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|Romance / Re: Have You Fallen Inlove Before With Someone, You Cant Have by Nancee4love: 6:46pm On Aug 03, 2021|
swarley75:Nope I am not lusting after her. I am genuinely interested in her and would like to wife her. She has told me alot about s relationship and her concerns. But sleeping with her is not on my mind and it won't happen
|Family / Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nancee4love: 11:55pm On Jul 28, 2021|
Rozcol:I still pity that man you are engaged to. Your mindset is wack and u are. Ot ready for marriage go fix yourself please and let that young man go. A woman who loves her man supports him.
I can't call you a wife material sis to be honest you don't measure up to the yardstick.
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|Family / Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nancee4love: 6:23pm On Jul 28, 2021|
Rozcol:May God deliver my brothers from ur type
Ur mindset is disgusting very bad a d crude, you are not matured for marriage and a disaster to any man who gets engaged to u with this kind of mindset
Better Don't marry please before you jeopardize the life of another man's son
What is marriage? Covenant partnership. A Partner is a supporter in their partnership, they may not have equal share but each partner had a share of responsibility to the agreement of partnership. Guyz run from a lady who does not see marriage from the angle and perspective of partnership that lady is not your wife. A woman who truly loves you supports you. My dad went dead broke and it was my mum who helped raised him back to life with no insult but still gave him his maximum respect during the darkest moment of his life, she made home comfortable and marriage easy for him till he bounced back. My father is late but all his properties after he bounced back was willed to my mum and us the children.
Goossh you are a disgrace to us women responsible women. Please go fix yourself before marriage. Guyz shine your eyes please we still have good women or ladies out their. I will never marry a man I can't support. It's not about it's my choice to support him or not it's my responsibility to support him. 2 have become one. You see this kind of mindset this lady has is toxic. As an adult do u know it's your responsibility to take care of yourself, keep waiting for a man to do that. May God not allow my brothers to encounter ur type.
Op pick up urself and move you met and plunged the wrong flower.
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|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 7:49pm On Jul 21, 2021|
skillmyman:Trust me he is not stingy, or a bad person neither is he a striker. He loves God genuinely. I have gone to his house on several occasions to see if I will meet a girl there surprisingly I have not met any.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 7:16pm On Jul 21, 2021|
Agbebakun22:Thank you for this, sure our wedding will be louded here. He kissed me like peck oo on Sala
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 9:37am On Jul 20, 2021|
Moz22:We do exit na, do you know how many disappointments I have been through. It's all about meeting the right person you connect with.
I am not hear to tell u if the story is true.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 7:10pm On Jul 19, 2021|
2goodbobo:Thank you very much sir, I appreciate you. I much more of a better woman with him. Like I said he is a keeper, hmmm that guy has tolerated and accomodated my own bulshit as well. But I love his maturity sincerely, his approach to things amazes me. My ex has slapped me 3times cause of my excesses you know we ladies na, but this my church guy with talk and patience was able to talk me into putting my life in order cos I am no longer a baby. I saw myself getting more mature and behaving more matured with him and yet he has never demanded for money or sex.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 7:02pm On Jul 19, 2021|
Kenturkey048:Lol thanks for the compliment I am greatful. And amen to your prayers. May God lead you to ur own love.
I appreciate my church guy more for him believing in me despite what I told him about myself and was also patient to see me grow.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:52pm On Jul 19, 2021|
UPDATE UPDATE HERE...
Thank you all for you candid advice and i hid to some and i took the bull by the horn and i asked him who am i to him after all he had said to me. He looked into my eyes and said to me i am special in his eyes and that our friendship has gone beyond friendship, that he was actually going through the healing process and he planned to ask me out on my birthday to be his girlfriend and ultimately be his wife. He explained all his plans to me and asked me if i will stand by him and support him, and that i should promise him i wont let him down.
He told me that their is only one guaranty he will give me in this life and that is God in ur future we are secure together. He may not have it all now but he said it with confidence that he can never be a failure and never be poor in this life. But we have to start from somewhere.
He went to his wardrobe and brought out a gift he bought for me and handed it over to me. It was a perfume.
Tears came out from my eyes and i told him Kay i love you, and i will always love. I left his house by 9pm last night me that use to take bolt always found myself hopping on ogada, because that was what could get last night because of time. Who cares the guy i loved has already voiced out his intentions and plans towards me.
Thank you people i am grateful sure our wedding pictures will be posted here by his grace. I am moving away from my friends and getting new friends, i have not even told my mom yet about this development, same with my aunt. I have to rush here and say it.
Just keep us in prayers. Kay i love you and i will always love you.
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|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:38pm On Jul 19, 2021|
Truvelisback:Thank you very much i am careful but dont think he will mess up. He has amazing qualities.
He was able to look beyond my past and let me know that if God does not condemn me who is he to condemn.
My girl friends are 30, 33, 35 i am the youngest among them. I think i will just move away from them, they are just busy having sex up and down with different guyz no marriage in their mind. That even if they must marry they wont settle for less. A rich mulacious guy is their prayer.
