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Romance / Re: Have You Fallen Inlove Before With Someone, You Cant Have by Nancee4love: 6:46pm On Aug 03, 2021
swarley75:
oga, go sitdon jor!


It just pure lust, once you nack the girl now your body go come down.
Nope I am not lusting after her. I am genuinely interested in her and would like to wife her. She has told me alot about s relationship and her concerns. But sleeping with her is not on my mind and it won't happen
Family / Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nancee4love: 11:55pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
Mother Theresa well done ooo,you should have asked if I'm already engaged or not and I don't pray to ever meet the likes of your brothers who doesn't know their right from left.If its your choice to suffer with a man what's my own there? and if its my choice not to suffer with any man how e take concern you? The op is a liar and wisdom demands that we read both sides before passing judgement but he succeeded in winning you all to his pity party game.
I still pity that man you are engaged to. Your mindset is wack and u are. Ot ready for marriage go fix yourself please and let that young man go. A woman who loves her man supports him.
I can't call you a wife material sis to be honest you don't measure up to the yardstick.

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Family / Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nancee4love: 6:23pm On Jul 28, 2021
Rozcol:
Please let us hear word and for your information she's right about that number 2,in marriage a man should provide everything and its solely depend on your wife's decision to assist you or not,its not a mandatory task.Women are care givers and not providers, you can't expect a woman to provide and still respect you it usually don't happen that way.She's not hear to say her own side so nobody has the right to condemn her yet. No be Nigerian men again mtchewww
May God deliver my brothers from ur type
Ur mindset is disgusting very bad a d crude, you are not matured for marriage and a disaster to any man who gets engaged to u with this kind of mindset
Better Don't marry please before you jeopardize the life of another man's son
What is marriage? Covenant partnership. A Partner is a supporter in their partnership, they may not have equal share but each partner had a share of responsibility to the agreement of partnership. Guyz run from a lady who does not see marriage from the angle and perspective of partnership that lady is not your wife. A woman who truly loves you supports you. My dad went dead broke and it was my mum who helped raised him back to life with no insult but still gave him his maximum respect during the darkest moment of his life, she made home comfortable and marriage easy for him till he bounced back. My father is late but all his properties after he bounced back was willed to my mum and us the children.
Goossh you are a disgrace to us women responsible women. Please go fix yourself before marriage. Guyz shine your eyes please we still have good women or ladies out their. I will never marry a man I can't support. It's not about it's my choice to support him or not it's my responsibility to support him. 2 have become one. You see this kind of mindset this lady has is toxic. As an adult do u know it's your responsibility to take care of yourself, keep waiting for a man to do that. May God not allow my brothers to encounter ur type.
Op pick up urself and move you met and plunged the wrong flower.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 7:49pm On Jul 21, 2021
skillmyman:
hi,
please give it time, trust God and just appreciate him as a friend.
A lot of things happen in life that we dont have control over.
I think you can discuss businesses with him and also help to get him started in side gigs.
You also need to be humble enough to accept him as he is now.
I initially earned more than my wife when we were dating and i paid her rent then. During that period, the bank she worked was taken over and their salary increased. needless to say my wife started earning more than I did.
Several year later, i also got a bank job and started earning more.

The truth is you just need a good man with great character. Dont be decieved by church goers. with time, their true character comes out.
Be sure he is not a striker, stingy and overly protective.

Like your aunt said, forget your friends, they dont know what life is about.

God be with you
Trust me he is not stingy, or a bad person neither is he a striker. He loves God genuinely. I have gone to his house on several occasions to see if I will meet a girl there surprisingly I have not met any.
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 7:16pm On Jul 21, 2021
Agbebakun22:



I'm happy for you @ Nancy. You're a rare gem. God bless you. In next two to three years trust me that guy Kay will stand up and become the best thing ever happened to u. Never despise humble beginnings. E- money wife never despise poor Emeka then despite rich suitors but today she feel blessed having him and not missing the honey. The guy will give u maximum respect if u build with him. Wish you good luck in your next life chapter.. Invite us for the wedding ceremony ooo
Thank you for this, sure our wedding will be louded here. He kissed me like peck oo on Sala
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 9:37am On Jul 20, 2021
Moz22:
Don't know what to say.. don't wanna believe girls like this still exists. This story can't be true
We do exit na, do you know how many disappointments I have been through. It's all about meeting the right person you connect with.
I am not hear to tell u if the story is true.
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 7:10pm On Jul 19, 2021
2goodbobo:


I am happy for you, now you have closure. Glad you hid to my advise and held the meeting with him. I am convinced that he is the right Man for you.

