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I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:06pm On Jul 17, 2021
I AM INLOVE WITH A GUY I AM FAR RICHER THAN.
I need a candid, serious and matured advice. I am a lady of 28yrs I stay in Abuja and work here. I am from south south in Nigeria. I recently moved to an area in Abuja and was thinking of a church to go so I went to a church closer to my house and I enjoy the service and I met this cute dark handsome guy in the church. Althrough the service my attention was on him, his personality and dress sense attracted me to him. I like slim guyz and tall guys because I am tall. So after service I went home, thinking about him and looking forward to Sunday morning to go to church to see my crush. I love the fact that this guy true loves God. One thing led to another we had to start talking and I fell even deeper inlove with him, he is a graduate and works in an IT Media firm. It's been 18 months now we have been talking and we are so fond of ourselves and absolutely we are catching feelings for each other but he has not said anything about relationship yet. I am super convinced that he has no relationship, I asked our pastor stylishly and he told me the guy is not in any relationship. This guy is a keeper, has character, treats me with uttermost respect and value. The way he looks into my eyes makes me know he has a thing in his heart for me. Note I have been to his house severally, he stays in a single studio apartment while I stay in a flat and still he is not intemidated at all. He has never asked me for money at all and never pushed for sex, and we have not had sex. We buy things for each other occasionally, like he reciprocates and appreciates my efforts.
Recently we were discussing and he Opened up to me that his salary is 80,000 and he is seriously thinking of how he can settle down with that and that's his major source of Income apart from other stuff he does. He has a registered company that he is working on already. I can see him pushing and making all efforts to improve himself. Me on the other side I make 250,000 monthly though I have not told him. I truly love this guy and I want to settle with him but on 80,000 naira income monthly. I was thinking could it be the reason why he has not asked me out yet after 18 months.
I told my girlfriends about it not relating or referring to him, my girlfriends, they said I should not settle for less I should look for a man who earns higher.
Please people here are my concerns.
1. I love this guy but he has not said anything about relationship yet, how do I make him ask me out
2. Am I settling for less with 80,000 as his salary, will he abandon family responsibility to me in the future.
3. Should I tell him how much I earn , will he not take advantage of me
4. Should I move on its been 18months but truly my heart is peaceful with him, we laugh we smile we encourage each other and we build each other.
5. Should I follow my girlfriends advice to look for someone who earns higher.
6. There is a guy who has been on my neck for 9 months now he works in NNPC, DPR has a car and comfort but I see a toxic red flag in him that's making me scared of him, yet he won't give up he is from south south as well
7. I spoke with my aunt and she said to me if she has her way she will make sure I never have contact with my girlfriends who don't understand life and who are not ready for marriage. My aunt told me that she feels the guy in my church is my God ordained husband. My mom also said the same thing that the guy is ok but she would have preferred someone from south south. My church guy is from middle belt
8. Many things are running through my mind I know I love him.
THIS ARE THE QUALITIES I LIKE IN HIM
1. He loves God and genuinely Born again Christian
2. He is sincerely and honest person
3. He is sacrificial and gives me listening ears.
4. He is very mature he seniors me with 6-7 yrs
5. He just a calm person and very organized and visionary
Please help me make the right decision by airing out your opinion.
Right now he is the only not too rich guy in my life who I expect him to ask me out and he has not. Other toaster's are super rich and they are on my neck trust me I am pretty beautiful light skin girl.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Made619(m): 11:07pm On Jul 17, 2021
A man that Sees something prospective about you in terms of marriage won't keep you for 18months without asking you out. I mean it's obvious you get it own wahala for body na y him jus keep u 4 friend zone. forget about all this nonsense catchy feelings u dey yarn...for you to see love and not be able to identify it means u get serious wahala.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Amotolongbo(f): 11:08pm On Jul 17, 2021
Recently we were discussing and he Opened up to me that his salary is 80,000 and he is seriously thinking of how he can settle down with that and that's his major source of Income apart from other stuff he does. He has a registered company that he is working on already. I can see him pushing and making all efforts to improve himself. Me on the other side I make 250,000 monthly though I have not told him. I truly love this guy and I want to settle with him but on 80,000 naira income monthly.
Still baffles how salary earners in Nigeria myopically think they are rich and that will continue till death.

