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JimiCoker:
Ah, finally a reasonable thread.
Was starting to get worried NL had been overrun by premature dullαrds. Thank God for you OP, you've renewed my faith

now u got me laughing. Thanks

DeeTus:
Just one

And you?

too many to number

DeeTus:
Cool. You seem to have a different mindset about relationship.

Women could be so angry and disappointed especially if you turn them down or say lets just be friends.

Right now, the women are doing the chasing and is really interesting.

so how many have chased u today

Olasco93:
Nice thread OP.
The the truth is that 'most' girls have the virtues to do these things naturally, but SELF-PRIDE would'nt let them. While some feel they would look cheap and desperate in too.

But matured girls do all these things the OP mentioned. That's why i respect some girls because they are Mature in speech, behaviour, character and attitude.
Kudos to the matured ladies...

you sure can say that again

halfrica:
yes ma over sleep worry sef

hahahahhahahahaha

Johnsown1:
some parents may be just that way, do u agree with me that change is constant,therefore when u grows up and see hw tins are happening, u have to change ur orientation and adapt very fast.
If my future gal is not self depending then she is just wasting her time cos i will nt be serious with her.

You too be patient to teach her

Johnsown1:
show me ur friends and i will tell u who u are. It is the character of a lady that makes a guy to be so hardened.if ur not greedy and selfish as most gals are, then the guy will put his life on ur palm.

so true!


Also some suffer from the seed their parents have planted in them. Imagine a woman who tells the daughter a man must take care of her every need.... parents still have a great role

viclawz:
Nice post..keep it up..good 2 know there are still reasonable ladies in Naija.

thank-you do visit often

halfrica:
M nt greedy m nt selfish

I believe u jare

sauceEEP:
Op I need you in my life.....

abeg define the need ooooooo! Cos need & want are often misunderstood

Y u dey hmmmmmmm

miqos02:
hmmmm

halfrica:
if ny body find ur trouble call my moniker u self go dey beg ontop d person matter

no wahala! I go holla u sharperly. Hope u slept like a baby

NewSheriff:
A smart way of telling the pm senders to 'go back to sleep'

you said it not me

halfrica:
i love the way u think


Friends??

sure

Greetings my people

I did start writing one day. I learnt over time. God blessed me with a man who is understanding and patient and is never tired of teaching me. He has taught me & so I share ways girls can better their relationship

halfrica:
Oh yeah my bf is a good man m lucky ryt??

u sure are

iAmCharis:
Nice post as always. ✔
I like you already.

2dice:
here in Nigeria

it's alright

halfrica:
Team op

Bt there some men who are naturally wicked who will still nt appreciate a girl after doin all u av stated

Its just d grace to meet a guy who wud appreciate it

that's y I used the word "good man"

rawpadgin:
its hard to believe there is still a girl like u in this con3

hope u are practicing what u just preached

I only preach wat I practice

firstking01:
yea, i agree wit u, bt no marra hw real and natural u appear b4 dem gals, dey'd still wanna magarize u, even wen u come wit no alterior motives.

true! A lot of ladies need orientation cos they are influenced by others

2dice:
All diss sermon is for Ladies in other Country
Our ladies over here believes their 'Grail' is the Greatest Gift

"over here" as in where?

Cutehector:
Whenever i see threads like this, i understand one thing, the authors r very sensible. And should deserve the very best.

cutehetor, been a while. Hope u good & tnx 4 d comment

Please suggestions ......
Watched empire, Jane the virgin, flash, drop dead diva, revenge, heroes reborn

A good man is hard to find whether you agree or not. The definition of a good man varies for each individual but a general definition of a good man encompasses facts like
- nice
- understanding
-money spender
-lover
-detailed planer
-a friend
The list continues.
Ladies, it is good we acknowledge the fact that a guy is good not because he wants to please us but because he is naturally good.
It would be very unwise for a lady to feel she is "too much" simply because a guy is good to her and cares for her.

Now let's address the main issue.
Why do ladies always feel they are the ones who always need taking out?

Why do ladies always think its their right when a guy pays for their hair and stuffs like that?

At what point will ladies realise that guys too want to be pampered?

What stops you as a lady from paying after your date?

I don't think a guy would reject you surprising him with some pairs of shoe.

You don't have to wait till its his birthday to get him a gift or surprise him.
As much as ladies love to be called sweet names the men too like it.
Let him wake up to an epistle of your love for him. Make him as happy as you want to be.

You can't always be the one receiving the compliment every time. Tell him how lucky you are to have him. Let him know how much you love him. Help him feed his ego so you are the only one his inner baby understand.

The things you know make him happy do them happily.
Don't always wait till he says lets go out before you go out. Sometimes be the one to say darling I'm taking you for a treat.

A man's heart will melt not to the hotness of your temper but to the steam of your pampering.

yinkeys:
This girl has sense & is on point; however are you sharing this from experience. Most women never get it while they're still young but put on their thinking cap when market no dey reach their side again

let's just say I was inspired

shegxi:
i sha hope ur enjoying ursef and having fun?

trying my best

tonyyayo:
True, you really nailed it. Some girls are so myopic in nature, they want to enjoy now to suffer tomorrow. May God help us all

amen!

shegxi:
i have just been around jare.......sometimes i feel lazy to type, i have bn up to so many things and u?

been around, when it got dry I lost vibe so hardly online these days

tonyyayo:
Hi, do you reside in Edo state?

not anymore.....

shegxi:
am very fyn and u? I trust u have bn good too......

hmmmmmmm! Wats have u been up to? Been a while o! Wats been keeping you busy