Make sure your keep to your promise of standing by him in every situation.

Good luck.
Thank you very much sir, I appreciate you. I much more of a better woman with him. Like I said he is a keeper, hmmm that guy has tolerated and accomodated my own bulshit as well. But I love his maturity sincerely, his approach to things amazes me. My ex has slapped me 3times cause of my excesses you know we ladies na, but this my church guy with talk and patience was able to talk me into putting my life in order cos I am no longer a baby. I saw myself getting more mature and behaving more matured with him and yet he has never demanded for money or sex.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 7:02pm On Jul 19, 2021
Kenturkey048:



GoDDDDDDD whennnnnnnn?

When will my own Nancy come byyyyyyy?? God, please bring my Nancy to my life abeg...I want to feel this kinda original love before i die oooh..Follow come kind of love..You know how follow come charger strong and fast. Naso the love go strong.. ....

I done tire for all these Amaka and Karo matters...E be like say na Nancy go sure pass
Ooo?? When will this kinda original love locate this negggarrrr.... grin angry grin grin grin grin grin In adekunle Gold's voice (I want to love ooh, I'm single and searching oooh)...I

Nancee4love you got me glued to my phone. always checking updates.....I love the way you patiently located your destiny...May God prosper your newly found journey. It shall be crowned with glory...

Your kinda babes for naija no reach 10 again...
Lol thanks for the compliment I am greatful. And amen to your prayers. May God lead you to ur own love.
I appreciate my church guy more for him believing in me despite what I told him about myself and was also patient to see me grow.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:52pm On Jul 19, 2021
UPDATE UPDATE HERE...
Thank you all for you candid advice and i hid to some and i took the bull by the horn and i asked him who am i to him after all he had said to me. He looked into my eyes and said to me i am special in his eyes and that our friendship has gone beyond friendship, that he was actually going through the healing process and he planned to ask me out on my birthday to be his girlfriend and ultimately be his wife. He explained all his plans to me and asked me if i will stand by him and support him, and that i should promise him i wont let him down.
He told me that their is only one guaranty he will give me in this life and that is God in ur future we are secure together. He may not have it all now but he said it with confidence that he can never be a failure and never be poor in this life. But we have to start from somewhere.
He went to his wardrobe and brought out a gift he bought for me and handed it over to me. It was a perfume.
Tears came out from my eyes and i told him Kay i love you, and i will always love. I left his house by 9pm last night me that use to take bolt always found myself hopping on ogada, because that was what could get last night because of time. Who cares the guy i loved has already voiced out his intentions and plans towards me.
Thank you people i am grateful sure our wedding pictures will be posted here by his grace. I am moving away from my friends and getting new friends, i have not even told my mom yet about this development, same with my aunt. I have to rush here and say it.
Just keep us in prayers. Kay i love you and i will always love you.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:38pm On Jul 19, 2021
Truvelisback:
Good one. However, be very careful as u are standing by him. Examine him carefully.
Thank you very much i am careful but dont think he will mess up. He has amazing qualities.
He was able to look beyond my past and let me know that if God does not condemn me who is he to condemn.
My girl friends are 30, 33, 35 i am the youngest among them. I think i will just move away from them, they are just busy having sex up and down with different guyz no marriage in their mind. That even if they must marry they wont settle for less. A rich mulacious guy is their prayer.
On the flip side my church guy made me to realize that going about having sex is not the way out and beside i might be affecting myself without knowing. Its been 18months now since i met him i have not been with any man sexually, its weird though but i can see his influence on my life.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 12:05pm On Jul 19, 2021
Truvelisback:
Omo! Ur epistle long Ooo. Are u related to Apostle Paul?
Smiles i am just saying it as it went last night. Honestly i feel for this guy... He has been through alot. I am willing to stand by him and build with him.
I already sent him an sms this morning that he is special to my heart.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:46am On Jul 19, 2021
UPDATE UPDATE HERE......
Sorry i slept off last night was tired and thinking about all that happened last nigh at his place
Ok let me continue.
My guyz family alonejavascript:void(0); has been through alot, he told me that he was the first person in his family to come to Abuja as at the time he finished primary school and his family went broke and father could not afford to train him and some of his siblings to school. SO his mum elder brother asked for him to be sent from the North to Abuja. But his uncle was very wicked and mean to him. He started pushing wheelbarrow to fend for himself and the only thing his uncle did for him was to put him in school. After which he was left alone and this continued even to his Universities days sponsoring himself through school. He graduated from FUT Minna and life started smiling on him and made some millions but the wrong lady or let me say ladies came into his life and he lacked financial intelligence and he lost almost all this money about 2.4 million and the church lady he was dating left him and deliberately got pregnant for another guy when she knew he was broke.