You decided looking only at the 80k salary of this hardworking man and closed your eyes on the company he is working on registering and how you can key into it and invest in it to raise yourself and the man

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jul 17, 2021
Who can summarize the story please?

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by chatinent(m): 11:10pm On Jul 17, 2021
(Forces cough)

The rat following the lizard to play in the rain will know whose body it will be to dry first.


Btw, God bless that your aunt for me.

I am super convinced that he has no relationship

Yawns.


, I asked our pastor stylishly and he told me the guy is not in any relationship.

Sb that can say innocent God told him sth can say any other thing. I am not surprised.

The way he looks into my eyes makes me know he has a thing in his heart for me.

E fit dey see malaria.

I told my girlfriends about it not relating or referring to him, my girlfriends, they said I should not settle for less I should look for a man who earns higher.
In whatever you are doing in this life, never call demons your friends. Gbu fu asu!



Well, jokes apart, I will give you a real life experience in questions.

Who's gonna need marital happiness, you or your friends?

Are you ready to settle down or is it only sb who you love that's your concern?


Are you ready to be submissive? I don't think so.

Are you ready to mortgage your happiness ..well,..you know..using the caste system?



Tips: If you have found sb good, stop looking for sb better.


That was the reason nkịta hapụrụ ụlọ ya n'oké ọhịa ma soro ụmụ mmadụ. Don't be like the strong hunter who was given a razor to chop down the iroko tree.

Marriage is no trivia matter.

Choose wisely, honey.


...that is if this story is true.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Amotolongbo(f): 11:16pm On Jul 17, 2021
Beloved3:
Who can summarize the story please?
The usual lie we see often on nairaland, this time about a supposed lady on a salary of 250 thousand Naira crushing on 80 thousand Naira guy who either deliberately hasn’t wooed the lady or shy to do so

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Kobicove(m): 11:17pm On Jul 17, 2021
You're not richer than him by far with a salary of just 250K, intact you're not even rich at all!

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Ajibade123(m): 11:17pm On Jul 17, 2021
omo Ladies dy try sha man sef dy try
Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Parrie(m): 11:22pm On Jul 17, 2021
That guy has all the qualities that your so call 250k salary cannot buy, i wonder what type of advice you still dey find.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by jollenbaba(m): 11:25pm On Jul 17, 2021
Next elder will give the necessary advice grin
Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Kandeed: 11:26pm On Jul 17, 2021
So 250k is what you term far richer You see why I keep saying 9ja girls are a bunch of subliterate entity

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:29pm On Jul 17, 2021
chatinent:
(Forces cough)

The rat following the lizard to play in the rain will know whose body it will be to dry first.


Btw, God bless that your aunt for me.



Yawns.




Sb that can say innocent God told him sth can say any other thing. I am not surprised.



E fit dey see malaria.


In whatever you are doing in this life, never call demons your friends. Gbu fu asu!



Well, jokes apart, I will give you a real life experience in questions.

Who's gonna need marital happiness, you or your friends?

Are you ready to settle down or is it only sb who you love that's your concern?


Are you ready to be submissive? I don't think so.

Are you ready to mortgage your happiness ..well,..you know..using the caste system?



Tips: If you have found sb good, stop looking for sb better.


That was the reason nkịta hapụrụ ụlọ ya n'oké ọhịa ma soro ụmụ mmadụ. Don't be like the strong hunter who was given a razor to chop down the iroko tree.

Marriage is no trivia matter.

