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 Romance › Re: Am I Being Overly-jealous? by natalya(op): 5:34pm On Jul 07, 2008 |
It's not that he doesn't pick the calls. Even though he denies it, most of his calls are from ladies, but these two particular ladies call him very frequently. Maybe i'm just being jealous. I must confess, he has really pampered me ever since we started dating, and since then(it's about a year and a half now, we met on camp) he has been calling me everyday. Maybe that idea of him talking to another lady on phone is making me unreasonably envious. |
| Romance › Re: Am I Being Overly-jealous? by natalya(op): 3:50pm On Jul 07, 2008 |
He is my man. I don't feel he is a "useless bag" like you said. He treats me like a woman, takes me out, buys gifts for me, calls me anytime he is free. i just don't like the idea of another woman in his life. |
| Romance › Re: Am I Being Overly-jealous? by natalya(op): 3:33pm On Jul 07, 2008 |
Forgive me, but what is IMO? |
| Romance › Am I Being Overly-jealous? by natalya(op): 3:21pm On Jul 07, 2008 |
[b]My beau has this behaviour i don't seem to like. There are these two girls who keep calling him and it is really getting on my nerves. Sometime ago one of these ladies was looking for accomodation here in abuja(according to his story sha), and she kept on calling him. He keeps telling me that here is nothing between him and these girls, but i just can't help but feel bad anytime they call. Atimes, he doesn't pick their calls(when i'm with him, anyway). Some months ago, we were together in his place and we were having one of our personal times together. i was already in the mood and the temperature was rising when his phone rang at the wrongest of times. When i checked his phone and saw that it was the other girl, i just lost interest in whatever we were doing. No matter how hard he tried, i just couldn't get back to the mood. Yesterday, we were in my house and we were talking. His phone rang again, and when i saw the look on his face and i noticed he didn't pick up the call, i knew it was one of them. I got angry and told him so. He then told me that he had known these two ladies ever since he was in part 2 in the university and when they were in PDS. Also that when they heard he was in Abuja(one was posted as a corper and the other one came on IT), they had always been calling, telling him to come see him, blah, blah, etc. He also said that he doesn't know why it was when he was always with me that they'll remember they have to call him. I had heard that story from him before and I wasn't happy at all, but i just had to believe what he said. I don't know, but am i being foolish? am i being over-protective? am i just being jealous? i know he loves me so much and i also love him with all my heart, but i don't like this idea of these two girls around. I've tried hard to believe in all he says, but atimes there are some things that are just too glaring. I don't want to assume that he is secretly dating these girls behind me, but i don't feel secure. Please nairalanders what can i do |
| Romance › He Wants His Child After Telling Me To Go For An Abortion by natalya(op): 11:09am On May 02, 2008 |
[b]hello nairalanders. I have a problem which i hope u intellecual minds amongst the community can help me sort out. I am a 25 year-old lady and i just gained employment in a bank. Some years ago when i was in the university(i was 19 then) i naively fell in love with one man who was working in an oil company. One thing led to another and i got pregnant for him. I told him then that i can't abort the baby but he refused, saying that he has a fiancee, he even went as far as telling me that it wasn't his baby, and that I should go meet the other guys i slept wit, but God knows he was the first and only man to have slept with me. He then left me, told me to stop calling him, and said i should abort the baby. He even gave me the money for the abortion. I tried so many times to g do the abortion, but my heart just couldn't let me as i was scared. this went on until it was too late and my mother noticed and found out i was pregnant. That day was hell at home as she tore off all my clothes and beat the living day-lights out of me. My dad was like i was a disgrace to the family, my brothers and sisters were angry. it was hell. I had to leave home and go stay in the village with my dad's mother. It was in the village i gave birthh to a beautiful baby girl. Later, when the child was about a year old, my grandma took me back home and i begged my parents. They took me back into the house and i went back to school. Having lost almost two years, i had to continue. I managed to finish school without anyone knowing i had a child. All that while, my grandma brought my baby to see me anytime i went home, and she grew up to be a very cute little troublesome thing. My mom later took her from my grandma and she started attending one of these creche schools around our neighbourhood. I finished school and after NYSC, I got a job tin a bank. Sometimes last week, I got a call from downstairs and when i went there, who did i see but the father of my child. I wanted to leave but he held onto me, begging me to forgive him. i told him he almost ruined my life. h told me he had gotten married and that his wife was yet to give him a child, and that in his village, there was a title or something that was to be given to him, and since he had no child, the title was being withdrawn from him and was to be gven to someone else. I told him to get lost and that i had long since aborted the pregnancy, but he told me no, that he knew that i had the baby, and that he had seen me with her one evening when i went to the supermarket. i told him to get lost and i had to end up telling the security men to take him out when things were getting heated. Ever since he has been begging me. Yesternite, he called me and threatened me that if i don't give him his child, he'll call the police. i told him to do his worst and hung up on him. People what can i do? do i allow him see his child or do i call his bluff?[/b] |
| Romance › Re: There Is This Girl I Love But I Do Not Know How To Express My Feelings by natalya: 10:45am On May 02, 2008 |
;d |
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