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13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 8:17am On Sep 10, 2015 |
The way some guys act clearly indicate that they will end up as chronic headache for their wives in the nearest future if care is not taken. I can’t really blame guys who are involved in the act of humiliating ladies in public and online because these ladies in question must have torment their heart but going to the extent of destroying their intrinsic values is the major concern here. Therefore let’s take a look at signs that indicate a guy will become an irresponsible husband. 1. Extremely stingy Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they can’t call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a day. The only time they call for long period is during free night calls or bonus awarded from telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM that it was network failure. 2. Highly promiscuous This issue is common to perverts who has never zipped up for once in their life by chasing every tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing ladies who are young enough to be their daughter in future. 3. Very lazy Some guys are so idle to the extent that they have no goal, vision and purpose in life. They are just too lazy to seize opportunities around them as they are only seen in betting shops like nairabet, etc. to make money. 4. Ridicule ladies I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend in public just because she hangs out with a guy. I consider this as a dysfunctional act because a man in making will not stoop so low to involve himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on nairaland some consider all ladies as whores of which we still have the rare and good ones like mhizkel, prettythicksme, redgem, aminat508, midehi, adeh39 and others. 5. Habit of alcoholism and smoking For a guy that consume too much alcohol and smoke probably in the bid to control his anger is not a man. Such guys cannot become responsible husbands to their wives because they can use children’s school fee and other budgetary money to drink and smoke. 6. Wrong lifestyle Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer groups who have influence them to have shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation, rape gangs and area touts. 7. Careless attitude The way some guys behave can be likened to a voracious animal. They dump and change ladies like sanitary pads as they care less about their emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex journey that becomes foetus. 8. Poor financial planning Some guys blow money like trumpet without thinking about future investment. They spend their money on vague things like phones, prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become an irresponsible husband. 9. Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which usually have an adverse impact on the productivity of the individual and their relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team morale and productivity. This situation usually results in conflicts and misunderstandings among partners , and it creates a negative environment. 10. Lack of Self control : some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires. Guys should constantly be striving towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need to understand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain fleshly desires, lusts and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame. 11. Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at Interrupting a conversation with improper body language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. My bf does this a lot and it annoys me… I’ve told him severally yet, he can’t stop it. 12. Dirty: some guys are so dirty that if they should pass you, oh my God! you won’t be able to breathe for hours and most of them term it sexy…. Imagine animal odour is now sexy ta…go and sleep it’s a turn off to we ladies.. We love guys that are neat, guys that organizes their home. 13. Bragging : some guys brag a lot eg MrCork I have no problem with a guy having money. However, I do have a problem when you decide to treat women like gold-diggers whose eyes are bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes, we like money, just like you men, but that doesn’t mean you should also shout it…. Brags are a turn off for me SOURCE----www.nationalparrot.com I don't really create threads but saw this link on my bbm feeds this morning and thought to share. ENJOY Cc: rocktation . farano . lalasticlala . zicoraads . tosyne2much . kingtom , joecutie . naijaboiy . jollyjoy . dygeasy . cutehector . scentmarlc . djeezy etc etc 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by broxymall(m): 8:19am On Sep 10, 2015 |
i finally said it, i mentioned earlier in a thread, why just 10 every day , why not 13 it has finally come to pass let every one follow the trend now. back to topic, your list are not complete. i fall under category 1,no time for grammar. am an igbo Guy, yes i am so stingy even though i have the money, that doesnt justify the fact i wont be a responsible husband. but the fact is, it dont apply to all men, ladies are just the problem, when they call, she will receive another call. . but who are those always calling her a day. . Ladies hardly call their boyfriends, am too busy on a project, my mind is not there at least you ladies should give us space , these days we dont Date again, how can we call you when you dont give us your attention like we are begging you, if you like i no call you , make you brush off. Op all i am saying is Dont talk what you don’t know view my signature 1 Like |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by honeygirl17: 8:20am On Sep 10, 2015 |
ok |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Nobody: 8:27am On Sep 10, 2015 |
