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Jollyjoy:
yhu dey advise am ko? Hmmmmmmmm stop wasting ur time jare...



Btw it nt like he cnt stay without a lady but truth is ladies are nt just helping matter...imagine the kinda seductive,transparent bla bla bla and bla dey are good at...it takes a man of standard and high moral principle to overcome them...na e time he dey so.

me too dey like wear mini.please don't make me feel guilty

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]So what are we gonna do about it? [/color]

well i know what I'm doing about my own.I'm not seeing anyone at all for the main time.I guess that's impossible for u since u are a guy.but for me its better than changing boyfriend every three months cos m bored of the relationship…maybe u need a breaksomething I'm sure u can't do

Jollyjoy:
gal u funny sha ooo...u listed some monikers up there and tagged them as 'responsible or is it faithful'... Pls if u dnt mind define responsible and relate it to some of those monikers yhu mention...no offence tho.

I don't have time to write all that.I copied and pasted from a blog cos i liked d article.guess d blogger is a nairalander.I no even too sabi those monikers sef

paxson:
if I may ask,how old are u and are u a Virgin? don't lie o...A sha tin da gba!
if I may ask,how old are u and are u a Virgin? don't lie o...A sha tin da gba!

lol jamb qweshun

Freemanan:
We sell hear..

yh yh

KingTom:
How did I disgrace you or beat you Na?

how will u slap ur own back.u shd turn d second cheek

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Hmmm....that's the problem.

It's hard to have real "feelings"; everything just dies down gradually after a while. [/color]

I have this very same problem so I'm not even one to talk or advice

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]But why are you insulting me na? I only asked you a question o.

Anyway,,are you sure if I find a girl that needs me just as much as I need her then I won't change her like a sanitary pad? [/color]

lmao I didn't insult u na.*kiss kiss*...yes I am sure.sha make sure u have feelings for d girl.real feelings no be this yamayama lust or infatuation feelings o

Freemanan:
We hear

error I meant nl guyshatred for women get under my skin #okbye

KingTom:
I will slap you back so you know that we are one, we'll share the pain of the slaps

I just laffed out loud trait num4.see them

vizkiz:
chai! Women yaf suffer from this guy hand

professional Heartbreakers them .life s not fair

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Mzdivacious thanks for the points,,we guys are still learning. One day we'll get there.

But I have a little problem...how can I stop changing girls like sanitary pads? [/color]

errm errm its ur life you r single..u are free to change as much as u want as long as you are not seriously dating some girl u know really likes u.that d just make u a bastard
u can stop however by finding a girl u really care for and she needs u just as much .keyword on care n need

broxymall:
i dont have a problem with that

udont have a problem with never marrying??wow wow!boy who broke ur heart...sorry tho #okbye

KingTom:
By doing that he was preparing you for marriage, sharing everything as one.

lol shoroniyen I fit slap u thru this screen

sighs# this hatred no get part2 .sabrwahaqqo n broxymall don't get married at all...aa to yin ti

donholy28:
we are usually right... and we're bent on opening d eyes of all potential magas

naso for ya mind .lol don't lemme say what's on my mind

Blackfire:
i will like u to mark my word...

U need to deal with your mindset,or else u will keep attracting cricum cracum of a bunkum bunkum.

I'm sorry come again??

Sabrwahaqqo:
Yet Anatha lezzbiyan . Arggh!

Wey dz olokpa ppl sef

lol I m a full blooded female.i love guys.minus nl guys

Fourwinds:
u are angry again miss

lol NO!I just hate d ways guy on here think its retarded
"girls are only after money"
"girls open their legs to anyone with money"
"girls are d problems in this world"
"naija girls are hoes"
"naija girls are gold diggers"
"girls are ugly without makeup"
wtf..nairaland guys grow d fck up already.e tin dagba o!

Freemanan:
Anger issues!

u don't know me however no guys hatred for women get under my skin

Icecream4U:
some guys will even ask this "Do you suck?".

lol d guts of them!

LasoulMacuby:
Gerraofhere jor! Y so pissed off

lmao its effing annoying na ..."do me a favour mehn gerrarahia mehn shiit"

broxymall:
am telling ya mehn, they nag alot like monkeys, the rest na common trait of us men but am excluded doesnt mean they will make an irresponsible husband, Women are always a problem if not Adam would not have eaten the forbidden fruit with her
i wish it happens, only the men would be naked

calm down.u just exhibited trait number4.most common trait of nl guys.boy FCK outta here ...women a problem??including ur mum?u need to change

Sabrwahaqqo:
No1 is wack!

The guy that doesn't call during the day is busy.

You should be proud he even stays up at night just to have a nice talk wd you instead of sleeping.

Women and nagging sha .. Who will cure dz disease


All the rest are cool with me anyway

hahaha whatever my dear.some are stingy accept it or not.it isn't only a matter of calls.I once dated a guy.if he bought #25noreos biscuit.he would t buy mine.if I slept over in his place he d buy only his food n say "Coman join me" like tf??!little impressions like that matter

The way some guys act clearly indicate that they
will end up as chronic headache for their wives in
the nearest future if care is not taken.
I can’t really blame guys who are involved in the
act of humiliating ladies in public and online
because these ladies in question must have
torment their heart but going to the extent of
destroying their intrinsic values is the major
concern here.
Therefore let’s take a look at signs that indicate
a guy will become an irresponsible husband.