The incident that led to his siblings attacking him even though he is the last born of the family were 2 things the church girl he was supposed to marry and the money he borrowed from the family to bounce back.
Yes he said to me that all preparation for marriage was on and the his family had already committed themselves financially before the sad incident happened and his family members began to attacking him saying all manners of things that he is not responsible at his age, he was not sure of himself before telling them to commit to a marriage process after making them to waste money. He really felt bad couple with what the church girl told him we almost went into depression,. He has 2 sisters and they were the ones who stood by him and started supporting him financially.
He had to pick the piece of his life and move on, no job, no money, no investment because the last job he was doing in 2015/2016 was a German contract and because of dollar policy and Buhari led administration the contract was withdrawn and they were sacked he was earning 25k then as a graduate and was using 12k as tfare.
it was during MMM that he made the 2.4m he told me he was sincere, i never condemned him, and his friends led him into some investment that he lost all coupled with his girlfriend pressure. They started dating d from 2016-2018 and she left him when he became broke it was 2018 they were in premarital counselling and planning intro.
At this point tears were already in my eyes, like this guy has gone through alot. fast-forward to 2019 he had to pick a job in school were he was collecting 20k monthly and he was still hassling to get new job and working on himself with the help of his sisters financially, non from his brothers.
So like i said his family were in the north they eventually came down to Abuja and the said uncle maltreated them so bad before God opened a door for their father and mom and they started a business that was booming and the father quickly got some lands, but the brothers ruined the business and he was the one attacking them telling them their habit towards the business was bad and eventually everything was totally lost.
He was able to convince his sister to sell one of the land so as for him to use the money in business and bounce back, because he was not getting younger and the 20k salary was not even enough for him talk less of starting a family with it. The elder sister oblige and the land was sold and the money pass through his account he remitted all the money to the elder sister except that he took 300k out of the 1.6m the land was sold. He begged the elder sister not to tell the brothers, that he will refund the money but the money was lost in business again and the brothers got to know and it caused rift between them even the more. The present job he has he got it in 2020 and he has used the money so far for one yr to pay off the debt of 300k to his family. He is building his life from 2021 and it was his elder sister that even gave him money to register the company. I was truly emotional at this point as this guy told me the whole truth, he told me he is not bitter against his brother that he is a Christian and has forgiven them for all they said and did to him
TO BE CONTINUED..... at work
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 10:48am On Jul 19, 2021
lordally:


@Nancee4love this guy is a rare gem! No waste time abeg!!! Cos if your friends Sabi this kind person dem go snatch am!!
Honestly i am seeing the rare Gem in Him actually now more and more
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 9:19pm On Jul 18, 2021
Enginiaman1:


