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sergiozlatan: Yes. It's long. You might consider reducing yours as well.

I don't think so though. Even my parents waited for 2 years before they started having kids. Anyways let me get married first lol

Hahahaha lmao #Chris Okotie comes to mind

Very impressive.

Something I can never do like wtf so you are my bf we should live together? It makes no sense.

Timothy3113: woman i wont advise you to use birth control pills. The pills change the hormones in the body. If you plan on fucking for 5yr with no pikin, i swear when ppl start frustrating you and you need the child, you wont see it.
Talking from experience.

Haba na fight!!
I'm a very strong willed person, I'm not pressurised by what others say. I'm one of those few who understands the huge responsibility that comes with children in marriage and untill I'm ready for that no one can force me, like "na u go take care of my pikin for me?" Lol

Wow, we are backward

Pendora: mmmmh. wen u r nt a virgin i dnt c anytin special abt wedn night sex. evn wen u r a V trust me aft d hectic day u wil n too tired to tink of sex. 4those dt tink kids spoil d fun in marriage i dnt agree wit u. ok u wait 5yrs 3yrs bf ving kids n wat next? u giv ur kids al d attention n ur marriage becms so dry n boring. well am married wit a child, my life just becm more fun n lively cuz i club wit hubby n visit all d joints n hotels in amuwo. evn if i v 10kids fun wnt pass me by oo. we go remain olingo coupl. bf u ask hw i do it. smtims we hang out wit my.son smtyms we liv him behind depending on whr we r goin to. marriage shud b enoyed nt endured oo

Please don't get me wrong I'm not saying you can't have fun when the kids come. If you notice I put the spoil in quote. But you can't pretend like its thesame when its just you too. When a kid comes into the family most of your time is usally spent on the kid and not your spouse, it takes a couple who are really in love with understanding for each other to not drift apart at this stage because children are very demanding. Its something you have to prepare you mindset for. Imagine when you and your hubby want to be intimate and the child starts crying arhhh just when konji is at its peak lol, children need lots of attention, so no matter what if you use to spend 8 hours with your hubby everyday the coming of a child will definitely split that 8 hours. I hope you get where I'm coming from?

nikkyshyne: Easier said than done.

Nope where there is a will there's a way. It all depends on what you really want. With birth control methods and all that, it won't be much of a problem.

sergiozlatan: Yes that's true but not for 3 years abeg. A year and some months is okay

Lol too long?

Jarchi: Ifahear
My kind of woman,mine wud b 5yrs but my friends kinda saying the world go talk say me wife womb don spoil or ain't man enuf after 6ix months and no visual belle pot

Yeah that's so true after marriage everyone wants to see a big tummy and if that doesn't come in few months time you'll be the talk of the town lol.

sergiozlatan: Why are you thinking like me?

Lol I swear children sometimes "spoil" the fun in marriage. Having children changes a whole lot of things if not everything, I would love to have quality time alone with my husband before that big change comes.

@ cassyrooy I'm married to Jesus

debedebe: lol, 99.9 % will not believe ,but am damm serious

Hmmm so who starred in the movie? Mercy Johnson?

Jarchi: And I will just wake u up,cuz itz time to make babies #la_joke

Lol I don't want babies for the first two years or 3. Just me and my husband

Wedding night indeed after nacking for 5 yrs before marriage, the "wedding night" becomes nothing special on the ground of sex. Perharps for those who "abstained untill their wedding night there'll be something to look forward to ipso facto they are likely to have sex on the wedding night. Anyways from what I've seen I doubt if couples would have the strength for that. They are usually exhausted after the ceremony. As for me I'll just sleep.

its Rita Dominic come on you just cant take it away from her, anyways congrats to Ebube and those talking about bleaching you guys are something else how on earth does she look bleached up? darker kness? oh spare me how many of you actually have even skin tone?

How wise is this decision at this point?

At least he should let her explain, we live in a funny world

What are you waiting for?

Pretty girls, is Moyo still an upcoming actress?
Btw most of them have a particular role they're always given like club girls sort of

All I can see is you, your wife and your brother.

its been ages @ thread

OMG, may her soul rest in perfect peace.