1. Extremely stingy
Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they
can’t call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a
day. The only time they call for long period is
during free night calls or bonus awarded from
telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will
hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM
that it was network failure.

2. Highly promiscuous
This issue is common to perverts who has never
zipped up for once in their life by chasing every
tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that
will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing
ladies who are young enough to be their daughter
in future.

3. Very lazy
Some guys are so idle to the extent that they
have no goal, vision and purpose in life. They are
just too lazy to seize opportunities around them
as they are only seen in betting shops like
nairabet, etc. to make money.

4. Ridicule ladies
I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend
in public just because she hangs out with a guy. I
consider this as a dysfunctional act because a
man in making will not stoop so low to involve
himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on nairaland
some consider all ladies as whores of which we
still have the rare and good ones like mhizkel,
prettythicksme, redgem, aminat508, midehi,
adeh39 and others.

5. Habit of alcoholism and smoking
For a guy that consume too much alcohol and
smoke probably in the bid to control his anger is
not a man. Such guys cannot become
responsible husbands to their wives because they
can use children’s school fee and other budgetary
money to drink and smoke.

6. Wrong lifestyle
Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer
groups who have influence them to have
shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation,
rape gangs and area touts.

7. Careless attitude
The way some guys behave can be likened to a
voracious animal. They dump and change ladies
like sanitary pads as they care less about their
emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex
journey that becomes foetus.

8. Poor financial planning
Some guys blow money like trumpet without
thinking about future investment. They spend
their money on vague things like phones,
prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become
an irresponsible husband.

9. Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit
and it results in ineffective communication, which
usually have an adverse impact on the
productivity of the individual and their
relationships. Poor listening definitely make a
huge, negative impact on team morale and
productivity. This situation usually results in
conflicts and misunderstandings among partners ,
and it creates a negative environment.

10. Lack of Self control : some guys lack the
ability to control their emotions, behavior, and
desires. Guys should constantly be striving
towards self-control and discipline, because these
are foundations of integrity. One thing they need
to understand about self-control is that it is not
as much about saying no to certain fleshly
desires, lusts
and cravings but more about living and abundant
life free from addiction regret and shame.

11. Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at
Interrupting a conversation with improper body
language or inappropriate words and this has a
negative impact on their relationships. My bf does
this a lot and it annoys me… I’ve told him
severally yet, he can’t stop it.

12. Dirty: some guys are so dirty that if they
should pass you, oh my God! you won’t be able
to breathe for hours and most of them term it
sexy…. Imagine animal odour is now sexy ta…go
and sleep it’s a turn off to we ladies.. We love
guys that are neat, guys that organizes their
home.
13. Bragging : some guys brag a lot eg MrCork I
have no problem with a guy having money.
However, I do have a problem when you decide to
treat women like gold-diggers whose eyes are
bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes,
we like money, just like you men, but that doesn’t
mean you should also shout it…. Brags are a turn
off for me

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donholy28:
Because they're addicted to living fake

who are
nl guys' mentality about women piss me off.I give up

cozy7:
Make up makes them look mch younger (and disgusting), so they always live in d mind set of being younger....ALWAYS LYING ABT THEIR AGE. Secondly, 99.9% of them aren't virgins, but claim to be.

So asking them those 2 questions makes them remember their past records....hence d anger.

why would we claim to bethe guys asking are they virgins or God.op are u avirgin??mtchew
u guys shd know no girl feels sorry or guilty or cheap again.we doing d same thing niggas are doing so take a fxking break .the question is actually annoying.why d hell would d first thing u ask me be about my sexuality its fcking private

Jollyjoy:
lollll.... misuse of the word ''love''....


You are simply attracted to her pix hence the urge to have her as a personal pal...nt my concern anyway bt get that straight.

as iiin babe that thing dey vex me!love my ass who no like fine geh

agarawu23:
are you a gf ?

lol I'm a lady

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Is dis guy normal@all

Instead of you to pray after servin so you'll find a better job with gr8 pay dat'll make b1tches line up for you...you're here with ur dull brain thinkin of how to catch gal You're really sick!!!!

Dey dere make ur 4-5 yrs+1 xtra year be in vain e hear

Ode






#teamMoneyFirstB1tchesFollow

great men need a woman too!
real men arent after bitches but real women and a relationship
plus real men never insult others like this for no just cause #getalifehommie
there s nothing wrong with a man or woman needing someone as much as money biko

agarawu23:
getting a girl has never being easy for me.unlike my friends which I know am finer than but they find it so easy to get them.

You think getting a lady is by your looks and appearance alone? we the ugly dudes get them so easily .

back to your point.

don't think maybe you are unlucky or under a spell, it depends on how you present yourself. Ladies need guys who can be bold enough to express their feelings. you must be outspoken and determined when approaching a lady.

let me give you one logic . If you like a lady, don't rush into asking her out, just be friend with her and watch her ways. From there you will know if the lady likes you or not. I hate being turn down by ladies so therefore there is always a body language that shows a lady likes you before you ask her out.

BTW : WHY NOT HUSTLE FOR CASH FIRST and see how these b!tches will run after you, even the ones with 9 bf's

he s not looking for bitches he s looking for "a girlfriend"!