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missbronze:
I am telling u dear.

I know a lady who said no initially. Though she married the guy later but that was after they sorted out their issues

missbronze:
Even with all u wrote there,

A Nigeria gal will still refuse a guy proposal.

But, wait,

Are u saying because men are rare (according to u). That a lady should therefore accept any man that proposes.?

She shouldn't consider her own wants, likes, values, goals, feelings. etc. She should just accept.

it's rather alarming. They think girls are too desperate to say no

ayokunlei:
Bbf newest

bbf

lacicrips:
Let her buy the ring. She should get her choice, and bring it for me to propose.

rawtouch:
During this scarcity of husbands no lady will say no

you'll be shocked

EroticAngelina:
You hit the point!!! so men, hope y'all are reading and practicing.

is that no 5 a reason to say no to a guy nt jx a guy, buh the one u luv that's so ridiculous.

buh no 3 is very important and should nt be seen as a bad thing u knw. there are girls who are too young for marriage, they know nothing abt luv or life, u dnt rly expect them to jump into marriage. for example, a guy proposing to his 17 yrs old gf, and wanting them to get married now now now... Dats bullshiiit. she has to grow and be at least 21 yrs bfor thinking of marriage and having babies(at least that's hw I see it) etc, it has ntn to do with commitment.

some ladies in their 20s(22-25) do that alot

The thought of a lady saying no to a marriage proposal to many is unrealistic. Many a time ladies are characterized by their attitude towards trapping a man into marriage rather than refusing a proposal but as uncommon as it may seem to many, guys still get their rings thrown back in their faces.

7 common reasons why ladies reject marriage proposals include:

1. Financial independence

When financial independence is mentioned, a lot of people are quick to say ladies are only after the money, want a well to do man but this isn't about the man. Not that the "independent state" of a man doesn't count but some ladies reject marriage proposals because they (the lady) want to be financially stable before starting a family. Not every girl likes the idea of a man taking care of all her needs. Some ladies want to also be able to contribute and support their husbands financially before their answer is yes.

2. Family attachment

A man who loves his family can be said to be a good man. He can also be said to be one who would make a good husband and father but when a man is too attached to family it can be a reason not to be taken seriously when he pops the question. A man who can't make decisions until he gets approval from his family still has an invisible umbilical cord round his neck.
A guy who has to meet all the needs of his family before considering the needs of his "to be" wife may not change after marriage. No woman wants a man whose decisions can only be final after the parents have certified

3. Age factor

Many ladies have lost great men because they have allowed themselves to be consumed by the feeling of "still young".
A lady who feels she is too young to get married shouldn't be in a relationship. Some ladies claim to be ready but when the proposal comes they say they are too young. This has more to do with their inability to deal with commitment.

4. Mending fences strategy

Relationships are never perfect and a good surprise is always welcomed but proposing during a misunderstanding or a fight usually backfires. It is good to want to work through issues easily and have them sorted out quickly but proposing when she's mad at you is risky. A no may just be what you get.

5. Proposal method and ring choice

Ladies usually have things they fantasize about. One of which is their wedding and also the way you propose. Ladies have been known to turn down marriage proposal because they felt it wasn't romantic enough, others because it was too extravagant. Choice of ring too has not been left out. Ladies love to show off among their peers, no wonder a lady would say no to a guy simply because she feels the ring used in proposing is not befitting.

6. Sexual satisfaction.

The importance given to sex in relationships these days cannot be over emphasized. A lady could reject a proposal upon considering if the guy satisfies her in bed or not. In a relationship, a lady can still try to get her sexual satisfaction from someone else but in marriage she may not. Knowing that a guy can't sexually satisfy her is a good enough reason to say no for some ladies.

7. Lack of trust (too many female friends)

Lack of trust is one of the most common issues faced by relationships today. A lot of people are in relationships where trust is only a mirage. A major cause of lack of trust for ladies is encompassed in the fact that the guy has too many female friends. In such situations, the lady is likely to feel insecure and unsure. Even when the guy proposes, she tends to take it as a joke and the reply is usually no.

