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RomanceRe: My Parents Says No Because He's Yoruba and am Igbo. Should I Go Ahead And Marry? by mzjayne(op): 2:54pm On Jan 20, 2016
christopher123:
What of God has shown them confirmation that the dude ain't her husband but a...
you should ask if they prayed about it..immediately they heard his name, they said no without getting to know him..to me it's wrong. I had to involve my pastor who has been praying with me...they are just been tribalistic and God frowns at it..we are one in Christ and no matter what, you shouldn't judge a person base on hear say..get to know them first
RomanceRe: My Parents Says No Because He's Yoruba and am Igbo. Should I Go Ahead And Marry? by mzjayne(op): 2:51pm On Jan 20, 2016
Honesty007:
My sister,God bless you.iam sooo happy to meet u.This is the first time i would see an igbo sister not having an old grudge or passed down indoctrination of civil war episode against the yoruba.God would solve this problem for you in Jesus name.

What i wantto tell u is that *God is not or there is no partiality with God::: acts 10:34
God too is not a tribalistic God.Christianity too is not about tribalism.There is no greek or jew, we r all one in christ.
If you have throrougly prayed about this issue , all what u need is #Confirmation#
PRAY FOR CONFIRMATION, CONFIRMATION FROM OUTSIDERS AND OTHER PEOPLE THAT KNOW YOUR PARENTS THAT #GOD SHOULD SHOW THEM THE CONFIRMATION THAT HE IS YOUR HUSBAND#
REMEMBER *GOD CONFIRMS HIS WORD WITH SIGNS AND WONDERS. Thank you really...you don't know how relieved I am now...I will keep praying and God will do it...I really appreciate your nicely written words..God Bless smiley
RomanceRe: My Parents Says No Because He's Yoruba and am Igbo. Should I Go Ahead And Marry? by mzjayne(op): 12:03pm On Jan 20, 2016
permanentgrace:
But it seems like you have a huge crush on the dude. I mean Eden Hazard. Or aren't you?
I do grin m a chelsea fan and eden is my best player kiss
RomanceRe: My Parents Says No Because He's Yoruba and am Igbo. Should I Go Ahead And Marry? by mzjayne(op): 11:10am On Jan 20, 2016
ourchoice:
Love is not enough reason to marry someone; don't make that mistake. Women who marry a man because they feel: I am so inlove with him, always regret at the end. Seems this guy in question is rich and u are feeling like u can't get any other guy like him. If truly u want to marry him and ur mind is made up, stand your ground, your parents will give in future to your desire with time. But think beyond emotional love and material gain now...think futu
it's not about the money, the igbo guys have come across has money too. Bur I don't feel the connection. It's either they are arrogant and they have pride..
RomanceRe: My Parents Says No Because He's Yoruba and am Igbo. Should I Go Ahead And Marry? by mzjayne(op): 11:07am On Jan 20, 2016
grin
permanentgrace:
So Eden Hazard is now a 'Yoluba' guy? Lol.
grin
RomanceRe: My Parents Says No Because He's Yoruba and am Igbo. Should I Go Ahead And Marry? by mzjayne(op): 12:16am On Jan 20, 2016
gamaliel121:
Yea...maybe his coccckkk is golden...mature comments please! If you have nothing to say that will be meaningful, then don't say anything undecided
RomanceRe: My Parents Says No Because He's Yoruba and am Igbo. Should I Go Ahead And Marry? by mzjayne(op): 11:57pm On Jan 19, 2016
ronald4lif:
Only that I have a parent who are supple and amenable and believe in the right of their kids getting married to whoever they wish, whether from tafanja or Fernanda Po, no one can dare deny or challenge my right to marry whoever I decide to.

It's not even discussed that I want to marry someone and another person, parents or not, repudiates my choice. It's laughable to even attempt to usurp and assume such powers over another's persons life. The decision of a person one is supposed to sleep, eat, wake up and spend the rest of their lives with should be theirs only and need no interference.