No1 is wack! The guy that doesn't call during the day is busy. You should be proud he even stays up at night just to have a nice talk wd you instead of sleeping. Women and nagging sha .. Who will cure dz disease All the rest are cool with me anyway |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by NOBODYY: 8:33am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Ladies & their double standards sha 1 Like |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 8:34am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:hahaha whatever my dear.some are stingy accept it or not.it isn't only a matter of calls.I once dated a guy.if he bought #25noreos biscuit.he would t buy mine.if I slept over in his place he d buy only his food n say "Coman join me" like tf??!little impressions like that matter |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Nobody: 8:40am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Mzdivacious: Why date broke niggas when you know you can't cope wt little/ no doe ? Its you fault, not theirs 3 Likes |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by broxymall(m): 8:43am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:am telling ya mehn, they nag alot like monkeys, the rest na common trait of us men but am excluded doesnt mean they will make an irresponsible husband, Women are always a problem if not Adam would not have eaten the forbidden fruit with her i wish it happens, only the men would be naked |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 8:51am On Sep 10, 2015 |
broxymall:calm down.u just exhibited trait number4.most common trait of nl guys.boy FCK outta here ...women a problem??including ur mum?u need to change |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by broxymall(m): 8:53am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Mzdivacious:can you kindly tell me the traits? waiting for a counter thread |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Nobody: 8:55am On Sep 10, 2015 |
broxymall: The Greek mythology was the best! Has it that ; 'women were sent to men as punishment' One sage (forgotten his name) like that said something like ; ' If you're looking for trouble and devil combined, just go and marry' My defense strategy so far on woman matter so far is just to stay mute and totally Ignore her and her wahala. Sooner or later , she go come back , kneel down and say 'no vex nah' ... The Confused , insatiable goats that they are 1 Like |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by broxymall(m): 8:58am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Sabrwahaqqo:Lwkmd, you just spoke my mind |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 9:25am On Sep 10, 2015 |
sighs# this hatred no get part2 .sabrwahaqqo n broxymall don't get married at all...aa to yin ti |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by broxymall(m): 9:30am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Mzdivacious:i dont have a problem with that |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by KingTom(m): 9:30am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Mzdivacious: By doing that he was preparing you for marriage, sharing everything as one. 1 Like |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Nobody: 9:32am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Mzdivacious: LoLz. Shebi u will marry me? At least u already know I won't call you in d day for more than one minute They say a known devil is better than an unknown angel 1 Like |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by naijaboiy: 9:34am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Mzdivacious thanks for the points,,we guys are still learning. One day we'll get there. But I have a little problem...how can I stop changing girls like sanitary pads? 4 Likes |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 9:35am On Sep 10, 2015 |
KingTom:lol shoroniyen I fit slap u thru this screen |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by vizkiz: 9:36am On Sep 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy: chai! Women yaf suffer from this guy hand |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 9:37am On Sep 10, 2015 |
broxymall:udont have a problem with never marrying??wow wow!boy who broke ur heart...sorry tho #okbye 1 Like |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by naijaboiy: 9:37am On Sep 10, 2015 |
vizkiz:it's not my fault. The girls won't just stop flowing. |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by vizkiz: 9:39am On Sep 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy: have mercy on me and share like 7 abeg 1 Like |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 9:42am On Sep 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy:errm errm its ur life you r single..u are free to change as much as u want as long as you are not seriously dating some girl u know really likes u.that d just make u a bastard u can stop however by finding a girl u really care for and she needs u just as much .keyword on care n need 2 Likes |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by KingTom(m): 9:42am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Mzdivacious:I will slap you back so you know that we are one, we'll share the pain of the slaps |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 9:43am On Sep 10, 2015 |
vizkiz:professional Heartbreakers them .life s not fair |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by naijaboiy: 9:45am On Sep 10, 2015 |
vizkiz:Greedy werey You nor even ask for one |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 9:45am On Sep 10, 2015 |
KingTom:I just laffed out loud trait num4.see them |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by naijaboiy: 9:46am On Sep 10, 2015 |
Mzdivacious:But why are you insulting me na? I only asked you a question o. Anyway,,are you sure if I find a girl that needs me just as much as I need her then I won't change her like a sanitary pad? |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by vizkiz: 9:47am On Sep 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy: ask for one? When I use to sing "everything na tripple tripple" in church! |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by naijaboiy: 9:49am On Sep 10, 2015 |
vizkiz:No worry God wey do am for me go do am for you |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by vizkiz: 9:51am On Sep 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy: God no go come down na. Na person him go send. Abeg just share me their contact(s) sharp sharp as God dey lay am for your heart |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 9:52am On Sep 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy:lmao I didn't insult u na.*kiss kiss*...yes I am sure.sha make sure u have feelings for d girl.real feelings no be this yamayama lust or infatuation feelings o |
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