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Do you find it difficult to apologize sincerely after you have hurt or offended your partner in some way? You are not alone. Making a sincere apology to someone we have hurt is never easy. In fact, apologizing is so difficult for some people that they never make any apologies for their hurtful words or behaviour. Learning how to apologize when we have hurt our partners is a crucial requirement for creating a healthy relationship. Every close relationship between two people is bound to have instances where one person becomes hurt or offended by something the other person said or did, whether or not the hurt was intentional. This does not mean the relationship is in trouble. However, it does mean that the problem caused by the hurtful action needs to be resolved. Making a sincere apology is an essential first step in repairing trust and openness. You should always apologize as quickly as you can after you have said or done something that made your partner feel hurt. When you make your apology, you should mention the specific act for which you are apologizing. This shows your partner that you truly care about any hurt you caused. If you simply say, “Sorry about what I said the other day,” that is a very vague statement that does not really address the problem. Instead, you should tell the other person exactly what you are apologizing for. When you avoid making an apology because it makes you feel uncomfortable, you are putting your own ego needs ahead of your partner, and ahead of the needs of your relationship. On the other hand, when you apologize sincerely for you bad behavior, you show your partner that you care about them and their happiness. A sincere apology shows your partner that you value the relationship and that you want to avoid hurting that person in the future. It is an important step in repairing the relationship so it can move forward. Many of us find it very difficult to apologize to our partners when we have hurt or offended them with our words or deeds. Making a sincere apology when you have hurt your partner is essential if you want to keep your relationship healthy. With a sincere apology, you win back the trust of your partner so the two of you can continue to move forward in your relationship. A good apology can prevent relationship problems

Deciding to marry someone is one of the biggest decisions you will ever make. You want to marry the right person instead of settling for just any man. Here are five traits that you should watch for before deciding to marrying a man. 1. He has anger issues A man with anger issues is one you want to avoid marrying. Even if he has never taken out his anger on you, you have seen what his anger looks like and how it affects others. Don't fool yourself into believing that he will always remain calm with you, because the chances of that are slim. 2. He is bad with his money Some people are savers and some are spenders. Spenders aren't always in debt, but if the man you're dating has a problem with debt or gambling, you should think twice about marrying him. You have to be careful combining your money with that of someone who has financial trouble. He may begin to use your money to support his bad habits. 3. He acts like a teenager Being young at heart is a good thing, but acting like a teenager who sleeps in until noon, plays video games all day and eats nothing but junk food is not the kind of man you want to marry. You want someone who is responsible with his time and his health. A man who lacks ambition might not be at the top of your list of marry-able traits. 4. He is a slob Marrying a slob is not the best idea unless you are ready and willing pick up after him and be the one responsible for all of the house cleaning. It's a bad idea to assume he will suddenly become less of a slob once you're married and sharing a home. If you can't handle that he's messy and won't be of much help, marrying him probably isn't something you want to do. 5. He is self-centered A self-centered man can love you, but will love himself more. Much of your relationship will be about what he wants and keeping him happy. A self-centered person thinks the world revolves around them and aims to keep them happy. When he isn't given his own way, a self-centered person can throw a temper tantrum and even become mean. Marrying a man who has any of the above traits can spell trouble for your relationship. It's important to choose someone who doesn't exhibit negative traits that can impact your life in a bad way.

In a Long-Distance Relationship? Five Things You Can Do to Keep It Growing and Developing!!! *Surviving a long-distance relationship is not enough, much like simply being in a relationship isn't enough. You and your partner have to grow as a couple and as individuals or you're just killing time together instead of actually being in a working relationship. 1. Have an End One of the most important things to have in a long-distance relationship is an end date. The distance must end at some point. As a couple, you must have a plan to come together physically at some point. It doesn't matter whether you plan on living together or just living in the same city. What matters is that you have an idea of when the "long- distance" part of your "long-distance relationship" has an end. Having an endpoint gives you something to work for, something to hope for. Without something to work towards, a long-distance relationship is inherently doomed. 2. Have a Visitation Schedule A long-distance relationship does not have to be totally bereft of physical contact, nor should it be if at all possible. Talk about it and plan alternating visits that are financially feasible. It is important that you alternate visits whenever possible. Travel isn't fun for everyone and it can feel unfair if it looks like only one person is making an effort. 3. Communicate There are plenty of ways to communicate with your significant other. Gone are the days of waiting three months to exchange letters to talk about things that are probably no longer relevant. Now you can talk about your bad day to your significant other that same day. If you both set aside the time and make an effort, you can at least keep the mental and emotional connection alive despite the distance. Talk about when you can talk to each other. Take your daily schedules and different time zones, if applicable, into account. Try to talk about this before the move happens so you have a plan to work with once you're apart. 4. Make a Commitment A long-distance relationship is fraught with peril, most of which comes from doubt and distrust. Doubt and distrust are deadly enough to a standard relationship, but add distance to the factor and they may as well be a death sentence. You might not be able to prevent it all - and depending on your specific circumstance, nothing might - but you can try and prepare for it. Let each other know just how committed you are to the relationship. You need to know what your partner expects from the relationship. Be open and don't be afraid to say what you feel. The sooner you know where you both stand, the sooner you can figure out what to do about it. 5. Keep Calm, Have Things to Do Long-distance relationships are painful and it can be easy to let all that pain and physical emptiness get to your head. Do whatever it takes to keep from losing your mind, as it won't help. It might even make the other person feel guilty, if they're the one who moved away. You're both apart from each other. It hurts them too. People in long-distance relationships tend to have a lot of free time. Try out new hobbies. Take up some classes and learn something new. Not only will it help grow you as a person, but it'll give you lots of neat things to talk about during your weekly chat. A long-distance relationship requires many of the same things that a normal relationship does, and then some. Just remember that merely surviving a long- distance relationship isn't enough. You'll want to have it grow and develop as well.

ahhhhhhh,i do pray that the casualties this time is not much.....boko wahala again,chai!!!!!

she is jess as young nd astonishing as ever.