You're a lady and I don't specifically know the kind of advice to give you apart from discussing it with your parents in the most civil manner you can and highlight the reason(s) why he's the right one for you. If you were a guy I'd have told you to damn whatever they say and proceed with your marriage.
thank you! Judging someone base on the tribe is wrong and they have no genuine reasons...I know what I want and I will go for it. The only issue is people say you need your parent to bless your marriage and all so nothing bad happens..i know it's God's will for me bur parents shouldn't abuse that position and control their children into doing what they want... I've prayed about it and am still praying and my desire is that God touches their heart. coz at the end I will be miserable if I chicken out and marry an igbo guy who I don't love just to please them..its really a depressing experience cry
RomanceMy Parents Says No Because He's Yoruba and am Igbo. Should I Go Ahead And Marry? by mzjayne(op):
My parents says no because he's yoruba and am igbo. Should I go ahead and marry? One will say you need your parents blessings and all for you to have a blissful marriage. This is 2016 for God sake, they should be concerned about my happiness and not where he comes from..Yes, the Bible says we should obey our parents in the Lord, and I do bur in a situation whereby they are rejecting him because of his tribe is something God will also frown at... this is really depressing and my prayer is that God touches their heart in fact let his angels appear in my parents dreams and talk sense into their head oh cry
RomanceRe: WHEN THE GIRL/GUY YOU LOVE COMES FROM THE TRIBE YOUR PARENT HATES by mzjayne(f): 4:22pm On Jan 08, 2016
Tymax:
If you know your parents will not change their minds, don't torture your partner any further; break up. Simple. If you go ahead and marry, you will successfully alienate your family.

Marriage should unite families not separate them.
u make them happy, while you are sad..by letting him/ her go...really?!?
RomanceRe: WHEN THE GIRL/GUY YOU LOVE COMES FROM THE TRIBE YOUR PARENT HATES by mzjayne(f): 4:21pm On Jan 08, 2016
Seriously facing the same issue angry...I'm just confused...my dad doesn't have a problem with the tribe, it's just my mum undecided...how do I handle this?
RomanceRe: 7 Obstacles That Might Have Kept Some Of Our Ladies From Getting Married In 2015 by mzjayne(f): 8:11am On Dec 30, 2015
OTEGA1:
I can c ur reason for marriage is just to mock and look dowm on single ladies dat are not married even if they were our senior ,u did not have a good reason to marry,u just saw it as a competition. I hope as u grow older common sense dats not so common will abide in your brain so dat ur hubby and singles around u will c good reasons to look forward to get married.Not this crap of urs................
Nicely Written! People get married to show off, like what this lady is doing here ...please ladies and gentlemen, get married for the right reasons kiss
RomanceRe: Guys, Can You Sleep With A Wife Material On First Date? by mzjayne(f): 8:49am On Dec 28, 2015
Mjshexy:
A husband material will not even think of having sex with a wife material on a 1st date.. smiley
Nicely Written dear! kiss
FamilyRe: Core Arsenal Couple Celebrate Their Wedding In An Amazing Way (Photo) by mzjayne(f): 7:48pm On Nov 28, 2015
SeXistBaStaRd:
"WEDDING IN FAILURE" undecided
I strongly disagree embarassed...M not an arsenal fan bur the only thing u should have done is to wish them well...... smiley
RomanceRe: Why Do You Think She Does This? Is It Like True Love Or Pretence? by mzjayne(f): 7:11pm On Nov 28, 2015
bawz012:
indeed!