Please anyone with biochemistry past questions i'm desperately in need of it

Tanker

Lordseyad:
For ya'all wey dey think dem dey change course for 200L .. no think am o .

How i feil explain o, ok mah use Story building illustrate.


If you're in Engineering, and u can't meet the 2.0 , then U climb down the staircase to Sciences where the crossing gp is 1.5(That's if una meet the 1.5 o). Cos if you don't make 1.5 @Session end , You will then cross the express road in front of this building to the other side.(Challenge straight).
BUT- You can't jxt climb up the ladder, or go to the other room on your floor, even if you get 5.0- U can only Climb down, no climbing up here or going to other room!!

Then case 2- --10 besties in Physiology and Anatomy would also get a Chance to climb up another staircase and get the chance to study Medicine, So they get the chance to climb up,.

I dunno of other cases. other Guys go talk am.

what an illustration are DE candidates here?

Please house when does submission of documents to department of choice end Can I submit form printed in black and white or must it be coloured

Please any1 with biochemistry past questions i'm interested....thanks . Urgent answers. Please

Nice work babe! It's indeed well said. You've really got some great relationship talk going dere. U don't have to be in a relationship to know how certain things work. Thumbs up

Cutehector:
Person wey dey single dey gv advice on rship

y do u always counter ish like dis? Some of these things r just so u learn. One mustn't talk from experience all the time. We see things, hear & observe. That's enough to write a wonderful piece...

A relationship isn't a relationship until you are with your friend.
Some say love brings people together but friendship keeps them forever.
Attraction is good, romance even better but how long can these sustain if you aren't with a friend?

Love they say never dies but like a plant, it has to be nurtured to get the best out of it. If studied closely, you will realise that those who make their lovers their best friends then to have a healthier relationship because where love fails friendship bridges.


There are numerous ways to achieve this which I know works for a lot of people.

1. Be a playmate as well as a confidant.
2. Be approachable
Don't be the kind whose 1st reaction is to blow alarm. Apply wisdom.
3. Understand their immediate need.
At every moment people's need vary. Don't start undressing when he/she just wants to talk.
4. Be a counsellor not a judge.
They probably have everyone out there judging for a past they want to forget. They don't want that too with you.
5. Be real.
This is probably one of the most difficult to see these days. Relationships just like many other things today has become business. It's only about what you can get out of it. A secure future, lovely looking kids, large bank account, best cars bla bla bla....all these are beautiful to have but remember you can't pretend for ever. Let your partner meet the real you and give them a chance to get to know who you really are.
6. An adage says "a mother who beats a child with the right hand would draw him closer with the left"
Love them unconditionally.
Be there no matter how busy you get.
Be some1 to can always count on.
Never disappoint them.
Don't break their trust.
Do not test them. It always backfires
7. Support their dreams.
Making sacrifices for those you love will draw them closer to you. The little effort. We make is what keeps them coming back.
8. Last but not least, know when they need their space. Everyone needs a "ME" time now & then, don't always be in their faces.

kossyablaze:
I'm crushn o

it's allowed

ayokunlei:
Doc. to be

a big amen to dat

Successful registered : lagos center jkk building Tuesday 18th, 1pm...... to. Think that once upon a time jkk was y office. Now it's going to. Be my exam centre..... irony of life #fingerscrossed #this_shit_just_got_real

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datyrone:
O.p don't take dis personally o...
I noticed you were making a fuss about the guy paying for the girls order and so on n so forth
You are indirectly giving the impression that as long as a guy can pay for what you need at a certain point you'd consider him.its a bit appalling
You need food...fuel for ya body.its a basic need.girls shud be ready to take care of themselves.
Girls and money are Siamese twins
There are better ways a guy can show genuine niceness and don't take advantage of it...cos its gonna bite you

ok

rudestmcblaze:
I'd have considered myself rili stupid if I did dat unless she is a witch so I can say she has jazzed me. If she was not to ashamed to ask then I'm not too ashamed to refused

correct guy

gabazin080:
Only mumu and amebo guys sit to talk all this when they meet.
As for me and my friends this is what we usually discuss.
1. Woman
2. Sports bet
3. Money
4. Money
5. Money
6. Money
7. Money
8. Money
9. Money
10. Money nooni

more like:
Money

Money

Money
Women

Women

Women

Women

Women.......

