Cousin9999:


Okay, I don't want to offend you, or come across as though that's my goal. Nothing but respect. Here's what your response brings to mind:

1.) I wonder how you were raised and how much love you have for your own people. I wonder if you're the type of person that constantly has negative things to say about your own people, and if you believe the propaganda that comes from whites. I wonder if you understand how people engineer certain conditions, or if you even accept that as possible.

2.) We can separate the norm from what is not. What you described is not the norm.

The people you described likely come from an environment full of dysfunction and trauma. That environment literally turns normal people into sociopaths. How? By disrupting normal biological and psychological development. By establishing the capacity to view/experience/execute abnormality as normal. By "breaking" things biologically and psychologically. You can actually describe in detail how this happens.

The nonblacks I describe think and behave this way regardless of the conditions they were born into. It is their norm.

I went to school with whites from a small age to graduate school. I have worked with them. I have been in many situations where I have been the only black person. I am still here standing. What of Shanquella Robinson that was killed by her friends in Mexico? You are more likely to be killed by a fellow black person than a white person.

Cousin9999:
I don't think black people truly understand that only black people possess the humanity and mental capacity to relate normally to other human beings. This doesn't present a problem for us. Even something like Yoruba vs Igbo, or gang violence could never compare to how nonblacks think.

Nonblacks don't think normally like we do. They don't.

Most black people just assume that these people think normally because they see them do/achieve/live in a way that suggests it. But that's just the surface. And mind you, they only have what they do from constant destruction, theft, oppression, deception, and etc.

They also hide who they really are from media and certain company. And they stay "on code" about hiding that. Most of you will probably never see a glimpse of who they really are.

They literally believe things that you would think impossible for anyone who is educated, lives in a developed country, and has spent generations in a developed, urban environment. There's something very, very wrong with them. There's no other way to describe it but mental illness or sociopathy or some other lack of normal biological function. These people even try to defend their behavior by saying "Well, we're all animals." Think about that. When have you ever thought to defend your behavior by claiming similarity to animals? Who even thinks in that way? That's not something that comes from a healthy mind.

What of the girl who was recently pushed into a pot of frying pepper and tomatoes by her "friends"? Were they not black?

Rexymania:
This story does not look real to me. How can ou travel with someone that is giving you cold treatment...as in is that even possible? Wtf? Na greed be that? Where's her family members?

The same thing happened to a woman in the US named Shanquella Robinson. If you have friends that are keeping malice with you, avoid being alone with them. It's even better to avoid them completely.

The pastor is right. This is exactly how cognitive behavioral therapy is done to stop certain behaviors. Kudos to the pastor!

Nigerians need jobs. Imagine an adult going to engage in such behavior. You know that person has no life goals and no good source of income. This is sad.

I implore anyone who is thinking of taking a second and third wife, to first focus on their community. The money spent on women could be used to better your environment and way of life. When will Africans care about their well being as a whole? It may never happen, but someone has to speak about this at every opportunity. Africans lack a form of intelligence that is needed to further society, but I truly believe it's due to selfishness and not lack of brain cells.

I wish Nigerians would focus on the progress of society. There are so many social ills that need addressing. Nigerians are not smart.

The truth is that 2 wives, should have separate homes. Polygamy is not to be taken likely. A man who wants to engage in such, should be able to afford to provide for both wives fully, lest someone's child is "accidently" poisoned. I wouldn't give myself high blood pressure, but to each his own.

A lot of Nigerian men hate their blackness, so they hate women who have dark complexion. Me I love black women. Black is beautiful. Natural is beautiful. No bleaching or makeup is the best. However, culturally the devil you know is also best.

What about hippopotamus?

Be sure there are at least 2 lesbians among them. There no such thing as a peaceful polygamous home withouth it.

Trust that a woman who truly loves her husband, cannot do this with a smile. Likely she is tired of the guy, but still wants his money. In such cases, women are happy to add a second wife, so they can have more free time for themselves.

nairalee:
This lady got a good heart

She may have a good heart, but there is a key element missing from this story. They are Americans and he likely received a huge financial settlement from the accident. His legal guardian has all power and authority over those funds.

There was a warning shot fired. He said his ex boss could sleep with "ANYTHING". This includes the likes of Bobrisky. The drummer is approaching little by little.

Tell him that the fact he asked is truly a gift. Although your needs are many, anything he contributes would be greatly appreciated. That nothing is too small.

Black is beautiful. There is nothing that compares to a black beautiful woman. Although I am not discriminating, light skin ages quickly and makes me think of mami wata.

