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Magnoliaa:
Lol...No wholesome purpose...according to? See, it's fine. We'll live our lives and see things based on our persons and do what we want to do and make decisions we want to make. About partners. I speak for myself and say that is not a biggie to me and I don't get insecure about such. Oh yeah, you're within your rights to doubt that and it's okay.

Have an enjoyable, peaceful Sunday.

Yeah I think ityP is sounding plain and truthful here

ityP:
Stupid way to put pressure on her guy. Women plenty abeg. If relationship don dey tire the babe, she can say it directly and go for who's ready. Na ladies' work be that sha. Another woman with sense will come along. Soldier go, soldier come

But why is our Naija babes behaving like that. They will never tell you they wanna quit they will just put you at the wheel while they are busy with another man.

Magnoliaa:
I thought you were never going to respond. But toor, nobody knows the character of your girl here. The guys are just speaking based on stereotype and if you went to follow what they are saying, you just might spoil your relationship. Guys are insatiable. Here's a woman even showing you screenshots of guys asking her out, and they are still condemning her and saying there are others she isn't showing you. Na wa o. If she was hiding her phone from you nko?

IMO, if that girl doesn't trust you and isn't free with you, she would not be showing you the chats of her chykers. It's something I can do and would like it if my partner is that open with me as well.

She shows you her response to them as well na? Don't use assumptions and insecurity to create issues where they aren't. Just gist and laugh over it, as it could even strengthen the bond between you too.

As long as there are no red flags about her, I don't see a problem.

You have given me the perfect answer here. Me I feel it's kinda love she has for me that's why she shows me often. Thanks dear I really appreciate your words of encouragement. �

Magnoliaa:
She only shows you the chats? What does she say about it?

she said I should not even think what am thinking that she is just showing me the way guys are disturbing her

chatinent:
Dear Deputy Boyfriend,

Anybody wey love you no go dey give en number out to another man, let alone dey hear chyking.

- Chatinent, 2021.

I was reasoning that way too. [color=#990000][/color]

Good evening Nairalanders, pls there is something that has been bothering me for sometime. My babe has been screenshotting the chat another guy has been asking her out. Please what is her motive of doing this? Is it to make me Jealous or to proof her loyalty to me? Please Nairalanders help me out here.