Business › Re: Onitsha New Shoprite..my Dope Swagg Pictures There..me And My Siblings.. by Mzflexydeeva(f): 9:53am On Jun 21, 2016 |
Make una free the guy, he did what anyone his age would do not to mention NL is for everyone but belongs to no1  he got the attention he needed. But I must say @ seun u need to do something about NL be4 it looses it's appeal. NL is flooded with fp post that r really not relevant but I guess people like it like that. ...... |
Family › Re: A Thread For 2016 Brides and Grooms To Be by Mzflexydeeva(f): 8:28pm On Jun 20, 2016 |
joliefille: Yes, my wedding was in April 2016 oh congratulations in advance. Believe it was a huge success |
Family › Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:34pm On Jun 20, 2016 |
banjolek: Hello guys,
I need your honest opinion on this, how much is really ideal to give one's wife as monthly pocket money?.
Here's my story, i recently got married and also moved to a new 3 bedroom apartment around gbagada. I earn a pretty decent income while my wife also works in the bank with a salary of like 150k. She saves a half of this salary and uses the remaining for upkeep.
Now the issue is my wife insists that i must give her monthly pocket money and i have proposed 20k, an amount i feel is more than adequate for her if added to about 75k which she already has to herself from her salary. Also note that this 20k does not mean i dont get to buy her random stuff during the month or provide anything she asks for if i feel its a reasonable demand.
A1so bear in mind that i am still 100% responsible for providing food and other bills in the house. In addition we just moved to a new apartment like i mentioned earlier and still in the process of furnishing it so a chunk of my monthly salary goes into furnishing the house.
We also have a plan to set up a business for her, so i'm also currently saving part of my salary to fulfill that dream.
Now my wife has rejected the proposed amount of 20k saying its too small.
I need your take on this people, considering all i have mentioned above, is 20k really too small to be giving her monthly?
i wrote this in a hurry, please bear with any typo observed. hmmmmmmmmmmm! Na u spoil her o. Sincerely if she isn't working it's a different thing. A working wife to me should not be on any form of allowance. If you decide to give her money it should be a free will thing. Your telling her 20,000 sef na spoil. Sorry to say but this is an act of wickedness. Since she is working & has a source of income, there's nothing wrong with her taking over some responsibility sef..... ur laid a wrong foundation. Perhaps u were giving her more than that b4 |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Confessed She's HIV+ After I Proposed To Her. Please, Help by Mzflexydeeva(f): 3:51pm On Jun 20, 2016 |
It's a tough one.... if indeed she is positive it's ur decision. Just think deep |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Mzflexydeeva(f): 8:06pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Looking for high school series & comedy series that are totally dope... Other nice ones are welcomed too.. thanks |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 7:51pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
onohme: Hello every1 am new 2 dis thread. Am onohme by name and am a corper. Want to meet new people both gals and boys am a friendly person but pls I don't want any rash person . Here's my pin332AF1C7. Thanks *kisses* corper shun! Welcome, where u serving? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 5:13pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Good to know [quote author=lilyqueen post=46693498][/quote] |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 4:12pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 4:09pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
lilyqueen: I'm through with my diploma I'm preparing for my degree oh dats cool. Hope u r enjoying every bit of it |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 2:54pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
lilyqueen: I'm ify a student love reading and making good friends hello Ify, how r u? Wat. School do u attend |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 1:58pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
Meeky: hi mzflexy how r u doing |
Family › Re: A Thread For 2016 Brides and Grooms To Be by Mzflexydeeva(f): 1:56pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
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Family › Re: A Thread For 2016 Brides and Grooms To Be by Mzflexydeeva(f): 1:22pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
joliefille: For everything bridal in Lagos, at an affordable price and variety; go to Tom Jones plaza in Idumota Lagos. You can practically do all the shopping for your wedding there. thanks |
Family › Re: A Thread For 2016 Brides and Grooms To Be by Mzflexydeeva(f): 7:40pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Wifeysist: Please I'm an August bride and I'll love to have an edo attire. Please who knows where I can't rent them. Thanks do u have a makeup artist already? I have some1 |
Family › Re: A Thread For 2016 Brides and Grooms To Be by Mzflexydeeva(f): 7:34pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
Wow! Am I the last to find this thread... hello brides to be....
