₦airaland Forum

Onegai:
(could have sworn that all the wisdom-filled gurus here and offline said that marriage na scam, men don't benefit and baby mama is the way. Anyway, that's bad advise for you: very sweet to espouse for others to foolishly fall into).

Dregs,

I'm pretty sure she didn't want to be a Baby Mama. She wanted to be a wife and a mother but you had other plans. So now she's pissed at you.

It is horrific to be alone with a very sick child and be imagining the father of that child having the time of his life somewhere else. You send money, well that takes precisely 5 mins versus days and weeks of sleepless nights with a sick baby. Yes, you worked hard to make the money, but wouldn't you have worked hard to make that money if you were not a father?

So sending money ain't it.

Now, before you get even further bad advise about forcefully taking your child from her or ignoring her and moving on with your life because the child will look for you when she/he grows up, please stop right there.

Firstly, apologize to her. Single Parenthood is hard and unless you're paying every single bill and sending extra money, she too is handling bills plus a child, all by herself. Apologize sincerely to her for putting her in this situation.

Secondly, be polite and respectful in your conversations with her. Always acknowledge her sacrifice.

Thirdly, any plans you want to bring your child over to you, better factor in the Mother. Ask her if it will be okay, explain the pros and cons of the child coming to you. And give yourself sense: how old is this child? Because you shouldn't take young children from their mothers unless their lives are in danger. If you want the child to relocate abroad, better ask the mum if she wants to relocate too. If you want the child closer to you, plan on renting a place closer to you for her mum.

If the Mother won't give you the child, there's nothing you can do. Legally, na she own the pikin.

Arkmanbuddy:
Both Peter Obi, Victor Umeh and the op are clowns 🤡🤡🤡! You think this is 2023, right? The same Obi who's been jumping from party to party, running away from primaries because he knows he can't win. You think he'll ever do that?

The fact that you think any Nigerian politician can be there for a single term shows how naive you are.

Ọgbẹni, go and play with sand. All of you are political neophytes, you know nothing!

Feegstore:
I think it is not all the programs that will write the English, like me now I didn't write English, I only deed the knowledge test

Rexymania:
No be this pastor dey like sleep with OS those days. Him go come dey apologize later on the shed crocodile tears

😆

Kobojunkie:
Interesting! Did he ever work any real job in his entire life? Did his wife?

Vendor127001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EFI6pOhuVsc

A man was caught after he stole a bottle of Tiger Nut drink from a supermarket in Abuja, he was later set free to go after, nearby passer-by begged the mart owner !!!

Source: Instablog9ja

Wealthoptulent:
No marry WRONG oo!
I have 3 years working experience in this field... 2020 my year of Liberation mo bọ

Yung6six:
Anything religion, I've removed my hand. Humanity is all I'm interested in now. I fear African pastors

Sheerbliss:
What about Atuku who is greedy and selfish? . De play. U think se this country now is like 20 years ago. You think se we be fool to the North. South 8years, North 8 years sekina!

Flangelo12:
Actually, yes.

When Buhari took over, Wike kept PDP going while the others were simply observing.

That's why he was able to claim the party structure.

Why do you think it's been difficult to upstage Wike?

GAR3TH:
This is a complete waste of money, The corridor does not need a fly over. also he is taking land from a public park to build this fly over. The only reason there is traffic on that corridor is because the side roads are bad. just fix all the roads in that area and install traffic lights and watch the traffic reduce. no urban planning study was conducted, no traffic study was conducted, all these low I.Q. leaders know how to do is waste money and build fly-overs. Even the last governor said that fly-overs were not necessary, but less than 30 days in this guys is building them. how does that make sense? Are Nigerians really this dumb to be praising such a pointless project?

xd369:
Happy New Month, my people!

Please, I need your expert advice on the best way for me to migrate to Australia based on my profile. I’ve read through some very helpful threads here and done my own research, and it seems like the 189 visa or the 491 (family sponsorship) visa could be good options for me.

A bit about my background:
Please share the strategies and materials you use for your PTE have email you
Please respond

- I have a professional bachelor’s degree (M.Eng) in Aviation Transport (Aircraft Engineering) from a university in Latvia, Europe.
- My direct experience in this field is limited to a 6-month internship, which I did in my final year before graduating in 2020.
- For the past 6 years, I’ve been working as an IT Analyst, and Technical Manager in Tech companies.
- I’m 27 years old.
- I have a brother who is an Australian citizen based in Perth, Australia.
- My PTE Academic score is 90.

I’m thinking of writing my Career Episodes for an Aeronautical Engineering assessment with Engineers Australia (EA), but I’m not sure if my lack of work experience in the field, apart from the internship, will affect my chances. Do you think I should go ahead, or are there other routes that might be more straightforward or guaranteed for me?

Congratulations on 90 PTE
Please I will appreciate any advice or help you can provide in terms of materials and strategies used
Thanks so much, and God bless!

SmartPolician:
Source: https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2024/11/13/mclean-virginia-mansion-nigeria-boko-haram-money-laundering/

JASONjnr:
It will get to 2k before December.....

The thing is petrol is tied to the Nigerian economy and everything depends on it to grow.... The other option is electricity which we don't even have. And even if we work to have more dams, government will still remove subsidy and make it unbearable for the people.

Like Peter Obi said the NNPCL is regulating itself and the regulatory bodies are toothless.... And the ministry of petroleum that is supposed to oversee the affairs of the NNPCL and the regulatory bodies is headed by Tinubu and he's doing absolutely nothing about it.

A clear sign of incompetence!

Iriruaga100:
Welcome development for the interchange flyover at roundabout. I don’t think flyover at Enerhen junction is needed. They need to do the bridge from Enerhen to Opete solve the traffic problem at Udu bridge

Orc13:
This brother just placed Southern Kaduna on the map of achievements once again!

After studying Veterinary medicine, he furthered studied human medicine!

A coursemate had this to say about him on his Facebook wall;

"Some years back, we started it together at the University of Maiduguri studying Veterinary

Medicine, and you were indeed brilliant amongst us. You graduated successfully with many distinctions at your disposal. You proceeded to the University of Jos to do what?

Most of us asked you with surprise that you are going to study Human Medicine. We all wondered what would have became of you. Unknown to us, you were already determined to get the unexpected done".

God bless you Doctor!

Credits: Lot Logyang

https://www.facebook.com/100053538765658/posts/pfbid02FWMGsJ44YVuUSSeWPBsK2vRjhtYSvwPhWpMCvjLrFBVRuzq491WrFKzPLaPvT2GZl/?app=fbl

Healthquest:
no accommodations sha??.

Are u in the efcc?.

My brother is a trained Engineer in the Nigerian Airforce but he plans to pull out.

Klass99:
Please ehn, when it comes to your parents remove your eyes from the sibling who is not performing or under-performing and do your best for your parents, while they are alive.

I am not impressed by your sister either but I don't want to dwell on her too much, because I don't have the full picture of her life in Canada, she may or may not be struggling financially.....

However, I hate nonsense and stupidity when it comes to aged parents who deserve better but don't get better, from selfish offspring they gave birth to. Children like your sister are one of the reasons I am staying child free for life.
end of discussion i really commend you : FORGET ABOUT OTHERS MAKE SURE YOU DO YOUR BEST FOR YOUR PARENTS ONCE THEY ARE ALIVE

SIRTee15:
Its the same thing. Don't leave your good job to come to UK except u coming here to work as a professional. Note healthcare job is not a professional job.