Tahhh this person just day catch cruise hare!
Please respectfully this not ideal.. people go through stuff and what I am saying here is serious matter if you don't have anything to say kindly keep mute or move on.
Danke
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 9:17pm On Jul 18, 2021
1. What my Pastors wife told me.
Hmmm Kai. My pastors wife told me things this guy never told me in 18months. Maybe because he feels that he has not known me enough to voice out.
She said he has been with them for over 9yrs and stayed with them for 3yrs in family house before he moved to his own apartment.
She said he is not in any relationship for now that all his relationships did not work out majorly because of sex and money. That he had dated some couple of girls in church but did not work out. Actually 2 ladies. The first one tore his heart apart and wrecked him financially. She said they were both in relationship with this church girl, he sponsored her to school, sent her on a skill acquisition program. They were already in premarital counseling both families were involved and preparation were going on for intro and traditional marriage.
Before the the girl went and got pregnant for another guy, she the girl told him no sex relationship not knowing she was having sex with another guy which resulted into pregnancy because the guy had money the girl is just greedy and ungrateful said my pastors wife. Because if this girl my church guy lost about 2.4m due to pressure she was putting the guy financially. The relationship has to end and it created another drama in the family that I will talk about.
She told me that d guy is an orphan and has been fending for himself for years and does not have entitlement mentality even though he has brothers who can help him. Everything he has today came by favour and labour.
My pastors wife Said the guy is a very nice and calm person that he is the only one they can trust in the church. He has never betrayed them in 9yrs, others have betrayed them but he has not.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 8:57pm On Jul 18, 2021
UPDATE UPDATE... HERE
Kia this stuff is complex more than I know. Today after service we had unit meeting since were in the same unit with my church guy. We saw and I told him I wanted to see him after church. He gave me listening ears and we talked briefly and smiled.
Later I went to talk with our pastors wife she is fond of me too I just used style to ask her questions about this my church guy, many things I don't know started coming out oooo.
I already told him I am coming over to see him. He said no problem.
What my Pastors wife told are deep and what he told me too are deep tears could not stop coming out of my eyes. I will say it here as it is.
1.I will start with that of my pastor
2. My guy family
3. His experiences
To be continued
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:59pm On Jul 18, 2021
Executer:
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I thought you said he told you? Now it's you stumbling on his employment letter?? Continue
I said he told me and also I stumbled on his employment offer letter one time I was looking for something for him in his wardrobe. So it made me know that this guy is a sincere person. He did not tell me his salary range he went straight to the point 80,000 naira and I verified it through the employment offer letter
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:41pm On Jul 18, 2021
Agbebakun22:
A picture go a long for such advise.. Please if you don't mind PM me ur picture to see how beautiful you're since Abuja high caliber men are toasting You..
Na, I can't post my picture at all. A lot of people know me in Abuja because of my type of person Job. I come in contact with many influential people and bloggers won't make money from my head. I am using my second name Nancee which most people don't know when this whole thing is over and marriage is in view sure I will come back here to show case us.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:26pm On Jul 18, 2021
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He likes you I am sure of it but he's not sure as to what has happened to him in the past due to his financial nature and his exes dumping him, has he been to ur house and sees how large you live, he might feel intimidated and him asking you out might say no and make him feel dejected. I advise to help him build his live and dream if you find him to be a very cool guy since 18months. Ask him about his intentions towards you and you are ready to help him financially or get him a better job. I don't see it as a big deal. My current GF had 2 cars before me, just got my own ride this week and we are both happy. It's not about how far but how well and please stop packing friends they will lead you astray. Never let that guy go and even if he says no check his emotions and look into his eyes but I doubt cos I know he loves you too. God bless sister and have mad sex after abeg. 18 months no be beans. [/quote
