This is why many people do not visit home. It's not that they cant find the money for a ticket. It's the entitlement mentality and poverty mindset that keeps them away.

OneCandleAway:


I heard they let them go free eventually. They forgave them. That's what David's dad said they should do.

I pray that this is true.

I don't remember any followup about the Nanny and Chef after they were arrested in the case of Davido and Chioma's son. Were these people vindicated of any crime or are they still sitting in jail yet to be charged? We all know that money determines many things in Nigeria and that justice is not often afforded to the poor. I wonder if gistlover followed up on their case to know their outcome.

I don't remember any followup about the Nanny and Chef after they were arrested in the case of Davido and Chioma's son. Were these people vindicated of any crime or are they still sitting in jail yet to be charged? We all know that money determines many things in Nigeria and that justice is not often afforded to the poor. I wonder if gistlover followed up on their case to know their outcome.

For the ones who keep talking about their forefathers with more than one wife, you are forgetting that your forefathers served a different deity/god. What was pledged to those deities are not what is pledged to Christ. Yul pledged himself as a Catholic to the Christian God and to Jesus Christ. He broke his covenant when he married a second wife.

Although I am not blaming anyone for his child's death, great calamity falls upon those who break covenants with no remorse and their "full chest".

Contact the police and explain the situation. They will likely say it's a civil matter that has to go to court, but in some locales it may be seen as theft by deception. Police is "mostly" your friend in the United States, so you have nothing to fear.

Duck and goose feather comforters and duvets sell for a lot in America.

Married men and women are cheating all over Nigeria. It's nothing new. PASTOR Suleman is a leading man in this national behavior. Most Nigerians are pretenders and liars. If you want to do good, face your family and don't cheat on your wife. One person at a time can change things for everyone.

ogbe88:
U r not well.

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You will understand later in life. This life does not follow a pattern and you should put on another person what you cannot do yourself.

White Soul? White Money? Nigerians have very low self esteem.

eyinjuege:


He could have employed the same maid he had to employ for his mom.
They would both have been in his home- mum and maid
The wife likely refused that option.
Everyone deserves their privacy including OPs wife and even OP himself.
I'm sure he would like to be free in his house with just his immediate family, and no 3rd party like his MIL

Bringing a maid into the home would have caused further confusion in their marriage. The wife would have felt the husband was getting too close to the maid, because of his mother. It would have bred insecurities that were not there before. Having his wife care for his mother would have put a lot of stress on the wife, who was likely caring for young children at that time. By this point in caring for her own mother, his wife would have been like a broke down horse.

Would I personally let her bring her mother into our home, maybe. However if it began to cause stress I would help her find a maid and a place nearby to house her mother.

What he should have done was to rent a place nearby to house the mother and the maid. In that way, he and his family could have visited his mother regularly to make sure she was being well managed. His wife is likely in a better position to care for her own mother due to her children's ages. In addition, it is her mother and she is taking on the responsibility. The husband would not have been in the position of taking care of his mother. It would have always been on the wife to do so, even with a maid helping.

If you had moved your mother in, your wife would have had to care for your mother, not you. Then on top she would have to take care of her mother now. So it would not have been fair to move your mother in unless you were the one fully caring for her. Moving your wife's mother in, is not the same.

If you marry at or below your level, it won't be much of a struggle. If you find a woman in a hut with straw roof, she will be a great wife because you will elevate her level to yours. Don't try to impress any woman with what you don't have, because it will always come back as a problem.

However marriage is not compulsory. Many people in the Western world are moving away from marriage because women want equality. Women are working and providing, so they cannot be fulfilling a traditional role in such circumstances. The key to marriage is HONEST communication and knowing what you want before you jump into. Be TRUTHFUL with your partner so she can understand your desires before marriage.

She needs to be diagnosed properly by a medical professional. If it's fishy, it's likely bacterial vaginosis.

donproject2:


Even 5th world...US that can never do same on their citizen

So you don't know that the US provides "administration costs" to the country from which they are requesting the person? Nigeria is being paid to extradite such people. Nigerians and most Africans can be bought and sold at any time by their own people.