Wow! How can one who doesn't know me describe me so well?

sparkleboy:
True. I was travelling from Ife to Lagos on Monday, I stopped over to fuel just after Ibadan since it was @ 87 Naira per litre
While there a young lady just approached me and asked whether I was going to lag, I was the one that was reluctant and scared to pick her, I was afraid of car snatchers. I ended up taking her to Lagos, and found out that we were admitted to oau the same year though she graduated b4 me but I see it as a very improper thing to woo a girl you just met.

wow! Improper? Some guys. Can even toast if the jamb u inside toilet #fact

Cutehector:
my own code is dat I"l be nice to anybody, but dnt take advantage of my nice attitude to u. Cuz d second I find out am bein taken advantage of, I place u whr u ought to be, which is in my past... Thr was a gurl I was also interested in... Sometimes I"d be buyn her lunch... She nw made it look like as if its her right.. Started dependn on me on everythn, both lunch and transport.. I just kept quiet.. On her birthday, I planned takn her to d beach and havn a good time thr earlier, buh when her attitude on me doin evrythn for her became too much, I just told her happy birthday only on her birthday and deleted her number afterwards... It came as a shock to her.. She has lost a nice guy...

for ur mind

DJ2HOT:
don't worry will still Kip u posted on the wedding plans with the woman am with

waiting

rudestmcblaze:
Ur head dae dere bro, because to some ladiea every guy is a potential maga. I remember wen I was always paying a gal's transport dat I was avin a tin for. It shocked me like shoki wen I paid for her cab fare one day n she asked if she cud kip d change since den I must admit I've become somewhat stingy towards women especially dose dat r not rili my friends because prevention dae say is beta dan cure

so did u leave d change?

henryhemon:
you mind if I get your bbm contact?

ok

DJ2HOT:
Am sure the guy's pick up line is poor, if he is good @ flirting...you won't even remember his err instead you'll be thinking of how funny he is and the rest na history .......i once had the experience but mine was in a bus after she paid her fare I was like pls I need your help on something she looked @ me and I said relax I won't ask you pay for me.... I brought out my wallet and showed her it's a painfull thing I couldn't pay her fare nd I know the scene will be registered in her heart forever....told her I was just going to use the ATM nd I never Knew i'll board the same bus wit an angel.....pls the help I need is I want to redeem mysef of this mess nd I want you to help me by giving me your number so i'll make it up to you........she was like no now it's ok don't bother... I pushed a bit nd said I promise to pay your fare 10 times to cover up for this mess...she was just smilling and saying don't bother yoursef now......I told her I know you're a big gurl nd you probably don't want a guy to pay your fare but ok if you don't want me to pay i'll use the amount am suppose to pay as your fare in buying recharge card and call you to sing for you till its exhausted how about that...the words keep Coming nd I got the number nd we became friends but couldn't ask her out cos during our conversation she made me realize she knew my babe very well #

wow! That's some nice stuff! I was hoping it wud have a happily ever after ending of how u 2 are planning ur wedding #sobs

kenedy175:
Where I stay, it's a normal thing for ladies to flank guys down asking for a lift. To me, it's a common thing down south.



What am I doing here sef

where do u stay?

uzygirl:
If there's no ulterior motive, why don't they stop for guys too?

nice question........ let's hope d guys av an. Ans to dat

INTROVERT:
I drive myself so that ain't hapening

ok oooo!