Nothing bad is happening here. The woman does not want the relationship and she followed the legal protocol. The man needs to follow legal protocol and file to stay. Most likely he will be able to stay, because he is not at fault for what took place.

Please keep in mind the man was acting "normal" while medicated. Once he stopped taking his medications, the delusions of witchcraft took over. Unfortunately the seed was planted by his mother and the juju man she pushed him to talk with. The Nigerian culture enlarge pushed him into his beliefs. How many are roaming about in Nigeria with undiagnosed schizophrenia? How many are unmedicated and causing all types of confusion? It's hard to know because pastors and babalawos, also push people to believe that others are the reason for their misfortune.

Most paranoid schizophrenic beliefs are culture based. In the far past, it was mostly religious. Now the prevailing one (in the US) is about politicians abusing kids. The one that seems to have always been around is that someone is watching them (walking by, passing by in a car, cameras, cell phones, internet, etc). If you are around anyone with these thoughts, it's best to distance yourself. Not all of them are harmful, but you don't know the schizophrenics who will kill.


The Nigerians culture is toxic. This is the typical thing told to Nigerians by alfas, herbalists, pastors, juju priests, native doctors and the like.

"Two years before the killing he began to blame her for all his problems, saying she had "sacrificed him as a child and had put a curse on him". He believed that "he was a king and should be rich but the curse prevented this from happening".

BigIyanga:

Better to marry someone who makes some money than a dependent .. no use societal pressure or expectation to keel urself. She brings in her money, you learn how help like cooking and cleaning and you shall live in peace

Any man who believes this, is not a man. A woman can never respect a man who thinks like this. A woman always expects a man to be a man. If you keep believing this way, you are going to cry like a baby in the future.

Please date AT or BELOW your level. Do not go after any woman who you cannot sustain with your salary. It's better to marry from your village or someone slightly less educated, than to get someone that you cannot satisfy. Never look at a woman's salary and think you can pair hers with yours. It's going to lead to trouble. Be wise.

Happy birthday Alex. However I know Maduka is still feeling the pain from the election. I hope you have apologized.

You can't only give people education. Without money and a quality life, ignorance will still abound. Desperation will drive people to seek out strange solutions. Desperation will drive people to commit strange acts. Religion is not bad, but when paired with poverty, it is a dangerous tool.

A Nigerian can never confirm anything for an American. Ned doesn't know those people in that way. Outside of Nigeria, he really is a nobody. Would he tell Steve or anyone else if he caught Regina with a young boy her age? Never.

What I will say is that it's highly unlikely that Marjorie is leaving Steve, due to the amount of money that he has. If she is, it means she has seen a lawyer and can go after a big portion of his fortune.

Once again, this has nothing to do with him getting a certificate. The school knows who he is. The school knows who he is not. Atiku is doing everything he can to expose Tinubu's real age. The only person who remembers Tinubu is now in his 80s, which hints that Tinubu is also in his 80s. We shall see how far it goes.

Truly they are likely already investigating. They do not announce such delicate things, unlike Nigerian authorities who have no sense of discretion. This issue is not only starting to become a matter of national security for the US, but it can also be used as a bargaining tool for the Niger crisis.

It is difficult to get records from an American university. This applies to anyone, no matter their status in life. America values privacy. Because this is now an international issue, the school is going to be very careful about how they proceed and wait for a court decision. Even then, they will be reluctant, because they know the game is a political one. The school may use their own lawyers to fight a court decision to avoid political drama.

It's not that serious. Calm down. Some adults don't learn until they are adults. He is still a small child. He has time.

I'm beginning to suspect a lot of men who say derogatory things about women here on a regular basis. Yes women can be troublesome but a man needs a woman. When you start seeing men shout every day about how much they hate women, be very careful.

I have to say I know how she feels. It's a daily battle for me, but I try to hold on. I pray that she receives some counseling and understand that this life is not set in stone. A big lady like her did not need to marry an ex convict. She has 3 little children who need her more than a big baby criminal. Nigerians need to stop pressuring people to marry, because these days marriage really is not an achievement. I wish her the very best.

She must live in an impoverished area in Houston. The cost of the things listed are almost 30 to 50% more. However security is not a must.

Polygamy has very little benefit in modern times. For the man saying it's due to sex, ask any polygamous man. Once you start sleeping with women, they will all have the same period. You can't even sleep with them separately, because their monthly will synchronize. Polygamy has no benefit unless it is a poor woman who needs a wealthy man.

God bless your family. However I must say I have never seen children as small as this in the United States. Children here are very fleshy from birth until adulthood. A child that thin would be suspected of being starved in the US. This is just to say that I believe people are overfeeding their children in America.

The record cannot be OFFICIALLY contested yet. The woman has to be certified and she is not. Even if she is certified, it won't be recognized until a year from now. Nairaland is doing it's own people a disservice by posting this.

Insanity

tonididdy:
Old cargo… she don dey grow white hair sef

You should pray that God allows you to become old cargo.

Many Indian people "date" before they marry. The arrangement is mainly someone introducing you to several people. Then you finally make your choice after talking and several meetings.

The Arabs, the owner of the religion, are slowly receiving sense. The black man is going backwards with other people's religions.

If he gets a wagon and 4 horses, he could get to his destination quite quickly as well.

Obviously this is not about the record being male or female. Tinubu would not be able to sue if it was a woman who graduated, because he cannot sue on behalf of the woman. In addition, there was a graduation as stated by the university. There is something else about Tinubu's record that Atiku wants to expose. It may not be the record, but something that he submitted when attending the university.

Are they begging you for anything? If not, mind your business unless you see someone doing ritual on the children.

Nigerians cannot be trusted. They will meet together like vultures to determine how to steal everything the company owns, down the electrical wires. The most religious country in the world has the most dishonest people. Yes Dangote should hire some Nigerians, but it cannot be for any vital or important job, unless the person has been raised abroad. It's a sad truth that must be accepted. Davido's new American baby mama said the truth about Nigerians. Nigerians are just pretenders.

50,000 pots of blood sacrifice Africa oh Africa.

Anyone can drown. A grown person can drown in 3 feet of water, let alone 8 feet. When he fell out of the paddle boat was he has any medical emergency? Was he under the influence of drugs or alcohol? Did the boat hit his head when he fell into the water? In addition, he was not alone, as another person was also on a different paddle boat. He should have worn a life jacket, but even then some people still drown. However it was a safety measure he should have taken. Lastly the Obamas do not own that lake. It's near their home.

If you are earning $3,000 a month in Nigeria, do not travel abroad. I am a abroad and I can tell you that there are even some who do not earn that here, on top of the excessive bills. Don't be foolish. Use the money where you are and build your life in Nigeria.

Is this not Yahoo? Why is he using a United State citizen's persona to perpetuate a scam. The whole country is a scam.

In situations like this, the wife and husband should be taught to make bread. It wouldn't be too hard to get the ingredients, no matter how poor they are. Beating someone for this is barbaric.

Music and musical instruments are haram in Islam. However let me stay away from this fight. Davido is living as if he is ready to go.