Thank you for this, I will be in his place tonight by 5:30pm let's see how it goes. For the sex it won't happen. I had already spoken with my pastors wife today after service for 2hours all this update I will give when I come back from his place.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:17pm On Jul 18, 2021
Amb1045:
1. He needs to defined what he want first. Ghost him when he ask you why tell him to defined the friendship
2. Have sex with him after he has defined the relationship. You can't jeorpadise your happiness because of he is caring, people can be deceitful
3. He might be a manipulator playing you emotional games be careful of such men without definition of relationship.
4. The other guy might be better than him, the open one just that he might not have few characters you don't like that doesn't mean he won't make a great father.
5.Don't joke with the feature of your kids because you have small feelings for someone. Feelings don't last. He might not even be good on bed.
6. Don't let pastors make decisions for you they're humans too. Most when they do, the marriage don't end well.
Trust me if the other guy is better than him I won't waste time I would be with him. He is just to rude and proud for my liking, yes he has the money but his toxic nature is no no for me. One time he said if a lady do anyhow he will beat her black and blue that a man deserves respect maximum.
For the sex aspect with my church guy, that won't happen na, it won't happen I am also concerned about sex aspect if I will be satisfied but for erection I knows he has erection one tone he hugged me I felt his Dick hard so he is not impotent. But just that his principles are no sex before marriage.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:11pm On Jul 18, 2021
Makawhizzy:
Make me just tell you personal experience
I met my wife while I was still hustling so you can’t categorically placed my income as constant. It rises and fall as jobs come in while my wife is a contract staff with a bank but still earns more than me. We tied the knot when our monthly income was barely 100k combined and we stay in a three rooms self contained wing apartment at ojuelegba barracks as at 2016. Less than six months after wedding she got comverted & we moved to the north west as her salary is now 200k while my income had evolved close to 100k. We spent less than two years in the NW and she resigned as the HSSA role is systematically turning to marketing products that an average northerner will never buy and the pressure was just too much plus I can easily make her salary in 2-3 days as at 2018/19.
The fact you started higher than him doesn’t mean you will remain higher over time cox life happens and as long as he has a vision and ready to give all into it with your support no qualms.
To burst your bubbles join I do not see any biggie in my wife earning more than me maybe because during finances in marriage in one of our counseling class we both agreed that we won’t operate a joint account but money made by either of us belongs to both of us so there is nothing like this is my money or this is your money in my home.
Just so you know she had the offer of settling with a cool older guy with a better salary, car and house in bodija before I proposed to her cox we have been friends since 2008 I helped her secure her first house in university but you see today she doesn’t need permission to drive any car she sees in the fleet or make decision on any property.
To buttress it for you my ex married a guy who is also an hustler and she earns far better and has business portfolio in millions managed by my company and she’s supporting her hubby cox he has real vision and he’s doing the work of increasing his own business.
As long as you are sure he’s GOD FEARING wos wos wobi it means you have someone to report him to and he’ll listen when he misbehaves and you are sure he gives you peace, Aunty support his vision and become a shareholder.
Last time we used the term borrow was when I took a 60k loan from her when we were dating and told her look I’m not returning this and I won’t return subsequent ones cox today you are a 50% shareholder in this vision I’m building so if you believe in it madam put your money there.
Selah!!
Wow... This is wonderful sir, well I think I will support his vision if he permits me to do so and let's build together