On the flip side my church guy made me to realize that going about having sex is not the way out and beside i might be affecting myself without knowing. Its been 18months now since i met him i have not been with any man sexually, its weird though but i can see his influence on my life.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 12:05pm On Jul 19, 2021|
Truvelisback:Smiles i am just saying it as it went last night. Honestly i feel for this guy... He has been through alot. I am willing to stand by him and build with him.
I already sent him an sms this morning that he is special to my heart.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:46am On Jul 19, 2021|
UPDATE UPDATE HERE......
Sorry i slept off last night was tired and thinking about all that happened last nigh at his place
Ok let me continue.
The incident that led to his siblings attacking him even though he is the last born of the family were 2 things the church girl he was supposed to marry and the money he borrowed from the family to bounce back.
Yes he said to me that all preparation for marriage was on and the his family had already committed themselves financially before the sad incident happened and his family members began to attacking him saying all manners of things that he is not responsible at his age, he was not sure of himself before telling them to commit to a marriage process after making them to waste money. He really felt bad couple with what the church girl told him we almost went into depression,. He has 2 sisters and they were the ones who stood by him and started supporting him financially.
He had to pick the piece of his life and move on, no job, no money, no investment because the last job he was doing in 2015/2016 was a German contract and because of dollar policy and Buhari led administration the contract was withdrawn and they were sacked he was earning 25k then as a graduate and was using 12k as tfare.
it was during MMM that he made the 2.4m he told me he was sincere, i never condemned him, and his friends led him into some investment that he lost all coupled with his girlfriend pressure. They started dating d from 2016-2018 and she left him when he became broke it was 2018 they were in premarital counselling and planning intro.
At this point tears were already in my eyes, like this guy has gone through alot. fast-forward to 2019 he had to pick a job in school were he was collecting 20k monthly and he was still hassling to get new job and working on himself with the help of his sisters financially, non from his brothers.
So like i said his family were in the north they eventually came down to Abuja and the said uncle maltreated them so bad before God opened a door for their father and mom and they started a business that was booming and the father quickly got some lands, but the brothers ruined the business and he was the one attacking them telling them their habit towards the business was bad and eventually everything was totally lost.
He was able to convince his sister to sell one of the land so as for him to use the money in business and bounce back, because he was not getting younger and the 20k salary was not even enough for him talk less of starting a family with it. The elder sister oblige and the land was sold and the money pass through his account he remitted all the money to the elder sister except that he took 300k out of the 1.6m the land was sold. He begged the elder sister not to tell the brothers, that he will refund the money but the money was lost in business again and the brothers got to know and it caused rift between them even the more. The present job he has he got it in 2020 and he has used the money so far for one yr to pay off the debt of 300k to his family. He is building his life from 2021 and it was his elder sister that even gave him money to register the company. I was truly emotional at this point as this guy told me the whole truth, he told me he is not bitter against his brother that he is a Christian and has forgiven them for all they said and did to him
TO BE CONTINUED..... at work
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 10:48am On Jul 19, 2021|
lordally:Honestly i am seeing the rare Gem in Him actually now more and more
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 9:19pm On Jul 18, 2021|
Enginiaman1:Please respectfully this not ideal.. people go through stuff and what I am saying here is serious matter if you don't have anything to say kindly keep mute or move on.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 9:17pm On Jul 18, 2021|
1. What my Pastors wife told me.
Hmmm Kai. My pastors wife told me things this guy never told me in 18months. Maybe because he feels that he has not known me enough to voice out.
She said he has been with them for over 9yrs and stayed with them for 3yrs in family house before he moved to his own apartment.
She said he is not in any relationship for now that all his relationships did not work out majorly because of sex and money. That he had dated some couple of girls in church but did not work out. Actually 2 ladies. The first one tore his heart apart and wrecked him financially. She said they were both in relationship with this church girl, he sponsored her to school, sent her on a skill acquisition program. They were already in premarital counseling both families were involved and preparation were going on for intro and traditional marriage.
Before the the girl went and got pregnant for another guy, she the girl told him no sex relationship not knowing she was having sex with another guy which resulted into pregnancy because the guy had money the girl is just greedy and ungrateful said my pastors wife. Because if this girl my church guy lost about 2.4m due to pressure she was putting the guy financially. The relationship has to end and it created another drama in the family that I will talk about.
She told me that d guy is an orphan and has been fending for himself for years and does not have entitlement mentality even though he has brothers who can help him. Everything he has today came by favour and labour.
My pastors wife Said the guy is a very nice and calm person that he is the only one they can trust in the church. He has never betrayed them in 9yrs, others have betrayed them but he has not.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 8:57pm On Jul 18, 2021|
UPDATE UPDATE... HERE
Kia this stuff is complex more than I know. Today after service we had unit meeting since were in the same unit with my church guy. We saw and I told him I wanted to see him after church. He gave me listening ears and we talked briefly and smiled.