wats ur take. on these ma'am as a lady.
u ladies hav multiple things in common, i think.
The guy in question is suppose to know who he's dating by now and not come here to seek opinion from people who haven't come in contact with his girlfriend to really know if she's pretending or not ...for me I think the lady is sincere, if she's pretending, then she won't even bother him with all that. If the op is scared, then he should let her go ,for another man to cherish what he lost undecided...
RomanceRe: For The Ladies: Before Your Panties Gets Down by mzjayne(f): 8:24pm On Nov 27, 2015
Nice write up..
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Graduate Trainees At Greatview Nigeria Limited - 27th November, 2015 by mzjayne(f): 8:18pm On Nov 27, 2015
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RomanceRe: Why Do People Like Tall Girls? by mzjayne(f): 5:40pm On Nov 27, 2015
Cutehector:
may God forgive u for this....
Amen
RomanceRe: Top 10 Lies Men Tell Women by mzjayne(f): 10:58am On Nov 27, 2015
Scam sad
RomanceRe: Why Do People Like Tall Girls? by mzjayne(f): 10:18am On Nov 27, 2015
ibrams:
are you tall...... if I may ask
I am smileytall and light skin grin
RomanceRe: Why Do People Like Tall Girls? by mzjayne(f): 10:12am On Nov 27, 2015
Cutehector:
Its so so laughable to hear tall girls sayin dey cant marry guys who r shorter dan dem ... And wen u hear their reason, u ljust laugh at her in ur mind...


Things like, i dont want my kids to be short! shocked like seriously? Where whr u wen genetics was being taught in school? Huh....
it's not about ur kids been short,I prefer looking up to my man, than looking down at him. If u understand what I mean.. huhI can't bear it, how I do I get to walk in public with him embarassed..please go for what you want kiss
RomanceRe: Why Do You Think She Does This? Is It Like True Love Or Pretence? by mzjayne(f): 10:05am On Nov 27, 2015
mightyjoe746:
let him go and ask IFA den, since he dat is vry close to her can't deduce if she is pretending or not. Nairalanders will give u enough gamble of yes/No she is pretending. because dere is no reasonable argument on d post what u can expect is unreasonable answers.
dope reply! kiss
CrimeRe: FED Poly Ado-Ekiti Student Commits Suicide Because Of An Extra Year (graphic) by mzjayne(f): 9:37am On Nov 27, 2015
Really!?! Why will someone commit suicide? People don't learn at all...
RomanceRe: NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE BETTER USED AND DUMPED by mzjayne(f): 1:34pm On Nov 22, 2015
vicraven:
lol, i think his type of rubbish is actually correct and in place...
indeed! Just hope u guys take a white lady to the altar and let us rest...
RomanceRe: NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE BETTER USED AND DUMPED by mzjayne(f): 10:24am On Nov 22, 2015
Someone will just wake up , and the next thing is to type rubbish.....y generalize!? I bet u have sisters too that will be used and dumped # smh
FamilyRe: A Thread For 2016 Brides and Grooms To Be by mzjayne(f): 7:29pm On Nov 16, 2015
This is nice [color=#000099][/color] smiley........hope to be married by 2016 grin
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Graduate Trainee Opportunity In a Top Bank In Nigeria by mzjayne(f): 6:46am On Nov 12, 2015
kudus007:
I guess they have not contacted those that applied from lagos. a friend of mine got the same mail but he is in Kano. I'm hoping they will contact me too. all the best to y'all contacted already
I also got the mail, and m in Lagos. Best of luck guys
CelebritiesRe: Kylie Jenner V Nicki Minaj! Whose Haloween Costume Is Hotter? by mzjayne(f): 12:36pm On Nov 01, 2015
Kylie's costume smiley
WebmastersRe: Top 25 People On Nairaland This 2015 by mzjayne(f): 7:09pm On Oct 20, 2015
Can't stop laughing at this list grin...

Christianity EtcRe: When Prayer Is Hard: 10 Bible Verses To Help You Talk To God by mzjayne(f): 4:33pm On Oct 18, 2015
Nice smiley
RomanceRe: Irritating Things Nigerian Guys Do That Turn Ladies Off by mzjayne(f): 3:13pm On Oct 17, 2015
Soo funny grin

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