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 4:08pm On Jul 18, 2021
pansophist:
Young women do not give good advices, they are still at their prime and haven't been in the other side closer to menopause, so they have the tendency to be dumb. Dont listen to your friends. Your aunt and mum are matured, and their advice is solid. His earnings are fluid, it can change tomorrow. So why focus so much on that? He is not even comfortable with his earnings and wants to improve, that should be a good sign. If he snacks all day, and satisfied being a looser, then I'll advice you to avoid him, but he is a good man and focused on improving his income So why not?

If settling for less is financial only, then you're lost. Settling for less should be about his character, contentment, integrity, maturity, honesty, uprightness, altruism and being morally upright. These are lifelong qualities that will take you through thick and thin, not money, besides, he can earn big tomorrow easily. Once again, your friends are dumb, albeit, naively because ironically, they seems to believe their advice is good. How else can you prove to him that you live him for him, if his income is a big deal for you?

So far, its obvious your heart accepts him. And you can't keep waiting. So it's simply a case of choosing your battle. You can't avoid the battle, but at least you have a choice to choose. Instead of waiting for him to ask you out, why not do it yourself? Yea do it yourself. At least you'll know where you stand. If you should move on with your life, or show him that you're OK with his earnings and ready to go through thick and thin with him.

Tell him you find him attractive, it can be via text, or tell someone to tell him. Just make your intention known. You're a lady and time is your worse enemy, don't waste any more time. Something tells me this guy loves you too, and see no reason to rush since he is in for the long term. Usually guys want to sleep with girls they don't see as a keeper, but when they meet the one, they will be at their best behaviour.
Thank you this is good.
I will try it. Update coming soon have not gone to his place yet

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 3:28pm On Jul 18, 2021
AntiSimp:
It's strange for a guy of such age and experience of 30yrs+ to not ask you out, or tries to trick you into sex for 18months despite being close to you, since u say u are pretty. Is he as naive about gals issue? I doubt since he had previous relationship according to you.
Question is, how does he get sex? For the past 18months u can't tell me he dint have sex..just as u grin
Please respectfully he is not like that he is not after sex. We have not had sex and he has been a virgin for 3 decades this he told me not up till 2019.
These are my guess

1. He may have a lady whom he's observing from afar, probably younger than 29

2. He may be fixated on marrying someone younger than 29

3. He might have seen your greenlight and feels u will come too hard on him if he asks u out, so he's probably preventing that, keeping his option open, and facing his financial goals than entangling with u.

4. He may have certain notion or misconception about you, making him not to consider you as a serious option. Yes get him to talk about his notion about you....

Raise questions about wanting an honest opinion from him about what he thinks about her in terms of career, attitude, marriage, taste, and life philosophy, that u are trying to appraise and change certain things abt ursef.

Such open ended question as this is enough to make him vomit everything he feels about u...also observe his body language, tone, excitement and emotions as he talks..make him talk..and listen..urge in on with further questions...u will get many clue. Best place to do this is at a bar after 1 or 2 bottles of beer grin
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5. Get him to talk abt his sex life and sex interests jsut to know how he gets sex...and don't flirt in that moment so he won't think u are trying to seduce him. Just be neutral.
Now my advice for you.
At 29, if u are serious about marriage, don't let ur 250k get into ur head. Be humble..many guys are passing through alot. If u meet a humble one who earns over 70 or 80 or 100..stop stigmatising his pay.. You don't know his history, or how much he had earned in the past. Be humble.
A man focused on his goals and vision is worth more than u can imagine. Stop being shallow.
A man earning 80k above in this current Nigeria of joblessness is not a joke.
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 12:47pm On Jul 18, 2021
Fiscus105:
After your aunt(ur blood) had offered you her candid advise about reality of life, marriage inclusive, why comming to public forum to update us about new supper story series again?

Going by your episode, if I have my way ,I will advise 80k guy to run as fast as he could from you, ......I can see a wife who won't respect her huband after marriage.....
.......I can see a wife whose her friends and other 3rd party will be controlling her marriage from outside.

...............and I can see a marriage that won't last cos wife may abandon the marriage if things refuse to improve on the side of husband.
Nope I won't disrespect him in pls, but I am also working on myself to actually be the best for him through thick and thin, but I truly love
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 12:39pm On Jul 18, 2021
Elporo:


She thinks she's in love with some guy. But dem neva Bleep. Another guy dey wey get moni too..

I think she should Bleep both guys first grin

Who knows ... she might be the type that likes sex... and the one that can go for hrs will win.

I seen it happen.. walahi
Please show some respect he is not that kind of person who is after sex and sex.
Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 12:36pm On Jul 18, 2021
samwash:
I will not advice you, but you already know that you want, you are only looking for options to confuse your self the more.
Remember is only constant thing in life is change, 80k salary is not forever.
Moreover, why not seek God in prayer & ask for His assistance, then also meet someone that is genuine of God to also assist you to pray over it.
I am have prayed though I have not heard the voice of God but I have peace a out him.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:50pm On Jul 17, 2021
2goodbobo:
1. Dont listen to your Friends because samd friends will laugh at you tomorrow if you leave him and settle for Richer Man and get treated badly in marriage tomorrow.

2. He earns 80k today but he can also earn 500k tomorrow. Dont look at the now look at the future. He has the potential to make it

3. True and genuine love in Men is scarce these days amd base on what you said about him i think he is the right Guy for you.

4. I gold digger does not pretend or linger before he shows you his true color of gold digging. 18 Months is enough to show you he does not care about your "Money".

5. Marrying a Man from South South is not a gaurantee for happy Marriage. Dont let nobody decide for you who you will get married to.

6. Have a serious conversation with the Guy and let him tell you what he thinks of you and if he sees a future with you. No time to delay again, 18 Months is enough for him to decide what he wants.