Please where can I get great shoes for wedding, unique bouquet arrangement, affordable lace with asooke in lasgidi... |
Romance › Re: How To Know She's A Keeper by Mzflexydeeva(op): 6:06am On May 24, 2016 |
rose54321: It's shows not only is she a good cook, she pays attention to detail and is very creative... 2 indispensable qualities. Your relationship with her will be very creative not all those "do as my mother did wives". well said |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 7:08pm On May 19, 2016 |
Hello people |
Romance › How To Know She's A Keeper by Mzflexydeeva(op): 4:31pm On May 19, 2016 |
If you visit bae & you are served like dis, guy marry her.
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Events › Re: Aso-ebi Palaver: See What The High Cost Of Being A Bridesmaid Has Caused by Mzflexydeeva(f): 9:07pm On May 15, 2016 |
I can't find the opening post jare |
Nairaland General › Re: Somewhere In Benin (mother Vs Daughter) by Mzflexydeeva(op): 8:40pm On May 15, 2016 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Somewhere In Benin (mother Vs Daughter) by Mzflexydeeva(op): 11:04am On May 11, 2016 |
Ferdyboss: I have been doing alright. I hope you are good? yes I am.... wats been happening with you? |
Nairaland General › Re: Somewhere In Benin (mother Vs Daughter) by Mzflexydeeva(op): 6:14pm On May 10, 2016 |
Ferdyboss: Hi Mzflexydeeva. Been a while o. I don come back
Happy sunday, Happy new month longest time, how have u been? |
Nairaland General › Somewhere In Benin (mother Vs Daughter) by Mzflexydeeva(op): 10:01pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
With the official announcement of the death of the oba of Benin, a lot would be going on including the closure of major markets all over th city for the next 7 days. Apart from that, in various homes, some where in the city a mother is having this conversation... Mother: Eshoe my daughter, lawowo please I beg you, don't go out, don't even go to school for the next 7 days ooooo. These people will need the head of some virgins to bury the oba. Please my dear... u know say na only u I get o. No come drive me comot husband houe if anything do you, ur papa go kill me  Dauther: iye I don hear na I no go go anywhere. Her thoughts.... who wan carry me self? Me when my battery don die. Na me and ibrahim shoe maker still do am yesterday  |
Education › Re: FGGC, Akure Cooks Pick Pads Of Students For "Ritual Purposes" by Mzflexydeeva(f): 11:49am On Apr 05, 2016 |
O feggicola a school we all hail.... back in the day. Set of 06' |
Education › Re: Unilag PG 2015/2016 ADMISSION DISCUSSION HERE by Mzflexydeeva(f): 5:23pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
Anyone for msc pharmacognosy here? |
Education › Re: Unilag PG 2015/2016 ADMISSION DISCUSSION HERE by Mzflexydeeva(f): 5:20pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
Dan1el: Thanks brother. Pls how do I get past questions for pharmacognosy please did you still get past questions for pharmacognosy |
Education › Re: Unilag pg 2014 Discussion by Mzflexydeeva(f): 5:13pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
HURMORTULA: Come and do Msc Pharmacognosy ....tola  did u do a masters in pharmacognosy? |
Education › Re: University Of Lagos School Of Postgraduate Studies by Mzflexydeeva(f): 3:54pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
Interested in msc pharmacognosy.... basically I need of past questions so I have an idea of wat to expect. Can you help  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 5:23am On Feb 29, 2016 |
Good morning everyone, hope u had a great February?? This is to a greater March ahead. Cheers  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 3:21am On Jan 14, 2016 |
Eminentsaint: Nairaland was new to me then. I see! So now u r a pro? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 3:20am On Jan 14, 2016 |
shegxi: loool.....babe no by my fault jare, sometimes d workload nd pressure no be here, we are just grateful sha. it's everywhere but God has been faithful. So wats been happening with you? How work, family & all? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by Mzflexydeeva(op): 3:18am On Jan 14, 2016 |
jermaie: hw u doing?..u can cal me Jason 2 am pretty well &u? That's OK! Jason hope you are doing great? |