There is no type of evil that does not exist in Nigeria. The hatefulness towards a woman posting her child is on full display in this thread. Nigerians deserve every bit of suffering they receive on a daily basis, because they are generally evil inside and out.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Are you stupid? Why haven’t she been coming on social media to celebrate the so-called birthday? Her son will never replace ifeanyi in davidos life, she should try harder. Men ehn, very easy to manipulate. She should carry him to the next davidos concert so we will know she has a son for him.

There is truly evil in your heart. You're sick in the head. You need to stay away from the internet before you end up in prison. Davido will not even breathe on you once you have been arrested.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO LARISSA'S CHILD!!!

IyaebeTheGreat:
She should get off social media with this stupid manipulation, so it is now she'll be celebrating here son's birthday on social media because what? Is she thinking her son will replace Ifeanyi in Davido's life? Rubbish. She intentionally wanted to trapp Davido with this child but she failed woefully. If you think you can trapp a man who doesn't truly love you with pregnancy, you are deceiving yourself because he'll hardly come around you and that child and no amount of manipulation will make him bow to you and that child. Davido will always love chioma and kids birthed by chioma for him more than any other opportunistic woman out there.

Are you mad?? So she should never celebrate her child because another child died. There is something wrong with you and anyone who thinks like this.

Happy Birthday to Larissa's son!

Nigerians are one and the same. You cannot trust them which is why Nigerians don't trust themselves. Evil is always there.

He has many other kids, I believe up to 9. However he is like Churchill and only praises one at a time. Congratulations to the new born babe.

is Lidl not a grocery store? This story is confusing.

Is this not the same natural cannabis, that is now legal across most of the Western world?

Make sure you put the same information on your previous application from 2012. Of course your reason for traveling will be different but the basic things such as "Are you married?" should be the same. If there is any discrepancy, your visa will surely be denied. The US keeps records of everything and it's computerized. So you can't lie about it.

As with most of these celebrities, they use PR agencies and mouth pieces to fight on their behalf. I'm sure Kemi was paid well to speak as she has been in many other situations.

Churchill has another son as well, that he does not provide for. Tonto is friends with the mother. I highly doubt he is providing for his child in the US, but that does not mean he is on bad terms with the mother of the child. In addition, a gardener of a president can be comfortable and also be a gardener. There is no shame in such employment, unless you want to be more than what you are.

I'm sure Rosey is the one paying Kemi to do this. However it is wise to let it rest. The little children don't deserve all this drama.

She has met many men and some who would have married her. The issue is that she is looking for her spec and she may not be that persons' spec.

Kobojunkie:
1. So in your own head, they are all of them lesbians then? Both the inexperienced SU women who you make your wives knowing fully well they are unable to satisfy you sexually , and the very same women you run to for sexual satisfaction outside of your marriages are all lesbians? Why not abandon women entirely and marry your fellow men in wigs instead?

All women are not lesbians. However if a woman does not want to be intimate with you before and after marriage, you have to ask questions. It means the woman is not attracted to you. It's either because she is not aroused by you or she is not aroused by men. The reasons can be many, but all reasons lead back to those 2 things.

Kobojunkie:
Then why not advice men to marry ashawos who they are sure will give them all the sex they need and more?

You are not wise. Ashawos don't always put out a lot after marriage either. Many are also lesbians, due to the things they have experienced with men in their "business".

Sometimes lesbians marry for financial security and to have children.

Stay away from people's marriages. You will fight on their behalf and a few days later, they will fight you together.

Drugs, Yahoo and prostitution are the top earning jobs in obodo oyibo for Nigerians. If you are working a regular job, just forget the stories.

Would you encourage your sister to marry such a man? Please improve yourself. Expecting someone to enter into hardship because of love is not wise. In fact, I would see the person as foolish. This woman cares about her future and that of her children.