7. Finally, follow your Heart.

I wish you all the best.
Thank you for this.. I will have conversation with him tomorrow after church, we are in the same unit in church so I will tell him I am coming over to his house later to talk with him, I truly don't want to appear desperate before him and my heart is beating fast what if he say I see u as a friend ... I don't think my legs can carry me out of his house to my house, I may end up crying my eyes out.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:45pm On Jul 17, 2021
chatinent:
(Forces cough)

The rat following the lizard to play in the rain will know whose body it will be to dry first.


Btw, God bless that your aunt for me.



Yawns.




Sb that can say innocent God told him sth can say any other thing. I am not surprised.



E fit dey see malaria.


In whatever you are doing in this life, never call demons your friends. Gbu fu asu!



Well, jokes apart, I will give you a real life experience in questions.

Who's gonna need marital happiness, you or your friends?

Are you ready to settle down or is it only sb who you love that's your concern?


Are you ready to be submissive? I don't think so.

Are you ready to mortgage your happiness ..well,..you know..using the caste system?



Tips: If you have found sb good, stop looking for sb better.


That was the reason nkịta hapụrụ ụlọ ya n'oké ọhịa ma soro ụmụ mmadụ. Don't be like the strong hunter who was given a razor to chop down the iroko tree.

Marriage is no trivia matter.

Choose wisely, honey.


...that is if this story is true.
The story is true.. very true I have been so so emotional lately not concentrating on my Job. I want to get married before 30yrs next year I will be 29 and I can't marry any guy I have not dated over a yr or atleast a yr. On the scale of preference he stands out except the money aspect trying make him cold feet. He told me of how 4 of his exes humiliated him because of money.
So I figured out it was not character that ended his relationships just that e was constantly meeting the wrong ladies after his little money.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:39pm On Jul 17, 2021
samwash:
I will not advice you, but you already know that you want, you are only looking for options to confuse your self the more.
Remember is only constant thing in life is change, 80k salary is not forever.
Moreover, why not seek God in prayer & ask for His assistance, then also meet someone that is genuine of God to also assist you to pray over it.
Ok I will, thank you. I have been praying though and I have peace about him. Just that I can ask him out or tell him outrightly to marry. We talk almost every day. You don't know how it feels to wait for someone for 18 months despite having rich and Better toasters. Trust me I don't despise him and the salary. He only seems not to be ok settling down with that amount he actually assumes my salary is 50-60k he told me he wants the best for his kids. I am showing him green light just that he can't decode it's 18months now already.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:34pm On Jul 17, 2021
Kandeed:
So 250k is what you term far richer You see why I keep saying 9ja girls are a bunch of subliterate entity
I earn more than that, 250k is my basic salary. I have other business I do dt bring in another 150-200k steady for me making it almost 450k or 400k monthly
I am truly in an emotional state now I need mature advice.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:31pm On Jul 17, 2021
Amotolongbo:
The usual lie we see often on nairaland, this time about a supposed lady on a salary of 250 thousand Naira crushing on 80 thousand Naira guy who either deliberately hasn’t wooed the lady or shy to do so
Please this not a lie I am the person involved, I know his office I stumbled on his employment offer letter.
Please if you don't have much to say kindly keep mute. This is not a lie please I beg u.

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:29pm On Jul 17, 2021
chatinent:
(Forces cough)

The rat following the lizard to play in the rain will know whose body it will be to dry first.


Btw, God bless that your aunt for me.



Yawns.




Sb that can say innocent God told him sth can say any other thing. I am not surprised.



E fit dey see malaria.


In whatever you are doing in this life, never call demons your friends. Gbu fu asu!



Well, jokes apart, I will give you a real life experience in questions.

Who's gonna need marital happiness, you or your friends?

Are you ready to settle down or is it only sb who you love that's your concern?


Are you ready to be submissive? I don't think so.

Are you ready to mortgage your happiness ..well,..you know..using the caste system?



Tips: If you have found sb good, stop looking for sb better.


That was the reason nkịta hapụrụ ụlọ ya n'oké ọhịa ma soro ụmụ mmadụ. Don't be like the strong hunter who was given a razor to chop down the iroko tree.

Marriage is no trivia matter.

Choose wisely, honey.
Thank you very much, but he is not saying anything to about relationship. I want to get married soon. The last guy I voiced my feelings to took advantage of me and called me desperate. I am been careful here.

...that is if this story is true.

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