Later I went to talk with our pastors wife she is fond of me too I just used style to ask her questions about this my church guy, many things I don't know started coming out oooo.
I already told him I am coming over to see him. He said no problem.
What my Pastors wife told are deep and what he told me too are deep tears could not stop coming out of my eyes. I will say it here as it is.
1.I will start with that of my pastor
2. My guy family
3. His experiences
To be continued
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:59pm On Jul 18, 2021|
Executer:I said he told me and also I stumbled on his employment offer letter one time I was looking for something for him in his wardrobe. So it made me know that this guy is a sincere person. He did not tell me his salary range he went straight to the point 80,000 naira and I verified it through the employment offer letter
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:41pm On Jul 18, 2021|
Agbebakun22:Na, I can't post my picture at all. A lot of people know me in Abuja because of my type of person Job. I come in contact with many influential people and bloggers won't make money from my head. I am using my second name Nancee which most people don't know when this whole thing is over and marriage is in view sure I will come back here to show case us.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:26pm On Jul 18, 2021|
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He likes you I am sure of it but he's not sure as to what has happened to him in the past due to his financial nature and his exes dumping him, has he been to ur house and sees how large you live, he might feel intimidated and him asking you out might say no and make him feel dejected. I advise to help him build his live and dream if you find him to be a very cool guy since 18months. Ask him about his intentions towards you and you are ready to help him financially or get him a better job. I don't see it as a big deal. My current GF had 2 cars before me, just got my own ride this week and we are both happy. It's not about how far but how well and please stop packing friends they will lead you astray. Never let that guy go and even if he says no check his emotions and look into his eyes but I doubt cos I know he loves you too. God bless sister and have mad sex after abeg. 18 months no be beans. [/quote
Thank you for this, I will be in his place tonight by 5:30pm let's see how it goes. For the sex it won't happen. I had already spoken with my pastors wife today after service for 2hours all this update I will give when I come back from his place.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:17pm On Jul 18, 2021|
Amb1045:Trust me if the other guy is better than him I won't waste time I would be with him. He is just to rude and proud for my liking, yes he has the money but his toxic nature is no no for me. One time he said if a lady do anyhow he will beat her black and blue that a man deserves respect maximum.
For the sex aspect with my church guy, that won't happen na, it won't happen I am also concerned about sex aspect if I will be satisfied but for erection I knows he has erection one tone he hugged me I felt his Dick hard so he is not impotent. But just that his principles are no sex before marriage.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:11pm On Jul 18, 2021|
Makawhizzy:Wow... This is wonderful sir, well I think I will support his vision if he permits me to do so and let's build together
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:08pm On Jul 18, 2021|
pansophist:Thank you this is good.
I will try it. Update coming soon have not gone to his place yet
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 3:28pm On Jul 18, 2021|
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 12:47pm On Jul 18, 2021|
Fiscus105:Nope I won't disrespect him in pls, but I am also working on myself to actually be the best for him through thick and thin, but I truly love
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 12:39pm On Jul 18, 2021|
Elporo:Please show some respect he is not that kind of person who is after sex and sex.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 12:36pm On Jul 18, 2021|
samwash:I am have prayed though I have not heard the voice of God but I have peace a out him.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:50pm On Jul 17, 2021|
2goodbobo:Thank you for this.. I will have conversation with him tomorrow after church, we are in the same unit in church so I will tell him I am coming over to his house later to talk with him, I truly don't want to appear desperate before him and my heart is beating fast what if he say I see u as a friend ... I don't think my legs can carry me out of his house to my house, I may end up crying my eyes out.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:45pm On Jul 17, 2021|
chatinent:The story is true.. very true I have been so so emotional lately not concentrating on my Job. I want to get married before 30yrs next year I will be 29 and I can't marry any guy I have not dated over a yr or atleast a yr. On the scale of preference he stands out except the money aspect trying make him cold feet. He told me of how 4 of his exes humiliated him because of money.
So I figured out it was not character that ended his relationships just that e was constantly meeting the wrong ladies after his little money.
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|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:39pm On Jul 17, 2021|
samwash:Ok I will, thank you. I have been praying though and I have peace about him. Just that I can ask him out or tell him outrightly to marry. We talk almost every day. You don't know how it feels to wait for someone for 18 months despite having rich and Better toasters. Trust me I don't despise him and the salary. He only seems not to be ok settling down with that amount he actually assumes my salary is 50-60k he told me he wants the best for his kids. I am showing him green light just that he can't decode it's 18months now already.
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|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:34pm On Jul 17, 2021|
Kandeed:I earn more than that, 250k is my basic salary. I have other business I do dt bring in another 150-200k steady for me making it almost 450k or 400k monthly
I am truly in an emotional state now I need mature advice.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:31pm On Jul 17, 2021|
Amotolongbo:Please this not a lie I am the person involved, I know his office I stumbled on his employment offer letter.
Please if you don't have much to say kindly keep mute. This is not a lie please I beg u.
|Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:29pm On Jul 17, 2021|
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