Choose wisely, honey.
Thank you very much, but he is not saying anything to about relationship. I want to get married soon. The last guy I voiced my feelings to took advantage of me and called me desperate. I am been careful here.

...that is if this story is true.
Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by samwash(m): 11:29pm On Jul 17, 2021
I will not advice you, but you already know that you want, you are only looking for options to confuse your self the more.
Remember is only constant thing in life is change, 80k salary is not forever.
Moreover, why not seek God in prayer & ask for His assistance, then also meet someone that is genuine of God to also assist you to pray over it.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:31pm On Jul 17, 2021
Amotolongbo:
The usual lie we see often on nairaland, this time about a supposed lady on a salary of 250 thousand Naira crushing on 80 thousand Naira guy who either deliberately hasn’t wooed the lady or shy to do so
Please this not a lie I am the person involved, I know his office I stumbled on his employment offer letter.
Please if you don't have much to say kindly keep mute. This is not a lie please I beg u.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by chatinent(m): 11:31pm On Jul 17, 2021
[quote author=Nancee4love post=103818391][/quote]

Nice guy go come, relax, no rush thing.

But make sure you kuma no dey wait for perfect sb. Perfect sb no dey.
Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:34pm On Jul 17, 2021
Kandeed:
So 250k is what you term far richer You see why I keep saying 9ja girls are a bunch of subliterate entity
I earn more than that, 250k is my basic salary. I have other business I do dt bring in another 150-200k steady for me making it almost 450k or 400k monthly
I am truly in an emotional state now I need mature advice.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by HolinessForever: 11:36pm On Jul 17, 2021
Have you taken out time in Prayer to seek GOD on His Choice for you ?
That's what you should do First
Nancee4love:
I AM INLOVE WITH A GUY I AM FAR RICHER THAN.
I need a candid, serious and matured advice. I am a lady of 28yrs I stay in Abuja and work here. I am from south south in Nigeria. I recently moved to an area in Abuja and was thinking of a church to go so I went to a church closer to my house and I enjoy the service and I met this cute dark handsome guy in the church. Althrough the service my attention was on him, his personality and dress sense attracted me to him. I like slim guyz and tall guys because I am tall. So after service I went home, thinking about him and looking forward to Sunday morning to go to church to see my crush. I love the fact that this guy true loves God. One thing led to another we had to start talking and I fell even deeper inlove with him, he is a graduate and works in an IT Media firm. It's been 18 months now we have been talking and we are so fond of ourselves and absolutely we are catching feelings for each other but he has not said anything about relationship yet. I am super convinced that he has no relationship, I asked our pastor stylishly and he told me the guy is not in any relationship. This guy is a keeper, has character, treats me with uttermost respect and value. The way he looks into my eyes makes me know he has a thing in his heart for me. Note I have been to his house severally, he stays in a single studio apartment while I stay in a flat and still he is not intemidated at all. He has never asked me for money at all and never pushed for sex, and we have not had sex. We buy things for each other occasionally, like he reciprocates and appreciates my efforts.
Recently we were discussing and he Opened up to me that his salary is 80,000 and he is seriously thinking of how he can settle down with that and that's his major source of Income apart from other stuff he does. He has a registered company that he is working on already. I can see him pushing and making all efforts to improve himself. Me on the other side I make 250,000 monthly though I have not told him. I truly love this guy and I want to settle with him but on 80,000 naira income monthly. I was thinking could it be the reason why he has not asked me out yet after 18 months.
I told my girlfriends about it not relating or referring to him, my girlfriends, they said I should not settle for less I should look for a man who earns higher.
Please people here are my concerns.
1. I love this guy but he has not said anything about relationship yet, how do I make him ask me out
2. Am I settling for less with 80,000 as his salary, will he abandon family responsibility to me in the future.
3. Should I tell him how much I earn , will he not take advantage of me
4. Should I move on its been 18months but truly my heart is peaceful with him, we laugh we smile we encourage each other and we build each other.
5. Should I follow my girlfriends advice to look for someone who earns higher.
6. There is a guy who has been on my neck for 9 months now he works in NNPC, DPR has a car and comfort but I see a toxic red flag in him that's making me scared of him, yet he won't give up he is from south south as well
7. I spoke with my aunt and she said to me if she has her way she will make sure I never have contact with my girlfriends who don't understand life and who are not ready for marriage. My aunt told me that she feels the guy in my church is my God ordained husband. My mom also said the same thing that the guy is ok but she would have preferred someone from south south. My church guy is from middle belt
8. Many things are running through my mind I know I love him.
THIS ARE THE QUALITIES I LIKE IN HIM
1. He loves God and genuinely Born again Christian
2. He is sincerely and honest person
3. He is sacrificial and gives me listening ears.
4. He is very mature he seniors me with 6-7 yrs
5. He just a calm person and very organized and visionary
Please help me make the right decision by airing out your opinion.
Right now he is the only not too rich guy in my life who I expect him to ask me out and he has not. Other toaster's are super rich and they are on my neck trust me I am pretty beautiful light skin girl.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by 2goodbobo(m): 11:37pm On Jul 17, 2021
1. Dont listen to your Friends because samd friends will laugh at you tomorrow if you leave him and settle for Richer Man and get treated badly in marriage tomorrow.