When trying to follow Western culture, examine what you are following. They should have written their own vows and informed the pastor ahead of time. This is what people do mostly in the US and UK, if they do not like those standard vows. It's not a must that you say for better for worse, but it should not come as a surprise on the day of the wedding either

Many American, Asian, German, Swedish, Italian and other women are not seeking children. The truth is that women of the past, only had children to hold men. They used children to survive. Now that women can cater for themselves, they see children as a burden. Most Nigerian celebrity women have only ONE child to fulfill all righteousness. I honestly don't think most women care for marriage either. Many only do it for financial well being. Once the stigma of being unmarried is gone in Nigeria, I wonder what will happen.

There is no article that says the man ate a leg, because he did not. From what I have read on legitimate American news sites, the man is 27 years. He appears to be a homeless drug addict. He is being charged with a misdemeanor. He will likely be discharged to a psychiatric center for treatment.

Sadly doctors are doing the right thing by refusing treatment without payment.

Let us see evidences of his paid salary. Also I can understand taking passports while out of the country. However the drummer alleged that passports were not returned upon arrival in Nigeria.

youngrichnigga:
There has to be a sort of scent/odour (musky etc) not necessarily a pungent one that most of the girls have.
Just be sure that your nose is able to perceive odours/scent and not blocked or something

You are telling me about women? Ha! American women do not have such an odor, because they tidy up down there. The muskiness is from sweat and not cleaning the area. This is why fat women have to take extra care in maintaining the area. Sometimes its incontinence (urine spilling). American men do not tolerate much odor, nor do they like a lot hair in that area. It's a big turn off from what I hear. It's only poverty that is making you think this is normal. Try 10 American women black or white, then compare to Nigerian women.

Yes it means you have a clean and hygienic babe. In America, the women are mostly odorless, because the women are clean and they go to the doctor to treat infections. Most Americans cannot tolerate foul odors. Any strange odors will cause a woman to be advised for a resolution, because it is a sign of a medical condition or poor hygiene. American women will hardly be "musky", because they know to clean the area throughout the day or use moisture absorbers to keep such at bay. In Nigeria, many women and men don't know such things or don't have the time.

Send the kids and wife away to family. Continue to work for a week then tell him, you are travelling to see them. Give him the option to stay in your place or find new accommodation. A lazy person will say they will stay. Turn off your phone. Hire some local guys to give him the beating of his life in the middle of the night. Have them say they will return each day for their pay, because they hear he has plenty money. At this point, the guy will be calling your phone. Make sure your phone is off. No one will need to tell him to leave. Within 3 days or less, he will be gone. Call him a week later to ask why he left.

It also sounds like he left her in her time of need. According to the article, Folorunsho is unwell and her husband has abandoned her. This is very sad.

A rich woman has no use for a broke man. The reason is that a man (mostly African and black) can never be happy under a woman's control. The woman does not respect him. The man will only cheat with other women, while using his wife's money. It's better for a rich woman to marry a rich man or have male friends.

There will never be proper health checks or autopsies to determine the cause of death. Nigerian and African ignorance, is very tiring.

This is a business deal on both ends. You both used each other. You need to compensate her financially, if you decide to follow this through. Don't just use and dump someone. If you choose to do traditional marriage and get your papers, be ready to buy her a house or something of substantial value before you leave. Ultimately leaving her is the best choice, because neither of you love one another. Don't stay in a miserable and unhappy marriage because you will regret it. However, give her something substantial to offset what you have done.

I firmly believe that someone from the TLC network and 90 day fiance show helped Michael flee from Angela. Someone on that show likely gave him the burner phone, so that he could make contact. Someone from that show likely picked him up from that small town and is now housing him. My brother was patient and played the long game. Many will say he scammed Angela. However, in this case he deserves grace. He really endured. America will not disappoint him.

UAObi:
A carton of Super Pack now is N18,000 wholesale price. 40pieces in a carton.

Our mumu no too much?

It's actually very expensive for Nigeria. The same amount in the US is about N26,000. Something is not balanced. Based on income of the average Nigerian, the price should be considerably less.

Although this particular story might be fake, I know of situations like this. The truth is that some people like being abused. They get aroused by it. Most of the time it is because they grew up in abusive homes and this is their comfort place mentally and emotionally. Leave him to his young bride. The more she abuses him, the more he loves her.

Is heaven ranking importance by wealth? What is the standard mourning time for those making 80K monthly? Nigerians need help.