nigeria.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUFroRzr-4o

To think that I share my country with this type of idiot is disgusting

SpecialAgent:
Shame, why is it soo hard for some men to control thier libido. I can stay with a woman for months without touching her & I ain't even married.

Bros better respect urself b4 we read something like this on d front page "Man caught banging his wife's sister in lagos" blames the devil & lockdown

You can stay with a woman for months without Bleep oga check your pimpim

Simplyleo:
Children of hate, anger and perdition are coming for Gov Obiano for asslicking a fulani jihadist.

Do you know you can now buy sense for as low as #1500?

somebody say lala *2

i feel good lalalala

noo dont step down shebi them born you born presidency, oooodeee

Google abeg come buy me too naija don tire me

hmmmmm and some mumu persons will loose their virginity to buy it only for the m to see another brand the next day

NtoAkwaIbom:
Just lookat this rabid chest beater.
Nnamdi kanu was busy forming Rambo since 2015, the niga was busy cursing everyone and everything ...
Those nigas u insulted were keeping their calm while your rabid pig was busy jumping around... Saying the only thing his limited Ipork brain could carry .."the zoo will fall"
Fast forward to 2017, Arewa boys folow make one declaration ...na so everybody for ur YeastSide begin dey call call, na so una begin dey enta begging meetings up and down....

Now wey dem wan consider una, una dong dey make noise full everywhere again... Shameless set of people ...Abasi akan mbufo do oo.

I have seen many foools but yours is a national foool.

wetin e mean?

aaaaaw I feel like getting married any single lady?

what? Delta of all places. oya start making your call to heaven like peter okoye.

quit na quit

see better country not here that our grandfather's are the ones ruling us. I can't wait to become a grandfather so I can rule too

may u fans now feeling like salamualykum

3rd baby mama loading.

Thoniameek:
Op you already know the meaning of your dream but you're looking for a confirmation

maybe that's the same thing I am talking about. when the heart is committed it looks for many reason's to hold on

youngbabaj:
I understand everything but nothing goes for free in this country,

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Jesus

I am currently trying to date this lady who said she still thinks about her other boyfriend whom is not treating her well and I have fallen in love with her. We are youth coppers and in the same local government. Last week Sunday she was my mass intention as I was very heart broken when she broke the news to me, and exactly one week after I had this dream.
I must also mention she is into modelling and I have seen her pics but last Friday at CDS I saw a text in her modelling group requested for young fresh sex workers which the sender denoted by the code "P". I do not believe she is into runs but this dream...... I just don't understand please read for your self sorry its long.

The dream I had today 28th of may 2017

Due to the issues I had faced in the past on relationships I was too desperate to be in a new one just to compliment the last one. The new one i wanted to be the last as I was tired of starting and ending one so I was ready to marry the next woman i fall in love with.

So I met a woman whom I barely know but suited my desires on the outside. That is, she must be tall, slim and fair. Before any body could say jack I found myself in the family house and it was during a festive period I guess December because that is the only time we could have a complete full house where every body was around.

The girl in question was well behaved and from her behavior one would know she came if not from a rich background then it would be close one.

She claimed she was getting into me, I even wanted to have sex with her and from her reactions she wasn't objecting nor complying but what she cared most was the two doors that led to the room we were, somehow she found out the door was bad which me the owner of the house is not aware of, I don't even know how she found out. I noticed another thing which is the trouser she wore on a certain day was quite bigger than her waist. (Before I proceed I must confess that I am a kind of person that sees every reason to continue something my heart wants) my interpretation to this was that their has never been a time I dated a woman with big waist.

I saw myself introducing the lady in question to my family members one after the other (with no marriage intentions yet but just as a friend that came visiting) then one of my uncle told me that their are certain things I needed to do before taking a wife and that I haven't done them, so I told him that I wasn't talking about marriage yet but it struck me that I could actually marry as I wanted to settle down early.

My thought and mindset was that all I needed was hard work to be able to meet the family needs and after all my friend Francis is putting his house together. Then I told myself all we need is to work hard and before we know it we are married.

I found myself Inside a bus traveling back after the meeting with my family she felt very cold due to the A/C and I noticed it so I cuddled her and told her that all she needed do was hug me to get warmed and I was like why are you still shy even up till now in our relationship and teasingly asked her "if I proposed to marry you won't you marry me"?. I know she didn't take it seriously but I meant it in my heart.

Finally we arrived our street, their is a fast food by the corner which we branched and bought something I paid and continued walking home while she stayed back (I don't know why) when I got to my residence, opposite my the house is where they sell drinks. There I met a man who needed my professional services as a result of my good reputation in the area. We were still discussing when the person I bought something from came demanding more money that I didn't pay completely and before I could say jack I saw another set of people who looked troubled and in their midst I saw the Lady I had travelled with. When I wanted to inquire what happened she said " I no go lie i see one cloth for wire as I say make I carry am na im them catch me ". Then I saw men from prisons that had arrived and they left the girl saying that they had instructions to bring me in instead. I wanted to show them my corper I.D card but remembered it had expired on October and we were in December. I started crying knowing I was in for trouble that was when I noticed another lady crying profusely with emotions and was pleading on my behalf I recognized her, she works at the fast food we went earlier.


Please I want to know the meaning of this dream because unlike me I usually forget after having a dream like this but this one I remembered vividly.

that's how they kill too. for rubbish reason rip to the dead

PearlStreet:
Yesterday, I posted that the average ipod yoot uses his business as a front for his crimes because by default, they are criminals.
E.g
Coscharis = Money Laundering
Ifeanyi Ubah = Theft
Innoson = Forgery and tax evasion

There is no prison in the world where you would not find these descendants of Judas Iscariot there. As they are killing them in Indonesia, they are harvesting them in India.

you are the biggest foooool in history. Mark the word foooool.

ibu onye Eze my brother

money dey call me eeee

the days are evil

you cannot even spell your name correctly how then are we supposed to trust you? abi you wan continue from where bubu stop? I mean cluelessly

Jobabori:
Why did you opened the thread?

afonja detected

my brother I no even get Barrow self how I go dey use brake na?

my problem with this fool is that he always have a reason for his employer's ineficiency which after due consideration is all lies, tomorrow you will say Togo rice is the best. Fool