2. He earns 80k today but he can also earn 500k tomorrow. Dont look at the now look at the future. He has the potential to make it

3. True and genuine love in Men is scarce these days amd base on what you said about him i think he is the right Guy for you.

4. I gold digger does not pretend or linger before he shows you his true color of gold digging. 18 Months is enough to show you he does not care about your "Money".

5. Marrying a Man from South South is not a gaurantee for happy Marriage. Dont let nobody decide for you who you will get married to.

6. Have a serious conversation with the Guy and let him tell you what he thinks of you and if he sees a future with you. No time to delay again, 18 Months is enough for him to decide what he wants.

7. Finally, follow your Heart.

I wish you all the best.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:39pm On Jul 17, 2021
samwash:
I will not advice you, but you already know that you want, you are only looking for options to confuse your self the more.
Remember is only constant thing in life is change, 80k salary is not forever.
Moreover, why not seek God in prayer & ask for His assistance, then also meet someone that is genuine of God to also assist you to pray over it.
Ok I will, thank you. I have been praying though and I have peace about him. Just that I can ask him out or tell him outrightly to marry. We talk almost every day. You don't know how it feels to wait for someone for 18 months despite having rich and Better toasters. Trust me I don't despise him and the salary. He only seems not to be ok settling down with that amount he actually assumes my salary is 50-60k he told me he wants the best for his kids. I am showing him green light just that he can't decode it's 18months now already.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:45pm On Jul 17, 2021
chatinent:
(Forces cough)

The rat following the lizard to play in the rain will know whose body it will be to dry first.


Btw, God bless that your aunt for me.



Yawns.




Sb that can say innocent God told him sth can say any other thing. I am not surprised.



E fit dey see malaria.


In whatever you are doing in this life, never call demons your friends. Gbu fu asu!



Well, jokes apart, I will give you a real life experience in questions.

Who's gonna need marital happiness, you or your friends?

Are you ready to settle down or is it only sb who you love that's your concern?


Are you ready to be submissive? I don't think so.

Are you ready to mortgage your happiness ..well,..you know..using the caste system?



Tips: If you have found sb good, stop looking for sb better.


That was the reason nkịta hapụrụ ụlọ ya n'oké ọhịa ma soro ụmụ mmadụ. Don't be like the strong hunter who was given a razor to chop down the iroko tree.

Marriage is no trivia matter.

Choose wisely, honey.