Good riddings....up NEPA

Twaci:
No food?

dat na sure now,extremely compulsory

If you are locked up in a room for one year,
without coming out, which among this will you
ask them to leave you with?
1. Your lover
2. Bible
3. Laptop
4. Newspaper
5. Father
6. Mother
7. Computer game
8. Money
9. Your handset
Note:
Remember that you can only choose one.

fuckshit:
really? do you fυςking mean straight to the fυςking point by fυςking saying “bitçh you're fυςking hot & you've got a fυςking great aşş; I just wanna take you home & fυςk that hot juicy puşşy of yours

those who do that players/gamers get dat swag not lovers

jumper524:
O.p is lyk u just succesfully rons 1 babe abi nd u tink say u don smart

nah,i still dy work on theories.

marshalcarter:
Stupid meaningless brainless useless post

abeg oh,talk your own or better still post your own,na type of una dy buy mb just to read and make no positive replies.

Getting it straight is by hitting the nail on the head,telling her your intentions and await her response,no need for you to go and read a whole dictionary,poems or songs,just be yourself nd natural

A romantic man knows what to say to a woman
to get her attention, you don't need to say
every word that comes to your mouth simply
because you want to impress a woman. It is
not by English please for those guys who think
speacking one rubbish which they don't even
know the meaning will make a girl fall go and
learn from the masters. When you meet a real
man, you will just know, they don't need to
talk much to get much all they simply do is
they just go stright to the point.

THE LUCKY GUY 18+
My wonderful girlfriend and I had been dating
4 over a year and so we decided to get
married.
There was only one little thing bothering
me...It was her beautiful younger sister. My
prospective 21 year old sister-in-law, always
wore very tight miniskirts, and often times was
bra-less.
She would regularly bend down when she was
near me,and I always got more than a nice
view.
One day her little sis called and asked me to
come
over to check the wedding invitations. She was
alone when I arrived,and she whispered to me
that she had feelings and desires for me that
she couldn't overcome.
She told me that she wanted me just once b4 I
get married and commit my life to her sister.
Well, I was in total shock, and couldn't say a
word.
She said, I'm going upstairs to my room, and
if u
want one last wild fling, just come up and get
me. I
was stunned and frozen in shock as I watched
her go upstairs. I stood there for a moment,
then turned and headed straight to the front
door.
I opened the door, and headed straight
towards my
car. Behold, my future family were standing
outside, all clapping!. With tears in his eyes,
my father-in-law hugged me and said "We are
very
happy that you have passed our little test.
We couldn't ask for a better man for our
daughter
Welcome to the family!".
I smiled and heaved a sigh of relief because I
was
actually heading to my car to get my condoms
...NA GOD SAVE ME O!

Dear white men,
You asked us to wear coats under
hot sun,
we did.
You said we should speak your
language,
we have obediently ignored ours.
You asked us to always tie a rope
around our necks
like goats, we have obeyed without
questioning.
You asked our ladies to wear dead
people's
hair instead of the natural hair God
gave to them,
they have obeyed.
You said we should marry just one
woman in the
midst of plenty black angels, we
reluctantly agreed.
You said our decent girls should wear
catapults instead of the conventional
pants, they
have obeyed.
You asked us to use rubber in order
to
control our birth rate, we agreed.
Now You want our MEN to sleep
with fellow
MEN & WOMEN with fellow WOMEN
so that
God would punish us like Sodom and
Gomorrah?
White folk,
we say Nonsense!!
We don't agree with You this time!
Proudly African,
we say a huge NO to GAY
relationships and
LESBIAN.
If You say NO to HOMOSEXUALS &
LESBIANS type
NO!!

Dear white men,
You asked us to wear coats under
hot sun,
we did.
You said we should speak your
language,
we have obediently ignored ours.
You asked us to always tie a rope
around our necks
like goats, we have obeyed without
questioning.
You asked our ladies to wear dead
people's
hair instead of the natural hair God
gave to them,
they have obeyed.
You said we should marry just one
woman in the
midst of plenty black angels, we
reluctantly agreed.
You said our decent girls should wear
catapults instead of the conventional
pants, they
have obeyed.
You asked us to use rubber in order
to
control our birth rate, we agreed.
Now You want our MEN to sleep
with fellow
MEN & WOMEN with fellow WOMEN
so that
God would punish us like Sodom and
Gomorrah?
White folk,
we say Nonsense!!
We don't agree with You this time!
Proudly African,
we say a huge NO to GAY
relationships and
LESBIAN.
If You say NO to HOMOSEXUALS &
LESBIANS type
NO!!

Is this change that the party is after?? 9bñ jess for some knuckle heads....haba,why not invest it in the nation building,dem bin dy sleep for huts neh? don't they have their own means of income before now please lets be wise

Princessonelove:
OP Bro, please can you type this again in English

How can i,beeing addicted to
having female friends,conceive evil thoughts
at an instance with a girl on sight, and
always gets excited when are around,avoid
this and stop this act? please i need your advice on this.
Hope you have gotten my question ma

How can a guy who is addicted to
having female friends,feels calm with a girl around,conceive evil thoughts
at an instance with a girl on sight, and
always gets excited when they are around,avoid
them and get off this act....please your
contributions are of great value,thanks.

sorry to have used this link to get to you,but am yet to receive your mail,thanks