...that is if this story is true.
The story is true.. very true I have been so so emotional lately not concentrating on my Job. I want to get married before 30yrs next year I will be 29 and I can't marry any guy I have not dated over a yr or atleast a yr. On the scale of preference he stands out except the money aspect trying make him cold feet. He told me of how 4 of his exes humiliated him because of money.
So I figured out it was not character that ended his relationships just that e was constantly meeting the wrong ladies after his little money.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nancee4love: 11:50pm On Jul 17, 2021
2goodbobo:
1. Dont listen to your Friends because samd friends will laugh at you tomorrow if you leave him and settle for Richer Man and get treated badly in marriage tomorrow.

2. He earns 80k today but he can also earn 500k tomorrow. Dont look at the now look at the future. He has the potential to make it

3. True and genuine love in Men is scarce these days amd base on what you said about him i think he is the right Guy for you.

4. I gold digger does not pretend or linger before he shows you his true color of gold digging. 18 Months is enough to show you he does not care about your "Money".

5. Marrying a Man from South South is not a gaurantee for happy Marriage. Dont let nobody decide for you who you will get married to.

6. Have a serious conversation with the Guy and let him tell you what he thinks of you and if he sees a future with you. No time to delay again, 18 Months is enough for him to decide what he wants.

7. Finally, follow your Heart.

I wish you all the best.
Thank you for this.. I will have conversation with him tomorrow after church, we are in the same unit in church so I will tell him I am coming over to his house later to talk with him, I truly don't want to appear desperate before him and my heart is beating fast what if he say I see u as a friend ... I don't think my legs can carry me out of his house to my house, I may end up crying my eyes out.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Nobody: 11:50pm On Jul 17, 2021
This mentality of yours ehn, I hope it doesn't make you choose wrongly. You all don't want to settle for less, but you all expect the other gender to settle for the lesser ones amongst you.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Kandeed: 11:56pm On Jul 17, 2021
Nancee4love:

I earn more than that, 250k is my basic salary. I have other business I do dt bring in another 150-200k steady for me making it almost 450k or 400k monthly
I am truly in an emotional state now I need mature advice.

Why on Earth would you even see earning past ur crush or lover an issue?? well the simple advice Is leave him and go dating a guy who earns more. it's simple ya don't need much paragraphs of advices

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by GIdiata(m): 11:58pm On Jul 17, 2021
Amotolongbo:
The usual lie we see often on nairaland, this time about a supposed lady on a salary of 250 thousand Naira crushing on 80 thousand Naira guy who either deliberately hasn’t wooed the lady or shy to do so

this summary is superb bro.
U deserve an accolade

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by samwash(m): 12:03am On Jul 18, 2021
Nancee4love:

Ok I will, thank you. I have been praying though and I have peace about him. Just that I can ask him out or tell him outrightly to marry. We talk almost every day. You don't know how it feels to wait for someone for 18 months despite having rich and Better toasters. Trust me I don't despise him and the salary. He only seems not to be ok settling down with that amount he actually assumes my salary is 50-60k he told me he wants the best for his kids. I am showing him green light just that he can't decode it's 18months now already.

As a guy, many things are going through his mind, not that he is not decoding your signers, he believes marriage come with great responsibilities, he doesn't want to set in in his present situation, or Maybe his mind is not on marriage now, or he just want to be comfortable b4 getting married. One mistake we guys make is to be very comfortable ( especially financially) b4 getting married.
But for 18 months, he should have ask you out joor !! If I may ask watin una dey always discuss? Which kind play be this ? As it's now he is like a veil on you.
Abeg mk I sleep wake up b4 I really talk waytin dey my Belle.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Slimdan360(m): 12:20am On Jul 18, 2021
Nancee4love:

Thank you for this.. I will have conversation with him tomorrow after church, we are in the same unit in church so I will tell him I am coming over to his house later to talk with him, I truly don't want to appear desperate before him and my heart is beating fast what if he say I see u as a friend ... I don't think my legs can carry me out of his house to my house, I may end up crying my eyes out.
Don't tell him shit,there are guys who like to eat their cake and have it, they want to enjoy the girlfriend experience but dodge commitment that comes with relationships,my suggestion is that you ghost him for like a week or two and if he asks you the reason for the distance,you simply tell him to define the relationship you guys have,and don't forget to ghost him permanently if you infer from his answer that you have been placed in the friend zone.
life is not supposed to be hard and I hate it when someone is trying to make it complicated for another

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Pauldollars(m): 12:24am On Jul 18, 2021
You're not ready for marriage yet. That's why you're comparing and contrasting your incomes as a basis for happiness and financial security in marriage. Asking your friends who are also myopic about marital success is also putting you at a disadvantage.
Madam you just need to pray about it first and don't choose someone coz he's a Church guy, tall, slim, dark and listens to you. Do you even know his health status, genotype etc.
Financial security in marriage is important but is not a basis for choosing to marry someone or not especially when the person considered has some means of income.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Elporo(m): 12:32am On Jul 18, 2021
Beloved3:
Who can summarize the story please?

She thinks she's in love with some guy. But dem neva Bleep. Another guy dey wey get moni too..

I think she should Bleep both guys first grin

Who knows ... she might be the type that likes sex... and the one that can go for hrs will win.

I seen it happen.. walahi
Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by bigpicture001: 12:37am On Jul 18, 2021
Babe listen to me very well..that guy u see and is shacking you have a gf. He relocated to abi. Doesn't mean he doesn't have a life before now... For 18months and not wanting to as you out means a lot....he is in dilemma between you and his gf....

His salary isn't an excuse for a guy to go all out for you..he is just delibratrating whether or wether not to break up with his gf....take it easy...don't be too excited..behind almost every almost perfect guy,there is a lady lurking in the dark....

As for his income and ur choice of marriage. If he is ambitious,with ur own income ,he can climb to heavens....that's not a limitation

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Goodlifeonlyy: 12:42am On Jul 18, 2021
I think you should find someone who is richer than you. Reason is that you will respect a guy richer than you than the ones you’re richer than. You’re not in love. This is infatuation and also considering your age.

The said guy will not want to marry you if he knows you earn more and also richer than him, except he wants to use you to escape his present predicament. A man is the head of the house and the pride of his family. Meaning he must be able to provide strong finance and his wife support him with the little she can. This is what make the family strong. In a situation where reverse is the case, the story will change. Yes! it Might work Out but the chances are very slim. Such marriage is bound not to last.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Elporo(m): 12:43am On Jul 18, 2021
Nancee4love:

Please this not a lie I am the person involved, I know his office I stumbled on his employment offer letter.
Please if you don't have much to say kindly keep mute. This is not a lie please I beg u.

I hope you are not interested in this guy because you feel at an advantage financially.

That will be a big mistake. Most men begin to grow financially after marriage especially if the wife earns more.

Masculinity is a very powerful cult. And many losers have been made kings, princes and viziers for no other reason than becoming more powerful than women around him.

In the same vein women have targeted weaker men for marriage... ..

Hope your not interested cos he seems at a disadvantage now... men.. will burn down a village to protect a fellow mans pride.

See baba ijesha case... and others... make sure your hands are clean.

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Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Djtm(m): 1:07am On Jul 18, 2021
The money issue doesn't really matter, in a few months he can be making lots more, amd another person might go from making lots of money to making none at all.

The main issue is you need to be sure he's interested in a relationship with you. If you've been talking for 18 months y'all should have talked about relationships a lot, you should have an idea why he hasn't asked you out yet.

Anyway find out why. Ask him what he thinks about you, ask him why he's not in a relationship. Bring up men that ask you out and watch his reaction. There's some chance that he doesn't see you as his wife and you need to be sure.

The salary issue isn't your problem right now, what you need to know is if there's going to be a romantic relationship between you two or not

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